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    NLP WORKSHOP

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    WHAT IS NLP?

    NEURO

    LINGUISTIC

    PROGRAMMING

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    Neuro Acknowledge the fact thatbehavior stems from our neurologicalprocesses of sight, hearing, smell,

    taste, touch, and feeling. Weexperience the world through our five

    senses. We make sense of the

    information and then we act on it.

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    Programming -

    Refers to the way we canchoose to organize our

    ideas and actions to

    produce results.

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    HISTORY TWO FOUNDERS

    At the University of California, Santa Cruz, 1972

    Dr. John GrinderDr. John Grinder

    (Assistant Prof. Of Linguistics)(Assistant Prof. Of Linguistics)

    Dr. Richard BandlerDr. Richard Bandler

    (was a student of psychology)(was a student of psychology)

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    NLP IN BRIEF

    NLP represents an attitude

    of mind and a way of being

    in the world

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    THE PURPOSE OF NLP

    To be useful, to increase the

    choices you have and to enhance

    the quality of your life, by acting and

    experimenting , not by thinking

    about it.

    It is what you need to achieve your

    dreams and be successful

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    NLP IN THREE WORDS

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    NLP

    PRESUPPOSITIONS

    FOR A BETTER COMMUNICATION

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    NLP presuppositions are not

    simply theoretical axioms. Theyare intended to be principles to

    live by.

    The field of NLP is based on a set

    of fundamental presuppositionsabout ourselves, our behaviors,

    and our world.

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    PRESUPPOSITIONS

    NLP is a model rather then a theory and it is the study of

    subjective experience.

    NLP emphasises finding solutions rather than analysing causes.

    Mind and body are part of the one system.

    External behaviour is the result of how a person uses theirrepresentational systems.

    If one human can do something then, potentially, anyone can.

    Conscious mind capacity is very limited supposedly to around 5-9

    percent of information.

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    THE MEANING OF THE

    COMMUNICATIONS ISTHE RESPONSE THEY

    GET

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    THE MAP IS NOT THE

    TERRITORY ITDESCRIBES. WE HAVEONLY OUR OWN

    REALITY.

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    FILTERS

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    NLP COMMUNICATION

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    NLP COMMUNICATIONMODEL

    S O S S S

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    REPRESENTATIONAL SYSTEMS

    Visual

    Auditory

    Kinesthetic

    Olfactory*

    Gustatory*

    Auditory Digital *

    * Not significantly used

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    VISUALS

    Make up the majority of the population

    Tend to speak quickly

    Think very quickly

    Tend to keep their heads elevated Breathe from the top of the lungs

    Stand erect, and often lean forwardwhile sitting

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    AUDITORY

    Are fairly common

    Will often tilt theirheads

    Tend to talk to

    themselves Speak with inflection

    and clarity

    Breathe in the middleof the chest

    Learn sequentially, by

    steps or procedures

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    KINESTHETIC

    Body tends to slouch or slump

    Often a bit heavier than other reps

    Speaks slowly

    Will often tilt head to the right Breathes low in the chest

    Tends to wear loose, comfortable clothing

    Respond to physical contact Have a smaller than normal personal

    space.

    Learn by doing

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    SUB-MODALITIES

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    SUBMODALITIES

    Are the fine details of sensoryrepresentational systems or

    modalities.

    Utilises the Visual,Kinesthetic and Auditory

    channels .

    Remember that the majority

    of communication is handled

    on the unconscious level

    REPRESENTATION SYSTEM EXAMPLES

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    REPRESENTATION SYSTEM EXAMPLES

    Visual(sight, images, spatial) Location

    SizeDistance

    BrightnessFocused or UnfocusedAssociated or DissociatedClear or fuzzy

    Auditory(sound, voice) Mono / stereo

    Qualities: Volume, pitch, tempo, rhythm, pace,duration, intensity, harmonyVoice: whose voice, one or many

    Kinesthetic(prop receptive, somatic) Somatic sensation, location in the body,

    movement directionTactition: pressure, intensityBreathing rate

    Olfactory/GustatoryTasteSmellSweet, Sour, Salt, Bitter, Aroma, Fragrance,

    Essence

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    INITIAL MODELS

    Together they intensively Studied and then Modeled

    Three TOP Therapists:

    FRITZ PERLS (Psychotherapist)

    VIRGINIA SATIR (Family Therapist)MILTON ERICKSON (Hypno-therapist)

    The methods of observation and imitation Bandler

    and Grinder used to learn and codify the initial

    models of NLP came to be known as Modeling.

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    NLP developed in two Complementary

    Directions :

    As a PROCESS to discover the patterns

    of excellence in any field.

    As PATTERNS & SKILLS of Thinking

    and Communicating used by outstanding

    people.

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    HOW TO INFLUENCE

    OTHERS

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    RAPPORTRAPPORT

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    RAPPORT

    When you feel intimatelyconnected with someone

    on a deeply emotional

    level.

    It is essential to establish

    atmosphere of trust,

    confidence and

    participation, within whichpeople can respond freely.

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    People in rapport tend to mirror and match in:

    Postures,

    Gestures

    Eye contact.

    Blinking

    Facial expression

    Breathing

    Tonality

    The deeper the rapport, the closer the match.

    Is established within 3-5 minutes of initial contact.

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    ANCHORING The process of associating an

    internal response with someexternal trigger so that the

    response may be quickly,

    reaccessed by activating the

    trigger.

    Binds a state to a specific stimulus

    Useful altering negative orunresponsive states

    WRAP UP

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    WRAP-UP

    Practice establishing rapport Be aware of cues about people's

    preferred representational system

    Watch the eyes they speak volumesabout how a person is thinking

    Remember that the majority ofcommunication is handled on theunconscious level

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