how to enjoy your life and your job

How to Enjoy your Life and your Job!

By: Dale Carnegie

This study will help us to:

Add fulfillment in our lives Adds our life a sense of harmony and

purpose Best use of our inner resources Eliminate / decrease our life’s frustrations,

boredom and fatigue

Who is Dale Carnegie? Born in 1888 in Maryville, Missouri, Poor farmer's boy, the second son of James

William Carnagey In his teens, he needs to get up at 4 a.m. to milk

his parents' cows. State Teacher's College in Warrensburg. His first job after college was selling

correspondence courses to ranchers; then he moved on to selling bacon, soap and lard for Armour & Company.

Did you ever stop to thinks that most of us spend the greater part of our lives on the job, whatever that job may be.

How to Enjoy our Life and our Job!

Ways to peace and happiness Some techniques in Handling people Win people to your way of thinking

Ways to peace and happiness Find your self and be your self What makes you tired and what you can do

about it Banish boredom Count your blessings not your trouble Remember that no one kicks a dead dog! Never mind about unjust criticism

Find your self and be your self

What makes you tired and what you can do about it

The brain is

utterly tireless

Worry, tense and emotional upsets

are three biggest causes of fatigue

Banish boredom

“Where your interest are, there your energy also”

So if you do not love your work:

Work as if you really enjoy it to

some extent

Count your blessings not your trouble

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Remember that no one kicks a dead dog!

Admiral Robert Peary – the 1st human to reach the northern most point of our globe

If you are criticize, it often

mean that you are

accomplishing something

and are worthy of attention

Never mind about unjust criticism

Do what you feel in your heart to be right –for you will be criticize anyway- Teddy roosvelt

Some techniques in Handling people

If you want to gather honey , don’t kick over the beehive

Give honest and sincere appreciation Arouse in the person an eager want Be genuinely interested in other people Make the other person feel important and

do it sincerely

If you want to gather honey , don’t kick over the beehive

Francis "Two Gun" Crowley – a well known American murderer back in 1912

“This man will kill at the drop of a feather” -police

Under my coat is a weary heart

,but a kind one –one that would

do nobody any harm -crowley

Don’t criticize or condemn!

Give honest and sincere appreciation

The deepest principle of human nature is the craving to be appreciated – William James

Arouse in the person an eager want

Talk in terms of what the other person wants

Be genuinely interested in other people

“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you”

Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely

Always make the other person feel

important

Talk to people about themselves and they will listen for hours

Win people to your way of thinking Respect others opinion, never say you are

wrong The high road to reason Learn the secret of socrates No one likes to take orders

Respect others opinion, never say you are wrong

“If you tell a person straight out that he or she is wrong .You only succeed in stripping that person of self-dignity and making yourself unwelcome part of any discussion”

Always use a little diplomacy

The high road to reason

If you come with me with your fists doubled , I think I can promise you that mine will double as fast as yours- Woodrow Wilson

Gentleness and friendliness were always stronger than fury and force….always begin in a friendly way

Learn the secret of Socrates

YES!

YES!

YES!

Ask questions on which the other person would have to agree, kept on winning one admission after another until you had an armful of yeses.- Socrates way

No one likes to take orders

Ask questions / make suggestions instead of giving ordersIt saves a persons pride and gives him or her a feeling of importance.

You have now with you a hidden assets within yourself that can make your life glorious .All you need now is the determination to uncover and use them

God Bless Bro. Joel Alisen