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1 Last year, while volunteering at Ashan Children’s Home in Ghana I was informed that they were reducing the num- ber of children due to a com- mand from social services. T his meant that a number of chil- dren were being sent away. This was a difficult time for everyone con- sidering that these children were there in the first place because they had no one to take care of them. They had called Ashan home for up to ten years and were frightened at the thought of returning to places they didn’t remember. (Orphanages in Ghana, as in many developing countries, are not exactly the same as the western idea of orphanages. Many of the children in the Ashan orphanage had at least one parent. These parents, however, were unable to take care of them. This was usually due to poverty and/or because they already had many children to care for.) The staff did not want to send the kids away but were afraid of having their license revoked if they did not follow social services instructions. However, one night while talking to the home Thomas came to Ashan when he was eight years old because his mother had been unable to care for him. His memories of early childhood are quite heart wrenching: they were essentially homeless, occasionally seeking shelter with different family members. He recalls how all of his belonging used to fit into a rice sack and that his mother was so poor she couldn’t afford to buy soap. This was quite ostracizing con- sidering cleanliness is of utmost impor- tance in Ghanaian society. Thomas also recalls eating scraps of food off the table at the local high school because he was so hungry and there was no other food to eat. He winces when he remembers how particularly cruel kids spit in the food or mixed it with broken glass. Before the sponsor- ship project came in place Thomas manager, Ross, the topic of sponsor- ship came up. Before I knew it a ball was rolling and the future of four kids in Ghana was forever changed. Since sponsoring all the children was not an option (and for some returning to their extended families was probably in their best interest as the family had been able to overcome their issues) four children were identified as being in particular need. With the help of my parents, St. Mary’s church, and all the generous sponsors a dream became a reality, a sponsorship project was born, and four kids in Ghana were given a chance at a future. The Individuals Involved THOMAS ANTWI BOATENG (17 years old) Timing can be everything in life. These events came at a particularly crucial moment in Thomas’ life: he was wait- ing for his Junior High Exam marks to come back. These marks determine one’s Senior High School placement, which in turn determines one’s likeli- hood of success as the caliber of edu- cation varies greatly among schools in Ghana. Nonetheless, Thomas’ marks would have been meaningless if he had returned ‘home’. Antwi’s first time seeing the ocean ghana! October, 2010 Vol I sT. mary's afrIcan mIssIon projecT 4 KIds in ghana! 4 KIds in UpdaTe by dIana aUsTIn

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Last year, while volunteering at Ashan Children’s Home in Ghana, Diana Austin was informed that they were reducing the number of children due to a command from social services. If you are interested in supporting the St. Mary’s Mission project you can email Diana at [email protected]

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Last year, while volunteering at Ashan Children’s Home in Ghana I was informed that they were reducing the num-ber of children due to a com-mand from social services.

This meant that a number of chil-dren were being sent away. This

was a difficult time for everyone con-sidering that these children were there in the first place because they had no one to take care of them. They had called Ashan home for up to ten years and were frightened at the thought of returning to places they didn’t remember. (Orphanages in Ghana, as in many developing countries, are not exactly the same as the western idea of orphanages. Many of the children in the Ashan orphanage had at least one parent. These parents, however, were unable to take care of them. This was usually due to poverty and/or because they already had many children to care for.)

The staff did not want to send the kids away but were afraid of having their license revoked if they did not follow social services instructions. However, one night while talking to the home

Thomas came to Ashan when he was eight years old because his mother had been unable to care for him. His memories of early childhood are quite heart wrenching: they were essentially homeless, occasionally seeking shelter with different family members. He recalls how all of his belonging used to fit into a rice sack and that his mother was so poor she couldn’t afford to buy soap. This was quite ostracizing con-sidering cleanliness is of utmost impor-tance in Ghanaian society. Thomas also recalls eating scraps of food off the table at the local high school because he was so hungry and there was no other food to eat. He winces when he remembers how particularly cruel kids spit in the food or mixed it with broken glass. Before the sponsor-ship project came in place Thomas

manager, Ross, the topic of sponsor-ship came up. Before I knew it a ball was rolling and the future of four kids in Ghana was forever changed. Since sponsoring all the children was not an option (and for some returning to their extended families was probably in their best interest as the family had been able to overcome their issues) four children were identified as being in particular need. With the help of my parents, St. Mary’s church, and all the generous sponsors a dream became a reality, a sponsorship project was born, and four kids in Ghana were given a chance at a future.

The Individuals InvolvedTHomAs AnTwI BoATenG (17 years old)

Timing can be everything in life. These events came at a particularly crucial moment in Thomas’ life: he was wait-ing for his Junior High Exam marks to come back. These marks determine one’s Senior High School placement, which in turn determines one’s likeli-hood of success as the caliber of edu-cation varies greatly among schools in Ghana. Nonetheless, Thomas’ marks would have been meaningless if he had returned ‘home’. Antwi’s first time seeing the ocean

ghana!

October, 2010 Vol I

sT. mary's afrIcan

mIssIon projecT

4 KIds in

ghana!4 KIds in

UpdaTe by

dIana aUsTIn

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was preparing to return to his grand-mother’s mud house with no hope of a future. He loves his grandmother but knew that there would be no money to pay for fees, books, and all the other expenses that go along with education. This would have been particularly dev-astating considering Thomas finished first in his Junior High Class and was accepted into one of the country’s top schools. Thanks to St. Mary’s Mission Project he has recently finished his first year at Adu Gyamfi and is looking forward to returning in the fall.

emmAnueL Grundo (14 years old)

less fortunate family members such as nieces or nephews as servants who spend their days doing chores.

Emmanuel has many of the qualities one needs for success: strong work ethic, good morals, ambition, creativ-ity, intelligence, and a big smile. All the same, he would have had little chance to live up to his potential without the help of the St. Mary’s Mission Project. Emmanuel was extremely grateful and relieved at the opportunity of sponsor-ship and is working hard to prove he deserves the privilege. He, along with Victoria and Francis Agyenium, attended a local private school this past year and are currently enjoying just being kids during their summer vacation.

VICTorIA (13 years old)

Victoria is the lone girl in the group. Nonetheless she is smart, talkative, and spirited enough to hold her own with the boys. One of my favorite memo-ries of her is from a soccer game. She was leading her schoolmates in enthusiastic cheers and reminded me of many other 13-year-old girls back home (particularly myself at her age).

judging from her en

ergy, zest, and spir

ited disposition, one

would never guess

the adversity that

she has faced.

When Victoria was a young girl she was separated from her brother after her parents died in a car crash. She was sent to stay with her grandmother while her brother went to live with a fam-ily friend. Unfortunately her grandmoth-er was unable to provide for Victoria and, along with two male cousins, was sent to the Ashan orphanage.

Even though Victoria’s grandmother only lived in a village five minutes from the orphanage Victoria was heartbro-ken when she was told she had to leave Ashan. Her apprehension was understandable considering her older cousin had been sent home a couple years ago due to misbehavior.

Since leaving Ashan he had stopped going to school and there was clearly no one looking out for him as he ran

noble soul and aspires to be a solider so he can protect his country and loved ones. His name was constantly heard at Ashan; the ‘Ma’s (female staff) were always calling on him to help because he was strong and the ‘Ma’s knew they could count on him. He always came when called even though he wanted to play soccer with the other boys or tend the garden he planted in the bush.

Emmanuel’s mother, a northerner, passed away when he was quite young. When she did, Emmanuel moved from the north to live with his father, his father’s wife, and their five children in the Ashanti region. (Emmanuel’s situation is quite common even though having multiple wives is not considered ‘proper’ amongst Christians; it is quite common for men to have multiple families or at least concubines.) However, when Emmanuel was eight he came to Ashan with his half brother Samuel because his father could not afford to care for all of his children.

Although life at an orphanage is not always easy for a young child, Emman-uel did not want to leave for he feared what life would be like if he returned to his father’s house. He remembers

Emmanuel, or Grundo, as he is often called, is a charismatic and hardwork-ing boy. He loves to draw, chat, and eat. The other kids were always careful not to upset him, not because he was aggressive but because he was tough and kept everyone else in line. He is a

that his stepmother did not seem to like him and was afraid that instead of going to school he would be forced to do all the hard labor for the family. His fears would likely have became his reality if he had returned as in Ghana it is common for families to take on

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wild about the village and was shad-owed by a forlorn look.

In addition to being bright and moti-vated, Victoria was chosen to be part of the 4 kids in Ghana because as a young female, and lack of parental supervision, she was even more sus-ceptible than her male counterparts. On top of that, it was believed that she would be forced to sell water on the streets as many other young girls in Ghana do. It addition to being unsafe for a young girl like herself, selling water on the streets is tiresome and extremely low paying.

Victoria is the kind of girl who would fight to survive in any situation, words that describe her include: determined, assertive, and passionate. Still, the truth is that Ghana is a man’s world and without a proper education and adequate supervision it can be a dan-gerous place for a young girl like her. Thanks to the sponsorship program, however, Victoria has been granted an opportunity to learn, a safe environ-ment to live, and most importantly a chance at a better life.

FrAnCIs AGyenIum (14 years old)

Francis is in many ways the ‘little broth-er’ of the group because he is quieter, smaller, and much more timid than the others. He is also incredibly sweet and lovable. In some ways it is hard to

describe Francis because he is neither a cheerleader like Victoria nor a leader like Emmanuel. He is the shy boy who would sit with me silently as I did some stretching exercises outside under the tree. He can be extremely helpful.

Francis was born in the Ivory Coast and came to Ghana with his mom when. He was quite young when he came to Ashan and thus doesn’t re-member the details of why or when he came. Like Victoria, Francis originally came to the children’s home with a cousin who was later sent back to live with the grandmother. I saw Francis’ cousin, Daniel, one day when we were in another village for a soccer match. He was shoeless, shirtless, with unkempt hair. Daniel told me how much he missed the orphanage and wished he could go back. He missed all the kids and wanted to go to school.

francis was identified

as a child in need of

sponsorship because

the managers at the

orphanage saw his po

tential and did not want

francis to suffer the

same fate as daniel.

However, Francis had already left the orphanage before the sponsorship plan came into effect. When I went

to go pick him up he was sitting on the front step of his grand-mother’s house, all alone, with his head in his hands. I will never forget the way his face light up when he saw the taxi pull up to the house and the way he nervously hid behind a pole while I talked to his village chief (who happens to be his great uncle) about sponsorship.

Ben eVesLAGe And VoLunTeer AFrICAThe sponsorship project started to take form at a less than ideal time: a few weeks before I was about to leave Ghana. There were many things that needed to be taken care of: we had to find a school for the kids to

Victoria is in the middle.

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go to, there were health problems to be taken care of, health insurance to be dealt with, paperwork to write up, and most importantly we needed to find a place for the kids to stay.

Ben and the other volunteers at Volun-teer Africa were our ‘knights in shining armor’ during that stressful time. Vol-unteer Africa (VA) was an organization that was located in a neighboring vil-lage called Nkwantakese. Even though they already had a great deal on their own plates, Ben and the others at VA offered to take the kids in and let them stay with the other 15 orphans that VA was taking care of.

We are extremely grateful for the sup-port, shelter, and guidance that Ben and the VA crew provided for Thomas, Emmanuel, Victoria, and Francis. Ben also helped set up the project budget and organized the children’s current living situation when VA relocated to the Western region. Their role was vital in the pioneering stages of the project. Their assistance was most needed and greatly appreciated.

VIdA Addo And FAmILyVida is a Ghanaian woman who worked as VA’s cook when they were in Nk-wantakese. When VA relocated, Vida agreed to take over the supervision of the ‘ Fab Four’. She not only cooks for them now but also serves as a sur-rogate mother and manages the funds sent over. The children adore Vida, her husband David, and their three chil-dren: Osei Osus (9 yrs), Angelina (6 yrs), and baby Rose (15 months). They sound very happy in her care and it is clear that Vida is not only dedicated to the project but also truly cares for the children. Vida has been a saving grace and deserves a million thanks!

THe AusTIn’sI, Diana Austin first went to Ghana in 2004 as a volunteer with AFS inter-national. I spent six months working at ‘Ashan Development Center’. Due to the impact of the experience and the relationships I had built with the children, I returned to Ghana in the spring of 2009. Since leaving Ghana in October my role in the sponsorship project includes organizing money transfers, monitoring the budget, and communicating with the children and

processing donations, and are vital in helping make the sponsorship a reality.

sponsorsIt goes without saying that without the generous donations of the spon-sors there would be no sponsorship project. Thus, I would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to all the sponsors—you have made it possible for the chil-dren to have shelter, access to educa-tion, food to eat, and clothes to wear. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is thanks to our sponsors that these 4 kids in Ghana have a future. Medase Pa! (Thank you in Twi) The truth is the sponsorship project is not just about paying the children’s school fees. It is about giving them a sense of security, a reminder that there are people who care about them, and giving them a family. Sponsorship is their last hope, without it they are all on their own.

Vida regularly through Skype and email. I also act as the liaison between the kids and my parents who serve as the link connecting the parish and fundraisers.

My parents, Rob and Maggie Austin, who came to Ghana in July 2009, were moved by the experience and forever touched by the kids’ love. They have been an incredible help in making the sponsorship a reality, as they were the ones who convinced St. Mary’s to take on this project.

My sister, Danielle, also has a special spot in her heart for the children as she came to Ghana to visit in 2004. Thus, it was easy to recruit her to the project and she has volunteered her design skills in the making of this newsletter.

sT. mAry’s pArIsHSt. Mary’s Parish of Moosomin has graciously agreed to take on sponsor-ing these children as a mission project.They have helped in fundraising,

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buy food at school and transportation) and extra needs (as we all know life is full of unexpected costs). A gen-eral financial report follows although not all expenses are included. Those interested can email me for more a comprehensive report. (Note: GHC stands for Ghana Cedis, dollars are Canadian, and other than the value for the lease all conversions are using the 09/08/2010 exchange rate of 1 GHC: $0.72 CAN)

2009/2010 sCHooL yeAr CosTs:ITems CosT

Agyenium’s textbooks (gr. 6) 54.8 $39.45

Agyenium’s uniform (gr. 6) 8 $5.76

Emmanuel & Victoria’s 217 $156.24 textbooks (1st Yr. Jr. High)

Emmanuel & Victoria’s 24 $17.28 Uniform (1st Yr. Jr. High)

School Fee 702 $505.44 (1/day x 234 days x 3 kids)

Thomas Antwi’s fees 499.1 $359.35

Thomas Antwi’s 233.05 $167.80 Supplies for School

Back-to-School Allowance 80 $57.60 (20 GHC/kid)

Transportation for Thomas 37.2 $26.78 Antwi to go to school

Total School Costs 1855.15 for ‘09-’10 $1,335.71

mAjor non-sCHooL expenses:ITems CosT

5 year lease on a house 1500 in Nkwantakese $1,055.52

4 mattresses and covers 485 $349.20

Fridge 130 $93.60

Stove & cylinder 237 $170.64

Ecolak bags (thick plastic 164 $118.08 bags to store kid’s clothes)

Extra Set-up Costs 110.3 $79.42

Money for new clothes 40 $28.80 (bought in July 2010)

Money for new shoes 18 $12.96 (bought in July 2010)

Health Care Costs 53.5 $38.52

Total 2737.8

$1,946.74

BreAk down:Monthly expenses 3268.2 Oct ‘09 to Sept ‘10 $2,353.06

Total school costs 1855.15 for ‘09 to ‘10 $1,335.71

Total other major expenses 2737.8 Oct. ‘09 -Sept. ‘10 $1,946.74

Total of Major Costs 7861.20 $5,635.50

rIde For reFuGeesWhile we are grateful for all our spon-sors, the Ride for Refugees committee in Moosomin deserves a special thank you. Ride for Refugees (R4R) is a na-tion wide fundraiser put on by Interna-tional Teams Canada. Mel Konkel, of Moosomin, has organized R4R for the last two years. Even though 4 kids in Ghana may not be the kind of refugees that first comes to mind, the R4R web-page states that they ‘help the dis-placed, the vulnerable, and exploited. Thus it is easy to see how the 4 kids in Ghana who were ‘displaced’ from their home at Ashan are in essence refu-gees in their own country.

r4r graciously donat

ed over $2800 to the 4

kids in ghana project

and helped provide

much need refuge for

Thomas, emmanuel,

Victoria, and francis.

a year of Trials and TriumphsThings often seem harder in Ghana, and the project was no exception. The past year has not been easy, yet incredibly rewarding at the same time. Probably the most challenging issue was organizing a new living situation for the children. This involved finding someone to care for the children and also finding them some place to live. The most practical solution turned out to be leasing a house in the ‘Habitat for Humanity’ community where they were already living. For around $1000 Canadian we were able to lease a house for the children and thanks to Ben, hire Vida Addo to care and watch out for the children. The situation has worked out very well and the children feel safe and comfortable.

money mattersThe money that our sponsors gener-ously donated has been used to pay for the children’s school fees, books and living expenses. Each month we send money for food, a salary for Vida who cooks and looks after the children, allowance (which the children use to

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ing a good job is still not easy. Having an education, especially from a tier one school like Adu Gyamfi, can make the world of difference though. The idea that ‘education is the key to a future’ is particularly true in Ghana. Thus, the sponsorship program not only gives the kids a roof over their heads, food in their bellies, and shirts on their backs. It has also given them a chance at a

children satisfy the other levels of the triangle. It provides them with a sense of belonging, and helps them achieve their goals. The project empowers the children with education and a sense of worth. To make it through another year, though, Thomas, Emmanuel, Victoria, and Francis need your help. Like last year we need financial help to cover education and living costs. If you are interested in supporting the St. Mary’s Mission project you can email me at [email protected] for more information or send donations to *St. Mary’s (please see contact infor-mation below). Collectively the spon-sorship makes the world of difference in the lives of these children. 4 kids in Ghana thank you!

ConTACT InFormATIon:

Diana Austin

email [email protected]

cell 306.716. 4031

Maggie Austin

phone 306.435.2767

St. Mary’s Mission Project

phone 306.435.2993

fax 306.435.2650

mail 4 kids in Ghana

St. Mary’s Mission Project

Box 9, Moosomin, Sask.

S0G 3N0

*Cheques can be made out to St. Mary’s Parish

here we go again: year two of 4 kids in ghana.When we began the project my mom, Maggie, and I independently had the same thought. Even though we only had enough money to get started we decided to leave it up to God to pro-

vide what we needed. We relied on our faith and a year later it is clear that it was the right decision. It has not been an easy year for anyone involved. To be honest it was more difficult than any of us had imagined. It was a struggle but it looks like the storm has passed and the growing pains are starting to ease. After an eventful trip around the sun, the St. Mary’s Mission Project is in a similar spot to where we were a year ago: school is about to start again for the kids and its time to fundraise. Emmanuel, Victoria, and Francis are going to be starting at a new school, which is walking distance instead of a long bus ride. They are excited while also a little sad to say goodbye to their friends from the former school. Thomas Antwi, on the other hand, is returning to Adu Gyamfi, the same high school he attended last year. His new chal-lenge is going to be deciding whether to study business or general arts. It is a hard decision because while he loves history he also excels at math. He also feels pressure to choose an area of study that will help him find work later on. Even though unemployment in Ghana has significantly decreased from 20 to 11% in recent years, find-

future. A couple of weeks ago, Thomas told me how in one of his high school classes the teacher was discussing Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs. Thomas identified that his lowest physical needs of food, water, and shelter are met thanks to the mission project. Beyond the basic necessities, however, the mission project also helps the