NEW WORLD OF OUR STUDENTS

Members of Social Media FamilyFacebook

Twitter You TubeWhatsApp

Media habits of students1. 1-2 hrs is the average time/day spent on Internet

2. 90% are on Facebook

3. 100-1000 Online friends are in their list

4. Only 10 friends are known to their family

5. 80% Upload their pics and informations Online6 70% feel that sharing information online is safe

7. When asked if they could stay away from FacebookAlmost everyone said Majak mat karo sir

8. Almost everyone has seen abusive words written for someone on facebook

9. 40% know about Chat rooms

Your Routine?

A day in a students Life Wake up early Check Whatsapp/Facebook

Go to shower - Think fresh STATUS

Go to School -

Assembly - Pray to God Give more LIKES

Classroom - Discussion about Whats trending

Back Home - Back In MY WORLD On Internet

Dinner

Good Night - Naaah . The Day starts

Games,Homework,Porn,relations,breakups. It all happens.

How students View Social MediaFor them it is the REAL WORLD

They try hard to keep a strong presence online

Everything in Virtual World is REAL

A LIKE on the pic can make his day . A Negative comment can make him think Am I too bad?

They dont want to miss out anything TRENDING

Student not having a FACEBOOK account is considered as Caveman , An alien From Planet Mars

Whats common between Real & Virtual worlds?

Do we know everything about their world?

Are we there to guide them?

Do they find us Smart enough to deal with their ONLINE issues?

ConcernsSharing too much informationCyberbullyingOnline grooming

Our Children share ONLINE Phone Number,Pics,Personal information

Creating Fake I.D on FacebookTo harassTo defame

Pictures can be Morphed /misused

Once you share its No longer Your Property

Sharing Location may put you in trouble

Freedom to ExpressWhat do u understand by it in

real life?

What do you understand by it in Cyber World?

Do words Matter?Cute

Smart

Intelligent

Silly

Duffer

loser

Crossing the line is the concern

How students misuse FacebookThey write bad words about each other

(abusive,threatning,defaming)

They form a group to target One boy/girl.

They make confession pages and motivate others to write .

They even dont mind writing about teachers.

What is CYBERBULLYINGWhen someone uses technology like the internet or a mobile phone, to deliberately hurt, humiliate, harass, intimidate or threaten someone else

Cyber bullying comes in many forms

Sending nasty or threatening texts or emails

Using social networking sites, chatrooms or Instant Messenger to post abusive messages and encouraging others to join in

Bad mouthing and spreading rumours online

Posting humiliating videos or pictures online, or sending them on to other people

Setting up a hate site or a hate group on a social networking site

Prank calling, prank texts and messages, sexting

Cyber bullying comes in many forms

How Cyberbullying affectsActivity

Its Effects on children-

Effects studies

Real fights

Depression

Suicidal thoughts

Suicides

How Cyberbullying will affect The SchoolStudent-Teacher relationship

Poor results

Image of the school tend to suffer

A single case may bring Police at your doorstep

Take Cyberbullying Seriously

VictimSave Evidence Dont erase or delete

Dont Keep it to yourself.

Dont reply or try to meet the offender

Call the police, if the cyber bullying involves threats of violence.

Victimiser Someone may take advantage of their Mistakes

Their not so Well-wishers may be pampering them to do Wrong

Their brother /sister/family may also be a target

Police action may ruin Public image

Witnessing it ?Dont Motivate the Bully- their LIKE may put them in trouble

Stand by The Victim- Give moral support

Report it to Teacher/Principal/Parents

The Great Online Friendship

Friendship Online

Friends

Close Friends Just like

that/StrangersMutual friends

How students come in contact with Strangers

Chat Rooms/Games

Room

PAGES they join/Like

Random Friend

Request

Why does a student pick GOOD FRIENDS from STRANGERS

Attention

Sympathy

Praised for his/her looks

Strangers make them feel like Prince/Princess

A stranger fills the emotional Gap between you/Parents and the student

ONLINE GROOMING Child Online grooming comprises actions deliberately undertaken with the aim of befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child but with wrong intentions

Some statsTimes of India Report

A large number of teenagers have shared mobile numbers ,addresses, even photos of themselves in Revealing clothes and a frightening large section -31% -has met Friends they made online

The Process of GroomingThey Gain childs confidence by offering positive attention & sympathy

Child starts sharing about his/her hopes, fears, feelings & family

They Chat/talk as per teens desire for romance, adventure etc

They then try to incline the child towards offensive chats

They ask the child to share pics in Revealing clothes

They invite him/her to meet ALONE

Real Cases in Schools

Grooming gone Bad

Your Role as a Teacher

Ask them to Never give out their personal details (eg name, address and school) or share personal information (including photos and videos) with strangers on the internet or via their mobile

Set their online profiles to private

Set rules for the use of webcam, digital cameras and camera phones

Encourage them to talk to you about anything that makes them feel uncomfortable online or on their mobile, such as a stranger making contact, and to save emails, texts and other evidence

If you think your student could be in immediate danger, report it to the local police too

How to open up with the students

Use their language and terminologies in the classroom

Make the above mentioned issues a part of your talk

Quote examples and show empathy towards victim and dislike towards the victimizer

Encourage to share any example if they know, earmark some time for this discussion.

Share that cyber bullying & online grooming is very common so that students do not feel singled out.

Focus more on shy and introvert students.