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Extraordinary Respect:

Civility

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We will discuss…

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Ground Rules

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What is civility?

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(Damron, 2015)

“[Civility is] the

constant

implementation

of respect.”

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What does civility

look like?

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Civility

strengthens

our ability to

relate to

each other

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• Higher turnover rates

• Bad attitudes

• Downward spirals of productivity

• Drama

• Undermining of trust

• Anger

• Gossip

• Erosion of self-confidence

• Escalation to larger conflict or violence

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Effects of incivility in a working

environment

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What are boundaries?

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• Physical

• Social

• Sexual

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Types of Boundaries

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Physical• Body

• Property

• Privacy

• Personal Space

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Social• Beliefs

• Behaviors

• Choices

• Self-disclosure

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Sexual• Orientation

• Romantic history

• Physical attributes

• Consent

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Why should we set boundaries?

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Respecting others’ boundaries• Listen!

• Apologize – even if you didn’t

intend to overstep

• Understand that it’s not about

you

• Ask them what they would

rather have you do instead

• Respect that person’s privacy

• Sexual consent

• “Is it ok if I…”

• “Do you want me to…”

• “Are you comfortable if we keep

going?”

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• “I’d really rather not talk

about…”

• “I don’t like it when

you…”

• “I’d rather not be

called…”

• “When you…I felt…”

• Sexual consent• “I like it when you…”

• “I’m not comfortable doing…”

• “I want to keep going”

• “Yes, I want to…”

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Setting your own boundaries

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What if you

witness incivility?

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Types of Intervention

Direct Distract

Delegate Delayed

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Let’s talk about it…

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Resources• Sexual Civility and Empowerment

SCEsupport@osu.edu 614-292-1111 sce.osu.edu

1120 Lincoln Tower

• Kim Potter – Compliance Coordinator for Marching and

Athletic Bands

potter.146@osu.edu

Steinbrenner Band Center

• Counseling and Consultation Services

sl-ccs@osu.edu 614-292-5766 ccs.osu.edu

Younkin Success Center (4th Floor) 1030 Lincoln Tower

• Multicultural Center

sl-mccinfo@osu.edu 614-688-8449 mcc.osu.edu

Ohio Union, Suite 1000 studentlife.osu.edu/bias/

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Questions?Comments?Concerns?

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