building family recovery through client support and provider collaboration aka managing boundaries:...
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Building Family Recovery Through Client Support and Provider Collaboration AKA Managing
Boundaries: Working across Child Welfare, Early Supports and Substance Abuse Systems
• Debra Bercuvitz,MPH• Debbie Flynn-Gonzalez,M.Ed.
History of FRESH Start (FS)
FRESH (Family Recovery Engagement Support of Hampden County) Start
Joint initiative with Mass Dept. of Public Health and Mass Dept. of Children and Families since 2008
with funding from U.S. Children's Bureau
Service Model
• FS’s home visiting combines peer mentoring, a major component of the program, support and advocacy with clinical guidance and treatment
• Staff provides connection to resources, as well as direct recovery and parenting assistance.
• Staff partner with child welfare, early intervention, and substance use disorder workers to increase client engagement with their services and improve outcomes
Philosophy of Care
• Strengths-based• Trauma-informed• Collaborative• Family-focused• Evidence-based• Consumer-directed• Culturally-relevant
What do we all want to hear? “For me, I really needed to have
at least ONE person telling me that I did something right. I felt like every single person who came in to see me was about to tell me everything I was doing was wrong, I just really needed to hear something good about me as a mom even if it seemed small, cause I felt like I couldn’t do anything right, and I felt a lot of guilt.”
Half Empty Half Full
Substance AbuseDrug Addicted BabiesAddicted Mom“On methadone”“Dirty Urine”Non-compliant / difficultLost Parental RightsHistory of Substance
Abuse
Substance Use/DisorderSubstance Exposed NewbornsMother with a SUDMedication Assisted Treatment
Positive ScreenNot open to, not ready, has own ideasNon-custodial Parent
In recovery / substance use disorder
Strength-Based Recovery Language
Half Empty Half Full
Suffering from…
Treatment TeamWeaknessesUnrealisticAbstinence
Relapse / Failure
Working to recover from; experiencing; living with
Recovery Support System/Recovery TeamBarriers to change; needs
Person w/high expectations for self /recoveryPromoting/sustaining recovery
PROLAPSE Person is re-experiencing symptoms of illness/addiction; an opportunity to develop and/or apply coping skills and to draw meaning from managing an adverse event: Re-occurrence
Half Empty Half Full
Discharged to aftercare
Enable
Manipulative
Connected to long-term recovery management
Empower the individual through empathy, emotional authenticity, and encouragement
Resourceful; really trying to get help
Trauma-Informed• “What has happened to you?”
rather than “What is wrong with you?”
• Service delivery is based on an understanding of the vulnerabilities or triggers of trauma survivors that traditional service delivery approaches may exacerbate
• Place as much control as possible in hands of families
• Heighten sensitivity in mothers and providers to ways in which past experiences and coping strategies might be driving current behaviors
Challenges to Parenting for Some Women with SUDs
• Own inadequate parenting hx, trauma, co-occurring disorders, multitude of stressors, difficulty with self-regulation.
• Hard time considering needs of others, responding to cues, behaving consistently.
• Limited understanding of basic child dev’t, inadequate supervision, poor reflective functioning, compromised attachment.
Substance Use and Parenting
• Both need addressing concurrently• Parenting as normalizing role and motivator• Can also be a barrier to treatment—fear,
practicalities• Assume ability to parent well and need for
successful parenting moments
Substance Use and Parenting
• We need to normalize the stress of motherhood generally, and stress of motherhood coupled with active use and with recovery.
• Include parent-child activities in everything, model “normal” family practices which are often brand new to mothers parenting in recovery for the first time (baby showers, family meals, picnics, reading books)
• Identify MH providers in your community who are trained in Child Parent Psychotherapy, other trauma interventions, or have experience working with co-occurring disorders/families
Family Support
Tips for Connecting Moms to Treatment
• Present ALL kinds of treatment• Know what treatment options are actually available and be ready to act
on it immediately• Help them to identify supports and put in place if they go in to treatment• Make calls together, don’t just give them numbers and don’t just do it for
them, make them do it together• For moms who are not ready yet, bring them to meetings to hear from
others, don’t give up but don’t push• Be honest and upfront, “So are you ready to stop using?” instead of asking
vague questions like ”Are you using?” when you know they are; then ask what step they are ready to take
• Congratulate them for even thinking about getting into recovery, at least we are having the conversation, good for you
• GETTING TREATMENT IS THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR CHILDREN
What They Need In Their Words…
COLLABORATION
Collaboration with Other Providers
• Child Safety and Family Recovery• Consents• Phone Calls and Introductions• Exchanging Plans• Family Conferences• Joint Appointments
Collaboration for Child Safety and Well-Being and Family Recovery
• What are barriers to collaborating with other providers?– Any specific to Part C, Behavioral Health, and Child
Welfare?
• What strategies have proved helpful for you?
Collaboration--Consents
• First appointment—Checklist• Get consents right from the start. We are creating a team to help support
you and we need to communicate.• I can share all of the positive things you are doing and we can figure out
how to support you when things aren’t going so well.• I will always be honest with you about what I am sharing, and if there is an
issue around abuse/neglect, we will do it together or I will let you know, no secrets.
• If you are uncomfortable, we can place limitations on the release, i.e. we can only discuss participation in program.
• Without a release, I can’t answer questions and others will likely assume the worst.
• We have had great success with providers approaching us with their worries, asking us what we think and then we can talk with them and increase support.
Collaboration—Initial Contact
• Phone and email – Introductions– Description of roles– Responsibilities– Best method of communication– Exchanging Plans• Include safety planning and relapse prevention
Safety Planning
• Establishes common goals for collaboration
• Need to think about relationship between using substances and safety of children
• Sample Forms
Collaboration--Ongoing
• Regular Phone/Email Contact
• Family Conferences
• Joint Appointments
• Safety Mapping and Strengths-Based Work
Collaboration in Action
1. Re-occurrence of substance use
2. Birth while mother is in medication-assisted treatment
3. Safety mapping
Re-occurrence AKA Relapse—Opportunity for Collaboration to
Improve Outcomes
Institute for Health and Recovery
Stages of Change
Pre-contemplation
Contemplation Preparation
ActionRelapse
Maintenance
Institute for Health and Recovery
What Does the Individual Want to Do About the Problem?
• Nothing• Unsure; ambivalent• Change behavior, but
how?• Take specific action• Maintain new behavior• Test need for new
behavior
• Pre-contemplation• Contemplation• Preparation/
determination• Action• Maintenance• Relapse
(Prochaska, DiClemente, 1982)
Relapse is a process, it's not an event.
Mental relapse
Physical relapse
Emotional relapse
The Stages of Relapse
Emotional Relapse
Intolerance
Defensiveness
Anxiety
Anger
Mood swings
Poor sleep habits
Not asking for help
Not going to meetings
Poor eating habits
Isolation
Mental RelapseThe signs of mental relapse are
Glamorizing your past use.
Hanging out with old using friends.
Thinking about people, places, and things you used with. Lying.
Fantasizing about using.
Planning your relapse around other people's schedules.
Thinking about relapsing.
Techniques for Dealing with Mental Relapse
Tell someone that you're having urges to use.
Distract yourself.
Play the tape through.
Wait for 30 minutes.
Make relaxation part of your recovery.
Do your recovery one day at a time.
Physical Relapse* Remember…Relapse is a PROCESS,
not an EVENT* Hard to stop the process
at physical relapse point*Focus efforts on RECOVERY, not
achieving abstinence through brute force
Tracing back
Working together…DCF
• Open Communication• Relapse Prevention /
Recovery Plans• Safety Planning• When relapse happens
CommunitySupports/Services
• Mental Health Providers• Treatment Programs• Family members• Faith-based
Role Play…
Congratulations on having your baby in recovery…
DCF is likely to want to know how you are doing to make sure that you and your baby can have a safe return from the hospital. This is especially true if you have been involved with DCF before, or are on methadone or buprenorphine. The more information that you can provide them with, the easier their job is.
Here are some ideas of things that you can do to be prepared: Get letters of support from anyone working with you, including your
– treatment provider– therapist– prenatal provider– other home visitor (like Early Intervention or Healthy Families)– after incarceration staff person– religious leader
Congratulations on having your baby in recovery…
Get copies of urine screens. DCF staff is likely to get the screens themselves if you don’t give them. If you have positive
screens, you can give them any information that might be helpful to understanding those screens.
Sign two-way consent forms for each provider to speak with DCF staff. This means that the provider can speak with DCF staff and DCF staff can speak with the
provider. Each consent form should have the name and contact number of the person to be contacted during a DCF initial assessment or investigation. If DCF staff can’t speak with your providers, they might assume the worst without other information.
Make a cover sheet that lists all of the materials that will be provided to DCF. Two copies should be made of all items, one for you to keep and one for the hospital to fax to DCF. When you go to the hospital, bring the copy of the materials for DCF to give to the
postpartum social worker and ask her to fax it to DCF if/when necessary.
Safety Mapping
• Sharing Perspectives Using an Organizing Framework
Promising Practice Our data show that…• when pregnant women or new mothers of substance exposed
newborns have one face to face meeting with a mother in recovery more than 85 % engage with the project.
• Three quarters of those who engaged initially remained engaged for at least 6 months.
• For the clients who were actively engaged with the program, the percentage of months spent “in recovery” was 84%. “Active use” was reported for only 5% and the remaining 4% were reported as “relapse” from at least 30 days of recovery.
Promising Practice cont’d• By their 6th month in the program, 86% of mothers had physical custody of
their babies and by 12th month 94% did. Twice as many families had no involvement with the Department of Children and Families (child welfare) at Time 2 as at Baseline.
• An accomplishment given the fact that of the 73% of FS moms who had older children, 68% had lost permanent custody of some or all of their older children.
• Engagement in other services--75% of babies in EI, 75% of moms received treatment services for substance use and co-occurring disorders.
When it works…
• Collaboration happens• Providers and families
work together• A Recovery Team is
formed• Collaborative partners
appreciate skills of home visitors
• Community service providers see persons in recovery as able to change
When it works…
• Babies go home with their mothers
• Attachments are secure
• Babies are nurtured• Parent & child have a
bond
When it works…
• Children thrive when their parents thrive• Parent is
motivated to maintain recovery
When it works…
• Children learn• Children are
happy• Children develop
appropriately• Children succeed
When it works…
• Parents see their own potential• Parents pursue
their dreams
When it works…
• Parents begin to trust in systems
• Moms begin to see themselves as capable parents
• Families are reunified
• Moms get a chance for a new start
When it works…
• People in recovery become active members of their community• People in recovery are valued by their community
It’s not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself.
Joyce Maynard
Questions???
Debra BercuvitzFresh Start DirectorMA Department of Public [email protected]
Debbie Flynn-GonzalezFamily Services Supervisor Square One /FRESH Start [email protected]