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  • Let’s Talk About 77 Exciting, Easy, and Inexpensive

    Things to Do During Trying Times

    ART RIOS

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    Copyright © 2020 by Arturo R. Rios

    Rios Talks Inc.

    2929 Fifth Avenue North

    St. Petersburg, Florida 33713

    www.RiosTalks.com

    All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced by any mechanical, photographic,

    electronic, or any other process whatsoever, or in the form of a phonographic or audio recording

    of any kind; nor may it be stored in a retrieval system, transmitted, or otherwise be copied for

    public or private use—other than for “fair use” as a brief quotations embodied in articles and

    reviews—without the prior written consent of the author.

    The author of this book does not dispense medical advice or prescribe the use of any technique

    herein as a form of treatment for physical, emotional, or medical problems without the advice of

    a physician, either directly or indirectly. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a

    general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. In the event you

    use any of the information in this book yourself, which is your right, the author assumes no

    responsibility for your actions.

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    Contents

    Greetings and Salutations….……………..…….………….…………….4

    77 Exciting, Easy, and Inexpensive Things to Do During Trying Times…………..5

    77 Great Songs for All Times……………..………………………….......…82

    77 Great Movies for Any Time……………………………………………...85

    Parting Thoughts……………………………….………………………87

    About the Author………………………………………………………88

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    Greetings and Salutations!

    Thank you again for reading Let’s Talk: Book 1. I hope you enjoyed reading it as much as

    I loved writing it for you. As a token of my appreciation for reading the book and

    supporting my dream, I have put together this guide to exciting and simple things to do

    during a pandemic or quarantine, because as of this writing, we are still in the throes of

    the Covid-19 pandemic. But, this guide can be used in non-pandemic times as well. As an

    extra bonus, I also added two more lists: 77 songs and 77 movies to enjoy when

    quarantined, or at any time.

    But as a quick refresher, in Talk # 7, we talked about pandemics and about conquering

    crises. When you face adversity, see it as an opportunity to learn novel ways to cope. God

    never gives us more than we can handle. So, tackle each crisis as a blessing, as a challenge

    to your greatness. It’s a matter of turning lemons into lemonade. A crisis is also a significant

    time to seek divine guidance, to ask God for grace and intervention. Crises are inevitable.

    They will come at you in many forms throughout your lifetime. When they do, you can be

    an ostrich and bury your head in the sand. Or you can be a lion and face the challenge

    head-on.

    If you read Let’s Talk: Book 1, you’re a fighter because the book is not for quitters.

    So, I pray that God will guide you through any crisis you may face. Above all, promise me,

    and yourself, that you will never give up. If you’re in the throes of a pandemic or crises

    now, and need something to take your mind off it, here is my list of 77 exciting, easy, and

    inexpensive things to do during trying times (plus 77 songs and 77 movies to enjoy during

    the same). Stay happy and healthy, my friend!

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    1

    Binge watch a BUNCH of shows!

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    2

    Start a diary or journal.

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    3

    Put together a vision board

    (see Talk # 11).

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    4

    Start learning a new language.

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    5

    Do a family tree and/or learn

    about your family’s history (from

    your parents, relatives, etc.). Even

    better, write a book about your

    family’s history.

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    6

    As my daughter Maria does,

    learn to love Nutella.

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    7

    Go for long, leisurely walks,

    alone and with loved ones.

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    8

    READ, READ, READ!

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    9

    Take a personal development

    course online

    (visit RiosTalks.com 😉).

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    10

    Do jigsaw puzzles.

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    11

    Learn how to play backgammon.

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    12

    Start learning how to play an

    instrument.

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    13

    Watch a bunch of movies

    (see the list below).

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    14

    Listen to music for hours and

    reminisce (see the list below).

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    15

    Read that long and/or

    classic novel you’ve always

    wanted to read.

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    16

    Meditate, and if you don’t

    know how, start.

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    17

    Play with your dog, and if you

    don’t have one, buy two!

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    18

    Write letters, not texts or emails,

    to friends and family, and mail

    them. Yes, mail them, with an

    actual postage stamp and

    everything.

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    19

    Finally clean up your closet and

    house (see Talk # 6).

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    20

    Bake!

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    21

    Video chat with friends and family,

    what the hell, even with people

    you don’t like that much.

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    22

    Start enjoying happy hours

    (see Talk # 2).

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    23

    Write that book or song you’ve

    always dreamed of writing.

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    24

    Draw your masterpiece.

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    25

    Fix all those little things that need

    fixing around the house you’ve

    been putting off for months.

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    26

    Clean up and organize all your

    photos.

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    27

    Give your body a tune up.

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    28

    Start a gratitude journal

    (see Talk # 4).

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    29

    Start wine tasting and learn more

    about wine. Visit Wine.com.

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    30

    Revamp and reorganize

    your finances.

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    31

    Research and make a list

    of trips you’d like to take.

    Visit Expedia.com

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    32

    Re-arrange the furniture in your

    house, it’ll break up the monotony.

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    33

    Grow a beard (gentlemen) or your

    hair (ladies), or both for both

    sexes. Ok, that’s weird.

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    34

    Start exercising, I know, but

    it is good for you.

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    35

    Be kind and charitable. Remember

    that others are worse off than you

    (see Talk # 14).

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    36

    Sleep, a lot, and take

    a bunch of naps.

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    37

    Spend time with your children,

    and listen to them,

    don’t start preaching.

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    38

    Spend more time with God.

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    39

    Cook a special meal

    for your family.

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    40

    Go on your lawn and just lie there,

    take in the sun, and do some

    Earthing (see Talk # 5).

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    41

    Have food delivered, and get

    exotic, try new cuisines.

    Go to Ubereats.com.

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    42

    Screw it, stay in bed all day.

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    43

    Plant flowers. Start gardening,

    if you don’t already.

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    44

    Don’t shave or put on makeup.

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    45

    Wash your car, really.

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    46

    Play video games.

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    47

    Put wine in a to-go cup and go for

    an evening stroll.

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    48

    Hug your loved ones, the ones

    you’re quarantined with.

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    49

    Go off the grid for a day

    (see Talk # 10).

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    50

    Play cards or board games

    with your family.

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    51

    Do word search puzzles.

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    52

    Text all the people in your phone

    you haven’t talked to in

    at least a year.

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    53

    Unsubscribe from all those dang

    unwanted emails you keep getting.

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    54

    Clean up your computer

    and phone files.

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    55

    Buy coloring books.

    They’re not just for kids!

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    56

    Start a new hobby.

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    57

    Start working on that degree

    you’ve always wanted to complete.

    There are many online universities

    that are exceptional.

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    58

    Have a family karaoke night.

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    59

    Stream a concert.

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    60

    Take a digital museum tour.

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    61

    Create your own

    signature cocktail.

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    62

    Have an indoor picnic,

    or a picnic on your lawn.

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    63

    Take a long, warm bath, and just

    lie there, no electronics or reading.

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    64

    Visit the world with Google Earth,

    or “window shop” on

    Expedia.com for future trips!

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    65

    Give yourself a makeover.

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    66

    Stargaze.

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    67

    Birdwatch.

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    Commune with nature.

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    69

    Do something you’ve

    been putting off.

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    70

    Offer to help an elderly

    neighbor or relative.

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    71

    Donate blood.

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    72

    Say thank you, a lot

    (see Talk # 4).

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    73

    Have long talks with your

    parents and siblings.

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    74

    Start drinking healthy smoothies.

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    75

    Talk to a psychiatrist or therapist.

    Nothing could help more

    at this time.

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    76

    Spice things up in the bedroom.

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    77

    Send me an email,

    [email protected],

    and we’ll chat!

    mailto:[email protected]

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    77 Great Songs for All Times

    1) "Happy,” Pharrell.

    2) "Better Be Good to Me,"

    Tina Turner.

    3) "Blessed," Elton John.

    4) "I Feel for You," Chaka

    Khan.

    5) "You Make My Dreams,"

    Daryl Hall and John

    Oates.

    6) “Radio Gaga,” Queen.

    7) "Shiny Happy People,"

    R.E.M.

    8) "Shining Star," Earth,

    Wind and Fire.

    9) "Dancing Queen," Abba.

    10) "I Wanna Hold Your

    Hand," The Beatles.

    11) "Margaritaville," Jimmy

    Buffett.

    12) "Don't Stop Believin',"

    Journey.

    13) “What a Wonderful

    World,” Louis

    Armstrong.

    14) "Biggest Part of Me,"

    Ambrosia.

    15) "Never Gonna Let You

    Go," Sergio Mendes.

    16) “I Knew You Were

    Waiting (For Me),"

    George Michael and

    Aretha Franklin.

    17) "Can't Stop the Feeling,"

    Justin Timberlake.

    18) "You're the Inspiration,"

    Chicago.

    19) "Just Dance," Lady

    Gaga.

    20) "Cherish," Madonna.

    21) "She Will Be Loved,"

    Maroon 5.

    22) "Fun," Pitbull featuring

    Chris Brown.

    23) "Don't Stop the Music,"

    Rihanna.

    24) "C'est La Vie," Robbie

    Nevil.

    25) "How Will I Know,"

    Whitney Houston.

    26) "Rainbow Connection,"

    Kermit the Frog.

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    27) "Where is the Love,"

    Black Eyed Peas.

    28) "The Power of Love,"

    Celine Dion.

    29) "Heart of Rock and Roll,"

    Huey Lewis.

    30) "Straight Up," Paula

    Abdul.

    31) “Tonight’s The Night,”

    Rod Stewart.

    32) "Always Be My Baby,"

    Mariah Carey.

    33) "Baby Baby," Amy

    Grant.

    34) "Don’t Worry Baby,"

    Beach Boys.

    35) "Modern Love," David

    Bowie.

    36) "Go Your Own Way,"

    Fleetwood Mac.

    37) “My Life,” Billy Joel.

    38) “One Day More,” Les

    Miserables.

    39) “Waterloo,” Abba.

    40) “Walk This Way,”

    Aerosmith.

    41) “No More Tears (Enough

    is Enough),” Barbra

    Streisand.

    42) “Evergreen,” Barbra

    Streisand.

    43) “Daybreak,” Barry

    Manilow.

    44) “Copacabana,” Barry

    Manilow.

    45) “Stayin Alive,” Bee Gees.

    46) “Baby, I Love Your

    Way,” Big Mountain.

    47) “Piano Man,” Billy Joel.

    48) “Don’t Look Back,”

    Boston.

    49) “Memory,” Cats.

    50) “You’re So Vain,” Carly

    Simon.

    51) “All by Myself,” Celine

    Dion.

    52) “Feels So Good,” Chuck

    Mangione.

    53) “Under Pressure,” David

    Bowie & Queen.

    54) “Who’s Johnny,”

    Debarge.

    55) “Dim All The Lights,”

    Donna Summer.

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    56) “Turn to Stone,” ELO.

    57) “I Believe,” Elvis Presley.

    58) “Crocodile Rock,” Elton

    John.

    59) “Goodbye Yellow Brick

    Road,” Elton John.

    60) “I’m Still Standing,”

    Elton John.

    61) “It’s Still Rock & Roll To

    Me,” Billy Joel.

    62) “Orinoco Flow,” Enya.

    63) “A Little Respect,”

    Erasure.

    64) “Come Fly With Me,”

    Frank Sinatra.

    65) “That’s Life,” Frank

    Sinatra.

    66) “My Way,” Frank Sinatra.

    67) “December 1963,”

    Frankie Valli & The Four

    Seasons.

    68) “Some Nights,” Fun.

    69) “Turn It On Again,”

    Genesis.

    70) “Dance Into The Light,”

    Phil Collins.

    71) “What I Did For Love,” A

    Chorus Line.

    72) “I Will Survive,” Gloria

    Gaynor.

    73) “Thunder Island,” Jay

    Ferguson.

    74) “The Impossible Dream,”

    Man of La Mancha.

    75) “Only The Young,”

    Journey.

    76) “Songbird,” Kenny G.

    77) “Nobody Does It Better,”

    Cary Simon.

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    77 Great Movies for Any Time

    1) “Aliens”

    2) “Arrival”

    3) “E.T.: The Extra-

    Terrestrial”

    4) “The Martian”

    5) “Star Wars” (all of them)

    6) “The American

    President”

    7) “Harry Potter and the

    Sorcerer’s Stone”

    8) “The Lord of the Rings:

    The Fellowship of the

    Ring”

    9) “Mad Max: Fury Road”

    10) “The Matrix”

    11) “The Wizard of Oz”

    12) “Back to the Future”

    13) “Father of the Bride”

    14) “The Godfather” (all of

    them)

    15) “Meet the Parents”

    16) “The Sound of Music”

    17) “Animal House”

    18) “The Blues Brothers”

    19) “Booksmart”

    20) “Ferris Bueller’s Day

    Off”

    21) “Ghostbusters”

    22) “Groundhog Day”

    23) “The Hangover”

    24) “Old School”

    25) “Young Frankenstein”

    26) “Big Trouble in Little

    China”

    27) “Black Panther”

    28) “The Dark Knight”

    29) “The Goonies”

    30) “Kill Bill: Volume 1”

    31) “Rocky” (all of them)

    32) “All the President’s Men”

    33) “Amadeus”

    34) “Ed Wood”

    35) “Hidden Figures”

    36) “Lincoln”

    37) “RBG”

    38) “The Right Stuff”

    39) “Casablanca”

    40) “Citizen Kane”

    41) “Jaws”

    42) “Raiders of the Lost Ark”

    43) “Armageddon”

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    44) “Highlander” (1986).

    45) “Road House”

    46) “Field of Dreams”

    47) “It’s a Wonderful Life”

    48) “Jojo Rabbit”

    49) “Pretty Woman”

    50) “Arthur” (the original

    please!)

    51) “Notting Hill”

    52) “Rudy”

    53) “Silver Linings

    Playbook”

    54) “The Shawshank

    Redemption”

    55) “You’ve Got Mail”

    56) ALL the James Bond

    movies.

    57) “Les Miserables”

    58) “Chicago”

    59) “Man of La Mancha”

    60) “The Goodbye Girl”

    61) “Kramer vs Kramer”

    62) “Gone with the Wind”

    63) “Scent of a Woman”

    64) “Forrest Gump”

    65) “Crazy Rich Asians”

    66) “Gandhi”

    67) “Caddyshack”

    68) “Good Will Hunting”

    69) “Dead Poets Society”

    70) “Network”

    71) “Schindler's List”

    72) “One Flew Over the

    Cuckoo's Nest”

    73) “Lawrence of Arabia”

    74) “The Silence of the

    Lambs”

    75) “To Kill a Mockingbird”

    76) “Patton”

    77) “Rain Man”

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    Parting Thoughts

    I hope you’ll enjoy some, or all, of these activities, and enjoy the music and movies

    as well. I also hope that you’ve incorporated some of the ideas in Let’s Talk: Book

    1, into your life, and that by doing so, your life is more exciting, easier, and

    exceptional. Please let me hear from you, contact me at [email protected], or visit

    the website, RiosTalks.com, where you’ll find many more ways to continue our

    chats. I can’t wait to hear from you.

    Until we talk again, stay happy and healthy, my friend.

    mailto:[email protected]

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    About the Author

    Art Rios writes books. No kidding! He

    also practices law, teaches at Stetson Law,

    and enjoys long lunches. But above all, he

    loves spending all his spare time with his

    family. Art admits that he’s a better talker

    than writer, which is why he enjoys the

    webinars, gatherings, and retreats he offers to

    further discuss Let’s Talk topics. Good luck

    getting him to shut up at these events! Art is currently working on the next book in

    the Let’s Talk series and is constantly adding new content to his website,

    www.RiosTalks.com. Reach out to Art—[email protected]—as he’d love to hear

    from you and strike up a conversation.