we just broke up - should i phone her?

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We all make mistakes, and it's especially painful when we make the horrible mistake of breaking up with a soul mate.

They realize after a while that they probably didn't put too much thought into it and broke up with their soul mate which was a huge mistake. Now all they want is to find some way to get back with them.

This is a bad situation to be in and it can seem devastating to know that you've lost the one love you thought you could always turn to, and what makes it worse is you are the one that rejected them.

We just broke up, should I phone her? This is something I've read, heard and get asked a lot about.

In fact, I had even asked this question myself when I mistakenly broke up with my soul mate and I couldn't find the answer without the help of my family and friends during my breakup.

Yes, the answers is you definitely should call them after the breakup when you realize it was a mistake, or even if you just want to stay friends.

This is obvious because you will need to communicate with her if you want any chance of fixing things. The real question here is: WHEN should you call her, and WHAT should you say to maximize your chances of getting her back?

As a matter of fact, what you need to do is

give yourself and her a chance by creating space and time apart for a while after the breakup so that you can both think things over, work out what happened and what you should do to make it up to her.

What are the mistakes that led to you breaking up with her and what can you do to prevent these mistakes from popping up again in the future? If you want to get her back then you need to work these things out.

Usually a period of around 2 - 4 weeks is considered to be the right amount of time to give you the best chance of getting her back, this will allow you both to settle emotionally and get to a point where you can both work things out.

This is called "The No Contact Rule". You should keep no contact with her for at

least two weeks. Then, you should casually phone her and ask her how she's doing and what's she's been upto in life.

Sticking to the “No Contact Rule” is the best chance you’ve got.

Just be casual and gently work your way down into deeper questions. Don't rush things with her or she may notice your main intention is to get back with her.

You need to be smart and take things slowly, one step at a time. If you rush this then there's a chance you will blow it with her for good.

Take things slowly with her.

Try to show her that since your breakup you have gained confidence and that you are ready to move on in your life.

Show her you’ve a renewed confidence in yourself.

Make sure that she knows you are enjoying life and getting up to fun and exciting stuff on a daily basis but without giving away too much.You want to create some mystery which will make her curious about you.

By taking small steps and showing yourself as a person who is ready to move on in life without her can greatly affect your chances with your ex, especially if she still has feelings for you.

If you've followed this advice carefully you may find that she is the one who starts to do the chasing instead of you.

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