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December and January = Endings and Beginnings We end a calendar year, we begin another. On Christ the King Sunday (in late November) we end a Church liturgical cycle, in Advent we begin anoth- er. We look back over what has been done or left undone, we look forward to what we are yet called to do. It seems to me that the wisdom in looking back (aside from nostalgia and simply giving thanks for warm memories) is to learn lessons that only history can teach. George Santayana was correct when he observed that, “Those who fail to learn the lessons of history are doomed to repeat them.” What have I learned over these past twelve months that can equip me for better, brighter, or more meaningful life in the twelve months now upon our doorsteps? What have I learned from the ghosts of Christmases past that can help me discover the rich and true meanings of this new season? What have I observed in 2014 that can equip me for more authentic living in 2015? Were there hurts I inadvertently inflicted upon others via a thoughtless word or a poorly considered deed? Will those memories inspire me to offer apolo- gies? To seek to restore fractured relationships? To think more prayerfully in the future before putting mouth in gear or actions in place? Were there human needs I witnessed, but to which I did not respond? If those needs still exist, will I seize a second chance to do something or say something or give something that can help someone? And personally, did I experience sufficient fatigue to impair joy in the past year? Will that prompt me to rest or exercise more in the year ahead? Did I carry such stress that life often felt more like a burden than a blessing? Will that encourage me to pray more, to allow friends to help me more, or to cre- ate more opportunities for Sabbath in the coming twelve months? Did I feel a need for additional time with family or close friends? If so, they probably feel the same. Will that lead me to re-examine priorities, to re-configure calendars, and to devote more time to those I love? (As the old adage goes, “Few people in their last moments think, `I wish I had spent more time at the office’!”) Christmas is upon us, and a week after - ward comes the New Year. “Behold, I make all things new,” the biblical message pro- claims. So, how about us? Will we let God make that happen for us? Do we desire that freshness of perspec- tive, that metamorphosis into something rich and full, that promise of meaning and joy? God’s offer of new- ness (fresh starts and second chances) to a great extent depends upon our looking back to learn lessons and our moving forward to put those lessons into positive practice. Though preached so often that we frequently hear the words without listening to the message, there is wisdom in pondering Matthew’s statement about the Wise Men after they found Jesus in Bethlehem. “And they departed to their own country by another way.” There are new ways of approaching the future, better, bolder, brighter, more beautiful ways. In this special season, may the Christ of Bethlehem help us discover them. SUNDAY WORSHIP, 11AM DR. MICHAeL B. BROWN Senior Minister preaching* Advent Sermon Series “Who Are We Waiting For?” Special Music at 10:45am each Sunday in Advent DECEMBER 7* Second Sunday in Advent We Wait for One Who Comes with GRACE Isaiah 40:1–11 DECEMBER 14* Third Sunday in Advent We Wait for One Who Comes with PEACE Psalm 126 DECEMBER 21* Fourth Sunday in Advent We Wait for One Who Comes to REIGN Luke 1:26–35 DECEMBER 28 God Like Us and Us Like God Genesis 1:26-28; Matthew 1:23 Rev. Shari K. Brink, preaching WEDNESDAY WORSHIP 6:15PM (Every week except Dec. 24 & 31) JAZZ REVELATION 6:15 PM First & Third Fridays CHRISTMAS EVE & NEW YEAR’S EVE SERVICES Please see page 3. January Sermon Listing Please see page 2. One West 29th Street, New York, New York 10001-4596 www.MarbleChurch.org 212-686-2770 212-685-0706 fax UPDATE MARBLE COLLEGIATE CHURCH Dr. Michael Brown DEC 2014-JAN 2015 Advent Inspirations at www.MarbleChurch.org At the Heart of Christmas — A highlight of any Advent is Sr. Carol Perry’s devotional booklet. At the Heart of Advent is also available online. Women’s Blog for Advent — Marble Women’s Ministry shares a creative journey to Christmas in this daily blog. Worship Without Walls in Advent — Dr. Brown will address The Four Birth Narratives as told by Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. What are the similarities, and why are there differences? Watch these messages beginning Thursday, December 4. This brief online Worship is designed for busy people – watch when you want, wherever you are. A new message posted each Thursday. MARBLE MATTERS SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND EDUCATION OPPORTUNITIES TO SERVE CALENDAR OF EVENTS MARBLE MATTERS 1-7 7-8 8-9 9-11 11-12 MARBLE UPDATE INDEX

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Page 1: Coll MARblE EgiAtE utPda E ChURCh Men after they found Jesus in Bethlehem. ... sr. carol Perry’s devotional ... grind ourselves to death making all the festivities and

December and January = Endings and BeginningsWe end a calendar year, we begin another.

On Christ the King Sunday (in late November) we end a Church liturgical cycle, in Advent we begin anoth-er. We look back over what has been done or left undone, we look forward to what we are yet called to do.

It seems to me that the wisdom in looking back (aside from nostalgia and simply giving thanks for warm memories) is to learn lessons that only history can teach. George Santayana was correct when he observed that, “Those who fail to learn the lessons of history are doomed to repeat them.” What have I learned over these past twelve months that can equip me for better, brighter, or more meaningful life in the twelve months now upon our doorsteps? What have I learned from the ghosts of Christmases past that can help me discover the rich and true meanings of this new season? What have I observed in 2014 that can equip me for more authentic living in 2015?

Were there hurts I inadvertently inflicted upon others via a thoughtless word or a poorly considered deed? Will those memories inspire me to offer apolo-gies? To seek to restore fractured relationships? To think more prayerfully in the future before putting mouth in gear or actions in place? Were there human needs I witnessed, but to which I did not respond? If those needs still exist, will I seize a second chance to do something or say something or give something that can help someone?

And personally, did I experience sufficient fatigue to impair joy in the past year? Will that prompt me to

rest or exercise more in the year ahead? Did I carry such stress that life often felt more like a burden than a blessing? Will that encourage me to pray more, to

allow friends to help me more, or to cre-ate more opportunities for Sabbath in the coming twelve months? Did I feel a need for additional time with family or close friends? If so, they probably feel the same. Will that lead me to re-examine priorities, to re-configure calendars, and to devote more time to those I love? (As the old adage goes, “Few people in their last moments think, `I wish I had spent more time at the office’!”)

Christmas is upon us, and a week after-ward comes the New Year. “Behold, I make

all things new,” the biblical message pro-claims. So, how about us? Will we let God make that happen for us? Do we desire that freshness of perspec-tive, that metamorphosis into something rich and full, that promise of meaning and joy? God’s offer of new-ness (fresh starts and second chances) to a great extent depends upon our looking back to learn lessons and our moving forward to put those lessons into positive practice. Though preached so often that we frequently hear the words without listening to the message, there is wisdom in pondering Matthew’s statement about the Wise Men after they found Jesus in Bethlehem. “And they departed to their own country by another way.” There are new ways of approaching the future, better, bolder, brighter, more beautiful ways. In this special season, may the Christ of Bethlehem help us discover them.

SUNDAy WoRShip, 11AM DR. MICHAeL B. BROWNSenior Minister preaching*

Advent Sermon Series “Who Are We Waiting For?” Special Music at 10:45am each Sunday in Advent

DECEMbER 7*Second Sunday in AdventWe Wait for One Who Comes with GRACE Isaiah 40:1–11

DECEMbER 14* Third Sunday in AdventWe Wait for One Who Comes with PEACEPsalm 126

DECEMbER 21*Fourth Sunday in AdventWe Wait for One Who Comes to REIGNLuke 1:26–35

DECEMbER 28 God Like Us and Us Like GodGenesis 1:26-28; Matthew 1:23Rev. Shari K. Brink, preaching

WEDNESDAy WoRShip 6:15pM(Every week except Dec. 24 & 31)

JAzz REVElAtioN6:15 pM First & Third Fridays

ChRiStMAS EVE & NEW yEAR’S EVE SERViCESPlease see page 3.

January Sermon listing

Please see page 2.

One West 29th Street, New York, New York 10001-4596 www.Marblechurch.org 212-686-2770 212-685-0706 fax

uPdatEMARblE CollEgiAtE

ChURCh

Dr. Michael brown

dEc 2014-JaN 2015

Advent Inspirations at www.MarbleChurch.orgAt the heart of Christmas — A highlight of any Advent is sr. carol Perry’s devotional booklet. At the Heart of Advent is also available online.

Women’s blog for Advent — Marble Women’s Ministry shares a creative journey to Christmas in this daily blog.

Worship Without Walls in Advent — Dr. Brown will address the Four birth Narratives as told by Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. What are the similarities, and why are there differences? Watch these messages beginning thursday, december 4. This brief online Worship is designed for busy people – watch when you want, wherever you are. A new message posted each Thursday.

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oppoRtUNitiES to SERVE

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JaNuarY 2015SUNDAy WoRShip, 11AM DR. MICHAeL B. BROWN*

JANUARy 4* Three Kings Sunday

Two Roads DivergedMatthew 2:1-12 JANUARy 11Tri-Faith / Trialogue Service

JANUARy 18* MLK Sunday

A Light in the DarknessMatthew 5:9-16 JANUARy 25* Stewardship Sunday

CommencementMark 1:16-20

Re / M A R K /sBy Dr. R. Mark King

My family, my friends and my colleagues all cringe when they hear me publicly announce that I just don’t like Christmas. Now as you are reading, perhaps you now cringe. I think in many ways, we’ve lost Christmas. Yes, I speak in part of the commercialism that has overcome the holiday spirit but I also speak in part of the pressure we put on making Christmas sentimental and wistful as well as the pressure to make each and every Christmas “perfect” and memorable. We spend way too much money and we grind ourselves to death making all the festivities and attending all the events. How often do we say on December 26 “Well, Christmas is over” and yet if we are honest, we breathe a sigh of relief?

Now, don’t think I am ebenezer Scrooge. How often do we forget that Scrooge was redeemed at the end of the story and became a changed man? Prior to his supernatural visitations, though, Scrooge hated all of life and that is not me. Nor am I like Charlie Brown who goes seeking five cents psychiatric help over the overly commercialism of Christmas and only until Linus shares the biblical story does Charlie “get it.” I think I get it. Jesus is the “reason for the season.” I earnestly desire to “put Christ back into Christmas.” Yet, the feelings, the nostalgia, the hype that we so associate with Christmas can be evasive and down-right depressing.

Sometimes I think the answer might be to have Christmas every four years, like we do elections. But then the stores would start promoting the year before

and by the date itself, like elections, we will be so tired of all the associated selling and advertising, we will again be glad for normalcy.

Yes, I am being a downer. Yet, many do get depressed this time of year. It is winter and the days are shorter and the nights longer. The cold in the air can be brutal. We never have enough money to make all the grand purchases we want or need. So what do we do?

We have Advent and then we have Christmas. Yes, we just do it. We DO IT. And somehow, some way, we find a moment to cherish this wonderful holi-day in which God became one of us. I will tell you my secret. It usually ALWAYS happens. I find Christmas and all the wonder associated that warms my heart, on Christmas eve. Yes, Christmas eve. I usually attend, somewhere, a worship service close to the midnight hour. I sing the carols; I take Holy Communion; I listen to the biblical saga again; I pray for world peace; and I worship. Then when I leave, because it is usually after midnight, I realize it is Christmas Day. All the stores are closed and all the perfunctory parties are done. It’s now family or cherished friends. And God brings a new day and then very soon a New Year.

Anyway, that’s how I find Christmas. How do you? Shall we try yet again another year? May God bless us everyone.

Advent & Christmas at MarbleMUSIC FOR ADVeNT & CHRISTMASMUSiC pRElUDESSundays, November 30, December 7, 14 & 21 10:45am

During Advent, arrive for Worship early for beauti-ful music in the Sanctuary. Generously underwritten by Lynda Packard in honor of her parents, Lynn and John Packard.SURpRiSED by Joythe Marble Choir, festival of Voices, and Chamber orchestra, directed by Kenneth DakeSunday, December 7 | 2:30pm

Invite your friends to share in this musical jour-ney to experience the true meaning of Advent and Christmas. You won’t want to miss this highlight of Marble’s Concerts as the Sanctuary is bathed in the glow of candlelight and the warmth of profoundly beautiful music. **Seating will be limited this year

due to Sanctuary construc-tion – advance purchase is encouraged.**

ADMISSION: $60 reserved seat (advance purchase only) $35 general admission at the door (pending avail-ability); $25 student/seniors at the door; 5 discount for advance pur-chase (does not apply to reserved seats)

Order tickets online with credit card at www.Marblechurch.org, or contact Siobhan Tull ([email protected]). Please note: advance pricing ends at 9:00am, Friday, december 5.

Dr. R. Mark KingExecutive Minister

Advent & Christmas at Marble

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CElEbRAtE thE CREAtiVE SpiRitSunday, December 7 | 12:15-2:00pm

Invite your friends and neighbors for this day that includes a blessing of the Artists during 11am Worship, followed by our Artisans’ boutique. Support Marble artists while doing some of your Christmas shopping. This year’s boutique will feature hand-crafted jewelry, photog-raphy, knitted items and more. Sweet and savory treats can be purchased from our bake Sale as you wait for the concert, free hot beverages. A fine arts exhibit is also featured. Preview sale, 10:00-11:00am. Proceeds from artisans’ rental fees and bake sale go to a local charity.ChRiStMAS bRUNChSunday, December 21 | 12:15pm

All are welcome to enjoy warm fellowship and a delicious Christmas Brunch with all the trimmings in the Marble Loft (274 Fifth Ave). $20, adults; $10, children. reservations are required; reserve early at www.Marblechurch.org or with Siobhan Tull ([email protected]).The ChrisTmas angel audiTions: A Cyf plAySunday, December 21 | 2:00pm

everyone is invited to cheer on the children, youth, and families for their annual Christmas play written by Brian Hampton with special music by Michael Finke. This shows off the talents of our children and teens and tells the story of the Angel Gabriel who is desperate to “cast” the angel who will tell the Shepherds of Jesus’ birth. So, there’s an audition in Heaven! Who will get the big part? Who will have what it takes to get the Shepherds’ attention? You’ll have to come and find out! Admission, free.

ChRiStMAS EVE WoRShipWednesday, December 24

4:00pm – Merry christmas, NYc!This family-friendly service is for anyone who

wants to celebrate Christmas eve with a playful heart and remember the reason for the season in this big city of ours! The story of Christmas will be told by Rev. Kirsty DePree and Brian Hampton with a little help from some friends—including volunteers from the audience! Followed by a birthday party for Jesus in the Marble Loft.

6:30 & 8:30pm – We Wait for one Who comes to us (Luke 2:1–20)

Meditation by Dr. Michael B. Brown. Festive Coffee Hour in the Marble Loft between the ser-vices at 7:45pm. Holy Communion celebrated at 8:30pm service. Childcare provided for both services. Preceding Worship, Kenneth Dake directs The Marble Choir, with brass ensemble, in joyful music at 6:10 and 8:10pm.NEW yEAR’S EVE WoRShipWednesday, December 31 | 7:30pmas Good as it Gets? (Acts 11:19-26)

Dr. R. Mark King, preaching; Chris Whittaker, music. A special Jazz Revelation service in the Sanctuary. Holy Communion. Followed by a festive reception in the Marble Loft. Childcare provided.ChRiStMAS poiNSEttiAS

Poinsettias decorating our Sanctuary at Christmas are made possible by the contributions of members and friends in honor or memory of those they love. The name of each donor, along with the person hon-ored, is listed in the Sunday bulletin on December 21. To pay tribute to someone in your life while adding to the beauty of the Sanctuary, please return the Christmas Poinsettias card (in the pew racks) with your contribution by sunday, december 7.

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CoNgREgAtioNAl CARE – “REMEMbER, WE’RE hERE foR yoU!”

Helen Stackon resides in an assisted living facility in Westchester. She misses her Marble fam-ily and is always happy to have visitors and frequent phone calls. This is a picture of my visit to Helen last Christmas; she was very appreciative; we prayed together, talked about new programs and activities at Marble and she asked about her many Marble friends. – Janet Smith

For opportunities on how YOU can be involved with Congregational Care Initiatives, please see page 9.

Janet Smith, Social Worker, and Helen Stackon

Staff for this issue:

EdItors:Karla Fritsch catherine ortiz

Photos: dave cross Jay Johnson siobhan tull robert romagnoli Karla Fritsch

GraPhIc dEsIGN: beth Player-dicicco

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In the Marble SpotlightREAffiRMAtioN of VoWSSunday, January 4 | 12:30pm

All couples welcome to join us for this annual ceremony in the Sanctuary led by Dr. R. Mark King. Register online at www.Marblechurch.org. Childcare available.ReMeMBeRING, ReFLeCTING, ReCONCILINGJoURNEyS of hopE, fAith AND loVE – A SERiES oN DiVERSity

Our series continues with this special Marble tradition! Multi-faith: our Annual trialogueSunday, January 11 | 11:00am

Marble has a rich history of participating in interfaith activities and one of the highlights is our “Trialogue” under the leadership of Dr. Michael Brown. The focus of the service is a conversation among spiritual leaders of three faiths: Christianity, Judaism, and Islam. Ask a friend to join you for this unique and memorable worship experience. We will also have a special Spiritual Growth Hour when the conversation will continue, after Worship at 1:15pm. See page 8.

For more about diversity, read Rev. Shari Brink’s article on page 5 and stay tuned to www.Marblechurch.org/diversityseries for details on upcoming events in our series.MARblE CoMMUNity goSpEl ChoiR CoNCERtSunday, January 18 | 2:30pm

Under the inspirational direction of Djoré Nance Marble’s award-winning gospel choir presents their annual performance honoring the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Admission: $20, at the door / $15, seniors. Save $5 when ordered in advance online with credit card at www.Marblechurch.org, or contact Siobhan Tull ([email protected]).

WEEKDAy WoRShip iN thE MARblE loftHave you joined us recently for one, or both,

of our unique and relaxed Worship services at 274 Fifth Ave? WeWo: Wednesday WorshipEvery Week | 6:15pm

Give your spirit a mid-week boost through this joyful atmosphere of worship, music and prayer. Jazz RevelationFirst & Third Fridays | 6:15pm

Kick off your weekend with a relevant message coupled with an authentic connection to the spirit through jazz.

MARblE MUSiC NEXt DooROur unique Marble Loft salon concert series offers

a wide spectrum of musical styles. Guided by co-artistic directors Tami Petty and Sarah Griffiths, each performance is hosted by Ken Dake at the keyboard and features a roster of New York’s finest young singers from The Marble Choir, along with amazing instrumentalists and guest vocalists.

Tickets available at the door: $20 general admission/$10 students & seniors. Visit www.Marblechurch.org/Music for more details.Still i RiSE: ViSioNARy VoiCESMusic and words that inspire changeThursday, January 29 | 7:30pm

tRAVEliNg thRoUgh thE StoRMFrom arias to Appalachian folk tunesThursday, March 12 | 7:30pmCoNtEMpoRARy ElEMENtS: NEW SoNg iN NEW yoRK Celebrating the eclectic voice of NYC song composers Thursday, May 7 | 7:30pm

MEMbERShip At MARblEFaith is a journey and we warmly invite you to join

with us as you travel along. For more information about our upcoming New Member Orientations, after Sunday Worship please come to the Deacons’ Pew (to right of Chancel) where the Membership team will help you (they will be wearing red carnations), visit the Welcome Table after WeWo, or contact Kim Sebastian-Ryan ([email protected]). We’d love to have you join us!

JANUARY 2015Sunday, January 11 | 10:30am-2:30pmSunday, January 18 | 9:30am-1:30pm

MARCHWednesday, March 5 | 6:00-9:00pmWednesday, March 12 | 6:00-7:45pm

WeWo: Wednesday Worship

Jazz Revelation

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I Don’t Want You to Join. . . I Want You to BelongBy Kim Sebastian-Ryan

I love Channel Thirteen. It’s probably my favor-ite channel. I really enjoy all the programming – Masterpiece Mystery, Masterpiece Classic, Great Performances – you name it. I like it so much so that many years ago I became a member. I thought it would be a good thing to do since it was public televi-sion that “was made possible by viewers like you.” I wanted “you” to include me. When I joined I got a cool tote bag, and a DVD of my favorite series. It was very nice. It still is. Being a part of something is very important.

I must admit when I joined Marble 21 years ago, initially, it was much the same, minus the cool tote bag and the DVD. I really enjoyed attending services and I loved the programs, the retreats, the small

groups – all that Marble had to offer. I would come to learn very quickly, however, that there was a very sig-nificant difference. A sense of family, of community of…belonging.

There was no real interaction with Mr. Darcy or King Richard III (although the latter would not have been something that I would have wanted). My television did not miss me when I wasn’t there. Miss Marple did not reach out to me when my father passed away, or my mother. I like to think she is a very nice person and would have – if she had known me personally. But that’s just the thing – she didn’t. Nor did any of the people at Channel Thirteen.

At Marble, I got something better than a tote bag or a DVD. I became a member of a faith family that I could really be a part of – that would welcome me

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The Fight or Flight ResponseBy Rev. Shari K. Brink

In 1932, Walter Bradford Cannon coined the term “fight or flight response” to describe a reaction that we human beings have in common with the animal world. It describes our instinctive reaction to either “fight” or “flee” in the face of a threat to our survival. He described the actual physiological response that causes, say, a cornered cat to scratch and hiss or a gazelle to high tail it away from a lion.

I’ve been thinking about the ways we human beings experience some version of this when we encounter people who are different from us. It’s easy – especially in the midst of any form of difference that could be a source of conflict – to respond aggres-sively (“fight”), to withdraw (“flee”), or perhaps even to simply “freeze.”

There is a reason so very few churches are truly diverse and inclusive. It feels threatening! encountering diversity is challenging, including differ-ences in our deeply held views and beliefs about right and wrong. We know all too well how warring fac-tions can respond to differences over political issues like healthcare or immigration, or to religious issues like the interpretation of scripture. And we’ve had plenty of bad role models.

Recently, I had the privilege of experiencing a positive model. I had the opportunity to participate in a Reformed Church in America conversation among people who hold widely divergent views on sexual orientation and gender identity. Though far from “pain free,” we didn’t fight, none of us fled the room, and all of us felt listened to. It sounds like a minor miracle, right?!

It caused me to think again about the practices

and ways of being with each other that help us under-stand each other more deeply, to not fight, to not flee and to not freeze. Here are some thoughts:

• Listen deeply to others without preconceived ideas about what they will tell you. Be willing to let go of caricatures based on what you’ve always been told and engage your curiosity about the real person you’re talking to.

• Be willing to be vulnerable and share your own experience. Life has taught you some things. Make sure you give people an opportunity to understand what it’s like to be you.

•It’s ok to take a point of view AND to listen to those of others. We can do both.

• Make room for others to continue to disagree with you, knowing that their conscience has been formed based on a lifetime of experiences.

• Don’t use language that is inflammatory. Listen for how they speak about their own experience and speak for yourself in ways that honor who God cre-ated YOU to be.

• Imagine yourself as in a circle with people who have a wide range of experiences and points of view. There are rarely only TWO sides. Arrange your chairs to reflect this.

What would you add? What helps you to stay in a difficult conversation? This year we continue our Diversity Series here at Marble, Remembering, Reflecting and Reconciling the many ways we are different.

God has given us the wonderful gift of being a diverse and inclusive community of God’s people. Let’s enjoy what we have… and continue to expand and deepen it!

Kim Sebastian-Ryan Director of Church Growth &

Connecting Ministries

Rev. Shari K. Brink Minister for Strategic Advancement

CONTINUeD ON PAGe 6

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Building Bridges in CYFBy Jessica Scovel

Construction continues at Marble and, as most of you know, the CYF space has moved next door. Although we are temporarily separated from the Sanctuary, we are building bridges to help our chil-dren grow and connect with adults in Worship in very deep ways:

• connecting with overall development. Little Lambs is a new curriculum that has been introduced to our toddlers. Our two- and three-year olds are beginning to learn about God by listening to short Bible stories and participating in activities based in movement, music and guided play. Within this model, children’s spirituality develops along with other areas of their development such as language, symbolic play and socialization. There is weekly communication with parents about lesson themes and ways to rein-force new concepts at home.

• connecting with Marble liturgy and rca tradition. Although physical space separates us on Sunday mornings, God’s spirit calls us into a com-

munity that transcends physical boundaries. We are mindful of opportu-nities that will create this experience for our children while helping them feel connected to Worship in the Sanctuary in concrete ways.

This year, our first through sixth grade cur-riculums will be replaced during Advent with les-

sons based on Dr. Brown’s sermon topics. Sunday School classes will read the same scripture verses that the adults hear in Worship and will be guided in activities and discussions which incorporate Dr. Brown’s message. In addition, many classes have begun praying The Lord’s Prayer on Sunday mornings. Our children in preschool and kindergarten are learn-ing with supporting gestures while our older children

are learning through the repetition of ritual as well as a specific curriculum that will be introduced. We hope that these practices not only support their spiritual development but also help our children feel part of the greater church community and more connected with their parents’ worship experiences.

• connecting with families. Our hope is that the above bridges create new bridges through which parents and children connect in meaningful ways. For example, for toddlers who have been learning the creation story, bundle up and try a nature walk while thanking God for the sun and trees and birds. For parents of older children, perhaps it’s time to incor-porate a spiritual practice together such as praying The Lord’s Prayer as a dinner (or breakfast!) grace or maybe discussing the scripture passage on subway rides home during Advent.

While they help us to connect, bridges also help us to find our way during the in-between-times. Whether we’re crossing state lines or growing into new phases, bridges provide us with a temporary space from which we can see the big picture. We can see where we’ve been and where we are called to go. It is at these times that I believe God holds us most closely. I know that God is with CYF in this way.

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when I was there, miss me when I was gone, nudge me to continue to learn and grow, and teach me to reach out with the love that I was receiving. A com-munity to which I could belong.

Consider giving yourself a gift this Christmas, and do more than become a member. . .belong.

If you’d like to belong to Marble, we would love to welcome you to the family! Give me a call or send me an email and I will give you all the details on our upcoming Orientations.

Rene Begin and Alexa Cliszis

Jessica ScovelAssociate Director CYF

I Want You to Belong... CONTINUeD FROM PAGe 5

Analicia Wright, Jackson Begin and Romon Danuser

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Reflections from the EditorBy Karla Fritsch

I really struggled deciding what to write for this particular column. I have a notebook where I keep seeds of ideas so that wasn’t the problem. I’ve usually decided on a topic weeks before my deadline. even if I don’t sit down to actually write – I ponder in my head as I’m riding the bus or walking to the subway, or I compose bits and pieces on old pew cards as I’m trying to fall asleep at night. Yet this time things weren’t clicking. Part of that could be because writing my last column about Gail was so emotional – how was I going to follow that.

When I started working on the layout of this edi-tion with Beth Player-DiCicco, graphic designer of the MarbleUpdate for decades, I told her the trouble I was having. She shared what became a magic word – ENGaGE. Beth reminded me that sometimes in the creative process you have to sit down and sim-ply engage in what you’re creating. Place yourself in front of whatever instrument you’re creating with and put in some time being fully present with it. I think it was in college when I first encountered “free writing” exercises where you sat at a table and kept the pen moving on paper for 30 or even 60 minutes. Often it would start slowly and I’d hear whispers in my head saying “this isn’t working,” “this isn’t good”, yet if I stuck with it the words started to flow. By engag-ing we create the opportunity for the pieces to click together.

Isn’t that the same for the creative process we call life? When we live engaged – present, centered, immersed – then we’re more keenly aware and better able to connect the dots that can create a map for our journey. We’re primed to see and more fully experi-ence the blessings before us. There have been times

recently where I’ve almost heard a percussive sound of a bunch of magnets popping together when words from a friend, or from something I’ve read, related so perfectly with something I’ve been working on with my life coach or trainer. I love the “sound” that makes in my soul. And moments like that help me dig in for creating more positive shifts in my life.

Probably the most important thing to engage with is our spirit. how do you engage with God? I know at times, more than I’d like to admit, I am not fully engaged during my prayer times. I have a couple prayers I’ve written that I sing to myself on the way to work. I realize repetition and regularity have their place in our spiritual journeys, yet how many times am I not present as I sing these prayers? These are words that came from my heart and my God with such passion when I first wrote them. I can be blocks from home and can’t remember which verses I’ve done, or my mind wanders within moments of starting.

With a new year before me, I think as part of my “evolution rather than resolution” that I wrote about last year, I’d like to focus on being more engaged with God. And I know there are a lot of areas in my life calling for me to explore ways in which I could be more fully present and committed.

How will you be engaged in 2015? There’s a spot at the table next to me so pull up a chair and let’s get creating.

Karla Fritsch Publications Manager

Bible Study with Sister Carol PerrySUNDAYS AT 10AMbEthlEhEM bECKoNSNovember 30, December 7, 14 & 21

It is a long walk from where we stand to a tiny town lit by wintry stars, but it is the only journey that gives depth to the Christian life. Planning, packing and traveling are part of our annual ritual.biblE StoRiES WE Might hAVE MiSSEDJanuary 4, 11, 18 & 25

Many of us know the major names form the Bible. Fewer of us can recognize Joab and Hushai, Balaam and Dagon. It might be time to fill in a few blanks!

TUeSDAYS AT 6:30PMA biblE tool bAgDecember 2, January 6, 13, 20 & 27

To make the Bible our own we need some knowl-edge of other cultures, of literary devices and of what scholars have learned through the years. each of these can make our Bible study richer and more spiritually fruitful.

Sr. Carol PerryBible Scholar

Spiritual growth and Education

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In the Action Spotlight – Christmas!saNta LEttErs through december 7! – Pick

up your letter after Worship during Coffee Hour at the Action Volunteer Table and buy a gift for children from SCAN (Supportive Children’s Advocacy Network) and Icahn House (single homeless mothers with children under 12 years of age). Please return gifts by december 14.

Marble congregational care christmas Gift-Giving – Purchase a Christmas gift for a Marble member who is homebound and help them feel the love of the season and their Marble family! Pick up a flyer at the Welcome Table. Please return by gifts by december 10. Contact Judy Tulin ([email protected]).

saturday, december 20 – Help host our annual christmas Party in the Marble Loft for single moth-ers and their children residing in Icahn House east, a transitional family shelter on east 28th Street. Volunteers needed 10:00am-3:00pm.

holiday hospitality – Offer a gift of service this year! We need ushers for Worship and hosts for our festive receptions on christmas Eve, Wednesday, december 24 and New Year’s Eve, Wednesday, december 31. To help, contact Colleen Cosgrove ([email protected]).

Icahn House Party – John Cadue and child

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Misson and outreach: opportunities to serve

WeeKDAYS, NOON–1:00PMSpiRitUAlity iN thE WoRKplACE

This year’s theme: Where Is the Holy? Bring your lunch and join interactive Bible study in two Manhattan locations. Return to work with a new attitude.

TUeSDAYS IN THe MARBLe LOFTDecember 2, January 6 & 20

THURSDAYS AT ST. BART’SDecember 4, January 8 & 22

St. Bartholomew’s Church, 325 Park Ave (at 51st St). enter through Park Ave doors and proceed to the Welcome Center.

Prayer CircleSUNDAYS AT 10AM

This informal gathering centers on singing and prayer for individual and communal concerns.This year’s focus: From the beatitudes to the be-attitudes, the Prayer circle in action. All are welcome! Led by Rev. Gregory Johnson. Meets every Sunday.

holy communion is now celebrated weekly at Prayer circle! (unless scheduled for 11am Worship) Whereas Communion has been offered quarterly at 11am Worship, monthly at WeWo and Prayer Circle, and seasonally on Christmas eve and Maundy Thursday, many desired a more frequent opportunity to receive the Sacrament. All are invited to participate in Prayer Circle both to be part of our church’s vital ministry of prayer and also to receive the blessings of The Table.

Spiritual Growth HourSUNDAY AT 1:15PM

We continue to seek to illuminate, educate, and empower people to experience hope, Faith, and Love.hopE, fAith AND loVE… iN DiVERSityJanuary 11

As part of our Interfaith sunday we will have a panel discussion with a Rabbi, an Imam, representa-tives from Marble and The Collegiate Churches of New York. We will focus on how these different faith traditions offer Hope, Faith and Love from their unique perspectives.fAith… liVEDFebruary 22

Nunzio Gubitosa, M.a., M.Phil., LP, Director of Training, Blanton-Peale Psychoanalytic Program, returns as we shift our focus from Hope to Faith. He will focus on the need for faith from a pyscho-social perspective and the need for human beings to discov-er and relate to that which is greater than ourselves.

Small GroupsSmall Groups at Marble are designed to be mis-

sional, transformational, and relational. They change us, help us grow, and get us to go out and do good in the world. To learn more, visit www.Marblechurch.org or contact Anna Nugent ([email protected]).

Rev. Gregory Johnson Prayer Circle

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Adult MinistryJoin us as we celebrate New Year’s Eve together

with dinner at a nearby restaurant, followed by the Jazz Revelation service. On Monday, January 26 we’ll explore The Spirit of Growth with Lesley Mazzotta. See the website for more details. Contact Colleen Cosgrove ([email protected])

Connection (20s&30s)We join “The Good and Beautiful Community”

Small Group for discussion after WeWo on december 3 & 17 and January 7. To receive Connection emails (including a schedule of events), contact Brian Hampton ([email protected]).

EntrepreneursAn Entrepreneur for All Seasons returns with

our first Peale Parlor soul salon on January 29 celebrating Winter: Fire. Contact Katherine Gotshall english (212-529-8512 or [email protected]).

GIFTS: LGBTQ FellowshipJoin us thursday, december 11 for our Christmas

event and we’ll have Coffee Hours on sundays, december 14 and January 4. Our Winter LGBT & Christian Small Group begins on Wednesday, January 7 at 7:30pm, for eight weeks. Contact T.J. Houlihan ([email protected]).

Men’s MinistryWe gather for discussion on tuesday, January 27.

For more information, check the website or contact Anna Nugent ([email protected]).

60+ FellowshipOn tuesday, december 2 we have an outing

to the Museum of Natural History. See the 60+ newsletter and Calendar of events for details on our Wednesday lunch programs. Exercise class: 10:45-11:00am; bridge club: 2:00-4:00pm. Contact Colleen Cosgrove ([email protected]).

Women’s MinistryThe Marble Women’s Ministry Leadership

Team will share a daily blog during Advent: www.Marblechurch.org/connect/blogs. On sunday, december 14 we have a Baby Shower to benefit children in need and our annual spa day for the soul is on saturday, January 24. For details, check website or contact Anna Nugent ([email protected]).

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program Ministries

Keep up with our different Program Ministries by attending Coffee Hour after Worship and visiting their pages at www.Marblechurch.org.

Action Volunteers – Ways You Can Serve If you don’t see what’s right for you below, stop at

the Action Volunteer Table on Sundays during Coffee Hour to talk with a committee member or contact Tom Schneider ([email protected]), for more ideas and referrals to organizations that are in need of volunteers. To receive notice of serving opportunities by email, “Action Alerts,” contact Tom.

sunday, december 7 – Volunteer opportunities abound for the artisan boutique, bake sale or the advent concert. To assist, contact Siobhan Tull ([email protected]).

sunday, december 14 & January 11 – Volunteers are needed to help prepare 50 lunches, 9:30-10:30am, for Ecclesia Ministry (an open-air worshipping congregation for the homeless in Madison Square Park). We also need others to trans-port the lunches and host the service which begins at 2:00pm; meet in front of 276 Fifth Ave at 1:30pm.

congregational care Initiatives – Get involved in reaching out to our homebound members and others in our community! Pick up a flyer at the Action Table or contact Judy Tulin ([email protected]) for more information:

• Phone Ministry outreach – We hope to reach out to people especially through New Year’s Day.

• Friendly calls & Visits / adopt a senior –Time commitment would be six months.

• Knitting/crocheting Prayer shawls – Knitters would gather weekly for prayer and knitting.

donate Metrocards for LGbtQ Youth in crisis served by “the church” at St. Luke in the Fields, a partner in mission with our GIFTS Fellowship. Metrocards should contain at least one full fare.

used Eyeglasses – Donate used glasses and sunglasses which are given to The Lion’s Club who recycles the glasses and distributes them in develop-ing countries.

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Calendar of EventsFor more details, to register, or for the full listing of all our programming, please visit www.MarbleChurch.org or stop by the Welcome Center after Worship during Coffee Hour.

eACH SUNDAY live Sermon talk back with Dr. Michael brown 12:15pm

Remain in the Sanctuary after Worship to join Dr. Brown and Marble’s online community for a brief discussion/Q&A about the day’s sermon. Hosted by Mario Sprouse.

eACH WeDNeSDAY60+ fellowship

For details on our exercise classes, bridge club and more, check our 60+ Fellowship monthly news-letter. Inquiries to Colleen Cosgrove ([email protected]).

Walk the labyrinth | 5:00-6:00pmTake a moment for a walking meditation

before WeWo. Please call to confirm schedule.WeWo: Wednesday Worship | 6:15pm

“WeWo” blends traditional and contempo-rary worship styles, with sermons by Dr. Brown and others, plus dynamic music led by Chanelle Schaffer with a praise vocal ensemble and band. Meets in the Marble Loft (274 Fifth Ave).

FIRST AND THIRD FRIDAYSJazz Revelation | 6:15pm

Connect with a community of people in a cozy setting of bistro tables and refreshments, enjoy a time of worship led by Dr. Mark King, and music led by pianist Chris Whittaker with talented guest artists. In the Marble Loft (274 Fifth Ave). Join us on New Year’s eve at 7:30pm for a special Jazz Revelation in the Sanctuary.

FIRST SUNDAYSWalk the labyrinth | 1:00-3:00pm

A facilitator will be available to help guide you and answer questions, while allowing you the space to walk in your own way, at your own pace. (Not avail-able on Dec. 7 due to the concert.)

WeDNeSDAY, DeCeMBeR 360+ fellowship lunch & program | 12:00pm

Soup, salad and birthday cake ($7), followed by program at 1:00pm: erin Hill with her Holiday Harp.

WeDNeSDAY, DeCeMBeR 1060+ fellowship byol & program | 12:00pm

Bring Your Own Lunch (with potluck desserts), followed by a program at 1:00pm: Music Lights the World with the 30-member Caring Community Senior Chorus, Mimi Stern-Wolfe, director.

THURSDAY, DeCeMBeR 11giftS: lgbtQ fellowship Christmas Celebration

See website for details.

SUNDAY, DeCeMBeR 14giftS: lgbtQ fellowship Coffee hour | 12:15pm

All are welcome for this time of fellowship after Worship in the Peale Parlor.Women’s Ministry baby Shower | 12:15pm

We gather after Worship for this time of fellow-ship and service. Bring items for children in need.

WeDNeSDAY, DeCeMBeR 1760+ fellowship lunch & program | 12:00pm

Catered Christmas lunch ($12, Fellowship members; $15, guests) followed by program at 1:00pm: Marble’s Christmas Staff Revue in the Sanctuary hosted by the incomparable Gary Thompson.

SUNDAY, DeCeMBeR 21All-Church Christmas brunch | 12:15pm

Please see page 3. Don’t delay in making your reservations, this could sell out quickly.The Christmas angel auditions: A Cyf play 2:00pm

Please see page 3 for details.

WeDNeSDAYS, DeCeMBeR 24 AND 31No 60+ fellowship or WeWo Wednesday Worship

Merry christmas and happy New Year! 60+ Fellowship and WeWo return on January 7. Please see page 3 for information about Christmas eve and New Year’s eve Worship.

WeDNeSDAY, DeCeMBeR 31Adult Ministry New year’s Eve Dinner

enjoy the festivities and fellowship with an early dinner at a nearby restaurant (pay on your own). After the meal we’ll attend the Jazz Revelation service at 7:30pm, with an opportunity for those interested to serve as ushers.

erin Hill 60+ Fellowship, December 3

Mario Sprouseand Dr. Michael Brown

WeWo – guitar & singers

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SUNDAY, JANUARY 4giftS: lgbtQ fellowship Coffee hour | 12:15pm

All are welcome for this time of fellowship after Worship in the Peale Parlor.

WeDNeSDAY, JANUARY 760+ fellowship lunch & program | 12:00pm

Pasta and birthday cake ($8), followed by program at 1:00pm: Frank Gauthier presents Uncle Franks’ Really, Really Big ‘Ed Sullivan’ Show.

WeDNeSDAY, JANUARY 1460+ fellowship byol & program | 12:00pm

Bring Your Own Lunch (with potluck desserts), followed by a program at 1:00pm: Marble’s Social Worker Janet Smith presents Health Care Proxy and other Vital Paper Work for Safe Aging.

WeDNeSDAY, JANUARY 2160+ fellowship lunch & program | 12:00pm

Soup, salad and birthday cake ($7), followed by program at 1:00pm: Performer from Manhattan School of Music.

SATURDAY, JANUARY 24Women’s Annual Spa Day for the Soul

Start your 2015 on a positive note of self-care. Stay tuned to website for details.

SUNDAY, JANUARY 25Monthly brunch | 12:15pm

All are invited for this time of fellowship and good food. In the Marble Loft (274 Fifth Ave). $12.

MONDAY, JANUARY 26Marble Adult Ministry Dinner | 5:30-8:00pm

The Spirit of Growth with Lesley Mazzotta. (5:30pm appetizers, 6:00pm dinner, 6:45pm discussion) $15, dinner; $5, discussion only. Paid dinner reserva-tions required 48 hours in advance; reserve online.

TUeSDAY, JANUARY 27Men’s Ministry Discussion | 6:30pm

Our speaker will address personal finance and planning for men.

WeDNeSDAY, JANUARY 2860+ fellowship byol & program | 12:00pm

Bring Your Own Lunch (with potluck desserts), followed by a film at 1:00pm: Philomena

THURSDAY, JANUARY 29Entrepreneurs: peale parlor Soul Salon 6:00-8:00pm

Winter: Fire. Sister Carol Perry will launch the first of a four part series, followed by six seven-minute talks by entrepreneurs. $10.

Note: The Calendar of Events schedule subject to change. Please call to confirm.

Lesley Mazzotta

For more details, to register, or for

the full listing of all our programming,

please visit www.MarbleChurch.org

or stop by the Welcome Center

after Worship during Coffee Hour.

Calendar of Events

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Marble Matters

StEphEN MiNiStRy At MARblE CollEgiAtE ChURCh

Are you or a family mem-ber hospitalized, grieving, experiencing loneliness, or facing a life transition? If so, Marble’s Stephen Ministers may be able to help. Stephen Ministers are laypeople who have received fifty hours of training and are ready to provide confidential, one-to-one Christ-centered care. For information, or if you would like to be contacted as a potential care-receiver, visit the Stephen Ministry table at Coffee Hour after Sunday Worship, or email: [email protected].

MAy WE pRAy foR yoU?the Marble Prayer Ministry —

To ask for prayer, or share feedback use a blue Prayer Request card found in the pews or stop by the Prayer Room (off the 29th St lobby) after Sunday Worship. Members of the Prayer Ministry Team spend a minimum of two weeks in prayer over each request.

the Prayer circle — every Sunday at 10:00am, Rev. Gregory Johnson leads participants in prayer. To have your prayer request included, please call Judy Tulin by Friday noon. Names are prayed over for one month.

Prayer Room

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LIVE WEbcast schEduLE If you can’t be here in person, visit www.Marblechurch.org.Sundays10am – Bible Study with Sr. Carol Perry11am – Worship Service12:15pm – Talk Back with Dr. Brown

Wednesdays 6:15pm – Wednesday Worship

TV – Fridays @ 4:30pm,MNN time Warner ch. 57 (Manhattan)

MarbLE oN socIaL MEdIa

Remember, you can find a lot at www.MarbleChurch.org! Including:

• annual report which includes our new Mission, Vision and Values Statements.

• Photo Gallery where you’ll find photos from the 160th Anniversary Reception, Homecoming and the CYF Costume Party. (Connect/Photo Gallery)

• Weekly blogs from Dr. Brown and Sr. Carol, plus guest blogs.

• Webcast archive of Sr. Carol Perry’s Sunday Bible studies plus Sunday and WeWo sermons.

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Celebrate the Creative SpiritSunday, December 7

Our 6th Annual celebration includes a meaningful blessing of the Artists during 11am Worship, fol-lowed by our Artisans’ boutique, 12:15-2:00pm.

Christmas ConcertSURpRiSED by JoySunday, December 7 | 2:30pm

Invite your friends to join you for this musical high-light of the season. See page 2 for details.

Gospel Choir ConcertSunday, January 18 | 2:30pm

The Marble Community Gospel Choir honors the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. See page 4 for ticket information.

Marble Music Next DoorStill i RiSE: ViSioNARy VoiCESThursday, January 29 | 7:30pm

Our Marble Loft salon concert series continues. Will one of your favorite singers from The Marble Choir be performing? Stay tuned to website.

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