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MCTC - Millennium Musings Volume 2 (July’16 to Dec’16) The word Millennium has been taken from the
name of our Club name 'Millennium City'
Musings means: A period of thought or reflection,
Like pondering/ contemplation
31-Dec-16
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Contents From President’s Desk ................................................................................................................................................. 3
About MCTC ................................................................................................................................................................. 5
Executive committee members for period July’16 to Dec’16 ...................................................................................... 6
Summary of meetings from July’16 to Dec’16 ............................................................................................................. 7
150th meeting celebration ............................................................................................................................................ 9
Club awards during July’16 to Dec’16 ........................................................................................................................ 17
Members Education during July’16 to Dec’16 ........................................................................................................... 18
Humorous and Evaluation Club level contest ............................................................................................................ 32
Humorous and Evaluation Area level contest............................................................................................................ 33
Humorous and Evaluation Division level contest ...................................................................................................... 34
Humorous and Evaluation District-41 level contest .................................................................................................. 35
My Drawing Room ..................................................................................................................................................... 36
I Am Old: A Confession ............................................................................................................................................... 37
My Toastmaster journey ............................................................................................................................................ 38
One good quality – Stoicism?..................................................................................................................................... 41
Right time to invest .................................................................................................................................................... 43
Manage Your Personal Finance Better ...................................................................................................................... 44
Giving is gracious than receiving ................................................................................................................................ 45
New Elected Executive committee members for period Jan’17 to June’17 .............................................................. 47
Contributors ............................................................................................................................................................... 48
Editors Team .............................................................................................................................................................. 48
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From President’s Desk Dear Readers,
It is a matter of great privilege and honour, to be the president of a club, as prestigious as Millennium City Toastmasters Club. Our strength lies in our diversity. We grew, and we grew, and we grew - and finally split our wonderful club, into two wonderful clubs! The enthusiasm and vigour shown towards the split, by MCTC members, is worth mentioning here. Many MCTC members came forward to take up responsibilities in the Executive committee of the baby club. The members of MCTC share a special bond. The two hours spent at the club meetings, are full of learning, life, fun, excitement and laughter. A single meeting of MCTC comprises of an array of speeches - right from finance, to the ABCs of driving, to marriage, to spirituality! Our members can be seen and heard, encouraging fellow toastmasters; pushing them to be and do their best. I can safely say that MCTC added value, happiness and contentment to my life, by leaps and bounds. It helped me connect with myself. I remember the 1st step I took towards the stage, as a table topics speaker - I remember being petrified :). However, the ever smiling faces and nodding heads in the audience helped me overcome my fear and begin my Toastmasters journey. One of MCTC's mottos is to help the guests feel welcome, and encourage them to speak in front of everyone. We know how challenging it is, to muster up the courage to face strangers, and speak in a language that is not our mother tongue. However, we also know, that a Toastmasters club is the only place, where one can make as many mistakes as possible, learn from them, and grow as a speaker. In fact, it is THE place to make mistakes! Receiving your first certificate as the best speaker or evaluator is a memorable experience. It takes you to cloud 9! A toastmasters meeting is the only place, where members are encouraged and awarded, week after week!
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Another great way of learning, and growing, is to participate in the various speech and evaluation contests held every 6 months. Starting at the club level, members have the opportunity to go up to the international level, and contest against the crème de la crème in the Toastmasters fraternity across the world. The contest season is around the corner now! I urge every member of MCTC to participate in it. Winning does matter, but the participation itself helps one to shackle the barriers of one's comfort zone and shed all inhibitions. The last six months have been exceptional for us, where we have been able to file the maximum number of education awards in District 41. It gives me a sense of great achievement, as I step down from the post of the President of MCTC, making way for fresh talent to steer the direction in which our remarkable club is headed. I would like to take this opportunity to wish the new President and his team, the best of luck. We have elected the best team possible! May MCTC continue to rise and shine, day by day. May we all keep celebrating MCTC's successes; one after the other! Here's to the best club in the world! Cheers! Shveta Gupta President Millennium City Toastmasters Club
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About MCTC Millennium City Toastmasters Club
(MCTC) is a community club in
Gurgaon that meets each week to
conduct learn-by-doing workshops in
which participants hone their
speaking, communication and
leadership skills in a no-pressure
atmosphere. There is no instructor.
Instead, members evaluate each
other’s speeches. This feedback
process is a key part of the program’s
success. Meeting participants also give
impromptu speeches on assigned
topics.
All have different set of requirements.
Some join Toastmasters to fight the
fear of public speaking, some to
become better leaders, some to be
more effective at engaging an
audience, some to develop their
humor and wit. The reasons are
endless. MCTC invests time in its new
members to understand their
personal reasons of wanting to join
Toastmasters, aligns those needs with
the different Toastmasters' projects,
helps members formulate a growth
plan and datelines to ensure a sharp
and focused learning chart.
Each new member is assigned a mentor who helps him/her develop as a speaker and leader. As a protocol, speeches at MCTC can only be delivered after discussions with the speaker’s mentor. This ensures fast-track personal progress and quality speeches at the meetings. The club has members of all age groups from across the work spectrum. As peripherals, we have a lot fun at the meetings, network for professional and personal reasons and develop our personalities! We invite you to attend one of our meetings as a guest of the club and understand the dynamics of the meeting.
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Executive committee members for period
July’16 to Dec’16 President - Shveta Gupta
Vice President – Education –Rahul Kokadwar
Vice President – Membership – Anuj Garg
Vice president – Public relationship – Rakhi Aswal
Secretary – Ankita Dutta
Treasurer – Geetesh Patidar
Sergeant-at-arms – Nirman Sharma
Immediate past President – Amit Gulati
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Summary of meetings from July’16 to Dec’16
Date Meeting Number
Theme of Meeting
TMOD Best Speaker
Best Evaluator
Best Table Topic Speaker
Best Role Player
03.07.2016 142 Jam Shveta Gupta
Manisha Manchanda
Anjana Sharda
Bhowmick Shveta Gupta
10.07.2016 143 Lessons Learnt Amit Gulati Prashant Keole
Shveta Gupta
- Amit Gulati
17.07.16 144 E-commerce in India
Shashi Ranjan
Shveta Gupta
Amit Gulati - Shashi Ranjan
24.07.16 145 Freedom Anuj Garg Bakul Joshi Amit Gulati Amit Gulati Anuj Garg
31.07.16 146 It’s Good to be Bad
Nitin Sagar Manisha Manchanda
Ankita Dutta
Nirman Sharma
Nitin Sagar
07.08.2016 147 If you lose your temper, you lose
Bakul Joshi Nitin Sagar Anjana Sharda
Ankita Dutta
Bakul Joshi
15.08.2016 148 Love What you do S. Imtiaz Ali Rahul Kokadwar
S. Imtiaz Ali Prashant Keole
S. Imtiaz Al
21.08.2016 149 Evaluation & Humorous speech contest
Contest chair :- Ankita Dutta & Dipti Singhal
28.08.2016 150 150th meeting celebration
Event Chair - Shveta Gupta & Event organized - Amit Gulati & Rahul Kokadwar
04.09.2016 151 Logical Reasoning Rahul Kokadwar
Shveta Gupta
Bakul Joshi Mukesh Kalothia (District Director)
Ankita Dutta
11.09.2016 152 SWOT Analysis Shveta Gupta
Prashant Keole
Amit Gulati - Bakul Joshi
18.09.2016 153 Emotional Intelligence
Vivek Sharma
Shashi Ranjan
Ankita Anuj Garg Vivek Sharma
25.09.2016 154 The leader as a coach
Rakhi Aswal Ankita Dutta
Shveta Gupta
- Rakhi Aswal
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DateDate Meeting No.
Theme of Meeting
TMOD Best Speaker
Best Evaluator
Best Table Topic Speaker
Best Role Player
02.10.2016 155 A Toastmaster's Education Journey
Shveta Gupta
Vivek Sharma
Anu Ghorse Anuj Garg Nitin Sagar
09.10.2016 156 Going beyond Rahul Kokadwar
Vivek Sharma
Manisha Manchanda
Manisha Manchanda
Rahul Kokadwar
16.10.2016 157 Black Monery Shashi Ranjan
Kavish Chauhan
Shashi Ranjan
Aniruddh (Guest)
Shashi Ranjan
23.10.2016 158 Mind mapping Rakhi Aswal Ahad Anuj Garg Sachin (Guest)
Rakhi Aswal (TMOD0
30.10.2016 159 Light it up Dipti Singhal Shashi Ranjan
Manish Dembla (GTMC)
Ankur Yadhav (GOT)
Shveta Gupta (Grammarian)
06.11.2016 160 Good Boss, Bad Boss
Ankita Shashi Ranjan
Shveta Gupta
Vikas Bajaj (Guest)
Ankita
13.11.2016 161 Exploratory Books
Sachin Manisha Manchanda
Anuj Shashi Ranjan
Sachin
20.11.2016 162 Goal setting & planning
Rakhi Aswal Bakul Joshi Amit Gulati Ankita Dutta Rakhi Aswal
27.11.2016 163 Eat the Live frog Bakul Joshi Nirman Sachin Rathi
Sachin Rathi Bakul Joshi
04.12.2016 164 Life Science Dipti Singhal Ali Ankita Dutta
Sourabh Ankita (TTM)
11.12.2016 165 Machine learning, what, how & why
Ahad Manisha Manchanda
Ankita Dutta
Kavish Ahad
18.12.2016 166 Passing the Baton
Rahul Kokadwar
- - Ahad Khan Rahul Kokadwar
25.12.2016 167 Merry Christmas & Happy New Year
Rakhi Aswal Prashant Keole
Nirman Rahul Kokadwar
Ahad
Supplementary role players: New award started from 27th Nov 2016 and winners are
27.11.2016 – Sarika Sagar 04.12.2016 – Ahad Khan 11.12.2016 – Sourabh Bansal 18.12.2016 – Deepika 25.12.2016 – Sachin Rathi
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150th meeting celebration Millennium City Toastmasters Club, had put together a very Fun & Informative 150th Meeting on 28th August 2016. The event was held at a vibrant venue and the meeting was followed by Lunch. The event was chaired by President Shveta Gupta. The meeting was graced by the presence eminent personalities Mr. Amol Arora & Mrs. Meenal Arora - entrepreneurs in education segment. The husband-wife duo Founded Shemrock Futuristic Schools to offer holistic development of young minds. They have been conferred with several awards nationally and are widely recognized Educationists.
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President Shveta invited Mrs. Meenal Arora on stage. Mrs. Meenal delivered a module on Effective public speaking. She shared her journey as a public speaker, the challenges she faced and how she has transformed them in to opportunities. She started by asking the audience to pen down 3 things that deter them from speaking as well as they want to in public - Fear of the unknown. The exercise made sure the audience was aware of their phobias and how to tackle them as they listened to the module. She provided valuable insights and helpful tips:
- 75% of people fear public speaking. - Expect Murphy’s law - Be prepared to face it. Enjoy it. - Ask Questions about venue: Familiarity brings comfort. - 3P s - Prepare, Practice, Perform. - She warned against over-preparing/ over-structuring speeches. - There needs to be enough substance in your speech. A good speech is like a
pencil, it has to have a point.
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Next item was a skit. The participants in the skit were Shveta, Manisha Mehta, Amit & Dipti. They took us through the journey of formation of MCTC, the challenges of club, the current camaraderie of club. Through the skit, they
highlighted all the awards the club has won. Toastmaster Rahul had put together a beautiful video of photos capturing the journey of MCTC. Right from First EC to the recently concluded club-contests, from Educational achievements to Team luncheons - the video covered it all. It was a trip down the memory lane. He later conducted a Quiz basis the information flashed in the video. Rahul handed the stage back to Event chair Shveta. Up next there was a Fun Activity Session planned by Toastmaster Amit Gulati. He had multiple activities lined up one after the other, which had the audience all pumped up with excitement. All participants were given a bar of chocolate.
a) Table Topics :
1. My first day at College – Bakul Joshi
2. My first date. A rainy night and the car broke down – Kapil Ghorse
3. How I met my wife – My first proposal – Mr. Amol Arora
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b) Tongue Twisters :-
1. I saw a kitten eating Chicken in the Kitchen
I saw a kitten eating Chicken in the Kitchen
I saw a kitten eating Chicken in the Kitchen
I saw a kitten eating Chicken in the Kitchen
I saw a kitten eating Chicken in the Kitchen
To Ankita Dutta
2. Eddie edited it
Eddie edited it Eddie edited it Eddie edited it Eddie edited it To Anu Ghorse
c) Shout it out - Toastmasters Shveta & Gaurav battling it out “Who’s shout is
the loudest”
d) Popping the peanuts -Toastmasters Nirman & Anirudh throwing peanuts high
up in the air and gulping them down as they come down.
e) Balancing the ball on the bat- Toastmasters Shashi, Geetesh & Bishan
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Amol Arora delivered a module on Entrepreneurship.
He busted common myths about entrepreneurship.
- Take charge of your life
- Don’t be afraid to make mistakes.
- Replace ‘I wish’ with ‘I will’.
- As an entrepreneur you create jobs for others.
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Quiz by Quizmaster Rahul Kokadwar 1. When did Toastmasters international start? Ans- 22 Oct 1924 2. When did MCTC start? Ans- 25th June 2013 3. Who was first President of MCTC Ans- Ankur Rana 4. How many awards has MCTC got from july'15 to June'16 Ans a.Talk up Toastmaster ( 5 members in Feb and Mar) b. Smedley award ( 5 members in Aug & Sep) c. Beat the clock (5 members in May and June) d. President's distinguish club e. Raising star award 5. Who were the winner of ISC and Table topic contest in Feb'16 from MCTC Ans. ISC - Amit Gulati, Shveta Gupta & Mohit Mendiretta TT- Mohit Mendiretta, Amit Gulati & Anuj Garg 6. How many couples are members of MCTC and who are they? Ans- 1. Gaurav & Manisha 2. Anu & Kapil 3. Monika & Varun 7. How many DCP goals has MCTC achieved in last year i.e July'15 to June’16? Ans- All 10 goals 8. Who is DTM from our club? Ans- Kapil Ghorse
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9. Who recently completed ACB from MCTC? Ans-Mohit Mendiratta 10. What is the criteria for Rising star award Ans- 7 officers trained and 8 new members added 11. Who is second VP at Toastmaster international ? Ans- Deepak Memon 12. How many education awards have been filed from 1st July 2016 to 28th Aug by MCTC Ans- Kapil- ALS and DTM Rakhi- CL Prashant-CC Anuj- CC Mohit-ACB Rahul Kokadwar -CC 13. Under which area, division and district does MCTC fall? Ans- Area C1, Division C and District 41 14. How many members are part of MCTC? Ans-52 15. What is the criteria to achieve Select distinguish club? Ans-7 DCP goals 16. What is the tag line of District 41? Ans- WE CAN & WE WILL
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Club awards during July’16 to Dec’16
1. Rising star 2. Golden Gavel award 3. Fantastic fast five award
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Members Education during July’16 to Dec’16
MCTC Filed Highest Number of Education awards in
District 41- ie 28 education awards in first six months of
Toastmaster year
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DCP status as of 31st Dec 2016:-
MCTC achieved 9 out of 10 goals in first six months.
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Humorous and Evaluation Club level contest
Humorous Club contest result:-
Winner – Manisha Manchanda
1st runner up – Rahul Kokadwar
2nd runner up – Imtiaz Ali
Evaluation Club contest result:-
Winner – Amit Gulati
1st runner up – Anu Ghorse
2nd runner up – Imtiaz Ali
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Humorous and Evaluation Area level contest
Humorous Area contest result:-
Winner – Rahul Kokadwar
1st runner up – Manisha Manchanda
Evaluation Area contest result:-
Winner – Anu Ghorse
1st runner up – Amit Gulati
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Humorous and Evaluation Division level contest
Humorous Division contest result:-
1st runner up – Manisha Manchanda
2nd runner up – Rahul Kokadwar
Evaluation Division contest result:-
Winner – Amit Gulati
1st runner up – Anu Ghorse
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Humorous and Evaluation District-41 level contest
Humorous Division contest result:-
2nd runner up – Amit Gulati
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My Drawing Room
Poem by Ahad Khan
nock of the wind at the door, Took me to the place long ignored.
Quite, silent since no one visited, With things handmade, some purchased.
Countless visions lead me somewhere, To the days some dark, some fair.
A couch of mine yet kept there, Vows of life, I wrote where. The broken vase tells its story, Not a vain display, but a piece of memory.
Red golden with dust visible, Number of tales still curtains unveil.
Sad, happy hours it shared, Who touched, who gripped, who used, who cared.
Chained with moments some photo-frame, Unclear yet priceless emotions drain.
Mannequin of silence standing aside, Endless dreams rest in her eyes. Tending to reveal fables manifold, Some words, some thought untold.
While I am lost deeply, If life going be unlike dummy.
A dried leaf enters meanwhile,
It might have travelled hundred miles. Finding a buddy, lonely room smiled, But leaf's presence was for a while.
Sitting on the floor, I stare, With the wind, leaf flew from there. Again I find silence around, Again flashes thoughts abound.
Thus people come and go from life, Though voices from the past always reside. A drop of eye falls with remembrance, Suddenly I am drawn to the sound pleasant.
A hanging wind chimes chanting its song, Who is listening, caring naught. Dancing freely with mighty breeze, Unlike I do, my wish to be.
Collect myself with all recollection, Looking around with affection. Together we float in the memory of sea, They are my companion , a part of me.
I am for them, they are for me,
I am for them, they are for me.
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I Am Old: A Confession
Poem by Ahad Khan
air turns grey, hands cold I am old. With reminiscence and blurred sight,
Past shadows some dark and some bright.
No desire in depth of wrong and right ways, Walking slowly on the road of left days. Shaken moves with karma in hands, Life slips like a fistful sand.
Happiness I sought all around, It was within me, Alas! not found. Forgot that problem carries a solution, Wrongly called it always an obstruction.
Wasted hours in things trivial, Hatred, jealousy, vain longing and fear. Pages torn yet as fresh as fragrance, Never faded but enhanced.
The golden imprint of stories, Engraved in the book of memories.
At the crossing stage, regrets are Can't get you back, now you depart. For blessings you showered, oh life dear! Being ungrateful is unfair.
Why didn't love you, I say with sigh When learnt oh life! You saying goodbye. Me, a pale wrinkled leaf Ready to bury, now I cease.
Journey ends here, should I believe? Or something is concealed I don’t see. This part over, next show yet to happen Life will play dice again, I sense.
Demise nearing with horrid face, To engulf me with jaw opened.
Breaking fence of scream, I will move to land unseen. Freeing self from ties of vale, The curtained life I'll have to hail.
Then I pull my soaring thoughts, Went so high now I pause. Such flashback will sure incite, Me to relive and write. Moments that gladden as well sadden. At seventy If live until……
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My Toastmaster journey
Article by Shashi Ranjan
n IIM & NIT graduate, I had worked for
an MNC for last 6 years. I was well
settled in my job. I had a good
reputation with my colleagues and seniors.
Needless to say, My career was picture. So I
became complacent in my life, I felt invincible.
Suddenly a turbulence occurred, and everything
vanished instantaneously. I knew that a tough
time had begun and I will have to prove myself
again.
4 months ago (July’16), I started my
Toastmaster journey with the objectives to
improve the communication & leadership skills.
But I had an additional goal in my mind. The
self-esteem need – the need to prove myself
again and conquer the turbulent phase of my
life, career. I had to wipe out the rust which has
conjured my mind, due to complacency of 6
years of a steady job.
I was definitely not aware that Toastmaster
could become one of my key weapons. I see my
Toastmaster journey into the following parts.
Part 1: Self-doubt phase: Fixed vs Growth
mindset
When I joined Toastmaster, I was awestruck
with the quality of speakers at MCTC. I believe
the TM Amit Gulati speeches were
extraordinary, the award winning speech titled
“ordinary & outdated” is so good that I don’t
have words to describe it. laughed out loudly
when I heard the humorous speeches of TM
Prashant and TM ManishaI. TM Prashant took
the husband wife relationship to another level
through your jokes. When it came to table
topic, TM Anuj perplexed me through his logical
& on the feet thinking. And TM Shveta has an
amazing voice.
When you step into this pedigree of such
speakers, the self doubt is bound to happen.
Are you good enough? How will you face such
audiences? Can you even speak?
How many of you had such self-doubt? I read a
book from Prof Carol S. Dweck – Mindset, the
new psychology of success. As per the author,
there are two mindsets. One is fixed mindset
where people believe that basic human
qualities are carved into the stone. It’s inherent.
There are many such people who have fixed
mindset. People who believe leaders are born
and not made. While the growth mindset is
based on the belief that your basic qualities are
things that you can cultivate through your
efforts. I found growth mindset very beneficial
in each of my endeavors.
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The point is you can always change your
mindset. Put yourself in a growth mindset.
Think that you are a novice that’s why you are
here. You are here to learn. Think those
speakers as a source of learning. Then you will
feel your mind open up and your self doubt
going away.
Part 2: Improvement areas – Set a goal
There are some people who helped in my
Toastmaster journey. I am really grateful to
them. TM Anajana sarda critically evaluated one
of my earliest speech. She pointed out
improvement areas like pronunciation,
grammatical errors, sentence structure etc.
Then our VP education – TM Rahul, pointed out
the importance of practicing speech. My mentor
Rakhi Aswal helped me preparing my earlier
speeches and provided critical feedbacks.
It’s important to identify your improvement
area and work on those. Set action items &
goals to work on those. It really helps to
improve and boost the confidence.
Part 3: Learn from your frenemy
R Gopalakrishnan, former vice president of HUL
& current executive director of Tata sons,
narrates an interesting story in his book – the
case of Bonsai manager. It’s about fish in japan.
And the message is relevant for us in our
Toastmaster journey.
It’s a classics problem – solution saga. As is well
known, the Japanese love fresh fish, Such has
been Japan’s fascination with eating fresh fish
that, for many years now, there is hardly any
fish to be found in the waters off japanese
shores. So fishermen came up with a solution.
They built bigger boats and went farther from
the shore to catch fish. Unfortunately, this
created another problem. The farther they went
to fish, the longer it took them to get back to
the shore. By the time they got back, the fish
was stale. And the japanese, well, they like their
fish fresh.
To solve this problem, the fishermen came up
with another solution. They installed
refrigeration units on the boats. But the
japanese were clearly clever. They could clearly
tell the difference between frozen and fresh
fish. And they wanted their fresh fish. Besides,
frozen fish commanded lower prices,
threatening the viability of the entire fishing
business.
So the fishermen came up with another
solution. They installed fish tanks on the boat!
They would catch the fish from the sea and put
them into the tank. So they could now take back
fresh fish!
But that was not to be either. As the tank got
stuffed with fish, the fish would flap around a
bit, then get lazy and lie resigned to their fate.
Motionless, inactive. Dull. And the Japanese
could tell the difference. They wanted fresh fish,
not sluggish fish!
Even as a seemingly insurmountable crisis
loomed over the Japanese fishing industry, the
wise fisherfolk came up with yet another
innovative solution. They still had to sail out a
long distance. And they still had the same boats
and the same fish tanks. But there was one
difference. In each tank, the fishermen put in a
small shark. The shark kept the fish active,
running around, busy. Sure, the shark ate a few
fish but the threat of the shark kept the other
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fish active and healthy. The challenge ensured
that none of then could afford to lie still. As a
result, what eventually reached the shore was
fresh, active fish. And the Japanese loved it.
We are like fish too. We need that shark to stay
sharp. In my Toastmaster journey, I have
identified some sharks which helped me to stay
active. I am really impressed with TM Ankita
innovative & unique approach each time in her
role. Similarly TM Bakul’s speed to Toastmaster
journey & enthusiasm are unmatchable. I did
take challenge that I should at-least try to learn
& match these people.
The point is you should create some frenemies
from which you can learn, challenge each other
etc. That will help you stay active in your
Toastmaster journey.
To summarize, Toastmaster journey provided
me with the life lessons.
Always have a growth mindset which will
help you learn more & more skills.
Set specific, measurable, objective goals
to work on the problem areas for
improvement
Make a frenemy group and challenge
yourself to remain active like Japanese
fish.
These lessons helped me to achieve success in
my professional career also. I have joined one of
the leading ecommerce companies recently. I
take this opportunity to thank Toastmaster and
my fellow Toastmaster for their contribution.
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One good quality – Stoicism?
Article by Ahad Khan
efore you read this blog, it is important
to understand one very simple think :)
That the life is a “work in progress” activity.
There will be a start but for sure there is no
end.
Let’s start
Last month, I was introspecting myself and just
trying to decide on one good quality that I must
develop which will help me to become a better
person. It is a very tough question. Getting the
answer is equally tough. We have so many
people (around us) whom we consider role
model and the source of inspiration. They for
sure do inspire us to become better each day
and each moment.
However, I am more interested to learn from
great thinkers who are not alive now but who
have led great impact on mankind forever. We
have many examples of such great thinker. Few
names that immediately come to my mind are
Swami Vivekananda, Ravindra Nath Tagore,
Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan, and Socrates. This list
is endless. Just that they are no more alive
To get an answer for my question, while I was
reading the life of above great thinkers on
Wikipedia, I happened to read the life of great
Roman thinker named “Zeno” of Citium. His
image is as below. What struck me the most
was his school of philosophy on “Stoicism”.
Crazy word ? Right ? Yeah, indeed it is :). I had
same question in my mind as you would have
when you hear/read word such as “Stoic” for
the first time
I started reading a lot about Stoicism on Wikipedia and on internet. After extensive reading, I was convinced and inspired by “Stoicism” philosophy. Also I got an answer to my question on what is that one good quality that I should try to possess. It is nothing but “Stoicism”. It could lead me to become a better person. You can read more on Stoicism at this link:
I will summarize my learning on Stoicism with 3 below questions and answers:
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What is Stoicism?
Stoicism teaches us that before we try to control events, we have to control ourselves first. It reminds yourself at all times of what you can control and what you can’t. We can’t control weather, we can’t control economy, and we can’t control other people. The world is beyond our control, unpredictable, and constantly changing. The only things we can really control are our own thoughts and beliefs. This is so damn true and at the same time such a simple
thing to understand and apply
How could Stoicism help?
Uncertainties are always there. Peep in your personal and office work We know the meaning of uncertainty so well. Should I bow down to uncertainty? NO. Transform uncertainties into opportunities to change
perspectives. What stands in the way becomes
the way
What Stoicism could lead to?
Stoicism is the school of thought to build leadership and entrepreneurship skills. One must have to draw lines between the essential and the inessential at every level of life. Stoic attitude allows leader earn respect in the face of failure, and guards against arrogance in the face of success.
My final statement on Stoicism philosophy:
What I concluded for sure is that more we practice “Stoic” qualities in good times, the more likely that we’ll find them in ourselves when they’re most needed.
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Right time to invest
Article by Nirman Sharma
advise everyone to learn about Real estate,
it provides highest returns, the greatest
value and least risk. Real Estate sector in
India contributes to eleven percent (11%) of
G.D.P directly and indirectly, it’s second largest
employer after agriculture sector in India. Real
Estate has been one of the oldest profession
since the beginning of civilization, just trading
pattern kept on evolving. In ancient times
people fought for fertile land or land near rivers
and in current scenario people struggle for
fortune land (Prime Location).
According to D.I.P.P (Department of Industrial
Policy & Promotion) the construction
development sector in India has received F.D.I
(Foreign Direct Investment) Equity inflows to
the tune of U.S.D 24.19 Billion Since 2000 April
to March 2016 and this figure is expected to
touch 180 Billion U.S.D by 2020 March. All these
predictions were made post demonetization.
After the Demonetization announcement
property Pundit’s(Experts) anticipates 30%
crash in the market. As per White Paper
published by Ministry on 2012, Real estate
constitute 30 lac crore of black money or 20% of
G.D.P and roughly 50% of total Black money. As
per report by Credit rated agency Fitch and
Property Research Equity 30% correction in the
property market will lead to flushing of almost
Eight Lacs Crore from the market!! That also
from only from 42 tier one cities.
They Say: if Price is Right it sells overnight, price
it wrong, it stays on too Long.
Despite stalemate and dilemma in the industry
it is right time to enter in the market with
discounting pricing available. Property Stalwart
believe that despite rough patch the industry
will still reach 180 billion U.S.D by 2020. The
time is opportune to place bets in this sector
with the paradigm shift from family owned to
professionally managed corporates entering the
industry and also with Regulation &
Development Act 2016 the market will resurrect
with stronger base and brighter future.
As Quoted by Andrew Carrmeige:” 90% of
Millionaire become so through owning Real
Estate”
Buy Land: They are not making it anymore!! My
Suggestion to you all is Don’t Wait to invest,
Invest & Wait, Wait to Win.
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Manage Your Personal Finance Better
Article by Rakhi Aswal
Today’s highly inflation-prone economy, has a huge corrosive impact on our finances. Most of us find our bank balance back to zero within a couple of days of salary credit. I hear lot of my friends and colleagues say “I make money, but I don’t get to see it”. But then there are others who are able to save substantially, in-spite of the current economic challenges. Have you ever wondered what is it that they do differently? The answer is that they manage their personal finance much better. And you will be surprised to know that it’s no rocket science. Below are few simple tips that you can follow, to manage your personal finance: 1. Have a monthly budget in place: Make a budget in the beginning of the year, for next 12 months. Maintain budget by different categories of expenses like – Shopping, Travel, Medicines, etc. This can be accomplished by maintaining a simple, hand written register. Or this can be also done very efficiently on your laptop in Excel spreadsheets. 2. Track your Monthly Expenses: If can’t track it, you can’t control it. Keep a tab on your monthly expenses by keeping note of your spending. This will give you an insight of your expense trend which can be controlled by comparing to the annual budget.
3. Save before you spend: Every penny saved is, penny earned. Keep aside a fixed amount of money every month for long term investments. Systematic Investment Plan offered by various financial institutions helps in following a disciplined saving regime. In case you are a salaried employee then Employee Provident Fund is another very good long term saving option. 4. Take benefit of available tax breaks: Income taxes can have a tremendous impact on your take-home earnings. It is easy to understand various tax benefits that you can avail, by doing google search. Alternatively, you can consult a Financial Planner to make sure that you are paying minimum possible income tax. 5. Earn before you spend: Never spend your money before you have earned it! Unless extremely important try not to use credit cards as you tend to spend more on credit. You become more mindful of your expenses if you have to spend only out of the available bank balance and not from your future earnings! Try out these simple tips and see a positive difference in your personal finance!
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Giving is gracious than receiving
Article by Rahul Kokadwar
here are two major bodies of water in the land where Jesus walked. Do you know which country I am talking about…….
Israel
One is the Sea of Galilee, a beautiful lake 13 miles long and 7 miles wide filled with fish and water animals. The other body of water is the Dead Sea, 50 miles long and 11 miles wide, which is 1300 feet below sea level. Seven million tons of water evaporates from the Dead Sea every day. The salt content of the water of the Dead Sea ranges from 26-35%, making it 10 times saltier than the oceans of the world.
The Dead Sea is really a Lake, not a sea. Its so high in salt content that the human body can float easily. You can almost lie down and read a book! And all that saltiness has meant that there is no life at all in the Dead Sea. No fish. No vegetation. No sea animals. Nothing lives in the sea and hence the name Dead Sea.
According to extremescience.com, fish accidentally came into the Dead Sea from one of the several freshwater streams, their bodies quickly coated with a preserving layer of salt crystals and then tossed onto shore by the wind and waves.
Sea of Galilee is just north of the Dead Sea. Both the Sea of Galilee and the Dead Sea receive their water from river Jordan. And yet, they are very, very different. Unlike the Dead Sea, the Sea of Galilee is pretty rich with colorful marine life. There are lots of plants. and lots of fish too. In fact, the sea of Galilee is home to over twenty different types of fishes.
Same region, same source of water, and yet while one sea is full of life, the other is dead. How come? The River Jordan flows into the Sea of Galilee and then flows out. The water simply passes through the Sea of Galilee in and then out - and that keeps the Sea healthy and vibrant, teeming with marine life.
But the Dead Sea is so far below the mean sea level, that it has no outlet. The water flows in from the river Jordan, but does not flow out. There are no outlet streams. It is estimated that over 7 million tons of water evaporate from the Dead Sea every day, leaving it salty. Too full of minerals. And unfit for any marine life. The Dead Sea takes water from the river Jordan, and holds it. It does not give. Result? No life at all.
To a certain extent people are like the Dead Sea. Life is not just about getting. Its about giving. We need to be a bit like the Sea of Galilee. We are fortunate to get wealth, knowledge, love and respect. But if we don't
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learn to give, we could all end up like the Dead Sea. The love and the respect, the wealth and the knowledge could all evaporate. Like the water in the Dead Sea. If we get the Dead Sea mentality of merely taking in more water, more money, more everything the results can be disastrous.
Make sure that in the sea of your old life you have many outlet for love and wealth and everything else that you get in your life. Make
sure you don't just get, you give too, Giving is gracious than receiving.
Open the taps. And you'll open the floodgates to happiness. Make that a habit. To share. To give.
And experience life. Experience the magic! Make Giving your Living!
Since giving is gracious than receiving…….
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Newly Elected Executive committee members for period
Jan’17 to June’17 President - Shashi Ranjan
Vice President – Education – Ahad Khan
Vice President – Membership – Sourabh Bansal
Vice president – Public relationship – Sachin Rathi
Secretary – Bhanu Dravid
Treasurer – Arti Sagar
Sergeant-at-arms – Niket Singh
Immediate past President – Shveta Gupta
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Contributors
1. Ahad Khan 2. Shashi Ranjan 3. Nirman Sharma 4. Shveta Gupta 5. Rakhi Aswal 6. Rahul Kokadwar
Editors Team
Shveta Gupta
Rakhi Aswal
Rahul Kokadwar
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