1. Define the problem clearly from both points of view.2. State what you can agree on.3. Brainstorm together over all of the possible alternatives to the problem.
4. State what changes each of you is personally willing to make to arrive at a solution.5. Summarize the best solution you have considered.
COMMUNICATIONConflict Resolution Skills
How to Deal with Disagreements
RESPECT
On a practical level respect includes taking someone's feelings, needs, thoughts, ideas, wishes and preferences into consideration.
It means taking all of these seriously and giving them worth and value. In fact, giving someone respect seems similar to valuing them and their thoughts, feelings, etc.
It also includes acknowledging them, listening to them, being truthful with them, and accepting their individuality and idiosyncrasies.
What does love mean to you?
What is the difference between truly being in love and infatuation?
Always remember sex does not = love!