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ELIZABETH M. SHIPPS HARVEY R. FREEMAN* Ohio Wesleyan University Handshake: Its Relation to First Impressions and Measured Personality Traits This study examined the relation of the handshake both to perceived personality characteristics in a first-impression situation and to actual measured personality traits. One hundred eight male and female college students completed the Eight State Questionnaire (8SQJ, which measures 8personality characteristics. Additionally, the students rated 2 other participants on 3 hand-shaking measures and also pro- vided their impressions of these 2 participants on the same 8 personality traits measured by the 8SQ. For men, perceived arousal was positively correlated with a firm, warm, and dry handshake. For women, a firm, warm, and dry handshake was positively related to perceived arousal and extroversion and negatively related to perceived anxiety, depression, fatigue, guilt, and regression. Results are dis- cussed in terms of the particular importance of the handshake to ivomen. It is con- cluded that tuhen a woman extends her hand to be shaken, it is important that it be firm, warm, and dry if she wants to make a positive first impression on others. I nterpersonal communication is a basic compo- nent of human interaction. It is difficult to overem- phasize the importance of the communication process. The quality of our life experience, whether we are happy or frustrated, is to a large extent dependent on our ability to communicate effectively with others. Because of the importance of communication, we have developed an extremely intricate verbal language. Despite the intricacy of our verbal language, some experts have estimated that at least 65% of the messages we send one another occur at the nonverbal level (Burgoon, Buller, & Woodall, 1989). Weiten and Lloyd (2000) defined nonverbal communication as "the transmission of meaning from one person to another through means or symbols other than words" (p. 189). Major means of nonverbal communication include facial expression, head nodding, body posture, touch, and eye contact, each of which may convey thoughts, emotions, and personality. The handshake has traditionally been a common means of greeting others. This form of greeting behav- ior was developed from a handclasp dating back to ancient Rome (Knapp, 1980). The handshake is con- sidered by many to be a form of nonverbal commu- nication that conveys a great deal about a person. Amy Vanderbilt (1957), in her book Amy Vanderbilt's Complete Book of Etiquette, states that "A handshake is as much a part of personality as the way we walk, and although we may modify and improve a poor handshake if some- one calls our attention to it, it will still usually be just like us, assured or timid, warm or cool" (p. 185). Although concern with nonverbal communica- tion is prevalent in psychological research, little of it has been devoted to the handshake. Astrom and col- leagues have conducted a few studies investigating the relation between greeting behavior, including the handshake, and personality traits (Astrom, 1994; Astrom & Thorell, 1996; Astrom, Thorell, Holmlund, &d'Elia, 1993). Astrom et al. (1993) looked at the relation between handshake variables and personality traits in psychiatric patients. The experimenters trained two psychologists to perform a standardized handshake with each par- ticipant. The psychologists rated the participants on four handshake dimensions, each measured on a 5- point scale: (a) consistency of handshake (limp and loose to rigid and muscular), (b) temperature of hand (cold to warm), (c) dryness of hand (wet to dry), and (d) strength of grip (no pressure to very strong pres- sure). Colder handshakes were correlated with social 144 Psi CHI JOURNAL OK UNDERGRADUATE RESEARCH • Winter 2003 Copyright 2003 by Psi Chi, The National Honor Society in Psychology (Vol. 8, No. 4, 144-148 / ISSN 108 u -41.3<i). 'Faculty Supervisor

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ELIZABETH M. SHIPPS

HARVEY R. FREEMAN*

Ohio Wesleyan University

Handshake: Its Relation to First Impressions and Measured Personality Traits

This study examined the relation of the handshake both to perceived personality characteristics in a first-impression situation and to actual measured personality traits. One hundred eight male and female college students completed the Eight State Questionnaire (8SQJ, which measures 8personality characteristics. Additionally, the students rated 2 other participants on 3 hand-shaking measures and also pro­vided their impressions of these 2 participants on the same 8 personality traits measured by the 8SQ. For men, perceived arousal was positively correlated with a firm, warm, and dry handshake. For women, a firm, warm, and dry handshake was positively related to perceived arousal and extroversion and negatively related to perceived anxiety, depression, fatigue, guilt, and regression. Results are dis­cussed in terms of the particular importance of the handshake to ivomen. It is con­cluded that tuhen a woman extends her hand to be shaken, it is important that it be firm, warm, and dry if she wants to make a positive first impression on others.

In te rpe r sona l c o m m u n i c a t i o n is a basic compo­nent of human interaction. It is difficult to overem­phasize the i m p o r t a n c e of the c o m m u n i c a t i o n

process. The quality of our life experience, whether we are happy or frustrated, is to a large extent dependen t on our ability to communicate effectively with others. Because of the i m p o r t a n c e of c o m m u n i c a t i o n , we have developed an extremely intricate verbal language. Despite the intricacy of ou r verbal l anguage , some experts have estimated that at least 65% of the messages we send o n e a n o t h e r occur at the nonverba l level (Burgoon, Buller, & Woodall, 1989). Weiten and Lloyd (2000) def ined nonverba l c o m m u n i c a t i o n as " the transmission of meaning from one person to another through means or symbols other than words" (p. 189). Major means of nonverbal communica t ion include facial expression, head nodding, body posture, touch, and eye contact, each of which may convey thoughts , emot ions , and personality.

The handshake has traditionally been a common means of greeting others. This form of greeting behav­ior was developed from a handclasp da t ing back to ancient Rome (Knapp, 1980). The handshake is con­sidered by many to be a form of nonverbal commu­nication that conveys a great deal about a person. Amy

Vanderbilt (1957), in her book Amy Vanderbilt's Complete Book of Etiquette, states that "A handshake is as much a part of personality as the way we walk, and al though we may modify and improve a poor handshake if some­one calls our at tention to it, it will still usually be just like us, assured or timid, warm or cool" (p. 185).

Al though concern with nonverbal communica­tion is prevalent in psychological research, little of it has been devoted to the handshake . Astrom and col­leagues have conducted a few studies investigating the re la t ion between g ree t ing behavior, inc lud ing the h a n d s h a k e , and personal i ty traits (Astrom, 1994; Astrom & Thorell , 1996; Astrom, Thorell , Holmlund, &d 'El ia , 1993).

Astrom et al. (1993) looked at the relation between handshake variables and personality traits in psychiatric patients. The experimenters trained two psychologists to perform a standardized handshake with each par­ticipant. The psychologists rated the participants on four handshake dimensions, each measured on a 5-point scale: (a) consistency of handshake (limp and loose to rigid and muscular), (b) temperature of hand (cold to warm), (c) dryness of hand (wet to dry), and (d) strength of grip (no pressure to very strong pres­sure) . Colder handshakes were correlated with social

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HANDSHAKE: ITS RELATION TO FIRST IMPRESSIONS C Shipps and Freeman

introversion in both men and women. Hand dryness was correlated with psychological masculinity in women. Moist hands were correlated with depression in men.

Astrom (1994) conducted research that examined possible relations between aspects of introductory greet­ing behaviors, including the handshake, and personal­ity t ra i t s in a n o n c l i n i c a l p o p u l a t i o n . Us ing t h e Cecarec-Marke Personality Schedule (as cited in Astrom, 1994), Astrom measured 12 psychogenic needs derived from the personality theory of Henry Murray. Trained raters assessed the handshake dimensions (consistency, dryness, temperature, and strength). In addition, each rater assessed the handshake dimensions with regard to how a "most pleasant handshake" and a "most unpleas­ant handshake" are perceived. Limp, cold, wet, and weak handshakes were viewed as the most unpleasant. Women, in comparison to men, had significantly less consistency and strength in their handshakes.

Astrom (1994) analyzed the re la t ion be tween hand-shaking and personality traits separately for men and women. For men, perceived dryness of handshake corre la ted positively with sociability, and perceived s trength related positively to aggressive nonconfor­mance and negatively to sociability. In women, high tempera ture and strength of handshake related pos­itively to r a t iona l d o m i n a n c e . For b o t h m e n a n d women, the strength of handshake related positively to the personality traits of aggression, dominance, and exhibition (collectively known as extroversion).

Astrom and Thorell (1996) studied three profes­sional groups who use the handshake (therapists, cler­gymen, and car salesmen) to determine whether they were able to detect any connect ion between greet ing behaviors and personality characteristics. They inter­viewed participants about 22 types of greet ing behav­ior especially related to shaking hands and asked them to associate the occur rence of each behavior with 1 or 2 of the 12 traits measured by the Cecarec-Marke Personality Schedule. Participants agreed about the relation of greet ing behaviors to personality charac­teristics, part icularly the traits of extroversion a n d introversion. A weak handshake related to the trait of introversion and a strong handshake to extroversion. More than t h r ee fourths of the g ree t ing behaviors related to at least one of the personality traits.

Chaplin, Phillips, Brown, Clanton, and Stein (2000) investigated the idea that handshakes are reflected in personality and influence first impressions of others. Part icipants were college unde rg radua t e s . Trained raters assessed the part icipants ' handshakes on eight character is t ics: (a) comple t eness of gr ip , (b) tem­perature , (c) dryness, (d) strength, (e) dura t ion , (f) vigor, (g) texture, and (h) eye contact. The handshake raters also provided their impression of the students

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by ra t ing each par t ic ipant on 5-point scales repre­senting each of eight personality characteristics: (a) openness to exper ience , (b) conscientiousness, (c) extroversion, (d) agreeableness, (e) neuroticism, (f) shyness, (g) emotional expressiveness, and (h) gen­eral affect. A firm handshake related positively to meas­ured extroversion and emotional expressiveness and re l a t ed negatively to neu ro t i c i sm a n d shyness. In women, a firm handshake related positively to meas­ured openness to exper ience. First impressions were more positive with a firm handshake . Because of the pa t t e rn of re la t ions be tween opennes s , sex, hand­shake, and first impressions, Chaplin et al. suggested that a firm handshake might be an especially effec­tive means of impression managemen t for women.

Although these studies may provide some insight into the relat ion of the handshake and impression formation, much remains to be discovered. The aim of the present study was to investigate the relation of handshake to both perceived personality character­istics in a first-impression situation and actual measured personality traits. Consistent with previous research, we expec ted that a Firm, warm, and dry handshake would be related to a positive first impression and to h ighe r scores on traits such as anxiety, depress ion, and guilt, whereas a l imp, cold, and wet handshake would be related to a negative first impression and to lower scores on the same traits.

Method Participants

O n e hundred eight undergraduate introductory psychology students participated in the study in partial fulfillment of a course requirement . Five participants' questionnaires were incomplete, and we omitted them from the analysis of the data. Of the remaining ques­t ionnaires, 64 were comple ted by women and 39 by men aged 18 to 22 years. The majority of participants were Caucasian.

Measures Personality ratings. Each participant completed

the Eight State Q u e s t i o n n a i r e (8SQ; Ins t i tu te for Personality and Ability Testing, 1975). The 8SQ con­sists of 96 quest ions abou t moods and feelings that most people experience. Each question is followed by four possible answers: (a) very t rue , (b) fairly t rue,

(c) fairly false, and (d) very false. T h e r e s p o n d e n t chooses the one response that best reflects the way he or she feels at the m o m e n t . T h e 8SQ assesses eight personality traits: (a) anxiety, (b) depression, (c) stress,

(d) extroversion, (e) fatigue, (f) regression, (g) arousal, and (h) guilt. Scores on each trait can range from a low of 0 to a high of 36.

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Handshake rat ings. Each part icipant rated two o ther part ic ipants on th ree handshake characteris­tics, each on a 5-point scale: (a) strength (from 1 = weaA- to 5 = firm), (b) t empera tu re (from 1 = coldto 5 = warm), and (c) moisture (from 1 = r/Wlo f> = dry). We calculated a handshake index by s u m m i n g the scores on the th ree handshake factors of s t rength , t empera ture , and dryness. Scores could range from 3 to 15, with low scores indicating the handshake char­acteristics of being weak, cold, and wet and high scores indicat ing being l inn, warm, and dry. Each partici­pant also provided his or her impression of the two other participants on the same eight personality traits measured by the SSQ. They rated each trait on a 9-point scale from 1 = not at all to 9 = very.

Procedure Participants met in a large classroom in five groups,

with the n u m b e r of students in each group ranging from 19 to 24. Upon arrival, thev completed the SSQ and received a numerical ID tag to wear on their chest. The experimenter placed the participants into groups of th ree , each composed of s tudents who repor ted thai thev did not previously know each other. One at a time, the exper imenter took each group to another room where she explained that when people meet for the first t ime they tvpicallv shake hands . She asked the participants to introduce themselves and to shake hands . She told them to pav close a t ten t ion to the handshakes of the other participants as well as to their ID numbers because they would be filling out a ques­tionnaire indicating their impressions of each other. She then separated them and gave each a question­naire containing the handshake ratings and person­ality ratings. Following completion of the questionnaire, the exper imenter took approx imated 10 participants aside and asked whether they had altered their hand­shake because they knew o thers were paying close attention to it. Only one indicated doing so. The exper­imenter asked approximately 10 o ther part icipants whether thev had difficulty complet ing the ratings of the eight personality characteristics. Nobody reported difficulty.

Results Measured Personality Characteristics

We c o m p u t e d a mult ivariate analysis of covari-ance (MANCOVA) with sex of t h e ra te r (male- or female) and sex of the target (i.e., the person being rated; male or female) serving as the i n d e p e n d e n t variables. The handshake index was the covariate, and the target's scores on the eight scales of the 8SQ (anx­iety, stress, depression, regression, fatigue, guilt, extro­version, arousal) were the dependen t variables. The

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TABLE 1

Mean Scores on the 8SQ for Measured and Perceived Personality Characteristics

Characteristic

8SQ

Anxiety

Stress

Depression

Regression

Fatigue

Guilt

Extroversion

Arousal

Measured

14.85

16.97

12.85

14.80

18.56

16.04

21.16

17.00

Perceived

3.67

3.52

2.86

3.06

3.69

2.89

5.21

5.61

MANCOVA yielded no significant effects e i ther for the independent variables or the covariate.

Perceived Personality Characteristics We computed a MANCOVA with sex of rater (male

orfemale) and sex of target (male or female) serving as the independent variables. The handshake index was the covariate and the dependen t variables were the raters' responses to the eight scales on the SSQ. The covariate was significantly related to perceived per­sonality characteristics, E (8, 194) = 3.38, />=.001.No significant main effects were observed. Table 1 shows mean scores for measured and perceived personality characteristics.

Because of the significant covariate effect, we com­puted correlations to assess the relation of the hand­shake index to scores on the eight scales of the SSQin male and female targets. We computed additional cor­relations to assess the relation when men rated men, women rated men, men rated women, and women rated women.

For male targets, only arousal was significantly, and positively, related to the handshake index. For female targets, the handshake index was significantlv, and positively, related to arousal and extroversion; it was significantlv, and negatively, related to anxiety, depres­sion, fatigue, guilt, and regression (see Fable 2).

Fable 3 shows that when men rated men. the hand­shake index was positively related to perceived arousal. When women rated men, no significant correlations were observed. When men rated women, the hand­shake index was negatively related to perceived anx-ietv and depression. When women rated women, the

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TABLE 2 TABLE 3

Correlations Between Handshake Index and Eight Perceived Personality Characteristics

for Men and Women

Personality characteristics

Handshake index

Men Women

Arousal

Anxiety

Depression

Extroversion

Fatigue

Guil t

Regression

Stress

.259*

.041

.022

.173

.054

.002

.097

.129

.356**

-.179*

-.301**

.173*

.266**

.246**

-.177*

.106

*p<.05.**p<.01.

handshake index was positively related to perceived arousal and extroversion, and negatively related to perceived depression, fatigue, and guilt.

Discussion Inconsistent with the research of Astrom and col­

leagues (Astrom, 1994; Astrom &Thorell , 1996; Astrom et al., 1993), handshake was not related to measured personality characteristics. Consistent with previous research (e.g., Chaplin et al., 2000), handshake was related to perceived personality characteristics (i.e., first impression) . As in Chaplin et al., a firm, warm, dry handshake was related to formation of a positive impression. Chaplin et al. r ecommended that women use a firm handshake as a positive form of self-pro­motion.

According to Amy Vanderbilt (1957), women are not supposed to extend their hand to be shaken, unless they are meet ing someone for the first t ime, unlike men , who shake hands as a c o m m o n greet ing. O n e possible reason for the stronger relation between shak­ing hands and impression formation in women maybe that because historically it has been unusual for women to engage in shaking hands , peop le may pay m o r e at tent ion to it in women. T h e results of the present study also indicate that the relation occurs more fre­q u e n t l y w h e n w o m e n a r e j u d g i n g o t h e r w o m e n . Mazanec and McCall (1976) found that women pay m o r e a t ten t ion to nonverba l in format ion than do men. Hall (1978, 1990) repor ted that women are bet­ter at translating nonverbal cues and expressing their emot ions d i rough nonverbal communica t i on than

Correlations Between Handshake Index and Perceived Personality Characteristics for Men and

Women Rating Male and Female Targets

Handshake index

Rater

Men Women

Personality characteristics

Target Target

Regression Stress Arousal Anxiety Depression Extroversion Fatigue Guilt

Male

-.058 -.134

.367* -.180

.055

.221

.100 -.006

Female

-.259 -.220 -.034 -.360* -.519** -.004 -.155 -.223

Male

.252 -.104

.182

.028

.035

.131

.080

.093

Female

-.154 -.089 .445**

-.143 -.246*

.213* -.300** -.255*

*p<.05.**p<.01.

a re m e n a n d suggested that this effect may occur because the female role provides women with greater exposure to nonverbal cues and greater practice in decoding them. The present study suggests that women are more influenced by a handshake than are men when shaking hands with a woman.

Several l imitat ions a re appa ren t in the present study. The participants were predominant ly women (64 women to 39 men) ; to more accurately compare the two sexes, it would be better to have a closer ratio. Owing to space limitations, the participants completed the initial survey in a large classroom with the o ther participants and were separated into smaller groups and taken to ano the r room one at a t ime. Students who remained in the classroom for a longer per iod of time had greater opportuni ty to form impressions based on visual cues. It would have been preferable to separate the participants at the beginning, but space l imitat ions prevented this. Fu ture research should place people in a more realistic situation to study first impressions based on shaking hands, perhaps in a job interview setting. This setting seems particularly relevant because, historically, women have not had the same employment opportunities as men. Some have argued that to overcome this difference in job access, women need to e l iminate the impression that they are less qualified (Click, Zion, & Nelson, 1988). T h e hand­shake is a common ritual in a job interview, and the results of this study and that of Chaplin et al. suggest that this ritual mav allow women who exhibit a linn.

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warm, dry' handshake to create a more positive impres­sion of themselves, especially when being interviewed by a woman.

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