ephesians 6:4
DESCRIPTION
Week 19. Biblical Parenting … provoke not your children to wrath …. Ephesians 6:4. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay. Biblical Counseling Basics 2012 - 2013. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3 MARCH / MAY 2013. 3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
Ephesians 6:4
Biblical Parenting… provoke not your children to wrath …
Week 19
Biblical Counseling
Basics2012 - 2013
Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay
Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3
MARCH / MAY 2013
17.3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex18.4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies19.4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger20.4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up …21.5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord …22.5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord23.5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance24.5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear
Biblical Parenting Introduction
Week 19
1. The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a)
Parenting 1
2 Timothy 3:1-51 - This know also, that in the last days
perilous times shall come. 2 - For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous,
boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
Parenting 1
2 Timothy 3:1-53 - Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false
accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 - Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of
pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 - Having a form of godliness, but denying the power
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Introduction
Week 19
1. The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a)
2. Encouragement for parents (2 Timothy 3: 14-15, 16-17)
• Timothy was raised in a single parent home (godly mother and grandmother)
Parenting 1
2 Timothy 3:14-1714 - But continue thou in the things which thou
hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; 15 - And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through
faith which is in Christ Jesus.
Parenting 1
2 Timothy 3:14-1716 - All scripture is given by inspiration of God,
and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17 -That the man of God may be perfect, throughly
furnished unto all good works.
Parenting 1
2 Timothy 3:1616 - All scripture is given by inspiration of God,
and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness
1. Teaching doctrine: (pre-kids)2. Reproof: (change wrong thinking)
3. Correction: (to stand up again that which has been knocked down)4. Righteousness: (handle children differently in the future)
• What is Right, Not Right, Get Right, Stay Right
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Introduction
Week 19
1. The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a)
2. Encouragement for parents (2 Timothy 3: 14-15, 16-17)
3. Ephesians 6:4 is the single most important verse in the New Testament on the subject of parenting.
Parenting 1
Ephesians 6:4And, ye fathers, provoke not your
children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
1. The children are primarily Dad's responsibility
2. Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine (Eph 5:22-25)
Parenting 1
Ephesians 5:22-25Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as
unto the Lord. 23-For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the
saviour of the body. 24-Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in
every thing. 25-Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
1. The children are primarily Dad's responsibility2. Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine
3. God hold father’s primarily responsible
(1 Sam 2:12; 3:11-13)
Parenting 1
1 Samuel 2:12
Now the sons of Eli -were- sons of Belial; they knew not
the LORD.
Parenting 1
1 Samuel 3:11-1311 - And the LORD said to Samuel, Behold, I
will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it shall tingle. 12 - In
that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when
I begin, I will also make an end.
Parenting 1
1 Samuel 3:11-1313 - For I have told him that I will
judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because
his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
1. The children are primarily Dad's responsibility2. Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine
3. God hold father’s primarily responsible (1 Sam 2:12; 3:11-13)A. All others are your assistants
(mom, grandparents, teacher, pastor, coach, etc.)B. You cannot blame others for the
failures of your children. (CEO Dad)
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
4. A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12).
Parenting 1
1 Timothy 3:4,124 - One that ruleth well his own house,
having his children in subjection with all gravity 12 - Let the deacons be the
husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
4. A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12).
Doesn’t mean perfect kids
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
4. A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12).
5. A primary principle of fathering is to be there.
A. PhysicallyB. MentallyC. Emotionally
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Fathers
Week 19
4. A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12).
5. A primary principle of fathering is to be there.
6. Mothers are to be involved
(Exodus 20:12; Prov. 1:8, 9; 1 Tim. 5:10; Ephesians 6:1-3)
Parenting 1
Exodus 20:12
Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long
upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
Parenting 1
Proverbs 1:8, 98 - My son, hear the instruction of
thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: 9 - For they shall be an
ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck.
Parenting 1
1 Timothy 5:10Well reported of for good works; if she
have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints’ feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have
diligently followed every good work.
Parenting 1
Ephesians 6:1-31 - Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 - Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first
commandment with promise;) 3 - That it may be well with thee, and
thou mayest live long on the earth.
Parenting 1
Top 10 Things Fathers will Never Say
1. Let’s read the instructions first.2. As a matter of fact, let’s both go get nose rings!3. Go ahead take my car, here’s 20 bucks for gas4. Oh no kids! This bike is too fast!5. Can’t finish your peas?
Sure, go ahead and throw them away6. Here! You take remote control.7. Waiter, more ice cream for the little ones8. Wanna watch some synchronized swimming?9. Honey, you sit this one out,
I can’t wait to change that diaper10. Kids, Please turn up that music,
it really calls calm nerves
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset annoy, oppose, anger, displease or cross a child (1 Samuel 3:11-13; Proverbs 22:15; Hebrews 12:5-11)
Parenting 1
1 Samuel 3:11-1311 - And the LORD said to Samuel, Behold, I will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it
shall tingle. 12 - In that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when I
begin, I will also make an end. 13 - For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he
knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not.
Parenting 1
Proverbs 22:15Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it
far from him.
Parenting 1
Hebrews 12:5-115 - And ye haveforgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: 6 - For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 - If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what
son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 - But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are
ye bastards, and not sons.
Parenting 1
Hebrews 12:5-119 - Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which
corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? 10 - For they verily for a few days chastened us after their
own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. 11 - Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless
afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised hereby
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset annoy, oppose, anger, displease or cross a child (1 Samuel 3:11-13; Proverbs 22:15; Hebrews 12:5-11)
2. It does mean we should NOT handle them in such a way that they will be incited to a wrathful kind of living and become angry young men and women.
Parenting 1
Ephesians 6:4
A. “Fathers, do not irritate and provoke your children to anger; do
not exasperate them to resentment" - Amplified Bible
Parenting 1
Ephesians 6:4
B. Parents "are not to excite the bad passions of their children nor by his own ill conduct nurture evil in the
heart of his child."- Hodges
Parenting 1
Ephesians 6:4
C. “Do not exasperate or embitter your children; do not provoke your
children to an angry mood." - Hendrickson
Parenting 1
Colossians 3:21
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they
be discouraged. (KJV)
Parenting 1
Colossians 3:21D. “Fathers, do not provoke or irritate or fret
your children –do not be hard on them or harass them; lest they become discouraged and sullen and morose and feel inferior and
frustrated; do not break their spirit.”– Amplified Bible
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.
A. Ephesians 6:4 AmplifiedB. Ephesians 6:4 HodgesC. Ephesians 6:4 HendricksonD. Colossians 3:21 AmplifiedE. The warning is not about an incident of anger,
but about a lifestyle of anger.F. The challenge is to avoid raising a
child to be like the person spoken of in Proverbs 19:19; 25:28 Parenting 1
Proverbs 19:19
A man of great wrathshall suffer punishment: for if
thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again.
Parenting 1
Proverbs 25:28
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken
down, and without walls
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger
(1 Samuel 15:23; Ephesians 4:31).
Parenting 1
1 Samuel 15:23For rebellion (blowing up) is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness (clamming up) is as iniquity and idolatry. Because
thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from
being king.
Parenting 1
Ephesians 4:31
Let all bitterness(clamming up), and wrath (blowing up), and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put
away from you, with all malice:
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger
A. Flaring outbursts of rage; open rebellion; hostility
(Proverbs 14:17; 15:18; 19:19; 22:24; Ephesians 4:31)
Parenting 1Blowing Up
Proverbs 14:17
He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly and a man of wicked devices is hated.
Parenting 1Blowing Up
Proverbs 15:18
A wrathful man stirreth upstrife: but he that is slow to anger
appeaseth strife.
Parenting 1Blowing Up
Proverbs 19:19A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if
thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again.
Parenting 1Blowing Up
Proverbs 22:24
Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious
man thou shalt not go:
Parenting 1Blowing Up
Ephesians 4:31
Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil
speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
Parenting 1Blowing Up
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger
A. Flaring outbursts of rage; open rebellion; B. Settled indignation; the slow bum; willing to
wait for revenge (Genesis 4:5-13; Proverbs 14:17; Ephesians 4:31)
Parenting 1Clamming Up
Genesis 4:5-135 But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell. 6 And the LORD said
unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen? 7 If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if
thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him. 8 And Cain talked with
Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him.
Parenting 1Clamming Up
Genesis 4:5-139 And the LORD said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother?
And he said, I know not: Am I my brother’s keeper? 10 And he said, What hast thou done? the voice of thy brother’s blood
crieth unto me from the ground. 11 And now art thou cursed from the earth, which hath opened her mouth to receive thy
brother’s blood from thy hand; 12 When thou tillest the ground, it shall not henceforth yield unto thee her strength; a
fugitive and a vagabond shalt thou be in the earth. 13 And Cain said unto the LORD, My punishment is greater than I can bear.
Parenting 1Clamming Up
Proverbs 14:17He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly: and
a man of wicked devices is hated.
Parenting 1Clamming Up
Ephesians 4:31
Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil
speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
Parenting 1Clamming Up
Two Kinds of AngerWeek 19
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmony (Genesis 2:24; Hebrews 12:15)
Parenting 1
Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they
shall be one flesh.
Parenting 1
Hebrews 12:15
Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of
bitterness springing up trouble [you,] and thereby many be defiled
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmony
B. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home (Prov. 29: 15)
Parenting 1
Prov. 29: 15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to
himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home
C. Modeling sinful anger
(Prov. 22:24-25; Jas. 1 :20)
Parenting 1
Proverbs 22:24-2524 - Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious
man thou shalt not go: 25 – Lest thou learn his ways, and get a
snare to thy soul.
Parenting 1
James 1:20
For the wrath of man worketh not the
righteousness of God.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with discipline
(2 Cor. 1 :17,18; Ecc. 8:11)1. Differing parental standards2. Differing parental enforcement
Parenting 1
2 Corinthians 1 :17-18
17 -When I therefore was thus minded, did I use lightness? or the things that I purpose, do I purpose according to the flesh, that with me
there should be yea yea, and nay nay? 18 - But as God is true, our word toward you was
not yea and nay.
Parenting 1
Ecclesiastes 8:11
Because sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily,
therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's mistakes and sins
than on their own (Mt. 7:1-5)
Parenting 1
Matthew 7:1-51 - Judge not, that ye be not judged. 2 - For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 3 - And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam
that is in thine own eye? 4 - Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5 - Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the
mote out of thy brother’s eye.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. Not distinguishing between the "law of
God" and the "law of the house“(Mt. 15:7-9; 1 Jn. 5:3) Parenting 1
Matthew 15:7-97 - Ye hypocrites, well did Esaias prophesy of
you, saying, 8 - This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with
their lips; but their heart is far from me. 9 - But in vain they do worship me, teaching for
doctrines the commandments of men.
Parenting 1
1 John 5:3In these lay a great multitude of
impotent folk, of blind, halt, withered, waiting for the moving
of the water.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationship with the
child (2 Sam 14:28,29) Parenting 1
2 Samuel 14:28,2928 So Absalom dwelt two full years in
Jerusalem, and saw not the king’s face. 29 Therefore Absalom sent for Joab, to have sent
him to the king; but he would not come to him: and when he sent again the second time, he
would not come.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
1. This does not mean never upset a child 2. It does mean we should NOT incite wrath.3. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?
A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice
(Pr. 15:1; Eph. 4:29)
Parenting 1
Proverbs 15:1
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words
stir up anger.
Parenting 1
Ephesians 4:29Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister
grace unto the hearers.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding fault
(Pr. 11:9,11; 12:18; 18:21)Parenting 1
Proverbs 11:9,11An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the
just be delivered.
Parenting 1
Proverbs 12:18
There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.
Parenting 1
Proverbs 18:21
Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and
they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the story or
his opinion (Pr. 18:2,13, 17; Jas.1 :19)
Parenting 1
Proverbs 18:2, 13, 172 - A fool hath no delight in understanding, but
that his heart may discover itself. 13 - He that answereth a matter before he heareth
it, it is folly and shame unto him. 17 - He that is first in his own cause seemeth just;
but his neighbour cometh and searcheth him.
Parenting 1
James 1 :19Wherefore, my beloved
brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak,
slow to wrath
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the storyK. Failing to keep promises
(Mt. 5:37; Col. 3:9; Ps 15:4-5) Parenting 1
Matthew 5:37
But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than
these cometh of evil.
Parenting 1
Colossians 3:9
Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;
Parenting 1
Psalm 15:4-5
4 - In whose eyes a vile person is contemned; but he honoureth them that fear the LORD. He that sweareth to his own hurt, and changeth not. 5 - He that putteth not out his money to usury, nor
taketh reward against the innocent. He that doeth these things shall never be moved.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the storyK. Failing to keep promisesL. Disciplining the child in front of others (Mt. 18: 15)
Parenting 1
(Mt. 18: 15)Moreover if thy brother shall
trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him
alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the storyK. Failing to keep promisesL. Disciplining the child in front of othersM. Giving too much freedom (Pr. 29:15; Heb. 12:6-9)
Parenting 1
Proverbs 29:15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to
himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Parenting 1
Hebrews 12:6-96 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and
scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 But if ye be
without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. 9 Furthermore we have
had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the storyK. Failing to keep promisesL. Disciplining the child in front of othersM. Giving too much freedomN. Giving too little freedom (Lk. 12:48; 1 Cor. 13:11)
Parenting 1
Luke 12:48But he that knew not, and did commit things
worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will
ask the more.
Parenting 1
1 Corinthians 13:11When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I
became a man, I put away childish things.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the storyK. Failing to keep promisesL. Disciplining the child in front of othersM. Giving too much freedomN. Giving too little freedomO. Not admitting when they are wrong (Mt. 7:3-5)
Parenting 1
(Mt. 7:3-5)And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy
brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 4 Or how wilt thou say to thy
brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5 Thou
hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the
mote out of thy brother’s eye.
Parenting 1
Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger
Week 19
4. How do parents "provoke to anger"?A. Lack of marital harmonyB. Establishing and maintaining a child-centered homeC. Modeling sinful angerD. Being inconsistent with disciplineE. Being harder on the child's sins than your ownF. "law of God" and “law of the house”G. Failing to build a relationshipH. Abusive words, expressions, tone of voiceI. Constantly finding faultJ. Not listening to the child's side of the storyK. Failing to keep promisesL. Disciplining the child in front of othersM. Giving too much freedomN. Giving too little freedomO. Not admitting when they are wrong
Parenting 1
Questions
Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3
MARCH / MAY 2013
17.3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex18.4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies19.4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger20.4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up …21.5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord …22.5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord23.5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance24.5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear
Biblical Counseling
Basics
2012-2013
Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay
Ephesians 6:4
Biblical Parenting… provoke not your children to wrath …
Week 19