a non religious contract in america

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A Non-Religious Contract in America

The religious standards of Americans today have plummeted to a

new low.

Fewer people are going to church than earlier in the century. Many

people are

marrying without even going to a priest by getting a judge to marry

them.

Divorce is steadily on the rise. Today's society accepts homosexuals!

Now the

issue arises over whether we should allow homosexuals to marry. And

you know

what? It is really none of the government's business.

America can no longer deny its homosexual citizens the right to

have a

legal marriage. Looking at today's society, we can see that there is

no good

reason to deny gay couples the rights that straight couples have in

getting

married. The United States has always had the idea of separation ofchurch and

state, and marriage is one issue that must maintain that idealogy in

the eyes of

the government. The key to separating church and state in the debate

over

marriage is taking the definition of marriage that best applies to

society today.

To do that we must look at marriage's state in the 1990's.

Religion is losing its dominance in the issue of marriage. We

cannot

argue the fact that there are more divorces in the country today that

there were

20 years ago. This points to America's increasing acceptance of

divorce.

Therefore, we can conclude that religion has become less of an issue

for many

Americans when marrying because most religions strongly discourage

divorce, some

to the point of not allowing it at all. This leads to the question,

"What is

today's basis for marriage?"

Some propose that the sole purpose of marriage be to bring life

into the

world. If this were true, then it would be unacceptable for many in

this

country to ever be married. There are many women and men who simply do

not wantto have children. Should we condemn them and not allow them to marry

just

because of this view? Should we not allow those who are physically

unable to

have children to experience the joy and happiness that marriage brings?

Those

who cannot bear children of their own can adopt children; would we

rather they


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raised that child without one or the other parental figure? Obviously

society

does not operate with this as the basis for marriage. So the argument

that

homosexuals should not marry because they cannot have children is

entirely

ridiculous.

Adoption is considered a noble act, and it brings joy into the

lives of

many heterosexual parents and their adopted children. There is no

reason why

the same cannot happen for homosexual couples. I am sure that many

homosexual

couples in the U.S. are better parents than some heterosexual couples.

The fact

that there are people that cannot physically have children together

does not

mean that they have no parental instincts or would be incapable as

parents.

Thus, this argument against homosexual marriages cannot hold in America.

The government of America recognizes marriage as a secularentity, and

with homosexual unions we must make sure that we look at marriage in

this way.

Marriage in the eyes of the government consists of a legal license that

states

that it can look at two people as one unit. A court of law can perform

a

marriage, thereby eliminating all religious aspects of it. So, the

government

looks at a marriage simply as something that is put in the records.

This decade is the time of the paper marriage. More people sign

pre-

nuptial agreements, make sure their spouse has a space on their

insurance

policies, and have their own line on tax forms. While this seems

impersonal

(can you imagine someone proposing with "Will you be the answer to line

#3a on

my 1040 and W-2?"), the government must look at the entity marriage

this way.

Numbers and legal agreements are gender neutral, so government checks

to make

sure that all is well in those areas are feasible. But the spiritual

part of

marriage is for the couple involved, not the rest of society.

What I've said until now makes it seem that marriage as a whole

has lostall meaning to the country. This is not what I believe. Taking the

religious

implications of marriage away allows us to show how much the government

should

or should not be involved in marriage. However, two people get married

because

they love each other very much. They have decided that they want to

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rest of their lives together. These reasons have nothing to do with

religion;

however, the Judeo-Christian religions use these two ideals in their

services as

the cornerstones of marriage. "To have and to hold, in sickness and in

health,

till death do you part." This statement is not religious, and most

couples who

marry think of this as the "contract" that they are agreeing to. I use

contract

in quotation marks because the contract I am referring to above relates

to the

religious ceremonies that take place in many marriages. There are no

reasons

for the government to be involved in making the decision of whether two

people

will be uphold that "contract."

The marriage of two heterosexual people, no matter how public

they may

be, has no impact on the lives of everyday citizens. This will be

true forhomosexual couples as well. The government only needs to be involved

in what

affects the rest of the public. Thus, the only thing that it is

acceptable for

the government to regulate is how one's marriage should relate to the

objective

parts of society (such as taxes).

The government does not have the right to decide who should and

should

not be allowed to get married. The United States prides itself on

separating

issues of the church from state related issues, and it must do the same

with

this one. Though some religious groups may have problems with allowing

homosexuals to marry, America as a whole must not be so restrictive.

The

American government must look at marriage as strictly a financial

issue, because

the only parts of marriage that the government actually gets involved

in are the

financial issues. Let line #3a be filled by anyone, gay or straight.

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