introverts & extraverts: how to come together in harmony
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DUBUQUE CIRCLES INITIATIVELEADERSHIP TRACK SERIES
Introverts & Extraverts: How to Come Together in Harmony
Personality Types
Carl Jung and Myers BriggsIdentified 8 Basic Mental ToolsPsychological TypeType Dynamics
Let’sDo An
Activity!
The Biggest Difference
Introverts Extraverts
Inner worldRecharged by alone
timeInwardly focusedAppear to be good
listeners
Outer worldRecharged by being
with peopleAction-orientedNeed external
stimulus and input
Introverts vs. Extraverts
Extravert Ideal
“The omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, alpha, and comfortable in the spotlight”
Introverts are discounted because of a trait that goes to the core of who they are
Talkative people, for example, are rated as smarter, better-looking, more interesting, and more desirable as friends
Some of our greatest ideas, art, and inventions came from quiet and cerebral people who know how to tune in to their inner worlds and the treasures to be found there
How to Care for Introverts
How to Care for Extroverts
Cursed Words
Shy
Talkative
Some Food for Thought
What do you like about being an Extravert or an Introvert?
What perceptions do you think others have of your type?
What frustrates you about working (or living) with your opposite type?
What do you like or admire about your opposite type?
The Hostility Between the Two
There is an “increasing hostility” by introverts who claim extroverts are “stupid and needy”
Extroverts see introverts as “hermits” or as “shy”
Working with an Introvert
Expose gradually to new situations and people
Don’t shame for shynessEncourage them to speak by using hot-button
subjects
Working with Extraverts
They are more likely to go from one hobby to another
They often plunge into events quicklyEnjoy the extra bangLove the reward
Introverts Extraverts
Wants to sit and think after a fight
Wants peace & quiet after a long day of work
Prefer a quiet night in
Wants to resolve things right away
Wants to chat about their day
Prefer to ramp it up
Introverts and Extraverts in Relationships
In Conclusion
Each type has its strengths and weaknessesEach type requires different careBe aware of what some people’s preferences
may be for interactions
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