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Couples about to embark on their wedding journeys will likely learn a thing or two about party planning once their engagements are over and they are newly mar-ried. Wedding planning can seem overwhelming and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding ter-minology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.

• Blusher: A short, sin-gle-layer veil that covers the bride’s face before the ceremony.

• Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in the bridal party.

• Canapés : Bite-sized appetizers served during the cocktail hour of a recep-tion.

• Civil ceremony: A mar-riage ceremony conducted by a council official or jus-tice of the peace at a munici-pal location rather than in a house of worship.

• Cocktail hour: Typi-cally an hour-long interlude between the wedding cer-emony and the main dinner of the reception. Guests have time to arrive and mingle before being seated.

• Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow guests to bring their own wine.

• Dais: A podium or plat-form raised from the floor where the bride and groom are seated.

• Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service given to a vendor to secure a date for their services.

• Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that ap-pear on wedding cakes.

• Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct reception guests to their seats.

• Fondant: A sweet, ply-able product used to decora-tively cover layered cakes. It can be used in lieu of straight buttercream

• Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps around the stems of a bouquet the bride and wedding party carry.

• Maid/matron of honor: The title given to the woman who assists the bride and stands closest to her at the altar. “Maids” are those who

are unmarried, while “ma-trons” are women who are.

• Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work with the DJ or band to an-nounce the various com-ponents of the wedding reception.

• Nosegay: A small bou-quet or flower arrangement typically given to the moth-ers of the bride and groom before the ceremony.

• Processional/Reces-sional: Musical pieces that mark the entrance and exit from the wedding ceremo-ny.

• Receiving line: A line of the key people in the wedding who welcome and greet guests.

• Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wedding, including invita-tions, programs and enclo-sures.

• Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple components of centerpiece designs.

Learning some basic wed-ding terminology can sim-plify wedding planning.

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Many people play a role in a wedding. The bride and groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ring bearers, and flower girls are front and center on the day a couple ties the knot.

Another central, and very important, figure on a couple’s wedding day is the officiant. Officiants perform the wedding ceremony and are the first to introduce the newlyweds to their guests as an officially married couple.

Various types of officiants can officiate a wedding, and understanding each type can help couples find the right one for them.

Religious officiantCouples who want traditional

religious ceremonies often choose a religious officiant, such as a parish priest or rabbi, with whom they’re familiar. For example, couples who grew up attending a particular church might choose the priest who’s been preaching to them since they were children, while others might choose the priest at their current place of worship.

Religious officiants may be governed by certain rules that re-strict them to performing ceremo-nies in a house of worship, which might rule them out for couples who want outdoor or destination weddings. Couples should inquire about such restrictions as early as possible in the planning process so they aren’t caught off guard.

Civil officiantCivil officiants are officers of

the court, such as a judge or justice of the peace. Many couples who are planning destination wed-dings abroad still choose to have a civil officiant perform a wed-ding ceremony at home. This is because some overseas officiants may not be authorized to marry couples in their home countries, meaning their marriages won’t be recognized once they return home. Civil officiants make sure marriages are legal, and they also make great options for couples who just want to get hitched without a grand ceremony.

Professional officiantProfessional officiants are not

affiliated with a particular reli-gious organization. That makes

them great choices for couples who aren’t religious as well as those who come from different religious backgrounds and won’t be converting to the same faith. Professional officiants typically meet with a couple once or twice to get to know them before writ-ing the speech they will give during the ceremony. Many will share the speech with the couple in advance of the big day, and some even allow couples to write the speech.

Loved onesMany couples ask a friend or

family member to officiate their weddings, which can add a fun and very personal component to the ceremony. Couples who want to take this route should research local laws to determine the steps loved ones must take to become ordained ministers who will be recognized by the state or country where the ceremony will take place.

Officiants play a significant role during a wedding, and cou-ples can choose one who best fits their personalities and ceremony preferences.

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Getting engaged has and al-ways will be a big deal. While marriage proposals are often steeped in tradition, some facts and figures about modern day engagements, courtesy of the 2018 Newlywed Report from WeddingWire, show just how much this special moment and all that surrounds it is changing.

• The pressure to make mar-riage proposals extraordinary appears to be on the rise, at least for Millennials. Of the nearly 18,000 respondents who shared their stories via WeddingWire’s 2017 New-lywed Survey, 72 percent of Millennials said they feel pressured to make their pro-posals highly unique, while only 45 percent of Gen X respondents indicated feeling such pressure.

• Proposals might be chang-ing, but getting down on one knee appears to be an enduring tradition that Millennials plan to keep in style. Eighty-two percent of Millennials indi-cated they got down on one knee to propose. In addition, the tradition of asking for parents’ blessing also remains popular among Millennials, 72 percent of whom sought such blessings before proposing marriage.

• The average cost of an en-gagement ring was $5,000.

• The pressure to pick out the right engagement ring ap-pears to be subsiding. That’s because 50 percent of survey respondents indicated they picked out the ring together.

• Married-couples-to-be also appear to like comparison shopping in regard to engage-ment rings. The majority of purchasers looked at between two and seven rings before making a purchase.

• While online shopping has changed consumer behavior in myriad ways, couples still prefer brick-and-mortar stores when buying engagement rings. Thirty-one percent of purchasers bought rings on-line, but 63 percent made their purchases in-person at brick-and-mortar stores.

• Christmas Day is the most popular day to pop the ques-

tion, followed by Valentine’s Day. Christmas Eve, New Year’s Day and New Year’s Eve round out the top five.

• How to spread the news of an engagement is perhaps the biggest change surrounding engagements. Engagement parties were once the go-to way to spread the good news, but just one in four couples now have engagement par-ties. Nowadays, 86 percent of couples spread the news via social media. In fact, 10 per-cent of parents find out about their children’s engagements via social media.

• The days of a short en-gagement seem to be a thing of the past. The average engage-ment now lasts 13 months, and 28 percent of couples are engaged for 16 months or longer.

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Engagement rings are often sizable investments. Money magazine reports the average engagement ring costs around $5,800. An engagement ring symbolizes the start of a life-long commitment and may even set the tone for a couple’s wedding day.

Jewelry styles are person-al, and grooms-to-be should carefully research their sig-nificant others’ preferences in terms of precious metals, colors and gemstones. Even though tradition holds that a diamond gemstone is classic for engagement rings, these precious stones are not the only options. In fact, before World War II, just 10 percent of proposals involved dia-mond engagement rings. That number jumped to 80 percent by 1990. However, many mod-ern couples now lean toward other offerings not only for the uniqueness they provide, but also for the potential cost savings.

Those seeking something

unique can embrace these en-gagement ring options.

• Amethyst: This vibrant, lavender-hued stone can be breathtaking when cut the cor-rect way. Purple shades have long been associated with royalty, making an amethyst fitting for such an occasion as special as an engagement. Because amethysts, which are less expensive than diamonds, are a seven on the Mohs scale for gemstone hardness, they can be very durable.

• Knot rings: These rings do not have a center stone. Rather, they’re designed to be a tied knot or infinity symbol. These rings can be particularly sentimental as they represent true, unbroken love.

• Opal: Gemstones, like flowers, have been assigned certain meanings. Tying the engagement ring to one of them can infuse more sym-bolism into the relationship. Opal, for example, represents love, passion, creativity, spon-taneity, and inspiration. Those

traits seem tailor-made for surprise proposals.

• Sapphire: While sapphire stones often are blue, they can also be yellow, green, pink, and white. Sapphires are the third hardest mineral. A white sapphire can be the perfect diamond replacement.

• Garnet or ruby: Red is the definitive color of love. A Valentine’s Day proposal can be made even more special by presenting an engagement ring with a red gemstone.

• Moissanite: The jewelry source Brilliant Earth says moissanite is a gemstone first discovered in 1893 by Henri Moissan in a meteorite that fell to earth. It is remarkably similar to a diamond in appear-ance and strength. Moissanite also has heightened brilliance, with a refractive index higher than that of a diamond.

Couples have many beauti-ful alternatives to diamonds that they can explore when shopping for engagement rings.

Alternatives to engagement rings

A first dance song at the wedding reception often sets the tone for the upcoming festivities and can exemplify just how newlyweds feel about each other. Couples may agonize over which song to choose, but there are many different resources available that can help couples narrow down their options. Spotify, the popular streaming music service, has compiled a list of the most popular wedding songs for 2018, based on global respondents. Their top pick was “Perfect,” by Ed Sheeran, a song that many might suspect was composed with wedding dances in mind. Sheeran’s “Thinking Out Loud,” Etta James’ “At Last,” John Legend’s “All of Me,” and Elvis Presley’s “Can’t Help Falling in Love” filled out the remaining top five spots on Spotify’s list.

Top songs for that first dance

Facts and figures about modern engagements

Diamonds are the stone of choice for engagement rings and wedding jewelry. Diamonds are durable and remain a time-less way to complement every style.

Anyone who is about to pur-chase a diamond is encouraged to do their research about selecting quality diamonds. At the heart of the diamond grading process are the 4 Cs of diamond quality. The Cs refer to carat weight, color grade, clarity grade, and cut grade. The Gemological Institute of America helped to create the Diamond 4 Cs and the International Diamond Grading System®. These benchmarks are used to classify all diamonds.

The following is the GIA’s explanation of each component of the system.

• Carat: Diamond carat weight is the measurement of how much the diamond weighs and is equivalent to 200 mil-ligrams per carat. Each carat is subdivided into 100 points. Therefore, a one-carat diamond is 1.00 or 100 points, while a twenty-five point diamond is .25 carats. Naturally, larger diamonds can be more rare and desirable.

• Color: A white diamond is more valuable the less color

it contains. GIA uses a D-to-Z grading system to determine a diamond’s color value. D would be a colorless diamond and Z the most saturated with color.

• Clarity: Diamonds are formed by carbon exposed to heat and pressure. Natural internal characteristics known as inclusions and external com-ponents called blemishes are the norm. The closer the gem comes to being perfectly pure without inclusions or blemishes, the greater the value.

• Cut: To transmit light and sparkle, diamonds have to be

cut precisely and with great artistry. A diamond will be fur-ther graded based on symmetry and proportions, as well as how the stone returns light. Bright-ness, which is the internal and external white light reflected; fire, or the scattering of white light into rainbow colors; and scintillation, or the sparkle the diamond produces, are factored into how the cut is valued.

Diamonds are a major invest-ment. Consumers who do their research and verify diamond grading can get the best value for their money.

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Couples spend thousands of dollars on their wedding ceremony and celebrations. The cost of a wedding varies depending on geographic location, but according to the business and financial resource Business Insider and The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average wedding in the United States costs $31,391.

Insurance policies can help couples protect their wedding investment. Special event insurance provides coverage for vari-ous scenarios, including extreme weather, damaged gifts, lost jewelry, vendor cancellations or no-shows, venues closing before the wedding, and canceled weddings, according to Travelers Insurance. Insurance also may cover other unforseen scenarios, such as unexpected expenses from injuries during the wedding or spoiled food.

Policies will pay directly for any damage or injuries that occur, or reimburse the couple if the wedding is postponed or canceled. If weddings occur at home, some people’s home insurance or umbrella policies may cover certain wedding liabilities. Most wedding venues carry their own liability insurance, so couples may not have to overlap there. However, for those who desire extra protection for vendor mishaps, it is wise to speak with an insurance professional about special wedding coverage.

Prices for wedding insurance policies can start at around $100 to $200 for minimum coverage and reach $1,000 for more expen-sive ceremonies, according to the financial advisement website NerdWallet.

Speak with an insurance agent and read policies carefully be-fore purchasing one. Non-covered issues typically include theft or loss of an engagement ring; rainy days that do not classify as extreme weather; switching vendors after a deposit is made; and risky entertainment, such as fireworks or live animals.

Protecting wedding expenditures with insurance policies can provide couples with added peace of mind on their big days.

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Building a wedding registry is a task unlike any other cou-ples may encounter during their lifetimes. Wedding registries are invaluable resources that provide engaged couples’ loved ones with gift suggestions. In spite of that value, couples may find it daunting and even a little uncomfortable to build their wedding registries.

Building a wedding registry can feel like walking a tightrope. Couples likely won’t want to ask for too much or for gifts that are too expensive, but a poorly built registry can be a major inconvenience for guests. The following tips can help couples build adequate registries that benefit them without asking too much of their guests.

• Register with more than one store. It’s important to register with more than one store. Doing so makes things as convenient as possible for guests and increases the chances they will be able to shop at stores they’re familiar with. Unless your guest list is predominantly local, try to reg-ister with at least one national

chain so guests who live in different regions can shop for gifts in-person if they prefer to do so.

• Make a large list. Some cou-ples are hesitant to make large wedding registries, feeling that doing so gives the impression that they’re asking for too much. But large registries simply give guests more options to choose from. Many industry insiders advise registering for two to three gifts per guest. That might seem like a lot, but guests will appreciate having all of those options.

• Don’t hesitate to include ex-pensive items on your registry. Couples also may be hesitant to include especially expensive items on their wedding regis-tries. However, the couples’ parents and other close relatives may be honored to purchase more expensive items, so cou-ples should not feel embarrassed to include them on their lists. It’s also important to note that many retailers, after couples’ wedding days have come and gone, dis-count registry items that weren’t

purchased. So even if no one purchases the more expensive items, including them on a reg-istry may significantly reduce their cost for couples who want to buy such items themselves after tying the knot.

• Vary the prices of items on the list. In addition to including more expensive items on the registry, make sure to include moderately priced and inex-pensive items. This gives guests more options and ensures guests who might be spending a lot to travel to and from the wedding can still purchase gifts without digging too much deeper into their pockets.

• Periodically update the registries. Periodically update your registries to remove items you have already received and to add items if many of the less expensive ones have al-ready been purchased. This also makes things more convenient for guests.

Building a wedding registry is a unique task that couples can embrace as their wedding day draws near.

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PUNXSUTAWNEY — Many restaurants, especially independently owned restau-rants, struggle to last a year. But one such independently owned restaurant that is still kicking is Punxsy Pizza, which cele-brated its five-year anniversary Wednesday. Owner Scott Anthony said he has made efforts to continually improve his restaurant and make new connections, both at home and abroad. “Our brand is constantly evolving,” Anthony said. “Maintaining my connec-tions with the national and international pizza business has been key in keeping our brand alive and well.”

Anthony added that he has been committed to delivering the best Italian food that he can and that he has found much inspiration during his many trips to Italy. He has traveled there once every year since 2016, and he said that it taught him about the Italian tradi-tions of simplicity and having respect for quality ingredients.

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Pizza over the last five years, as the restaurant has added new services. Recently, Punxsy Pizza became the first business in Jefferson County to offer home delivery of beer. Anthony added that he has also been working with local organizations and wineries to offer more varieties of beer and to learn about the brewing process of beer. And to help create a more authentic Italian restaurant feel, Anthony has teamed up with Jefferson County HOPZ to test out beer and food pairings. The dining area was also expanded in 2018 to allow for groups and parties to dine in at the restaurant.

Punxsy Pizza and Anthony have also been helpful to the community throughout the past five years. The business has had an 81-percent employee reten-tion rate, which according to Anthony is quite high for the food service industry. Anthony has also held the annual event Pizza & Prevention, which raises money for the local fire companies. Last year’s Pizza & Prevention was the most successful yet, breaking records.

Anthony said he has also

been intentional about being an advocate for the industry and pizza making in general. He works as a contributor to Pizza Today magazine and is a regular speaker at the International Pizza Expo. Anthony was also appointed to the World Pizza Champions, a multinational group of elite level pizza professionals based in the US that aims to show the art inherent to creating pizza.

Though much has changed in the past five years of its existence, one thing has not, Anthony said, and that is his dedication to doing his best for customers. Five years ago, Anthony made a statement in The Spirit, saying, “Being in the hospitality business is really all about a relation-ship between guest and host. It involves showing respect for one’s guests, providing for their needs and treating them as equals. Punxsy Pizza is more than a job or a means to an end for me; it is about building a relation- ship with the community.”

And Anthony said that he believes that nothing has changed since he said that.

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People who love to socialize never need a reason to entertain and welcome guests into their homes or hit the town with fam-ily or friends. Opportunities to socialize run the gamut, from birthdays to holiday celebra-tions to casual get-togethers with friends. While each oc-casion is unique, the common thread linking social engage-ments of all sizes is the need to plan.

Event planners are certainly a unique breed of organized indi-viduals, but everyday hosts and hostesses can borrow from plan-ners’ tried-and-true techniques to help parties run smoothly from start to finish.

Begin with the venueA great party starts with a

good venue. In fact, the right venue can make a party, while the wrong one can break it. Consider the type of event and the size of the guest list when shopping for a venue. If the goal is to provide guests with an intimate setting to mingle, avoid large spaces. If you want guests to dance and plan to provide ad-ditional entertainment options, choose a venue that has a dance

floor and a stage.Size is not the only thing

to consider when choosing a venue. The location of a venue is important as well. The venue should be easily accessible to guests and convenient for guests traveling by car and public transportation. Have a contingency plan if the venue is outdoors and weather may inter-rupt the festivities. Remember, the venue is the foundation upon which the rest of the party will be situated, so take extra time to find the right party spot.

Make a checklistTake some time to jot down

a list of what will need to be done for the party. Relying on your memory alone is not sufficient, as you’re bound to forget some details as the party draws nearer.

Purchase a planner to help you keep track of details and payment deadlines. Store re-ceipts in your planner, and keep it with you at all times so you can jot down ideas as they come to you. Don’t just jot down the things to do. Assign specific deadlines to each task so you will stay on track.

Get help when you need itIt’s easy for hosts and host-

esses to feel overwhelmed when planning a party. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you begin to feel overwhelmed. Delegate tasks based on your helpers’ talents and experience. Catered food is ideal for those who do not like to cook. If a friend is crafty, put him or her in charge of decorations or the layout of the venue. If the budget allows, hire professionals to create the right ambiance for the party. Store-bought supplies are shortcuts that can keep you on schedule. The more help you have, the less stressful the plan-ning can feel.

Focus on food and entertainment

When guests walk away from a party, their thoughts tend to linger on food and fun. Spend time planning the menu and testing foods that will be served, and hire entertainment that suits the mood you are aiming to create.

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Each year that passes is another opportunity to celebrate a birthday. Traditions like lighting candles on a cake and singing to good fortune are popular, but there are many other ways to celebrate birthdays to set them apart from past celebrations and make them a bit more special.

• Plant a tree. Plant a tree on your birthday so you can see how the sapling turns into something impressive year after year.

• Research the day and year you were born. It’s much easier now to tap into history than it was before the Internet came along. With the click of a mouse you can investigate what songs were popular, who was in charge of the country, books that were released and even popular movies of the era.

• Try something outside of your comfort zone. You may want to try something daring on your birthday, like going bungee jumping or skydiving, or you may prefer something less risky, such as a fashion makeover or riding that new roller coaster at the amusement park. Use your birthday as an excuse to try something that is out of your element.

• Book a trip. Be it a one-day jaunt in the car or a week-long vacation, a change of scenery could be the perfect way to cel-ebrate a birthday.

• Create a time capsule. Remember when you wrote notes and sealed up mementos from childhood for a time capsule project at school? You can do the same type of thing on your birthday and then plan to open the capsule in the future.

• Dine at an exclusive restaurant. Use your birthday as an excuse to splurge. Purchase a new outfit and book a reservation at one of the hottest restaurants in your area. Enjoy the evening knowing you are treating yourself to something out of the or-dinary.

• Send your parents a gift. If it wasn’t for Mom and Dad you wouldn’t be here.

• Take the day off from work. Save some personal time to ensure you don’t have to head into work on your birthday. Even if your birthday falls on a Tuesday and you aren’t making a long weekend out of the day off, it’s still fun to take your birthday off from work.

Celebrate your birthday in unique ways

Brides and grooms fear the prospects of rainy wedding days. But even couples who have contended with everything from a few drops to an all-out deluge on their wedding days look back fondly on the ceremonies and receptions. In fact, how couples handle any precipitation can affect how happy the festivities may be.

• Have a rainy day game plan. Rain affects outdoor weddings more than any other type of cer-emony or reception. If the goal is to exchange vows outdoors, work with the venue to make this possible with a tent or ga-zebo. However, if the weather is especially foul and windy, move it indoors.

• Invest in golf umbrellas. Couples who live in notoriously damp climates can purchase golf umbrellas, which tend to be larger than the average umbrella, and keep them stationed in deco-rated stands to ease transitions between wedding sites and keep everyone as dry as possible.

• Wear waterproof cosmet-ics. Women in the bridal party,

including the bride, can ask their makeup artists to use durable, waterproof products. This can help salvage beautifully com-posed looks should some drops begin to fall.

• Know vendors’ rain poli-cies. Some live musicians will not play in damp weather. Flo-rists may need to make accom-modations for arrangements blowing in the wind. Couples need to understand what they’re responsible for and what may be covered if a weather event occurs. Wedding insurance may help cover the costs of nonre-fundable cancellations.

• Move past it quickly. It is okay to get upset if the weather turns for the worse. But don’t dwell on it. Guests will sense negative energy, and couples should set the tone of sticking it through despite a little adversity - which can be a good lesson for the marriage as well.

• Embrace the rain. While a couple probably won’t wish for rain, there are some benefits to overcast skies, say the wedding professionals at Brides maga-

zine. Flowers are less likely to wilt in rainy conditions. In the absence of bright sunlight, outdoor photographs can really pop. Rain is romantic and may compel couples and their guests to cuddle close.

Don’t let rain on a wed-ding day become a drag. With preparation and perspective, couples can handle rainy wed-ding days.

People ready to “pop the question” may wonder about the right way to initiate an engagement proposal. Because a marriage proposal is such a memorable moment in a couples’ lives together, those doing the proposing often go to great lengths to ensure things go smoothly. While there is no proposal playbook, these guide-lines can assist those ready to take the leap.

• Add a personal touch. It’s easy to get caught up in making a marriage proposal a spectacle or something worthy of a social media post. But taking a sweet-heart back to a special place that recalls a significant moment can set the backdrop for a memora-ble proposal. Incorporating the place you first met or a special song into the proposal can make it that much more personal and meaningful.

• Embrace the old fash-ioned. It may be romantic to step back in time and followed the traditions of yesteryear. Show respect to future in-laws by speaking to them about intentions to propose and ask for their blessings. Get down on bended knee when asking for a sweetheart’s hand. Such gestures add up to meaningful expressions of love.

• Consider timing. A person may be so excited to propose

that he or she fails to consider how the other person in the relationship is feeling. If that person is overwhelmed by work projects or stressed about up-coming events, consider waiting to propose at a more relaxed time.

• Enlist help from others. It can be a challenge to keep your excitement hidden while collecting information about a future spouse’s likes and dislikes. Ask friends and close family members to be your ac-complices so that information

can be gathered without gen-erating suspicion. This can be especially helpful when finding the perfect ring.

• Keep it simple. The more complex a proposal, the more opportunities for things to go wrong. Simplicity, even if it means keeping the proposal to yourself until the question has been popped, can make for an extra special moment.

Marriage proposals happen every day. With humor, confi-dence and a heart full of love, popping the question can be a

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Is there evidence of care and concern for guest safety and

well being? The level of care and organization of the staff should be appropriate to the event venue/activities, as well as the measure of importance the private event rental facility has focused on the well being of its guests.

Has the facility mentioned extra liability insurance? Find out if you will be responsible for getting additional liability to protect you and your organiza-tion if there is an accident. Usu-ally, if the rental contract spells it out, the facility has addressed the need already. But to ensure compliance by asking a few important questions can save a huge headache later.

2. How Will You Collect Data and Payment from At-

tendees?This is crucial for the correct

flow of details to be made in a timely manner. Often times, the private rental venue will charge for the rental of a staff member to take payment at the door, for let’s say a private party like a high school reunion.

A busy private party venue space may well be booked one time slot after the other. If you are expecting a large number of attendees, you may not have a timely flow of events in your space and your event may spill over into someone else’s time. You may not be able to fin-ish important business or get through all your speakers.

Adhere to a head count for a menu item cutoff and to ensure the caterer and the rental venue can provide adequate staff-ing for the best service. Also equally important to a private party venue is adequate staffing for parking, cleanup, and food service.

3. Organization is a Must For Your Private Party Rental Event

Making lists of key details and keeping it all together in one binder with pockets is a

great way to organize. You may need to keep handy receipts and extra lists like wine or beer needed.

Prioritize your list and handle the big items first. The first and most important big item is to find a private event rental venue; file all the quotes from vendors, and once you sign a contract, keep the copy stored with your lists to save you invaluable time later. It could be an event destroyer if you follow the list and later realize you forgot to book the actual private rental space.

4. Proper Signage or Equip-ment is Needed

A good rental venue facility will provide:

ChairsPlace settingsTableclothsAudio/visual equipmentAnd moreChecking the availability is

important because a popular rental venue facility may have space but limited equipment. These details are important to lock down and price. They may be a budget killer if you must purchase your own. Many ven-ues offer discounts on package

rentals also.5. Acoustics in the Rental

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and often overlooked by many planners, is the acoustics in the rental venue space. If your pri-vate event is a business or strate-gic planning meeting with many important key details, or with a keynote speaker, the whole room must be able to hear.

If you’re holding a private wedding reception, it would be a tragedy if they could not hear or understand the toast to the new couple or the bride as she is thanking them for her shower gift.

Acoustics is something only the most seasoned event plan-ners account for. This is a key piece of planning knowledge, which can make or break the effectiveness of your business rental or the lifetime memory of the wedding reception your family will have.

These five things will help make sure your event venue is perfect and runs smoothly and will help lessen the chance of your any speed bumps on the road to a great event rental! Happy planning!

Booking a live band for a wed-ding or another special event can be a great idea. The atmosphere live musicians can provide is unmatched. Live musicians of-fer a level of excitement that may not be met by other musical options. But some couples may find the prospect of booking live entertainment a bit challenging, especially if they’ve never hired musicians for an event before. Here are some tips to make the process go smoothly.

• Get recommendations. Just like you might before booking other vendors, seek advice from friends or family members who have recently gotten hitched or had live performers at their events. They may have wonder-ful things to say about particular bands or performers. Individuals also can consider a resource such as HireLiveMusicians.com, a global musician database that can help couples narrow down their options.

• Decide on when the musi-cians play. Live musicians can entertain guests throughout the ceremony and reception, but the longer musicians play, the more they’re likely to cost. Work with musicians to develop a schedule that suits your budget.

• Discuss the theme. Make sure musicians understand the type of atmosphere you’re hop-ing to create. A band that custom-arily plays swing or big-band era songs may not fit in at weddings with more modern themes.

• Understand the fees. Mu-sicians may have fees related to their agents, cartage (extra given to musicians who carry large equipment), mileage costs, travel time, lighting, and other factors that affect the overall

price. Discuss these fees before signing any agreements.

• Be sure the venue fits. Live musicians are great but not if the space is too small. Otherwise, the music can be too loud and overpowering, or the band will not have adequate space to set up. Consider these factors before making any decisions.

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Weddings are memorable for a host of reasons. While couples remember their wed-dings because they mark the day they officially tied the knot, guests may remember weddings for other reasons, including the food served at the reception.

Some wedding venues are known for their stunning land-scapes, while others build their reputations on unique interiors that provide unforgettable am-biance. But regardless of where weddings take place, guests are

liable to discuss the food served at the reception. Guests might rave about the escargot or com-plain that the fish was flaky, but couples who choose reception menus wisely can go a long way toward ensuring there are more compliments than complaints once the dinner bell rings.

• Don’t zero in on special-ties. According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, a survey of nearly 13,000 brides and grooms who tied the knot in 2017, the average wedding

hosted 136 guests. While cou-ples might be tempted by spe-cialty dishes when choosing their wedding menus, couples who are hosting dozens, if not hundreds, of guests should keep things simple.

• Consider potential aller-gies. In regard to entrées, make sure guests with food allergies can choose something that won’t make them sick. Accord-ing to Food Allergy Research & Education®, an organization de-voted to improving the quality of life of individuals with food allergies, some common foods cause the majority of allergic reactions. Peanuts, soy, sesame, and shellfish are among the most common food allergies, according to FARE®. FARE also

notes that allergies to wheat, milk and eggs are common in children. While such foods can still be served at wedding recep-tions, make sure to also include foods that are unlikely to trigger allergic reactions. Couples can even ask guests to inform them of any food allergies.

• Don’t hesitate to offer a favorite food. While specialty entrées might not be a great choice, especially at large re-ceptions where lots of mouths must be fed, a couple who has a favorite food that’s symbolic of their relationship should not hesitate to offer it during the cocktail hour. For example, a couple who met in Thailand may want to offer a favorite Thai dish.

• Offer an elaborate des-sert. The last bite guests will take is dessert, so couples who want their guests to go home raving about the food may want to offer something special after the entrées have been taken away. Some guests may not indulge, but those who do might end their nights thinking about the delicious dessert they en-joyed as the festivities drew to a close. If the dessert is especially unique, offer something more traditional alongside it for more hesitant guests.

Choosing a wedding menu should be fun. Menus should reflect not only couples’ tastes but also include some popular foods so no one goes home hungry.

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Because fashion preferences were once ornate and dependent on precise fits, ready-to-wear clothing really did not become widely available until the early 20th century. Such attire is now available in just about any retail store.

Because ready-to-wear clothing is so readily available, the average person may be unfamiliar with custom-made or tailored items. In fact, a couples’ wedding may be the only instance in their lives when they require the services of a seamstress or tailor.

Fittings are a part of wedding planning, and here’s how brides-to-be can navigate the process of finding and being fitted for a dress.

• Try on sample gowns. The first step is to make your rounds to various gown shops and try on the samples they have available. Most sample sizes will not be the size you wear every day, so expect them to be ill-fitting. Do not be discour-aged. Once a gown is chosen, the dress shop will take your measurements and order the gown ac-cording to the manufacturer’s sizing guide. Again, this can be shocking, since the size will likely be larger than what you wear in street clothes. Some shops will also order a little larger to allow for adequate tailoring.

• Schedule the first fitting. The first fitting should be anywhere from eight to 12 weeks

before the wedding date, according to experts at WeddingWire, an online wedding information provider. This is the time it takes to complete most standard alterations. Complex customizations can take even longer. Brides should also budget a minimum of $500 for alterations, which may or may not be included in the price of the dress.

• Bring shoes and undergarments. Remember to bring along the exact shoes and undergarments you will wear with your gown. A change in shoes or bra/corset can result in the alterations fitting poorly the next time. Bring these items along to all subsequent fittings.

• Speak up. Martha Stewart Weddings suggests speaking up at fittings if anything is uncomfort-able or needs tweaking. Seamstresses are masters at their crafts, but only if they understand the desires of the bride.

• Check the details. The second fitting is designed to check that all issues from the first fitting have been addressed, the gown is comfort-able and you can move freely. At the last fitting, ask the maid of honor to come along so that she understands how to bustle or help you handle complicated straps or closures.

Open communication with a seamstress and bridal shop can ensure brides-to-be get a dress that fits like a glove.

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Tips for choosing a wedding reception menu

Flowers may look beautiful in gardens and even when snipped and brought inside to brighten up a mantel or dining table. Unfor-tunately, cut flowers have a finite shelf life. While cut blooms can’t live forever, certain varieties will outlast others. Choosing flowers wisely for wedding centerpieces or keepsakes can help couples enjoy selected flowers longer.

• Peonies: Peonies can last for about a week or two when brought indoors. HGTV says to snip the stems when the buds are tight, wrap them in newspaper and store them in the refrigerator until you’re ready to arrange.

• Zinnias: These bright blooms can last for three to four weeks and are best harvested in summer. Related to the sunflower, zinnias are available in a wide range of colors.

• Chrysanthemums: Widely referred to as “mums,” these mid-summer to late-fall flowers can last between three and four weeks after being cut. Mums can be used to fill out floral displays because they tend to be inexpensive but durable flowers.

• Coneflower: The purple coneflower is popular, but coneflowers are available in many colors aside from purple. Coneflowers attract butterflies and are beautiful in cut displays.

• Ranunculus: Ranunculus mimic the look of roses and display layer after layer of silky, crepe-like petals. These blooms can last a week or more in vases if they’re put in water right after being cut.

• Carnations: Another budget-friendly flower, carnations are popular from early spring until late summer. Available in many hues, they can be used in conjunction with other blooms to create well-rounded floral displays that may last between two and three weeks.

• Lilies: Lilies are traditional flowers that are beautiful to behold. Lilies are available in various sizes and colors and can be bought fresh year-round. Lilies often last longer than a week after being cut. Look for lilies with tight buds, as such flowers tend to last the longest.

• Gladioli: The lovely flowers of the vertical-growing gladiolus, which is sometimes referred to as the “sword lily,” are available in yellow, peach, pink, white, and other hues. These bulb-based plants can last up to two weeks after being cut and add variety and texture to floral displays.

Although advice varies on how to keep cut flowers fresh the longest, veteran florist Nic Faitos, senior partner at Starbright Floral Design in New York, who has provided his floral expertise for Reader’s Digest, says the best approach is to keep vase water clean. In addition, ProFlowers suggests keeping cut blooms in a cool room away from direct sunlight and heat.

Cut blooms that last the longest

The phrase “tying the knot” is synonymous with getting married. Although the words can represent the symbolic join-ing of two lives together, in some cultures, getting married actually requires tying a knot. The custom traces its origins to an ancient Babylonian tradition in which threads from the clothes of both the bride and groom were tied in a knot to represent the couple’s union. Other cultures have embraced this tradition, and couples tie ceremonial knots during their wedding ceremonies.

‘Tying the knot’ an ancient tradition

During their engagements, couples will make many deci-sions in regard to their weddings. Wedding planning can sometimes seem like a runaway train of ap-pointments, schedules and dead-lines. As a result, some couples do not take the time to enjoy being engaged, which is a special and unique time in their lives.

Engagement photo shoots can be a unique way for couples to commemorate and enjoy the months preceding their weddings. Engagement photos memorialize the engagement and provide many additional benefits as well.

1. Engagement photo shoots give couples a chance to con-nect with their photographers. Booking an engagement photo shoot provides helpful informa-tion to both the couple and the photographer. The photographer gets to see how the couple in-teracts in front of the lens and can determine any insecurities or strengths and weaknesses couples may have. These lessons can be filed away and help make wedding day photos look better. Similarly, spending time with the photographer gives the couple an opportunity to develop a rap-port with their photographer. If couples and their photographer don’t click, scheduling an en-gagement shoot well in advance of the wedding gives couples a chance to find someone else to take their photos.

2. An engagement photo shoot

gives couples time to spend together. An engagement photo shoot is an ideal time to spend an afternoon in a special location focusing on each other without wedding planning taking up your time.

3. Photo shoots provide a chance to get comfortable in front of the camera. Professional photographs taken before the wedding enables couples to view how they will appear in pictures. Seeing these photos might help couples grow more comfort-able in front of the camera. This practice can help couples temper their anxieties prior to the wed-ding. An engagement shoot also can be a great time for couples to speak with their photographers about angles or styles they prefer

or dislike.4. The bride and groom have

save-the-date or social media photos. Engagement photographs can be used for save-the-date cards or social media postings (check with the photographer for licensing agreements). This can be a great way to spread excitement about the upcoming nuptials.

5. Photo shoots provide a chance to experiment with vivid backdrops. Engagement photog-raphy gives couples plenty of opportunities to experiment with different locales, which may not be possible come the wedding day.

Engagement photography can be a worthwhile inclusion in pre-wedding celebrations.

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Weddings celebrate the join-ing together of hearts, families and homes. The unification of a couple pledging vows to each other is the key component of the ceremony, and unity rituals are common during both traditional and nontraditional weddings.

Unity ceremonies represent the magic of two people coming together as one. Unity rituals may be built into certain religious or cultural weddings as a normal part of the festivities. Other couples may want to embrace the idea of a unity ceremony to add something extra special to their ceremonies.

Couples seeking creative op-tions for unity rituals as part of their wedding ceremonies can explore these clever ideas.

• Candle lighting: The light-ing of a unity candle is one of the more recognizable and traditional unity rituals. During this ritual, the bride and the groom each light an individual candle and then together light a larger candle, which celebrates them coming together as one.

• Sand pouring: The pour-ing of sand into a vessel also is a popular unity ritual. In this ritual, couples choose two sands of dif-ferent colors and then pour their respective colors into a vessel, allowing the different hues to mix together. This ritual can be expanded to include other family members, with a rainbow of colors blending for a now unified joining of families.

• Unity cross: Christians may enjoy a unity cross ritual at their ceremony. A unity cross is a deco-rative cross with a holder, and the cross is held in place by three pins, which symbolize the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit. During this ritual, the bride, groom and offici-ant will each set a pin in place.

• Tree planting: Planting a tree or shrub that can grow with the marriage is a green idea and one that takes unity rituals to a different level. Couples can place the sapling in a decorative pot and then take turns watering it. Later the tree can be planted outside the couple’s first home.

• Lasso ceremony: This ritual is traditional in many Spanish- and Filipino-speaking countries. After vows are exchanged, the officiant wraps a floral garland or rosary around the couple. At the end of the ceremony, the garland is saved as a symbol of unity and love.

• Handfasting: This ritual comes from an ancient Celtic tradition that bounds the bride and groom’s right hands together during the wedding ceremony. Handfasting symbolizes couples’ commitments to one another.

• Flower ceremony: In this ritual, couples can exchange roses or a favorite flower and then place them in a vase or basket. All mem-bers of the family also are invited to place a single flower into the vessel, which ultimately results in a beautiful floral display.

Couples can create their own unique unity ceremonies. The blending of any two materials, such as wine, tea, glass beads, or paint, or even the traditional tying of knots will convey the symbol-ism of joining as one.

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Many partygoers admit that they often look forward to foods served during social gatherings. The way to a man’s heart may be through his stomach, but the same sentiment can be applied to both male and female guests invited to your next soirée. While it might not be possible to please everyone’s palate, the follow-ing are some food factors hosts should keep in mind as they pre-pare to throw their next party.

• Consider your party theme and size. Food choices should fit with the type of event you are hosting. A three-course formal meal probably will not comple-ment an afternoon watching the game with friends, nor would it work well when you’re on a time crunch before seeing a show. Take into consideration the party you will be hosting and make sure the foods you choose work in conjunction with other

details of the festivities. Finger foods are ideal when guests are mingling, while a more formal sit-down meal is more appropri-ate when you want to engage guests in conversation.

• Calculate how much food you need. It’s always better to have extra food than a shortfall of it, but it’s best to find the right balance to avoid costly excess and waste. Many caterers offer approximations regarding how many people a tray or platter of food will feed. You can use these estimates as references for the food you will be preparing as well. Keep in mind that serving sizes are only a few ounces for many foods. Guests who are drinking plenty of beverages also may feel less hungry.

• Provide a variety of foods. While you can’t offer everyone’s favorite dish, you can vary your offerings so that guests are more

likely to find something they will enjoy. Stick to crowd favorite foods and use spices or ethnic offerings sparingly. Offer veg-etables, a starch such as rice or potatoes, a lean meat or poultry, and perhaps a seafood dish.

• Make items in advance. Hosting a party requires hosts to take on several different roles. Hosts don’t want to spend the party serving and preparing dishes in the kitchen while their guests are having fun. When-ever possible, choose dishes that can be prepared and refrigerated or frozen in advance of the party. Such dishes can then be reheated the day of the party, saving you time and making sure you get to spend some quality time with your guests. Store-bought appetizers or side dishes can help you focus on the main courses and free up some extra preparation time.

Many couples preparing for their trip down the aisle follow the familiar sentiments expressed by Dorothy in “The Wizard of Oz.” Such couples feel “there’s no place like home” when hosting a wed-ding ceremony or reception.

There are many benefits to hosting a wedding at home. Homes often hold couples’ most cherished memories, and hosting a backyard cel-ebration or an intimate indoor ceremony at your own home or the abode of a loved one can be a cost-effective way to have a good time.

Here are some tips to help couples navigate hosting an at-home wedding.

Assess the spaceThe average home is not

equipped to handle hundreds of guests, wait staff, caterers, and parked cars. Concessions in regard to comfort and safety will have to be made when drawing up the guest list. The wedding resource The Knot advises the general rule is six- to 10 square-feet of floor space per guest for row seating. You’ll probably need even more space for buffet tables, seating and a dance floor.

You will likely need to temporarily move furniture to comfortably fit everyone indoors – or rent a large enough tent for a backyard wedding.

Hire a cleaning service

It’s important to present a clean, inviting space when hosting a wedding at home. A cleaning service will conduct a thorough cleaning before and after the festivities, free-ing up your time for last-minute tasks or to embark on your honeymoon.

Book an officiant earlyConfirm with an officiant

that they can oversee the wedding proceedings at your home. Many religious offi-cials are not able to perform ceremonies outside of a place of worship.

Learn if it’s legalCertain municipalities may

require permits for parking on street, noise past a certain hour, closing of streets, and much more. Do your research. You may need to coordinate parking at a nearby lot (like a school closed on the weekend) and shuttle people to your home.

Consult with an insurance carrier

Inquire if having such a large party at home is cov-ered by your homeowner’s insurance policy, particularly if your home is damaged or someone gets injured during the festivities. Supplemental liability insurance or an um-brella policy may offer greater protection.

Weddings at home can be a unique opportunity for cou-ples who love the comfort and familiarity of their homes.

Shopping for a wedding gown is a tradition that follows shortly after the engagement has taken place and the ceremony date is set. Some women have very clear ideas of which type of silhouette and features they desire in a wedding gown, while others are open to suggestion. Most brides-to-be hope to look their most radiant in this custom-tailored creation.

According to Kim Forrest, the editor of Wed-dingWire, an online marketplace for wedding-related items, strapless dresses are the standard for wedding attire, and that trend is unlikely top change anytime soon. Style directors for Martha Stewart Weddings agree, saying that roughly 75 percent of wedding dresses are strapless, although some alternative necklines are starting to become more popular. With so much attention directed their way, brides might look for ways to tone their upper bodies in advance of the big day.

Arm-, chest- and shoulder-toning exercises can be part of a strong fitness regimen. The upper arms and the shoulders have no fewer than nine primary muscles that will need firming for brides to make an impact while walking down the aisle.

Tame flabby areas with exercise. According to the University of Connecticut, the upper arms

are a part of the female body where fat tends to be stored, along with the hips and thighs. Ton-ing this area may take a combination of diet and exercise.

Begin with the biceps, which are the front muscles of the arms directly above the elbows. Biceps are one of the stronger arm muscles, and bi-cep curls can help strengthen biceps further. Shape magazine suggests performing 12 repetitions of three hand positions, palms up, palms down and thumbs to the side, to really work this area.

The triceps are a single muscle that have three sections, according to Fitness. Doing triceps kick-backs, bench dips and triangle push-ups can really activate these muscles and cause them to become stronger and more toned.

Strengthening and elongating shoulder muscles may take a combination of exercises that work not only the deltoids (muscles surrounding the shoul-ders), but the chest and back as well. Arm raises, both with arms extended to the side and in front of the body, can work these areas well.

Brides who want to tone up can speak with a fitness instructor at a nearby gym to learn the various ways to firm their arms, chests and backs in advance of their wedding days.

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Recently engaged couples may be excited to get a jump on wedding planning. Bridal shows can be a great way for couples to meet and famil-iarize themselves with local wedding professionals, all the while introducing themselves to the terminology of wedding planning.

Though they’re a great source of information, contacts and samples, bridal shows also can be a bit overwhelming. Learn-ing how to maximize time spent at shows can help couples plan their weddings as efficiently as possible.

• Start small. If the idea of large crowds is unappeal-ing, attend the more intimate, boutique shows that are often held at local reception halls and restaurants instead of the larger installations at conven-tion centers and hotels.

• Scout out vendors. Check the bridal show’s website for lists of exhibitors and see if your desired vendors are on the list. But even if they’re not, keep an open mind and use the show as a chance to

compare offerings. If an event map is available, marking off must-visit booths can help save time.

• Pre-register. Pre-regis-tering for bridal events saves time at check-in, and doing so may make you eligible for discounted tickets.

• Come prepared. Chances are each vendor is going to ask couples for information so that they can follow up with a phone

call or email with more de-tailed offerings and estimates. Couples attending the show can expediate the process by coming equipped with labels that feature their names, contact information and wedding date. They can then stick the labels on sign-in sheets or use them like business cards.

• Dress comfortably. Bridal expos involve a lot of walking and roaming around. Wear

comfortable clothing and shoes. Consider a backpack or hands-free bag so you are not weighed down when collecting the swag and other handouts throughout the day.

• Ask questions. When face-to-face with vendors, rely on their expertise but don’t hesi-tate to ask questions concerning themes, colors, recommenda-tions for honeymoon locations, invitation paper suggestions,

and much more.• Stay for the fashion show.

Many shows will offer a runway experience to present the latest gown and tuxedo offerings. This can be an entertaining way for couples to formulate their wedding styles.

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According to TripSavvy, 99 percent of couples who choose to have traditional weddings take a honeymoon. Around 1.4 million couples in the United States depart for honeymoons around the world each year, spending an average of $4,466 on the trip.

Though not nearly as pres-sure-filled as wedding plan-ning, honeymoons do require some planning to ensure a fun and memorable trip. In a Bridal Guide survey, wed-ding couples indicated they were most likely to worry about wardrobe, swimsuits, sunglasses, sunscreen, and luggage when getting ready to depart.

Couples who want to look their best on their honeymoon and in their honeymoon pho-tos should not forget to pack the following items.

• Sunscreen: Sunscreen is a must whether you’re travel-ing to the pink beaches of a tropical island or the slopes of a ski resort. Choose a product that protects against both UVA and UVB rays, and be sure to reapply every 80 minutes or so, especially after perspir-ing or swimming. Sunscreen will help prevent damaging and painful sunburns that can

adversely affect a trip.• Makeup-remover wipes:

Even high-end resorts may not provide the correct face bar for removing makeup and refresh-ing skin. Makeup-removing wipes can offer deep cleaning in a few convenient swipes.

• Hair refresher: Brides who want to get a few extra days out of a wedding day hairstyle should pack a hair refreshing spray to tame static and add UV protectors that keep locks pampered until they’re ready to wash. Dry shampoos also allow for a little refreshing of hair be-tween daytime adventures and evening dinner.

• Eye cream: There may be a few late nights while you’re enjoying romantic, candlelit meals or hitting up the hot spots around a resort. Ensure honeymoon photos do not show tired eyes with an eye cream that can reduce puffi-ness and dark circles.

• Tinted moisturizer or BB cream: A high-quality tinted moisturizer or BB cream will hydrate skin and add just a sheer wash of color to even out skin tone. Pair with lip balm and a waterproof mascara and your honeymoon face will be ready.

• Teeth whitening treat-ment: Couples who invested time and money into achieving whiter teeth for their weddings don’t want to let all of that hard work go to waste. Brush on whitening product after eating and drinking to prevent stains and freshen breath.

• Blotting papers: Humid climates may cause perspira-tion and oils to leach out of the skin. Tame shine and that greasy feeling with blotting papers purchased from a cos-metics retailer.

• Light fragrance: Heavy perfumes have no business on breezy honeymoon escapes. Find a light, flowery scent or something tied to nature, like citrus in a travel-sized atomizer.

• Stick-on bra cups: To feel more stylish and comfortable in strapless and/or backless dresses on their honeymoons, brides can use stick-on bra cups that offer support and lift.

• Travel brow kit: Keep brows tamed and looking great with mini-tweezers, brow filler and gel.

Honeymoon beauty is easy to achieve if the right supplies are brought along on the trip.

Maintain honeymoon beauty

Marriage proposals inside restaurants are popular ways to pop the question. Many couples find proposing over a candlelit meal is a ro-mantic way to get engaged, providing a perfect setting to begin a life together.

Even though restaurant proposals have been popu-larized by television sit-coms and movies on the big screen, those taking this route should do some home-work before sitting down to eat. As with all components of wedding planning, it’s essential to get the proposal right to create lasting, posi-tive memories.

DO choose a place with the right ambience. If you do not have a favorite res-taurant in mind, go online and do some research for picturesque or romantic es-tablishments. Many online reviews now include images, which can help you find the right setting.

DO make a reservation. An engagement should not be left to chance. Call ahead and speak with a manager and mention that you will be orchestrating a proposal. Find out if the restaurant

will help you make it extra special. Some may decorate your table with favori te flowers or provide a specific champagne once the pro-posal has been accepted.

DON’T propose at the beginning of the meal. Set the scene with conversation and start to enjoy as much of the food as possible. Take time to enjoy the service, food and beverages. Some appetizers and a little wine in your stomach can ease pre-proposal jitters as well.

DON’T forget the ring. The ring is its own spectacle, but there are ways to present it in an even more glorious light. Plan ahead so that the ring is tied to an exquisite tea cup brought out during dessert service. Or, if you’re worried about putting the ring in the hands of others, bring along a hand-painted

plate that asks “Will You Marry Me?” The wait staff can cover the question with the entreé or a dessert. As your partner eats, the mes-sage will become clear.

DO expect a scene. Pro-posing marriage in a restau-rant is bound to cause a big reaction - tears included. If you’re not comfortable with public displays, you may want to reconsider popping the question in such a public setting.

DO consider a weeknight. Restaurants are less busy on weeknights than weekends, so you can expect a more intimate setting Monday through Thursday than you might find Friday through Sunday.

Restaurant proposals are traditional, and there are various ways to make them just right.

Each year, millions of cou-ples around the world tie the knot. But before couples walk down the aisle, the proposal to get married must take place. Many couples mutually agree to get engaged, while the experience may be a surprise for others who have thought about it, but may not have been sure when one partner or another would “pop the question.”

Upon getting engaged, couples may ponder how long their engagement should last. There is no perfect an-swer, and engagement length typically depends on personal preference and the needs of the couple. In fact, accord-ing to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average length of an engagement is 14.5 months.

A number of factors af-fect the length of a couple’s engagement, and couples should not feel as if they need to hurry down the aisle. For example, couples who will be financing their own weddings may need a longer

engagement than those whose parents will be chipping in. In such instances, longer engagements give couples more time to save and may help them ensure their wed-dings are everything they hoped for.

Others may prefer a shorter engagement if they are finan-cially stable and prepared to tie the knot. Couples in their late 30s may feel the tug of a biological clock and want to ensure there is ample time to get married and have children. A shorter engagement can facilitate that.

Some couples may have little choice in the matter, as the length of their engage-ments may be dictated by the availability of their favorite venues.

Military deployment, work commitments, medical issues, or travel responsibilities also may affect the length of an engagement.

Some couples may feel that an especially lengthy engagement diminishes their excitement about getting mar-

ried. That “new engagement shine” can wear off as family and friends wait months or years for the wedding to take place.

Couples generally are ad-vised to stick with what feels right to them regarding the length of their engagements. Just like all aspects of the wedding, couples can weigh the opinions of others but fol-low through with what works best for them.

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