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Timber Monteith and Katelyn Regan
Positive Psychology
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Aims for the day
That you will leave with new ideas for improving your own happiness.
That you will leave with new ideas about how to help your children live meaningful, fulfilling, and happy lives.
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Origins of Positive Psychology
• Founder – Martin Seligman
• The following information comes from Seligman’s TED talk in 2004
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What is Positive Psychology
The study of healthy states such as happiness, strength of character and optimism
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What Positive Psychology is NOT!
• Does not follow the historical “Disease” model where doctors asked “What’s wrong with you?” and try to make the miserable less miserable.
3 problems with this model:• Doctors were victimologists & pathologists• Forgot about improving normal lives and capitalizing on
high talent• No interventions to make people happier
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3 Aims of Positive Psychology
1). As much concern with strengths as with weaknesses
2). As interested in building the best things in life as in repairing the worst.
3). As concerned with making the normal lives of people fulfilling and with nurturing high talent as with healing pathology.
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Food for thought… Question
Dr. Seligman studied the difference between extremely happy people and extremely miserable people. What do you think is the biggest difference?
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Answer…
Extremely happy people are very social.
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Three Happy LivesAccording to Seligman, there are three kinds of happy lives:
1). The Pleasant Life2). The Good Life3). The Meaningful Life
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The Pleasant Life – Experience as much positive emotion as possible– Raw feeling– Mindfulness (being in the moment)
But...– Heritable – Habituates (becomes less over time as it becomes habit)– Not very modifiable or maleable
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The Good Life
Flow versus pleasure; When you are in the flow, you don’t feel anything
You know your highest strengths and recraft your life to use them
– Love– Work– Play
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The Meaningful Life
Knowing your highest strengths and using them to belong to and provide service for
something larger than you are
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So What?
• The pursuit of your pleasure life has almost no impact on your overall happiness
• In order to to live a full and happy life– Attending to your “Good Life” and “Meaningful Life” will
have a positive impact on your “Pleasure Life”
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Positive Intervention #1
Design a beautiful day• Plan it• Savor it• Be mindful (be present) – If you live in the past,
you run the risk of becoming depressed. If you live in the future, you run the risk of becoming anxious.
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Positive Intervention #2Gratitude Visit
– Remember someone who did something enormously important for you
– Write a 300 word testimonial– Visit this person and read the testimonial
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Positive Intervention #3
Strength Date– Find out your partner’s or children’s strength, and
design a date around it.
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Seligman argues these 3 interventions have lasting impacts!!!
Lasting Impacts
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Dr. Seligman and colleagues recognized these as definitions of “positive individual traits” that are directly related to authentic happiness.
VIA Character Strengths
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What do you think are the 24 Character Strengths?
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• Creativity• Curiosity • Judgment & Open-
Mindedness• Love of Learning• Perspective• Bravery• Perseverance• Honesty• Zest/Energy• Capacity to Love and
Be Loved• Kindness• Social Intelligence• Teamwork• Fairness• Leadership• Forgiveness & Mercy• Modesty & Humility• Prudence• Self-Regulation• Appreciation of
Beauty and Excellence• Gratitude• Hope• Humor• Religiousness &
Spirituality
24 Character Strengths
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Sort your cards into 3 sections– Almost Always– Sometimes– Rarely or Never
Using the strengths in your “Almost Always” pile, put them in order.
Record top 3 strengths on an index card.
Sort your Strength Cards
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Find one or two other people in the room that share one of your top three strengths.
Share a time when you had to draw on this strength.
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Find someone who has a character strength that you do NOT have in your top 3.
Share a time when you drew on that strength.
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Look at your pile of “Rarely or Never Used” strengths
Share about a time that you had to use this strength.
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VIA Strengths Take the survey:
https://www.viame.org/survey/Account/Register?__utma=61228211.1713278055.1347802256.1347943319.1348099681.6&__utmb=61228211.1.10.1348099681&__utmc=61228211&__utmx=-&__utmz=61228211.1347887550.4.2.utmcsr=google|utmccn=%28organic%29|utmcmd=organic|utmctr=what%20is%20via%20strengths&__utmv=-&__utmk=259059277
There is both an adult and Children's version.
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Sometimes your character strengths can be the reason why you get upset about something.
Character Strengths as Red Hot Buttons
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• Have your child do the same activity and talk about his/her strengths.
• Choose the top five strengths for your child and see what are the similarities and differences.
• Have your child choose your top five strengths.
• At the end of each week, have everyone in the family choose a strength that someone else in the family exhibited.
• Use these strengths as conversation points when you child is struggling.
How can you use these at Home?
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• Similar conversations with students at school when meeting in small groups or one-on-one.
• Part of our “Response to Intervention” model.– Often times our interventions are based on a
student’s strengths.
How do we use these at School?
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Understanding and developing your strengths is part of thriving in life and being happy.
Living Your Best Life
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6 Thrive Centers
• They are the physical, social and psychological areas of our lives that have the greatest influence on our well-being
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Community“More than income, education level, or religion, the place where you live determines your level of happiness”
Find Community Space – a place were you can interact comfortably with othersBe comfortable with things in walking distance – get to know your neighborhood Find a sense of safety – you want the outdoors to draw you out not keep you inside
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Work PlaceThe Right Job – find a job that challenges you at the right level
Avoid Long Commutes - “People who commute an hour to work each way would need a 40% increase in their monthly wage to be as satisfied with their life as people who walk to the office.”
Don’t skip vacations!
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Social Life• Determine positive friends – make sure you are spending time with your
positive friends (even though it seems like your more negative friends need you)
• Create a group of mutually committed friends – ones that will stick with you through time and distance (*hint: look to your past)
• Marry the Right Person – And keep your marriage alive with positive energy
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Financial Life
• Lets be real– money buys a lot
Focus on long-term investments verses instant gratification – teach your children to work for money and save
Avoid debt
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Your Home Hang up the pictures
Grow a Garden - “Several studies show that gardening lowers stress hormones. Hoeing, planting, weeding, fertilizing and harvesting all include regular, low-intensity, range-of-motion- exercise.”
Allow space to engage in your hobbies
Optimize Your Bedroom for Sleep – get rid of the other stuff
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SelfRecognize and acknowledge your gifts and talents
Personal Mission Statement - what drives you and what are your goals
Develop people skills – how to be a friend and how to handle tricky situations
Volunteer
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What are you going to do in the next week to ensure you are thriving in each of these 6 areas?
How are you going to use the strength cards?
Conclusion
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Something to take away“Attitude, not aptitude, determines your altitude”
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Please write down any future Counselor Coffee topics you would like to learn about.
Thank you!
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