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HANDLINGHANDLINGHANDLINGHANDLINGTHE LOSSESTHE LOSSESTHE LOSSESTHE LOSSES
OF LIFEOF LIFEOF LIFEOF LIFEDr. William Young, MFT,LPC,CPT
Author, The Mourning AfterSenior Pastor, The Healing Center
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Granger Westberg, Author of Good G i f G i f i GOOD bGrief says Grief is GOOD because…..
W t f i f i t li htl We come out of our grief experience at a slightly higher level of maturity than beforeWe come out of our grief as deeper persons, We come out of our grief as deeper persons, because we have been down in the depths of despair and know what it is likeW t f it t f h h d t l We come out of it stronger, for we have had to learn how to use our spiritual muscles to climb the rugged mountain trailsWe come out of it better able to help others. We have walked through the valley of the shadow of grief. We can understandWe can understand.
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“B t I ld t h t b“But, I would not have you to be ignorant brethren concerning them g gwhich are asleep, that ye sorrow
t th hi h hnot, even as others which have no hope.”p
1 Thessalonians 5:13
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DEFINING GRIEF
A set of emotions A set of emotions that result from that result from
any significant lossany significant loss
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ATTACHMENT THEORYTHEORY & LOSS
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GRIEVING ISGRIEVING IS…NORMALNORMALNATURALNATURAL
NECESSARYNECESSARY
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4 TYPES4 TYPES OFOF
LOSSESLOSSES
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11A loved one through g
death, divorce, or separationp
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22Some aspect of the “self”
th h h lth t l ithrough health, mental image, or “self-definition”or self definition
(occupation, social role, status)
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33External Objects: such as money, home, homeland or t d i (treasured possession (even
a dog or cat)a dog or cat)
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44Development—teeth, vision, hearing, hair,
position in family or the liklike
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MISCARRIAGEMISCARRIAGE &&
ABORTIONABORTION
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DIVORCE &&
SEPARATIONSEPARATION
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AGINGAGING &&
RETIREMENT
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HEALTHHEALTH&&
BODY IMAGEBODY IMAGE
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EFFECTSOFOF
WARWAR
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SPECIAL LOSSES
HOMICIDEHOMICIDE&&
SUICIDESU C
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ANTICIPATORY GRIEFGRIEF
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STAGESSTAGES IN THE GRIEFGRIEF
PROCESS
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STAGE 1
ACCEPT THEACCEPT THE REALITYREALITY
OF THE LOSS
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STAGE 2STAGE 2
EXPERIENCE THE PAINTHE PAIN
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STAGE 3STAGE 3
ADJUST TO NEWADJUST TO NEW OENVIRONMENT
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STAGE 4STAGE 4
REINVESTREINVEST ENERGY ANEWENERGY ANEW
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Resource Centers For HelpThe Crisis Center
1-800-SUICIDE/1-800-784-2433Or (901) 274-7477 (24 Hours Day)
Teenage Grief, Inc.1-805-253-1932
Website: www.smartlink.net/~tag
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Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors1-800-959-TAPS
Grieving Widow and Widowers1-888-999-5838
Parents of Murdered Children1-888-818-POMC
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Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD)Victim Hotline: 1800-GET-MADD
Website: www.madd.org
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E ti l Fit C tEmotional Fitness Centers of Tennesseeof Tennessee
A FAITH BASED APPROACH-A FAITH BASED APPROACH-Churches combating emotional distress in our g
Communities…
Providing HELP and HOPE:Providing HELP and HOPE:
(901) 370-HOPE (4673)(901) 370-HOPE (4673)