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INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
CHAPTER TEN RELATIONSHIPS PART 1
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OUR BIG JUMP
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OUR BIG JUMP
COMMUNICATION
FOUNDATIONS
SKILLS
RELATIONSHIPS
ACQUAINTANCES
FRIENDSHIP
ROMANCE
FAMILY
WORKPLACE
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WHY THIS CHAPTER?
• THIS CHAPTER SERVES AS A TRANSITION BETWEEN THE DISCUSSIONS OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION AS A CONCEPT AND INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION AS APPLIED IN RELATIONSHIPS
• IT EXPLAINS SOME GENERAL MECHANICS OF HOW RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION WORKS
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WHAT IS AN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP?
WHAT IS THE ROLE OF CHOICE IN DEVELOPING AN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP?
HOW DO WE FORM RELATIONSHIPS?
HOW DO RELATIONSHIPS DETERIORATE?
QUESTIONS PRESENTED BY THIS CHAPTER
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PREVIEW: INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED TYPES OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS GENESIS: ATTRACTION STAGES OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS THEORIES OF DEVELOPMENT OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
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DEFINITION
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INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED
PERCEPTION SHARED BY TWO PEOPLE OF AN ONGOING INTERDEPENDENT
CONNECTION THAT RESULTS IN THE DEVELOPMENT OF RELATIONAL EXPECTATIONS AND VARIES IN
INTERPERSONAL INTIMACY
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SHARED PERCEPTION
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED
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SHARED PERCEPTION
BOTH PARTNERS
SHARE PERCEPTION OF ONGOING
RELATIONSHIP
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED
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ONGOING INTERDEPENDENT
CONNECTION
PARTNERS RELY ON EACH OTHER TO
MEET NEEDS
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP DEFINED
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RELATIONAL EXPECTATIONS
AN UNDERSTANDING
ABOUT WHAT THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE LIKE BASED ON PRIOR EXPERIENCE
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP DEFINED
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VARIES IN INTERPERSONAL
INTIMACY
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED
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INTERPERSONAL INTIMACY
DEGREE TO WHICH RELATIONAL PARTNERS MUTUALLY ACCEPT AND
CONFIRM EACH OTHER'S SENSE OF SELF.
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED
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TYPES OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
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WE LOOK AT TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS IN
TWO WAYS:
ARE THEY BY CHOICE OR CIRCUMSTANCE?
AND
WHAT ROLE DOES
POWER PLAY IN THE RELATIONSHIP?
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RELATIONSHIP OF CIRCUMSTANCE
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP THAT EXISTS BECAUSE OF LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES (WHO YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS ARE, WHERE YOU
WORK OR STUDY, AND SO ON)
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RELATIONSHIPS OF CHOICE
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP YOU CHOOSE TO INITIATE, MAINTAIN, AND, PERHAPS,
TERMINATE.
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CIRCUMSTANCE OR CHOICE?
1. NOT MUTUALLY
EXCLUSIVE
2. ALL RELATIONSHIPS BEGIN WITH CIRCUMSTANCE
IN SOME WAYS
3. WE MOVE TOWARD AND AWAY FROM INTIMATE
RELATIONSHIPS THROUGH BOTH CHOICE AND
CIRCUMSTANCE
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CIRCUMSTANCE OR CHOICE?
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CIRCUMSTANCE OR CHOICE?
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CIRCUMSTANCE OR CHOICE?
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CIRCUMSTANCE OR CHOICE?
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GENESIS OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS:
ATTRACTION
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INTERPERSONAL ATTRACTION
THE DEGREE TO WHICH YOU WANT TO FORM OR MAINTAIN AN INTERPERSONAL
RELATIONSHIP
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SHORT TERM INITIAL ATTRACTION
DEGREE TO WHICH YOU SENSE A POTENTIAL FOR DEVELOPING AN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
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LONG-TERM MAINTENANCE ATTRACTION
DEGREE OF LIKING OR POSITIVE FEELINGS THAT MOTIVATE US TO
MAINTAIN OR ESCALATE A RELATIONSHIP
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I WILL ASSESS A RELATIONSHP
FOR THE POTENTIAL TO
MEET MY NEEDS
(REWARD EXCEEDS COSTS)
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WHAT LEADS TO ATTRACTION?
IN SHORT TERM?
IN LONG TERM?
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FACTORS FOR SHORT TERM ATTRACTION:
PROXIMITY-PHYSICAL
NEARNESS
PHYSICAL APPEARANCE-
NONVERBAL CUES THAT ALLOW US TO
ASSESS RELATIONSHIP
POTENTIAL
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FACTORS FOR LONG TERM ATTRACTION:
COMPETENCE,
INTELLIGENCE, AND CREDIBILITY
SELF-DISCLOSURE AND
RECIPROCATION OF LIKING
SIMILARITIES
DIFFERENCES AND
COMPLEMENTARY NEEDS
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STAGES OF INTERPERSONAL
RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT
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RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT
RELATIONAL DEVELOPMENT:
MOVEMENT OF A
RELATIONSHIP FROM ONE STAGE TO ANOTHER, EITHER TOWARD OR
AWAY FROM GREATER INTIMACY
TURNING POINT:
SPECIFIC EVENT OR INTERACTION
ASSOCIATED WITH A POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE
CHANGE IN A RELATIONSHIP
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TWO DIRECTIONS OF RELATIONAL DEVELOPMENT
RELATIONAL ESCALATION
RELATIONAL DE-ESCALATION
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RELATIONAL ESCALATION
PREINTERACTION AWARENESS ACQUAINTANCE EXPLORATION INTENSIFICATION INTIMACY
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PRE INTERACTION AWARENESS
TO OBSERVE OR TALK ABOUT SOMEONE WITHOUT DIRECT
INTERACTION
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ACQUAINTANCE
INTRODUCTIONS AND CASUAL BANTER
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EXPLORATION
SHARING OF MORE IN-DEPTH INFORMATION, LITTLE PHYSICAL CONTACT, MAINTAIN SOCIAL DISTANCE,
LIMIT TIME SPENT TOGETHER (INTERESTS, HOBBIES, WHERE YOU GREW UP, WHAT YOUR FAMILIES ARE
LIKE)
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INTENSIFICATION
BEGIN TO DEPEND ON EACH OTHER FOR SELF CONFIRMATION AND ENGAGE IN MORE RISKY SELF
DISCLOSURE (MORE TIME TOGETHER, MORE PHYSICAL CONTACT, REDEFINE RELATIONSHIP-"BEST
FRIENDS", DATE EXCLUSIVELY, ETC.)
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INTIMACY
TURN TO EACH OTHER FOR CONFIRMATION AND ACCEPTANCE OF
SELF CONCEPT
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RELATIONAL ESCALATION
PREINTERACTION AWARENESS ACQUAINTANCE EXPLORATION INTENSIFICATION INTIMACY
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RELATIONAL DE-ESCALATION
MOVEMENT OF A RELATIONSHIP AWAY FROM INTIMACY THROUGH FIVE STAGES: TURMOIL OR STAGNATION DEINTENSIFICATION INDIVIDUALIZATION SEPARATION POST SEPARATION
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TURMOIL OR STAGNATION
INCREASE IN CONFLICT, DEFINITION OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS UNCLEAR, MUTUAL
ACCEPTANCE DECLINES, PHYSICAL CONTACT AND COMMUNICATION
DECREASE
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DEINTENSIFICATION
DECREASED INTERACTIONS, INCREASED PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, AND
PSYCHOLOGICAL DISTANCE, FUTURE OF RELATIONSHIP IS QUESTIONED
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INDIVIDUALIZATION
LIVES DEFINED AS INDIVIDUALS AND NOT AS COUPLE ("MINE" AND "YOURS"
"YOU" AND "ME")
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SEPARATION
INTENTIONAL DECISION TO ELIMINATE OR MINIMIZE FURTHER INTERPERSONAL
INTERACTION
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POST-SEPARATION EFFECTS
LASTING EFFECTS OF RELATIONSHIP ON YOUR INTERACTIONS AND RELATIONSHIPS
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"GRAVE-DRESSING"
CREATING A PUBLIC STATEMENT FOR PEOPLE WHO ASK WHY WE BROKE UP AND TO COME TO GRIPS WITH LOSING
THE RELATIONSHIP
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RELATIONAL DE-ESCALATION
TURMOIL OR STAGNATION DEINTENSIFICATION INDIVIDUALIZATION SEPARATION POST-SEPARATION EFFECTS
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THEORIES OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT
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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
PEOPLE MAKE RELATIONSHIP DECISIONS BY ASSESSING AND COMPARING THE COSTS
AND REWARDS
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DIALECTICAL THEORY
RELATIONSHIPS DEVELOP AS PART OF OPPOSING TENSIONS WITHIN: WE WANT TO BE BOTH CONNECTED AND INDEPENDENT WE WANT BOTH PREDICTABILITY AND NOVELTY WE WANT TO BE OPEN AND CLOSED
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SOCIAL PENETRATION THEORY
INCREASES IN INTIMACY ARE CONNECTED TO INCREASES IN SELF-
DISCLOSURE (HOW MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF HAVE YOU DISCLOSED TO
SOMEONE ELSE?)
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SUMMARY: INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED TYPES OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS GENESIS: ATTRACTION STAGES OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS THEORIES OF DEVELOPMENT OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS