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Tibbi Hipnoz Dernegi To heal with the Perfection of the Beauty:
The Use of Hypnosis for the Perfection of the Soul and the Wellness of the Body
Duties and Virtues of the Beauty: Being Nice and Good.
(Kalos Kagathos)
Istanbul 23th November 2018
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Three Basic Needs (Rick Hanson)
Safety, security, (Brain Stem, motor and sensory systems)
Satisfaction, fulfilment (Subcortex, limbic system)
Connection, bonding and belonging (Neocortex, mammalian brain)
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Being Nice and Good: Aesthetics and Ethics
In the Greek philosophy BEAUTY was connected with GOOD, Aesthetics with Ethics.
Can we still find that connection today?
How hypnosis can help us connect the beautiful and the good that is in our patients' lives?
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Albert Schweitzer (1857-1965)
The little I can do is like a drop in the ocean,
but it is what gives meaning to my life
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Being Nice and Good
Being Nice and Good is a response based on the intention to govern the impulses of our human nature.
All that is human belongs to me
Terentius (190-159 b.C)
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Self Control
How hypnosis teaches to control our impulses?
Self control helps to be aware of the difference between:
reacting and responding
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Reacting vs Responding
A reaction is instant, “without thinking”.
It’s driven by the beliefs, biases, and prejudices of the
unconscious mind.
A reaction is based in the moment and doesn’t take into
consideration long term effects of what you do or say.
A reaction is survival-oriented and on some level a defense
mechanism
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Reacting vs Responding
A response it is slow.
It’s based on information from both the conscious mind and
unconscious mind.
A response is more “ecological”: it takes into consideration the
well-being of not only you but those around you.
A response weighs the long term effects and stays in line with
our core values.
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Viktor Frankl (1905-1997)
Between stimulus and response there is a space.
In that space is our power to choose our response.
In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
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What is Freedom?
Freedom is deciding and realizing that we are deciding
Moral is the set of behaviours that we consider valid
Ethics is the reflection on why we consider our behaviours valid
Are we really free?
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Jean Paul Sartre (1905-1980)
We are not free not to be free
We are condemned to be free and for this condemnation there is no amnesty
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Spiritual
Physiological
EmotionalCognitive
Behavioural
Stimulus/Answer
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VirtuesVirtues are a habitual and firm disposition to do the good
Cardinal Virtues:
Prudence: the ability to discern
Strength: Hardiness, Resilience: the ability to face difficulties
Temperance: the ability to gain self-control, moderation
Justice: the ability to be fair, righteousness
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VirtuesTheological Virtues:
Faith: belief in God, trust on universal and natural laws Hope: expectation of receiving, refraining from despair Charity: compassion, generosity, mercy, loving others
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Thomas Hora (1914-1995)
All the problems are psychological, but all solutions are spiritual
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Seven Acts of Mercy (Caravaggio, 1607)
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Seven Acts of Mercy
Bury the dead
Visit the imprisoned
Feed the hungry
Shelter the homeless
Visit the sick
Refresh the thirsty
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Fernando Savater (1947)
Four Principles of Morality
Philosophical Morality: be good for yourself, to respect the law
Religious Morality: be good for the love of God
Human Morality: be good because it increases our happiness, for self-love
Political Morality: be good to benefit the welfare of society
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Don’t Be Stupid
Stupid is the one who
• believes he does not want anything
• thinks he wants everything
• does not know what he wants and does not mind trying to understand it
• knows what he wants, he knows why he wants it, but he’s without energy, he’s frightening or weak
• wants fiercely, he is aggressive, does not stop at nothing but is not able to assess reality, and ends up exchanging for welfare what makes him feel bad
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Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592)
The pleasures of life must be kept with fingernails and teeth, because the years pass them off
from the hands one after the other
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Joseph
Joseph has problem in controlling his rage and has remorse
because he misused his freedom
His anger is a form of compensation for the abuses suffered
in the past
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Remorse
There is no worse punishment than to realize that one is
hindering with his acts what he really would like to be
Who is responsible is aware of the real content of his
freedom and is able to stop himself
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Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
I think the most important question facing humanity is:
Is the universe a friendly place?
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Joseph
Joseph wants to learn how to control his rage but
Joseph beliefs he has the right to defend himself, he is free to defend himself, no matter the consequences
Reaction and Remorse
I helped Joseph to put past wounds in the past and to concentrate on his resources of the present:
work, girlfriend, dogs, boxing Safety, Satisfaction, Connection
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STOP
Silence, simplicity, slowness
Take your time
Observe yourself with a
Positive attitude
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Joseph
Where the attention goes, the energy flows
I helped him to recognize the first symptoms of anger (and fear),
and to make a PAUSE
breathing in and out three times
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PAUSE
Prepare yourself to be present in the present moment, explore your
Affects regarding what you are feeling in the here and now
Understanding the
Sense, the meaning of what you are feeling and thinking in the here and now and
Elicit the resources you have to respond to the stimulus in an appropriate and efficient way
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Joseph
I helped Joseph to remember when he was able to control himself and to recognise the resources he utilised in that circumstances
When the driver was an old person he remembered his old father and felt compassion
I helped Joseph to HEAL past wounds asking him to enter in the compassion state
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HEAL
Have a connection with a positive state, with your compassion
Enrich your compassion with several examples
Absorb compassion into yourself
Link compassion with being calm and in control
Rick Hanson, Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness, Harmony Book, 2018
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Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860)
Our freedom to act begins when we become aware of
the limitation of this freedom
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Statue of Liberty
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Statue of Responsibility
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Eleonora
Eleonora comes to therapy for anxiety problems.
She doesn’t like herself because she is too strict with her 8 year old son
Eleonora fears that something bad may happen to her son
We worked with RAIN
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RAIN
Recognise what you fell and think
Allow it, accept it
Investigate the meaning of it
Nurture it
Tara Brach, Radical Acceptance: Embracing your Life with the Heart of a Buddha, Bantam Books, 2003
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Eleonora
Her father shot himself when Eleonora was 9 years old.
Her son has 8 years old
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Eleonora
We worked on the death of the father: accident or intentional suicide?.
We worked on the repercussions in her life: Depression of the mother, change home and neighborhood, her
wanting to be a good girl, her scholastic commitment: always be the best.
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Eleonora
Afterwords we worked on her early relationship with her son
She gave birth with a caesarean section
She had a postpartum depression
Lack of oxytocin, lack of bonding
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Eleonora
With a guided fantasy I invited her to imagine giving birth in a natural way and immediately embracing her son, skin to skin contact.
I invited Eleonora to see him, caress him, feel his heartbeat, its smell, listen to his voice
Elicit oxytocin
I see you, I love you …she repeats to her son
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Eleonora
Eleonora realises she reacts as if she were afraid.
Explore fear with RAIN
Fear of what?
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Eleonora
I invited Eleonora to exercise her emotional flexibility
The stimulus is the same and she is able to respond in different ways
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Eleonora
When she realised that the fear was not necessary anymore, Eleonora was ready to respond with other emotions such as
curiosity
surprise
trust
boredom
what else?
indifference
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Let’s Make a Pause
20 seconds of SILENCE
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15th ESH Congress of Clinical Hypnosis and Research BUILDING BRIDGES AND TRAVELLING CROSSROADS
26 –29 August, 2020 Basel, Switzerland
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