Introduction for BIGS v. 4/24/12 Thank you for participating! Exciting national program: Relationship - Plus Cutting edge science: Skills to reach for full potential Research-based activities that are fun and useful Todays Training Objectives 1. Introduce Step-It-Up-2-Thrive 2. Review of Sparks and Mindset: first two stages 3. Plan how to help your Little explore Sparks 4. Understand next steps, overall program, and resources available to you 3 Why did you sign up to be a BIG? You are here to Start Something Share Your Experiences with Your Little What does it mean to thrive? Forward, purposeful motion towards achieving ones full potential. No finish line. Life skills that position youth for a hopeful future to be all they can be Thriving Helps you learn about Step-It-Up-2-Thrive Activities to do with your Little All of this and more available at bbbs.stepitup2thrive.org bbbs.stepitup2thrive.org username/password: stepitup/thriving Your Bigs Binder Be a friend; build trust Tap into your Littles intrinsic desire Need multiple conversations to unpack past hurts & adopt new framing Aspiration in Tough Environments Protective shells that help them disconnect from life aspirations You dont understand me. That doesnt apply to me and my world. What We Can Expect #1: Acknowledge norms that have been a part of your Littles experience. Your Little may need to adopt new norms & behaviors different from peers. So What Do We Do? #2: Draw out unspoken feelings or events in your Littles world and the worthwhile price that he/she pays to advance dreams. What do we do? #3: Give your Little permission and the courage to grow up differently than peers and to be what he/she aspires to be. What do we do? #4: When drawing out Littles passions & dreams, draw out the barriers. What will it take and what might get in the way? What do we do? Im giving you this feedback because I have high standards and I know you can meet them. Wise feedback Those inner passions, interests & talents that start the drive for personal growth. Start the Engine With Sparks Video: Billy Elliot Clip 2/3s of Youth know their spark by age 10. Just 1/3 of those youth have spark champions. Sparks Statistics Sparks Conversation Role Play Sparks Ideas Sparks Champions Sparks Resources Be a Spark Champion Brief Sparks Conversation Sparks Champion Mapping Sparks movie clips & discussion guides Exploring Sparks with your Little Find Grow Champion Lets Rev it Up With a Growth Mindset Fixed Mindset & Growth Mindset Fixed Mindset: Belief that intelligence, abilities or personality are primarily fixed or inherited. Growth Mindset: Belief that intelligence, abilities or personality are primarily grown through effort. Eyes in the Forest Michael Jordan Video Effort-based praise experiment 5 th graders - easy puzzle You must have worked hard You must be smart at this Seek challenge Avoid challenge Scores improve Scores get worse Group Activity I: Growth Mindset Months 3 or 4 Tune into your Gas Gauge Helping your Little reflect on thriving indicators and risk factors The Thriving Wheel Remind Little that he or she has a choice about all of these (except for Littles with an unhealthy family environment). Risk Factors Wheel Through Conversations Discover & apply strengths grown, and Find new skills to develop along the road to Thriving. Goal Management Skills (GPS): Launch Navigation System G: Goal Selection: Where am I going? P: Pursuit of Strategies: How do I get there? S: Shifting Gears: When the going gets tough! Whats Ahead What three activities will you plan to do with your Little over the next 30 days to explore and/or develop their spark? 38 Sparks Plan Youre not in this alone! Sports coaches Teachers Youth center workers Other Spark Champions You Your Little Parent Match Support Specialist Next Steps Recommended! Articles: Thriving in Youth, Sparks, Mindset, Growing Aspiration in Tough Environments, Behavior Change & Goal Management Your Match Support Specialist! Everything in your binder and more is available at bbbs.stepitup2thrive.org Thanks for your feedback on this session!