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    EVERYDAY LEADERSHIP

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    Course Contents

    Unit 1: Overview - Why is leadership so critical now?

    Unit 2: Self Alignment: Awareness of the 10Competencies

    Unit 3: Self Alignment: Resiliency

    Unit 4: Working With Others: Interpersonal andRelationship Skills

    Unit 5: Communication Skills

    Unit 6: Employee Development/Coaching

    Unit 7: Creating Vision

    Unit 8: Change

    Unit 9: Integration: Customer Orientation

    Unit 10: Business Acumen

    Unit 11: Project Leadership

    STRENGTHEN THE

    HANDS OF THE STRONG

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    After completing this workshop, the learner will be able to:

    Understand and apply their personal values and leadership style.

    Influence and build relationships within and across organizations.

    Manage change and transition.

    Lead others with diverse styles.

    Align actions and priorities with strategic direction.

    Coach and develop others for motivation and performance.

    Course Objectives

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    1. Companies are very sick

    2. What is Management? Leadership?

    Overview:Why is Leadership so Critical Now?

    In the Land of the Blind, One-Eyed Men Are Kings. French Proverb

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    Why is Leadership so CriticalNow?

    Business Is Very Sick A man was let go from his position through a text message on his beeper

    while attending a conference in the same city as his office.

    A woman was abruptly given the job of her boss, who had just committedsuicide. She was not given any directions, training, or coaching.

    A five-year SAP project for a global company has logged two deaths fromheart attacks, as well as large turnover rates and illnesses.

    A woman hired by a software firm discovered that she could no longer workwith the technical people on her team, because they refused tocommunicate with her. Ironically, she was hired so that her communicationskills would rub off on them. Her comment: "Is there any place that I'll beable to work my technical and people skills?"

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    Why Is Leadership the Solution tothe Economic Problems?

    Market share is driven by speed to market,customer service, and/or efficiencies that drive outcost. These cannot be done without leadership.

    Security, stability and safety start through thegateway of leadership. (see Byte Wars by Ed Yourdon)

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    What is Management?Leadership?

    LEAD MANAGE

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    How is Leadership Unique?

    The why of a business, organization

    or team is critical for project / resourceprioritization but generally unknown.

    Leadership development is a paradox.It must be practical and immediate.However, to be able to do, leaders

    must find quiet time to develop self-understanding. There is a strongtension between the need to actquickly and the need to stop andthink. Leadership requires both.

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    A Great Leader

    A great leader needs to know how to leveragethe strengths she already has, and to surroundherself with others to fill in her own gaps.

    A great leader realizes that each of his people isunique and coaches them to leverage their ownstrengths.

    Therefore, leadership is about releasing thepotential that is already there.

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    What is Management?Leadership?

    Self-AlignmentSelf-Alignment

    LEADERSHIPIN THE MIDDLE

    IntegrationIntegration Working with othersWorking with others

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    1. Definition of the Competency

    2. Self-Assessment

    3. 360-Degree Assessment

    4. Identification of Strengths and Weaknesses

    To climb a tree, grab the branches not the blossoms. Unknown

    Self Understanding: Self Assessment

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    The DISC & PIAV

    MOTIVATORSWhyandWhereyouwalk

    BEHAVIOR

    Howyou are walking?

    No Right or Wrong Profile

    No Good or Bad Profile

    Does not measure

    - Intelligence- Ethics

    - Skill or ability

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    Demanding

    Egocentric

    DrivingAmbitiousPioneeringStrong-WilledForcefulDeterminedAggressiveCompetitiveDecisiveVenturesome

    InquisitiveResponsible

    Conservative

    CalculatingCooperativeHesitantLow-KeyUnsureUndemandingCautious

    MildAgreeableModestPeaceful

    Unobtrusive

    EffusiveConvincingSuperficial

    MagneticPoliticalEnthusiasticDemonstrativePersuasiveWarmConvincingPolishedPoisedOptimistic

    TrustingSociable

    Reflective

    FactualCalculatingSkeptical

    LogicalUndemonstrativeSuspiciousMatter-of-FactIncisive

    PessimisticMoody

    Critical

    Phlegmatic

    RelaxedResistant toChangeNondemonstrative

    Passive

    Patient

    Possessive

    PredictableConsistentDeliberateSteadyStable

    Mobile

    ActiveRestlessAlertVariety-OrientedDemonstrative

    ImpatientPressure-OrientedEagerFlexibleImpulsive

    Impetuous

    Hypertense

    Evasive

    WorrisomeCarefulDependentCautiousConventionalExactingNeat

    SystematicDiplomaticAccurateTactful

    Open-MindedBalanced Judgment

    Firm

    IndependentSelf-WilledStubborn

    Obstinate

    OpinionatedUnsystematicSelf-RighteousUninhibitedArbitraryUnbending

    Careless with Details

    Descriptors

    D I SC

    ENERGY LINE

    YOU

    ARE

    ALL!

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    PreferredBehaviorStyles

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    AdaptedStyle

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    Adapted Natural

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    The Six Attitudes Measured

    Theoretical

    Utilitarian

    Aesthetic

    Social

    Individualistic

    Traditional

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    Attitude Graph

    The Uti Aes Soc Ind Tra60 30 50 48 27 37

    AVERAGES

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    Self-Understanding

    Resiliency

    Customer Orientation

    Business Acumen

    Project Leadership

    Managing Change

    Relationship Skills

    Communication

    Coaching/Mentoring

    Actualizing Vision

    What is Leadership?

    Self-AlignmentSelf-Alignment

    LEADERSHIPIN THE MIDDLE

    IntegrationIntegration Working with othersWorking with others

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    1. Definitions of Resiliency

    2. Characteristics of Resiliency

    3. Future Challenge

    4. Journaling

    We are in a constant state of becoming. Rueben R. McDaniel

    Self Understanding: Resiliency

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    Definition of Resiliency

    SELF UNDERSTANDING: Resiliency

    Willingness to jump in and get things started Seek opportunities for performance improvement and

    development

    Build on others ideas for the benefit of the decision

    Maintain appropriate, empowered attitude

    Persistence in managing and overcoming adversity Act proactively in seeking new opportunities

    Prioritization, time management

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    Thriving in the Midst of Change

    FIVE TRAITS OF RESILIENT PEOPLE

    Characteristics of Resiliency:

    Building the Resiliency AttitudeLooking into the Future

    Practicing FlexibilityImposing Order Upon Chaos

    Seeking Opportunities in Change

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    ATTITUDE RESULTS FROM HOW YOU SEE THE WORLD

    Its the ABCs of Life . . .

    You cant control the unexpected,but

    you can control your response to it. Aikido Principle

    Expectation

    REALITY

    POSSIBILITY

    Activating Event

    Beliefs/Attitude

    Consequential Response

    Building the ResiliencyAttitude

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    See the coming change.Envision yourself in the

    new beginning.

    Describe one change you can

    see coming down the road.

    Given this reality, what

    possibility would you like to

    create now?

    Sometimes we stare so long at a door that is closing that we see too late the one that

    is open. Alexander Graham Bell

    Looking into the Future

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    A Test of Your

    Creative Thinking Skills

    1. Do they have a 4th of July in England?

    2. How many birthdays does the average man have?

    3. Some months have 31 days; how many have 28?

    4. How many outs are there in an inning?

    5. Is it legal for a man in California to marry his widow's

    sister?

    6. Divide 30 by 1/2 and add 10. What is the answer?

    7. If there are 3 apples and you take away 2, how many do

    you have?

    8. A doctor gives you three pills telling you to take one every

    half hour. How many minutes would the pills last?

    9. A farmer has 17 sheep, and all but 9 die. How many are

    left?

    10. How many animals of each sex did Moses take on the ark?

    11. A clerk in the butcher shop is 5' 10'' tall. What does he

    weigh?

    12. How many two cent stamps are there in a dozen?

    PracticingFlexibility

    :

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    Take First Things First

    The law of nature is change (chaos), while the dream of man is order. Henry Adams

    You are driving down a lonely stretch of highway late one night when you come upon

    an accident. A car is overturned on the road. A second car with a smashed front endsits sideways halfway onto the shoulder. You see small flames beginning to flicker up

    from under this cars hood. A wounded deer lies not far from the first car. As you pull

    up to the scene and prepare to stop, your headlights shine on a person in the

    overturned vehicle. You can see that he is halfway out of the car and bleeding badly

    from a gash in his forehead. Glancing quickly at the other vehicle, you see a person

    moving slightly in the drivers seat. The back door of this car is open and there is a

    small child standing by the drivers door. You are alone. You have a cell phone.There is no other traffic on the road.

    What are the first five actions you take?

    Imposing Order upon Chaos

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    When you look into the

    face of change

    .

    .. do you see the danger

    or the opportunity?

    Even if youre on the right track, youll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers

    Seeking Opportunities inChange

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    Future Change

    Think of a big change that you think may be aheadof you. What are your strategies for planning

    how you will personally deal with it?

    How will you help yourteam address it?

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    1. Definition of Interpersonal andRelationship Skills

    2. Exploring Trust

    3. How to Offer Feedback

    4. Managing Conflict

    5. Journaling

    Each of us must be the change we want to see in the world.Mahatma Gandhi

    Working With Others:Interpersonal and RelationshipSkills

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    Exploring TrustHow many of you in this room are trustworthy?

    CREDIBILITYSkill, knowledge, experience

    COMMUNICATIONManaged expectations

    CONSISTENCYHistory

    1. Unconscious, thoughtless ormisinterpreted actsundermine existing trust.

    2. Some are reluctant to risk

    trusting others.

    If everyone is trustworthy, then

    why is there so little trust?

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    Trust AssessmentSELF-ASSESSMENT:

    1. What level of credibility do you hold in thecontext of your leadership role?

    2. How consistent are you in your actions anddecision-making processes?

    3. How well do you use communication tobuild confidence and reassurance withinyour team?

    As a leader, how do you deliver onthe three factors that inspire trust?

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    WIN/LOSEYou and I need to talk.You just dont care about

    this project. I assumedwith your background thiswould happen.

    WIN/WINDo you have a minute? Im

    concerned about the quality ofthe report you just turned in. It

    had a lot of typos and format problems. Your

    work is usually great - didsomething different happen this

    time?

    Use I

    Focus on behavior,not the individual

    Be specific

    Be timely

    How to Offer Feedback

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    Conflict Situations

    SITUATION EXAMPLE

    ambiguous boundaries __________________

    conflicting interests __________________

    value differences __________________

    communication barriers __________________

    unresolved prior conflict __________________

    TRUST is

    BIDIRECTIONAL!

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    What Happened?

    Where does your story come from?Facts? Past Experience? Rules?Theirs?What impact has this had on you?What might their objectives have beenand how have you contributed to theproblem?

    Emotions

    What are you really feeling? Why?Identify

    Whats at stake for you about you?

    PurposesWhat do you hope to accomplish?Shift to support learning, sharing,problem-solving. Is this the best way toaddress this issue?

    Differences

    Describe the problem in terms of thedifferences between your stories andshare the purpose.Invite them to join as a partner to solvethe problem.

    Explore the Stories

    Listen to understand their viewpoint.Share your viewpoint.Reframe, reframe, reframe to keep ontrack.

    Problem Solving

    Invent options that meet each sidesconcerns.Look to standards for what shouldhappen.Talk about how to keep communicationopen going forward.

    Adapted from the book Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton andSheila Heen.

    A Difficult ConversationsChecklist

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    1. Definitions of Communication Skills

    2. Communication Basics

    3. Adapting Your Style

    4. Listen for Understanding

    5. Journaling

    Be careful of your thoughts; they may become words at any moment. Iara

    Gassen

    Communication Skills

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    Definition of CommunicationSkills

    Understand and adapt to youraudience helping others learn

    Express intention clearly andconcisely in written communications

    Build collaboration and clearlyarticulate intention in verbalcommunications

    Formal presentation skills

    Listen for understanding

    Manage flow ofcommunication/information

    WORKING WITH OTHERS:

    Communication Skills

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    Communication Basics

    Communication Should Be INTENTIONAL

    Words (7%), Tone (38%), Body language (55%)

    MESSAGE:Why did you do it that way?

    CHANNELS

    WHAT IS SAID

    WHAT IS HEARD

    INTERFERENCE

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    Presentation Skills

    Laptop, paper, spoken,

    email, written

    Profession, level, education,gender, anxiety, expectation

    When over, what will be different?

    Seating, lighting, food, heat,

    agenda, handouts

    UNDERSTAND

    PURPOSE/GOAL

    DESIGN FOR THEAUDIENCE, CONTEXT

    CHOOSE RIGHT

    CHANNEL

    MANAGE ENVIRONMENT

    (INTERFERENCE)

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    Adapting toYourAudience

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    Adapting Your Style

    DISSATISFIERS:Routine, mundaneLack of authorityLack of respect

    TONE OF VOICE:Strong, clear, confidentDirectFast pace

    WORDS/CONTENT:WinLead the fieldResultsNow, ImmediateBottom lineChallenge

    ENERGIZERS:ChallengesOpportunities to leadTough assignments

    BODY LANGUAGE:Keep your distanceStrong handshakeLean forwardDirect eye contact

    DOS AND DONTS:Be clear, specific and to the point Dont waste timeStick to business Present facts logicallyBe prepared and packaged Ask specific what questionsProvide alternative choices Dont offer guarantees you cant keepTake issue with the facts, not the person Provide a win/win opportunityLet it be his idea

    WORKING

    WITH THE

    CORE

    STYLE

    D

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    DISSATISFIERS:Social rejectionSkepticismNegativity

    TONE OF VOICE:EnthusiasticModulationsPersuasive, colorfulFast pace

    WORDS/CONTENT:FunI feelSocialize, recognitionExcitingPicture thisPeople

    ENERGIZERS:People interactionsSocial recognitionInspiration

    BODY LANGUAGE:Get closeSit next to

    Smile, relax, have funFriendly eye contactExpressive gestures

    DOS AND DONTS:Support their dreams Allow time for socializingTalk about people and their goals Dont drive for facts, figuresAsk for opinion Put details in writingProvide ideas for implementing actions Provide testimonials important peopleDont talk down Offer incentives for risks

    Make them feel special

    WORKINGWITH THE

    CORE

    STYLE

    I

    Adapting Your Style

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    Adapting Your Style

    DISSATISFIERS:Loss of securityLack of closureSurprisesNo home base

    TONE OF VOICE:Warm, soft, calmSteady

    Low tone, volumeSlow pace

    WORDS/CONTENT:Step-by-stepHelp me outGuarantee, promiseThink about it, take yourtime

    ENERGIZERS:Defined territory,SecurityClosureTeam HarmonyOpportunity to serve

    BODY LANGUAGE:Relaxed, calmMethodicalLean back, dont rush

    Friendly eye contactSmall gestures

    DOS AND DONTS:Start with personal connection Show interest in them as a personListen! Dont force a quick response patiencePresent your point logically, nonthreateningly Dont interruptLook for hurt feelings Provide personal assurances/guaranteeDont mistake willingness for agreement Allow time to think/make decisions

    Provide information

    WORKING

    WITH THE

    CORESTYLE

    S

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    DISSATISFIERS:Personal criticismMoving too fastDecisions without dataIrrational feelings/emotions

    TONE OF VOICE:Controlled, directThoughtful, preciseLittle modulations

    Slow pace WORDS/CONTENT:Here are the factsThe data showProvenTake your time, no riskAnalyzeGuarantees

    ENERGIZERS:InformationQuality StandardsCompliance to rulesAnalysis, research

    BODY LANGUAGE:Keep your distanceSit across fromFirm postureDirect eye contact

    Little/no hand gestures

    DOS AND DONTS:Prepare your case Dont be disorganizedApproach in straightforward way Dont be casual, informal or personalProvide policies/rules to follow Build credibility look at all sidesGive time for decisions Present specificsBe conservative, dont over promise Take time, but be persistentProve with facts Help them do things right

    Loyalty Be fair and consistent

    WORKING

    WITH THE

    CORE

    STYLE

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    Adapting Your Style

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    Listen for Understanding

    LEVEL 1

    Whats in it for me? Rebuttal, self-interest, filtering.

    LEVEL 2 Where is the person coming from? What

    are they truly trying to say? Connect,silence self-talk.

    LEVEL 3 What is not being said that is important?

    Listen through the words.

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    Reflective Listening

    Provide eye contact

    Maintain an interested and openbody posture

    Encourage the speaker withverbal and nonverbal support

    Use door opening questions tobuild trust

    Ask genuine questions

    Reflect back what theyve saidwith empathy

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    1. Definitions of EmployeeDevelopment / Coaching

    2. Coaching

    3. Giving Effective Feedback

    4. Journaling

    Every blade of grass has an Angel that bends over it and whispers

    grow, grow.

    EmployeeDevelopment/Coaching

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    Definition of EmployeeDevelopment/Coaching

    WORKING WITH OTHERS:Employee Development (Coach & Motivate)

    Motivating employees to high performance

    Coaching Definition of Employee Development/Coaching for developmentand improved performance

    Manage with appreciation/respect for diversity of individual values and

    needs

    Delegate tasks as needed and with awareness of employee developmentopportunities

    Select appropriate staff to fulfill specific project needs and responsibilities

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    Coaching

    Focus on growing talents, not fixing weaknesses.

    What is reality

    Facts, no interpretation

    Observable behaviors

    Employees feelings

    What is desired

    Aligned with business, DISC, PIAV

    Measurable and achievable

    Desirable by all

    GAPGAP

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    Goal Setting/PerformanceReview

    Business Objective IRACIS

    Sparta will increase revenuethrough more business generatedby strong customer referralsbased on quality product delivery.

    Increase Revenue

    Avoid Cost

    Improve Service

    Goal (Audience BehaviorCondition)(A) I will (B) hold a status meetingwith my team (C) each week onTuesday morning at 9:00 for fiftyminutes.

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    Coaching (continued)BUSINESS COACHING:

    Focus on business change, not personal growth.Therapy looks back, coaching looks forward.

    Reconcile personal

    and business goals

    and values

    Agree to

    measurements,

    milestones, dates =

    ACCOUNTABILITY

    Take people from where they

    ARE to where they can GO.

    3LEVELSAwareness

    PersonalImprovemen

    t

    Transformation

    Establish

    an Action Plan

    EstablishIndividual Goals

    Name the Gap

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    Coaching (continued)Determine

    What Needs

    To Happen

    Evaluate

    Progress

    Foster Reflection

    About Actions &

    Results

    Pay Close

    Attention to Support

    Big Steps

    Translate

    Feedback Into

    Action

    Collect

    Feedback

    Build an

    Action Plan

    Establish

    Mutual Expectations

    & Trust

    From the book Action Coaching byDavid L. Dotlich and Peter C. Cairo

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    Coaching Language

    Avoid directing the discussion.

    Avoid analysis and interpretation.

    Phrase future in the present state.

    Push to the end result, not just next step.

    NOT No, thats the wrong goal.

    NOT Yes, I know which part bothers you the most!

    NOT What will your relationship be like?

    NOT Promotion is what you want.

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    Coaching LanguageQuestions to help people learn and explore:

    1. What would happen if you asked for help in this area in which yourenot so skilled?

    2. Whats stopping you from requesting a change?

    3. If you died today, what regrets would you have?

    4. How might you deal with the conflict without resorting to a win/loseposture?

    5. Why do you want to lead, and why should people follow you?

    6. What legacy do you want to leave behind? What do you wantpeople to say about you after youve left your current role?

    7. What are your vulnerabilities, and where could things fall apart?

    8. What can you do to renew yourself? Your team? This company?

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    No Yes

    Did you discuss each goal or objective established for this employee?

    Are you and the employee clear on the areas of agreement? Disagreement?

    Did you and the employee cover all positive skills, traits, accomplishments, areas of growth,etc.? Did you reinforce the employee's accomplishments?

    Did you give the employee a sense of what you thought of his or her potential or ability?

    Are you both clear on areas where improvement is required? Expected? Demanded?Desired?

    What training or development recommendations did you agree on?

    Did you indicate consequences for noncompliance, if appropriate?

    Did you set good objectives for the next appraisal period?

    Objective?

    Specific?

    Measurable?

    Standard to be used for evaluation?

    Timeframe?

    Did you set a time for the next evaluation?

    Did you confirm what your part would be? Did the employee confirm his or her part?

    Did you thank the employee for his or her efforts?

    Performanc

    eReview

    Provided

    courtesy ofHRnext.com

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    Giving Effective FeedbackWIN/LOSEYou and I need to talk. You

    just dont care about this

    project. I assumed with yourbackground this wouldhappen.

    WIN/WINDo you have a minute? Im

    concerned about the quality ofthe report you just turned in. Ithad a lot of typos and format

    problems. Yourwork is usually great - did

    something different happen thistime?

    Use I

    Focus on behavior,

    not the individual

    Be specific

    Be timely

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    How To DisagreeWIN/WINI think Ineed to

    spend moretime on thisreport.

    SYMPTOMS

    Attack problem

    Use I

    Ask for/offer to help

    Seek to understand(Covey)

    Seek WIN/WIN

    WIN/WINI appreciate your

    offer, but Im feeling

    some schedulepressure. What didyou have in mind?

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    Accepting FeedbackSORT

    What have Idone to make

    it hard to workfor me?

    FOG

    Would you likea cup of coffee

    while we talkabout this?

    REPEAT

    Im a pain towork for?

    DISTANCE

    Lets talk aboutthis tomorrow

    after weve hada chance tocalm down.

    Avoid DEFENSE Acknowledge their feelings

    Express regret

    Find a point of agreement

    Suggest alternatives, solutions

    TRUTH

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    Feedback: PointersGIVING

    Be specific,

    descriptive,action-oriented,

    nonjudgmental RECEIVING

    Be open,

    take notes,

    ask for examples,

    seek to understand,

    triangulateinformation later

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    1. Definitions of Creating Vision

    2. Creating a Vision

    3. Translating Vision into Action

    4. Win-Win Solutions

    5. Journaling

    The further backward you look, the further forward you can see. WinstonChurchill

    Creating Vision

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    Creating VisionWORKING WITH OTHERS: Creating and Actualizing Vision

    Create a clear and inspirational vision of the desiredoutcome

    Align the vision with broader organizational strategies Translate the vision into manageable action steps

    Communicate vision to enroll/enlist staff, sponsors andcustomers

    Influence and Evangelize (sales, negotiation)

    Gather appropriate input

    Understand individual motivators and decision-makingstyles and utilize to enroll others

    Facilitate win/win solutions

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    Translating the Vision IntoAction

    List your to-dos

    Rate them based on your mission:High Alignment, Medium Alignment,Low Alignment

    Ignore the Low Alignment

    Schedule the High and Medium

    Alignment

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    Business Objective IRACIS

    Sparta will increase revenuethrough more business generatedby strong customer referralsbased on quality product delivery.

    Increase Revenue

    Avoid Cost

    Improve Service

    Goal (Audience BehaviorCondition)(A) I will (B) hold a status meetingwith my team (C) each week onTuesday morning at 9:00 for 50minutes.

    Goal Setting/PerformanceReview

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    1. Definitions of Change

    2. An Overview of Change

    3. Change versus Transition

    4. Exploring the Human Side of Change

    5. Journaling

    Great sailors are not made of calm seas. Unknown

    Managing Change

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    Think about a big change that

    you have experienced in your life.

    What event or choice broughtabout the change?

    Think about the change as aprocess: did it happen all atonce or did it unfold over time?What were some of the stagesof this process?

    What were some of thechallenges and successes yourecall about this period ofchange in your life?

    Exploring Change

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    CHANGEDisruption inexpectations

    External event

    Related tocircumstances andsituations

    Sometimes connectedto a decision of choice

    TRANSITIONPsychologicalreorientation to thechange event

    Internal process

    Related to a state

    of mind, a sense ofidentity

    Change Versus Transition

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    It is not so much that we are afraid ofchange or so in love with the old ways, but

    its that place in between that we fear . . .Its like being caught between trapezes. ItsLinus when his blanket is in the dryer.Theres nothing to hold on to.

    Marilyn Ferguson

    Quotable

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    Neutral Zone

    ENDING

    NEW BEGINNING

    STAGES OF TRANSITION

    Source: William Bridges

    Transition: The Human Side ofChange

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    STAGES OF TRANSITION (continued)

    Ending - Process of letting go ofthe old way before beginning thenew form.

    Neutral Zone - Fallow period

    between the ending andnew beginning. The wilderness.

    New Beginning - New statusquo takes shape.

    Transition: The Human Side ofChange

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    NEW BEGINNING

    ENDINGS

    Neutral Zone

    Time

    Denial

    Anger

    Fear

    ShockFrustration

    Confusion

    StressCreativity

    Skepticism

    Acceptance

    Impatience

    Hope

    Energy

    Excitement

    Reactions to Transition

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    TheHerosJourney

    Allies

    STORY OFORIGIN

    CALL TOADVENTURE

    GUARDIANS OF

    THE GATE

    BELLY OFTHE WHALE

    Allies

    Allies

    Allies

    ROAD OFTRIALS

    ACCOMPLISHMENT

    MAGICALFLIGHT

    BETWEENTWO WORLDS

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    STORY OFORIGIN

    The Heros

    Journey:Reflection

    What was the Callto Adventure? What

    were your initialreactions?

    How would youdescribe your

    Belly of the Whale?

    What insights resultedfrom this experience?

    What trials didyou face?

    How did successpresent itself? Howdid you feel about

    the change at thispoint?

    What learning didyou take away from

    this changeexperience?

    Think about abusiness-related

    transitionyou have

    experienced . . .

    Think about abusiness-related

    transitionyou have

    experienced . . .

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    1. Definitions of Customer Orientation

    2. Who is the Customer?

    3. A Consulting Focus

    4. Gathering requirements

    5. Journaling

    Customer Orientation

    "Be everywhere, do everything, and never fail to astonish the customer.Macys Motto

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    Understand and apply customerneeds and expectations.

    Gather customer requirementsand input.

    Partner with customer in gatheringrequirements, maintaining

    communication flow and managingwork.

    Set and monitor performancestandards.

    Customer Orientation

    ALIGNMENT: Customer Orientation

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    Customer Chain of Experience

    CUSTOMERCUSTOMER

    SERVICE CENTERMARKETINGREQUEST REFERRAL

    SALES

    CALL

    CUSTOMERORDERSALESPROD. & DIST.SHIPPING

    CRITICAL

    MOMENT

    OF TRUTH

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    THE WHAT THE HOW

    Quality work Empathy

    Flexible, able to change Sharing

    Communications Plan Listening

    Prioritizing Reassuring Problem solving Taking responsibility

    Alternative solutions Perceptive

    Follow-up Proactive

    Shared ValueWhat does THEIRcustomer value?

    What does yourcustomer value?

    What are you GREATat delivering?

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    A Consulting Focus

    ConsultingFocus

    Common language

    Known business value

    Shared ownership Client accountability

    _____________________

    _____________________

    _____________________

    Product/ServiceFocus

    Technology language

    Unknown business value

    Directed by IT Little client involvement

    _____________________

    _____________________

    _____________________

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    Forbidden Phrases

    WHY DO YOU

    NEED TO KNOW?

    NO.

    YOURE WRONG.

    WEVE NEVER DONE

    IT THAT WAY.

    YOULL HAVE TO.

    THATS NOT MY JOB.

    THATS AGAINST

    COMPANY POLICY.

    I DONT KNOW.

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    The Vision Thing

    TIME First to Market FAST

    COST Lowest Cost CHEAP

    QUALITY Customer Intimacy GOOD

    TO THRIVE, COMPANIES/ORGANIZATIONS

    MUST PICK ONE PRIMARY GOAL:

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    Identify the Need

    Effective Presentation Skills

    Gathering Requirements

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    What is the Difference Betweena Symptom and a Problem?

    PROBLEM? The direct users dont

    know how to use thesystem.

    There is a bug in thecalculation program.

    The printer is jammingon the checks.

    SYMPTOM:The payroll checks are all wrong!

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    Causes

    SYSTEM

    TRAINING

    ENVIRONMENT

    MOTIVATION

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    Effective Presentation Skills

    DESIGN MEDIA WHEN?

    LETTER Email Need fast(1-5 pp.) Fax Need fast, but need

    Paper mail graphics

    Need more flash

    VOICE Voice mail Need fast, auditory

    response In person Clear needs, strong

    relationship,auditory

    PROPOSAL Paper Formal relationship

    (10-20 pp.) - color Large $s

    - graphics

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    What Makes People Remember?

    Grass, Paper, Cat, Knife, Love, Bird, Tree,

    Desk, Truth, Table, Fork, Pen, Stream,Wisdom, Stream, Flower, Zulu, Radio, Ruler,

    Blue, Sheep, Meaning, Field, Pencil, Carbon

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    Improving Memory

    Other reasons:

    Different ( ex.: Zulu)

    Visual Emotion

    Organization

    Context

    PRIMACY=Remember more at the BEGINNING of a session

    Remember more at the END of a session =RECENCY

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    Improving Memory

    Many Breaks

    Sleep

    Attention Getter

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    WIIFM

    GOOD

    Tells 3 - 5 people about it

    Can charge more

    Can be more profitable

    Invaluable

    Proactive

    NOT SO GOOD

    Tells 8 - 10 people about it

    Costs 5 - 6 times more toattract new customers

    Expensive

    Reactive

    The Rule of10

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    Why Do Customers StopBeing Customers?

    Beyond Customer Service, 1992.

    100% 1% Die

    3% Move Away

    5% Seek alternatives

    9% Go to the competition

    14% Dissatisfied with product/service

    68% Upset with the treatment they receive

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    1. Definitions of Strategic Business Acumen

    2. Systems Thinking

    3. Scenario Planning

    4. Group Techniques for Consensus

    5. Journaling

    If you can dream it, you can do it. Walt Disney

    Strategic Business Acumen

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    Strategic Business Acumen

    Demonstrate ability to ethically build

    support for a perspective about which youfeel strongly.

    Holistic view - think in terms of the entiresystem and the effects andconsequences of actions and decisions.

    Operate with an awareness of

    marketplace competition and generallandscape of related business arenas.

    General business acumen - functions ofstrategic planning, finance, marketing,manufacturing, R&D, etc.

    ALIGNMENT:Strategic Business Acumen

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    What is Systems Thinking?

    A system is a perceived wholewhose elements hang

    together because theycontinually affect each otherover time and operate towarda common purpose.

    -The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook

    Focus on cause and effect, notsymptoms, not quick fixes

    Study of systems is over 40years old

    Theres no sense being exact about something if you dont even know what youre talkingabout.

    John Von Neumann

    WHY CANT WE SELL MORE?

    Delay = a passage of time that provokesflawed perceptions of cause and effect

    delay

    variable

    S=same

    linksPortion of

    Revenue Spenton Sales

    SalesPeople

    Bookings

    Revenue

    SS

    SS

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    What is Systems Thinking (continued)

    S

    S

    O

    Portion ofRevenue

    Spent on Sales

    SalesForce Size

    Bookings

    Revenue

    S

    S

    Sales ForceProductivity Perceived

    Lead Time

    LeadTime

    S

    S

    BacklogS

    Orders forAdditionalCapacity

    Capacity

    S

    S

    The Rich Get Richer You Cant Always GetWhat You Want Build It And TheyWill Come

    O

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    Scenario Planning

    FOR THOSE BORN BEFORE 1945

    Using history and guesses to anticipate multiple futures

    We were born before television,

    before penicillin, before polio shots,

    frozen foods, Xerox, plastic, the

    contact lens, Frisbees, and the PILL.

    We were around before radar, creditcards, split atoms, laser beams, and

    ball-point pens. Before pantyhose,

    dishwashers, clothes dryers, electric

    blankets, air conditioners, drip-dry

    clothes, and before we walked on the

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    What is Scenario Planning?

    BENEFITS

    Creates shared vision Lessens Group Think

    Reveals Mental Models

    Lessens denial

    Diffuses emotions

    Accelerates reaction

    Clarifies estimates

    The Learning is in the

    Dialogue

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    Creating The Story

    CHOOSE

    2VALUES REVENUE STAFF

    REVENUE STAFF

    REVENUE STAFF

    REVENUE STAFF

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    Group Techniques forConsensus

    Group Creativity & Group ThinkBrainstorming

    Delphi Technique

    Nominal Group Technique

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    Group Creativity and GroupThink

    GROUP CREATIVITYWhen compared to individuals,groups make accurate decisions.

    GROUP THINKAn individual may feel social

    pressure to conform to a popularsolution that he or she would not

    have chosen individually.

    However...

    one of us is as smart as all of us. Satchel Paige

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    Brainstorming

    GENERATEDONT

    EVALUATE

    Blue Sky

    Isolated

    Wild

    Positive

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    Brainstorming (continued)

    SET THE STAGE:

    Moderator: first ideas, one crazy Record ideas visually

    We will be spending ____ minutes brainstorming ideas about

    our new system. There will be absolutely no interruptions duringthis session. The purpose of this meeting is to discuss thingsthat the system can do for us, with the emphasis on quantitynot quality. Therefore, please be prepared to suggest severalideas and to refrain from offering any criticism of the ideas ofothers. Advance preparation is unnecessary. If you have any

    questions, please contact me.

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    The Delphi Technique

    Keep membership anonymous

    Keep specific communications anonymous

    Allow only written communications

    PROBLEM

    STATED

    MEMBERS

    TAKE A

    POSITION

    NUMERIC

    SUMMARY

    RESULTS

    FEEDBACK

    Individual

    Creativity

    Group

    Creativity

    Group

    Think

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    The Nominal Group Technique Membership is NOT anonymous

    Participation controlled by procedures

    Everyone must participate verbally

    EACHSTATESIDEA INTURN

    EACHSTATES

    DISCUSSIONIN TURN

    IDEASRANKED

    SECRETLY

    TOP

    RANKED

    IDEAS

    Individual

    Creativity

    Group

    Creativity

    Group

    Think

    PROBLEM

    STATED

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    1. Definitions of Project Leadership

    2. What is Project Leadership?3. DEFINE the Project

    4. PLAN the Project

    5. MANAGE the Project

    6. REVIEW the Project7. Journaling

    Now that were organized, what do we do? Unknown

    Project Leadership

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    ALIGNMENT: Project Leadership

    Set, communicate and monitor milestones and objectives

    Gain and maintain buy in from sponsors and customers

    Prioritize and allocate resources

    Manage multiple, potentially conflicting priorities across various/diversedisciplines

    Maintain an effective, interactive and productive team culture

    Manage budget and project progress

    Manage risk versus reward and ROI equations Balance established standards with need for exceptions in decision-making

    Make timely decisions in alignment with customer and business pace

    Project Leadership

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    What is ProjectLeadership?

    APROJECT:

    has a beginning and end meets pre-established goals for cost,

    schedule and quality

    PROJECT LEADERSHIP is different from otherleadership because

    it focuses on a finite project it uses part-time resources

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    What is Project Leadership?(continued)

    PROJECT LEADER

    Plans, Organizes and

    Controls the Project

    PROJECT TEAMMEMBERS

    Perform project activities

    and produce project

    deliverables

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    Steps to Great Projects

    Dare to ProperlyManage

    Resources!

    EN

    D

    1. Establishproject scope

    2. Set initialobjectives

    3. List risks/constraints

    4. Evaluatealternatives

    5. Choose acourse ofaction

    DEFINE PLAN MANAGE REVIEWSTAR

    T

    1. Finalizeobjectives

    2. Createschedule

    3. Assignresources

    4. Createbudget

    1. Control workin progress

    2. Providefeedback

    3. Negotiate forresources

    4. Resolvedifferences

    1. Turn overdeliverables

    2. Hold ProjectReview

    3. Releaseresources

    4. Documentsuccesses andfailures

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    DEFINE: Write the Project Definition

    PROJECT DEFINITION

    Scope

    Objectives(goals, specifications)

    Risk

    Constraints Alternatives

    Course of Action

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    Establish Project Scope

    REGISTER

    STUDENTS

    confirmation

    schedule

    roster

    completions

    requeststudent

    completionsSTUDENT

    INSTRUCTOR

    PERSONNEL

    SYSTEM

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    Document Risk andConstraints

    AVERAGESIZE - How big is this system or how long will

    it take relative to others you have done?

    Rated 1 (small) 10 (large)

    STRUCTURE

    How stable are the requirements?Rated 1 (fixed) 10 (undefined)

    TECHNOLOGY

    How understood is the technology?

    Rated 1 (old) 10 (new)

    RISK =MANAGEMENT

    OVERALL PROJECT RISK

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    CONSTRAINTS

    TIME

    COST

    QUALITY

    # 1 # 2 # 3

    Document Risk and Constraints(continued)

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    MANAGE:What to Do if

    Youre Behind

    1. Renegotiate: Discuss with your client the prospect ofincreasing the budget for the project or extendingthe deadline for completion.

    2. Recover During Later Steps: If you begin to fallbehind in early steps of a project, re-examinebudgets and schedules for later steps. Perhaps

    you can save on later steps so the overall budgetand/or schedule is met.

    3. Narrow Project Scope: Perhaps nonessentialelements of the project can be eliminated, therebyreducing costs and/or saving time.

    4. Deploy More Resources: You may need to putmore people or machines on the project to meet acritical schedule. Increased costs must beweighed against the importance of the deadline.

    5. Accept Substitution: When something is notavailable or is more expensive than budgeted,substituting a comparable item may solve yourproblem.

    6. Seek Alternative Sources: When a supplier cantdeliver within budget or schedule, look for otherswho can. (You may choose to accept a substituterather than seek other sources.)

    ACTION COST SCHEDUL

    E

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    x

    (or its your behind)

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    7. Accept Partial Delivery: Sometimes asupplier can deliver a partial order tokeep your project on schedule andcomplete the delivery later.

    8. Offer Incentives: Go beyond the scopeof the original contract and offer abonus or other incentive for on-timedelivery.

    9. Demand Compliance: Sometimes

    demanding that people do what theyagreed to do gets the desiredresults. You may have to appeal tohigher management for backing andsupport.

    ACTION COST SCHEDULE

    X

    X

    X

    X

    What to Do If Youre Behind(continued)

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    Now that were organized, what do we do? Unknown

    Beginning the Journey

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    Sample

    Planning(all worksheets)

    STRENGTH 1Description:

    Clarity of personal values, purpose and vision

    Known Successes:

    Clarity of purpose, strong sense of values

    Leveraging Opportunities:

    With staff: Review the purpose of our team atthe start of each weekly status meeting. Ask a

    different person each week to share a way they

    modeled this purpose the week preceding.With customers: Communicate the purpose ofthe group to each key customer. Create a

    weekly mini e-zine with the notes from the

    status meeting, sharing the weekly story above.

    With bosses: Talk to supervisor about purpose,and how it fits into the overall purpose of the

    organization.

    With vendors:

    With process:List of Actions:

    Use the three verbs / 1 noun exercise to come up with a

    team statement of purpose.

    Have weekly status meetings with purpose (see above)

    Share purpose with the customer.

    Top 3 Goals / Actions

    1. Schedule the three verbs / 1 noun meeting by 3/1.

    2. Hold the three verbs / 1 noun meeting.

    3. Assign the customer e-zine summary to staff member by

    4/1.

    Measurement for Top 3 Actions of Progress:

    Statement of purpose (consensus)

    E-zine out by Friday every week.

    Intentions:

    1. The purpose of my team is clear and shared.

    2. My teams customers are clear about our purpose and

    support it.

    3. My boss is clear about our team purpose and supports it.

    Keepers of the Gate:

    Customers with negative history who dont believe we have a

    purpose.

    Boss who keeps expanding our purpose (scope of

    responsibility).

    Staff who continue to perform work for the customers which is

    outside the purpose of our team.

    Allies:

    Key customers who want to know how we can help.

    Staff who want to know how they will be measured.

    External coach supporting transformation

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    Sample

    Planning

    OPPORTUNITY 1

    Description:Manages transition with employees - guiding and

    supporting the change process

    Known Successes:

    Survived last chaotic process with regular venting

    meetings.

    Leveraging Opportunities:

    With staff: Need to create a unique strategy for each

    of the team members. Put some thought togetherabout what they individually need to go through

    change.

    With customers:

    With bosses:

    With vendors:With process: Would like to create some sort ofconsensus process to give my staff a safe way to

    express to me resistance, and to help themunderstand their own resistance better so they can

    communicate it more effectively to me.

    List of Actions:

    B ild i di id l h fil f h f t

    Top 3 Goals / Actions1. Create an individual change profile for each team

    member and review it with them by 4/1.

    2.Ask for secret ballot (Post-It) voting on changefeelings at the start of each status meeting (effective

    next meeting)

    3. Share my change profile with the team to modelthe behavior I expect from them.

    Measurement for Top 3 Actions of Progress:

    Individual profiles completed (phase 1) and reviewed

    (phase 2)

    Change process (secret ballot) implemented by nextmeeting.

    Intentions:

    1. I appreciate the differences in each of my staff.

    2. I successfully monitor and coach the change

    tolerance and adaptation of each staff member

    through a unique profile.

    Keepers of the Gate:

    Staff will be uncomfortable sharing their fears with

    me.

    Some staff fear assessments.

    Allies:

    One staff member is more in tune with her emotional

    intelligence. Do her profile first!

    (continued)