Getting Back

Together:

How To Win

Back Trust?

By Natalie Arton

www.win-your-love-back.com

Trust is a confidence in someone’s good qualities,

above all fairness, honor and truth. It is based on your

ability to show these qualities over time in different

situations. Trust can be lost in a second (being caught lying)

or through the long period of time (failure to stick to your

word on multiple occasions).

As you can see trust is easy to lose but extremely

difficult to win back, because it is a base of any relationship.

However, there are a few things you must know if you

are wondering how to win back trust of the person that you

care about.

First of all, if you have betrayed someone’s trust you

must be the first one to tell it to that person. Don’t wait until

the truth comes up. In this case you will be accused in lying

in addition to whatever you have done wrong.

Do not make excuses for your actions and do

not argue with the person accusing you. It will only

make him/her angrier. Admit your mistakes with dignity

and clarity. Rather than blaming everyone and everything

for your misfortune, accept a full responsibility for your

actions.

Learn form your mistakes and try to change your

behavior. Of course, we are all humans, entitled to make

mistakes, but we also must learn from them and try to avoid

them in the future.

You have to realize that the person, whose trust you’ve

once betrayed, has no reason to believe you again. Your only

way to convince him or her that you have changed is to

prove it with your actions. For example, if you ex asks you

to join him/her for lunch at 1 p.m., do not be late! Make it

your priority to be there exactly at 1 p.m. and not a minute

later.

At first it will probably be hard to win back the trust of

the person that you let down, but don’t give up so easily.

Even if you hear something like, “I will never forgive

you for what you did”, do not be discouraged. Usually these

are the words spoken in the heat of the moment and,

therefore, they do not correspond with reality. In this case

your best course of action would be to leave and

come back in a week or so once the person calm

down and has enough time to rethink his/her

decision not to see you again.

I won’t lie to you. Winning back trust is probably one

of the hardest tasks you will have to face, but if that person

is really important to you, you must do everything in your

power to make things right with him/her.

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