coaching - eng
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COACHING - INTRODUCTION
TRAINING MATERIALS
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SUCCESS
60% of my time I devote to planning
60% more of my time I devote to my people
In the remainder, I have to accomplish all the rest
A. W. Clausen, CEO Bank of America
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WHY COACHING?
You cant teach an adult anything new
You can only help him/her figure it out for themselves
!!!!!!!!!!!
METHOD CAOCHING
Perfection is never achieved by accident or at once
- it is a process
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WHAT IS COACHING?
Coaching means improving of job performance, through
the purposeful and planned use of everyday situations in
a coach monitored learning process.
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Whats it all about?
Structured development of skills and self-confidence of your
subordinates
Assisting people to achieve a desired level of performance
Achievement of improvements, especially when fast change is
necessary
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Role of the coach Focus on performance within previously clearly defined and
agreed objectives
Devotion to the participants
There are no limits; a mind set that anyone can achieve more than
I can
IS A ROLE MODEL
Patiently works with people on the details of their performance
Lets his subordinates shine
Constantly learns from situations and his people
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Role of the coach
But results are seldom achieved over night Involves his/her people in problem solving
Builds WIN WIN relationships
Allows people to learn from their mistakes, but their successes
as well
Openly shares his/her experience
Sincerely tries to reach empowerment of his/her people
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The time paradox
Time: in order to gain more time for your self, you first need toinvest more time into your people
THERES NO OTHER WAY
In order to invest into people effectively
You have to have limitless belief, that people can achieve anythingthey believe is achievable
Always develop this belief and continually raise its limits
The moment you stop believing, your people will follow
IT IS NOT HOW MUCH TIME YOU SPEND WITH YOUR PEOPLEIT ISABOUT HOW EFFECTIVELLY YOU SPEND IT.
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WHEN NOT TO COACH
Coaching is inappropriate when: An emergency state requires immediate action.
(An emergency state also includes when the customers
satisfaction could be negatively affected. However, in
such a case ensure that after the resolution you cover it inthe form of coaching)
When people really dont want to be coached
If change is possible only under pressure
In formal disciplinary situations
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WILL IT ALWAYS WORK?
NO, especially in an environment where: People are TOLD what to do
There is very low freedom of choice
PEOPLE ARE PUNISHED FOR UNINTENTIONAL MISTAKES
There is an atmosphere of fear
The relationship with the coach is permanently lost (coaching it self
cant fix a bad relationship)
When people dont believe in coaching (if your style is firmly founded
on TELLING PEOPLE WHAT TO DO, then they will feel your
insincerity)
When people dont believe in the goals, dont agree with what should
be accomplished and have various different hidden agendas, which
differ from those of the organization
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Basic Skills
Excellent interpersonal skills
Building of liking and respect
Asking the right questions
Hunger for information
Giving and receiving of feedback (both)
Active listening
Convincing, selling and encouraging
Observing and correctly interpreting what happened:
before, throughout and after SINCERE AND UNRELENTING NEED TO HELP PEOPLE
HELPING PEOPLE PAINT A PICTURE OF SUCCESS
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Basic Skills
What THEY SEE is what you get You first have to SEE in your mind what success looks
like, as if it were a picture or film
Then you have to HELP them see it as well Gain a solid belief, that unintentional mistakes are
OPORTUNITIES TO LEARN
MOST IMPORTANT IS TO KNOW WHEN TO STEP IN
AND WHEN TO STAY QUIET
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COACHING STRUCTURE
5 BASIC PHASES:
Evaluate competencies and current level of performance
Determine and agree the intended result of the coaching
Plan the strategy and tactics
Begin the activity under the guise of the coach (observation)
Summarize, give feedback and HELP the coached find the
essence of what was learned
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Phase 1 EVALUATION
Avoid the approach of fast solutions
Its a tough test to overcome the VERY STRONG URGE to jump
in, take control and tell people what to do
The goal of this phase is to FIND OUT, how they are doing it now
what they think about it and what their competencies are
Gives you the base for the next steps
You have undeniable material for discussion
Positively influences the coached
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Phase 1 EVALUATION
What to do:
Try to ASK:
Show me, how you did it?
Tell me, what all have you tried? How did you feel?
What do you think about it?
Were you satisfied with the result?
How else can you check if they are up to the task?
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Phase 2-Agree intended results
The secret to being an effective coach is to PAINT A VISION,which people will BUY
How to: try to ASK
What do you REALY want to achieve?
What will your success look like? What result do you want tosee? How do you want to feel afterwards?
What value does it have for you?
What is the benefit in it for you?
What do you need the most improvement in?
Start with what they themselves see as the problem
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Phase 3-Plan Strategy
Execution plan What is a must (no question about it)
What final responsibility and initiative do we expect
from the coached person? What is the maximum tolerable level of mistakes? How
much can they spoil (in order to learn from) so it wont
have IRREVERSIBLE consequences?
Agree the plan with them
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Chairing of meetings, problem resolution with subordinates,
confrontations, fact analysis
LET THEM CHOOSE WHAT THEY WANT TO TRY
QUESTIONS
So, where can we start? What opportunities do we have?
What if we try to resolve the problems with those contracts?
What if we try to teach your Medical Representatives to use
all those sales techniques in their daily work?
Phase 3-Plan Strategy
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Phase 4-Action
Chairing of meetings, problem resolution with subordinates,confrontations, fact analysis
LET THEM CHOOSE WHAT THEY WANT TO TRY
OBSERVE IN ACTION
DONT INTERFERE!!!!!!!!
(unless the situation gets out of hand)
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Phase 5-Summarize
After the observation you need them to START TO THINK
THATS WHY YOU SHOULD ASK LOTS OF OPEN ENDED
QUESTIONS
First about sustainable behavior
What did you succeed in achieving? According to you, what worked the most?
How successful do you think you were?
Only then about improvables What do you think you did incorrectly?
HERES WHERE THEY MIGHT NEED HELP, dont be afraid of saying something like: I
noticed you didnt succeed in following the structure of the meeting
What would you do different next time?
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Phase 5 Summarize
What did you learn?
How could we generalize it on a similar situation (example)?
WHERE DO YOU THINK I CAN STILL HELP YOU?
WHY ............?
Golden rule: for each 1 improvable (in essence a criticism) youhave to give 3 sustainables
A TRULY GOOD MANAGER IS A MASTER IN ASKING
QUESTIONS
BUT ITS HARDER THAN AT FIRST IT SEEMS!!!!!
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Phase 5-Summarize
CONCLUSION A. What to START
B. What to CHANGE
C. What to STOP
D. What to CONTINUE
WARNING: DONT INTEROGATE!
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Be aware of Traps
Only hearing what you want to hear
Difficulty in walking in their shoes
Thinking you know ahead of time what people are talking about
Listening only to words, missing the emotions or tone of voice
Thinking: I know what you want to say before you say it
Judging information too early, before we have the full picture,
and showing it on body language
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Be aware of Traps
Ones own state of mind If you think you can or cant achieve something, youre always
right. Henry Ford
Youll never achieve this. But what would happen if?
Dont allow what they can and cant to mix together
Its about skills, not personality
Dont expect too much at once. In the first phase theyre
learning to be taught.
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Be aware of Traps
Stating of improvables is in essence a criticism
YOU HAVE TO ALSO ENCOURAGE AND PRAISE
They have to know you dont intend to change their personality,
even though you found lots of opportunity for improvement (use
correct words, NOT PROBLEMS, BUT OPPORTUNITIES)
Tendency to slip into the past, FOCUS ON FUTURE
PERFORMANCE
Being afraid of not knowing how to solve a situation and
showing weakness