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Before you do anything else planning your wedding you
must set your wedding date. It is a fun project, but be pre-
pared to be challenged. Determining the best possible wed-
ding date sounds easier than it is. Prior to you making your
decision, there are many events and significant dates to take
into account. The day you get married will be determined by
factors such as venue availability, holidays, school sched-
ules, who can attend, and many more.
More or less, there is 12-18 months between the time of
engagement and the wedding day. Since there are so many
The Best Time
To Get M arriedparts to planning a successful wedding, one year may not
be enough time for many. Before setting your date for the big
day, you have to consider the schedules of everyone impor-
tant to you. If you want the most important people in your
life to attend your wedding, you must consider their sched-
ule. Business assignments, birthdays, graduations, vaca-
tions, and other events may prevent people important to you
attending your wedding day.
Getting married during the hottest wedding season has
many challenges. It is not only more difficult to find avail-
able vendors and venues; the prices are normally higher too.
Consequently, be prepared to pay premium for reception
sites, photography services, flowers, limos, etc. In addition
to hire costs, you have to consider challenges based on avail-
ability. Your dream location may not be available on your
dream date, so don't fall in love with a venue until you have
secured it for your date.
May through September are among the busiest months
for weddings. If you can, consider getting married one of the
off months. November through April gives you more oppor-
tunities to choose reception ven-
ues. In addition to having more
options, you are going to be in
much better position to negotiate
a better price. During the slower
months, you are bound to get bet-
ter service because more vendors
are competing for your business.
If you are going to get married
on a Saturday, be prepared to
compete with many other brides
for the same venues and services.
Saturday is the most convenient
day for your invitees, but it means
you have to deal with scheduling
challenges and hire costs. Fridays
and Sundays are considered the
next best days and are still much
more convenient than other days.
There is no wedding date with-
out its challenges, and there are
sure to be pros and cons to any
possible date. Your challenge is
to consider the best possible wed-
ding date based on your needs
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Useful Tips to Plan Your Dream
Wedding Budget Most of us dream of the perfect wedding day. Of course,
not all of us achieve it. Some of us experience wedding day
problems and even bloopers that either change the nuptial
plans slightly or hugely. Of course, that is not enough reason
for you not to plan your wedding according to your dreams.
Here are some useful tips to consider when planning your
dream wedding day. The best thing about these tips is that
your budget is well considered.
Tip 1 – Start with a budget.
However idealistic you are about your wedding plans, you
would have to admit that one of the strongest foundations of
a dream wedding day is budget. When we say budget, we do
not mean having a small amount of dispensable money but
having a price range for your planned wedding expenses.
Talk to your groom-to-be about the acceptable amount of
money you want to spend for your most important day as
a couple. List down and itemize possible expenses, if you
have to. Consider not just your couple savings but also other
sources such as both your parents' commitments to chip in
for the said wedding expenses.
Tip 2 – Conceptualize the kind of wedding you both want.
You can never control your budget if you do not agree on
the kind of wedding you want. Be sure to sit down with your
fiancé and talk about the details of your desired nuptial day.
Develop a wedding day vision and tackle details such as
ideal venue, number of guests, reception venue and food,
giveaways and mementos and even honeymoon. By agree-
ing on similar concepts, you can easily hatch a detailed plan
for your special day and agree on the expenses you both
think are affordable and practical at the same time.
Tip 3 – Shop around.
If you love shopping, then you would surely get your
heart's desire when planning and preparing for weddings.
You would need to shop for a bridal dress, for bridesmaids
attires, for giveaways and gifts, for flowers and bouquets
and also look around for the perfect ceremony and reception
venues.
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nuptial day needs. A bridal show can be your easy solution to
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way long before the special date. Be sure to have your wed-
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Tip 4 – Know which items you can get for free or for dis-
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Weddings do not always have to dent your finances. There
are even those who manage great memorable weddings even
for the most modest budgets. The key is to also be resourceful
especially in accomplishing your wedding help list. Friends
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Wedding day decorations are the most crucial because the
wedding decorations set the mood and style for the evening.
Wilting flower arrangements and colors that do not match
can spoil the evening.
Fresh flowers can make all the difference. The importance
and significance of flowers in an Indian wedding is high and
you can see how they are used everywhere –the mandap,
the stage, the entrance and archway, the bidai vehicle, on the
mare, the blessings, the varmala and the wedding day bed
for the bride and the bridegroom. Choosing the flowers well
and ensuring that they look good at all times is extremely
important.
1.Choose a florist that has a reputation for being a good
flower supplier for weddings. Wedding florists and deco-
rators are different from the ones that make bouquets for
birthdays and anniversaries. To find good wedding florists,
ask your friends for references. You can also check up the
Internet for some good wedding florists in your area.
2.A good florist should be able to give you ideas about the
specific flowers that you should pick for the wedding day.
Seasonal flowers cost lesser and should be chosen if you are
on a tight wedding budget.
3.Select a wedding florist who stores his flowers close to
the wedding venue. This will ensure that the flowers are
fresh when they reach the wedding hall or venue.
4.Decide on the type of flower and the quantity based on
your wedding budget. Exquisite flowers like carnations and
gladioli cost much more than the traditional Indian rose or
the oft used marigold.
5.Discuss the specific f loral decorations that you will
need for the wedding venue with the florist. The amount of
flowers that you will need should be based on how large the
venue is and the areas that you want covered. By the end of
your discussions with the florist, you should have a list of all
the areas that you want decorated like the stage backdrop,
the mandap, the entrance and the tables and an estimate of
the amount of flowers that you will need for each of these
10 Tips for
Wedding F lowersdecorations. The details should also be broken up by cut
flowers, flowers and petals since the requirement for differ-
ent kinds of decorations may vary.
6.Also talk about the number and type of garlands that
you will need with the wedding florist. The wedding var-
mala should be ordered separately, making sure that the
specific flowers that you want included are specified. In
addition to this, you will also need garlands for the milni and
aashirwaad. These can be ordered once you have made a list
of the milnis that you are planning and the number of people
who are likely to give the aashirwaad.
7.Consider the kind of wedding décor that you have cho-
sen for the specific function. Traditional flowers are better
for religious functions like the wedding day or the mehendi.
You can leave the modern looking or western flowers and get
creative with them on the sangeet and the wedding recep-
tion.
8.Keeping flowers fresh is a challenge, especially for wed-
dings that take place in the Indian summer heat. Sprinkling
them with water can help keep the petals looking and smell-
ing fresh. You can also cover them with a wet cloth till they
are ready to be used.
9.Cut flowers with a stem that are used on tables or bou-
quets can be put in water that contains a copper penny or
piece and aspirin. Lemon juice, sugar and bleach can also
work wonders to keep flowers fresh. It might also be a good
idea to avoid flowers that have a long stem since these can
block the view of people sitting across the table.
10.Wedding flowers should always be chosen based on
the overall décor that you have selected for your wedding
day. Lavender or blue flowers may look out of place on the
wedding day when all the other decorations have traditional
gold, red and green colors.
In selecting flowers, it is a good idea to also get the opin-
ions of your friends and relatives, especially of your mother
and father. It makes parents feel important and you may
gain valuable information. With the right kind of wedding
flowers that are colorful vibrant and fresh and sweet smell-
ing, your wedding day is also likely to be exactly the same.
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The bride and the groom are of course the center of atten-
tion in any wedding. Even so, you would want to have the
right decorative touch to make your photo and video sou-
venirs worth looking at. Part of your wedding design plan
is your wedding cake design. The wedding cake design will
always be the center of attention at the reception regardless
of your cake's size and shape. The following are some impor-
tant concerns to think of before picking a wedding cake
design.
Complementary Piece
Your wedding, theme, colors, gowns and decorations are
all a reflection of your personal taste. You should never for-
get however, that your wedding cake design is also part of
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Choosing the Right
Wedding Cake D esignyour unified decoration. The color, shape and decorations
included in your wedding cake design should also therefore
complement your theme. The trick is to plan all the other
details of your wedding decorations, dresses and colors
before choosing a wedding cake design. This will help you
pick a design that will fit the whole picture.
The Ingredients
You may choose to have an experienced baker come up
with your wedding cake design. You can also ask your wed-
ding planner to take care of all the cake details or you can
take care of the wedding cake design yourself. Whatever
option you choose, it is not enough that you look into a port-
folio or watch a cake making video. You should also know
the different ingredients
involved in cake making
and how these can affect
your whole wedding cake
design.
Butter cream for exam-
ple is the common choice for
cake icing. You may how-
ever also use white marga-
rine and fondant icing. The
latter is a great choice if you
want to have a smooth and
elegant look. Aside from the
wedding cake design how-
ever, you should also think
about the f lavor. Fondant
may really look good but
butter cream still tastes bet-
ter. You should also look
into the butter cream mix.
Too much shortening will
make the eating experience
a greasy one.
Number of Guests
Your wedding cake design should also depend on the
number of guests you have and if you have prepared other
deserts. Do you want all your guests to have a piece of the
cake? Will you be serving other
sweet items to them? You may
not need a five tier cake if
you are serving other
deserts or if you have
very few guests. You
should however pre-
pare a wedding
cake design
with multi-
ple tiers if
you would
like a hun-
dred or more
guests to
have a
piece of
your cake.
Time Frame
It will take months to execute a complicated wedding cake
design. If you didn't know this and you only have a short
time left, then you should go for a simple wedding cake
design.
Budget
The wedding budget is almost always a part of wedding
cake design concerns. You can have a great wedding cake
design that will not cost much if you simply have sponge
cake. You can then spend more on icing and cake decora-
tions. You should also try to compute if you will be able to
save on your wedding cake design by serving other deserts
and just going for a smaller and simpler cake.
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Preparing for a wedding is never easy and sometimes it
doesn't come with satisfying results after pains-taking and
time-consuming work. As we all know, wedding invitations
are always the first impression that people get about your
wedding. Hence, they are always paid much attention to as
they set the tone of the wedding.
In order to have better preparation of the wedding invites
and to make your invitation cards more creative and appeal-
ing, here are some new trends in
wedding invitations as everything
changes from time to time, let alone
the recognition to the wedding col-
ors, styles and embellishments.
First of all, the colors to be in
trend next year as the main color
of a wedding will be combined col-
ors, like stunning watermelon pink
invitations or elegant cream wedding invitations. Another
color that may shine your wedding is green due to the
increasing awareness of environment protection and the
low-carbon surroundings. Actually, light colors like orange,
pink, yellow are all good to be combined together and all the
rages these days. Apart from some outstanding light colors,
there are actually classic colors that never go out of time. For
instance, white are still a great choice in that it conveys the
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Wedding Invitations meaning of purity and love. While black gives an impression
of solemn and serious. So with all these wondrous options
to pick from, you can really find one that right for your wed-
ding.
As to the styles, there are numerous varieties for you to
choose from. Pocket folders are still big hot these days and
continuing to rise in popularity and many brand new types
are invented day by day. From plain designs to double-
fold, from cutout designs to tri-fold,
numerous invitation styles come into
being with the development of cre-
ative minds, what's more, layered invi-
tations is also gaining in popularity
because here you can try every differ-
ent means to cope with the colors to
make novel creation. Or you can try to
create styles of your own and make it
really unique and bold.
When it comes to the embellishments, the available choices
are absolutely countless. Generally speaking, the decora-
tions are most likely to make the invitation cards stand out
compared to the former factors. Your creativity can really
find its way here decorating your invitations.
First of all, the ribbons are great choices to make invita-
tions more appealing, including double-sided satin of many
colors and some handmade craft ribbons. Bar in mind
choose some different colors against your invitation back-
ground to make them more appealing and eye-catching.
Besides, the ways of attaching the ribbons to the invitations
vary a lot. You can either tie the invitation like a cross in rib-
bons or you can merely put them in the surface of the invita-
tions.
Apart from the ribbons, there are actually many other
decorations that can be employed like flowers and photos.
Whatever makes up the invitation, the most important is to
let your guests
know your sin-
cerity and con-
vey the love to
them. Now it
is time to show
your creativity
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Many of our modern wedding traditions have their ori-
gin in times past. Here's a sampling.
The Bridal Shower tradition has its roots in the 1800's.
The story is told of poor a miller who fell in love with a
wealthy maiden. But, the father of the maiden was against
the marriage. He refused to provide a dowry for her, and
a bride could not marry without a dowry. The story goes
that the bride had generous friends who "showered" her
with so many gifts, they could forego the missing dowry.
Why "something old, something new, something bor-
r o w e d , something blue?" The "old" was usu-
ally a personal gift from mother to
daughter, a symbolic piece
of wisdom for married
life. The "new" sym-
bolized the new fam-
ily being formed by
the marriage. "Bor-
rowing" is especially
important since it is
to come from a hap-
pily married woman,
thereby lend-
ing the bride
some of her
own marital
bliss. "Blue"
h a s t w o
traditions,
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maidens wore blue on the borders of their robes
to denote love, fidelity and modesty, while
Christians associate it with the purity of the Vir-
gin Mary.
In very early days, fathers
would offer daughters as peace
offerings to warring tribes.
Because of the hostility, the fami-
lies were placed on opposite sides of
the church so the ceremony could proceed
without bloodshed. The ceremony united the
two warring factions into one family, and the danger
was resolved. Today, family members still sit on opposite
sides.
Because the early Anglo Saxon groom often had to
defend his bride from would-be kidnappers, she stood
to his left, leaving his sword- arm free just
in case. The "best" war-
rior in the tribe stood
by the groom and was
responsible for helping
defend the bride, should the need
arise. Thus we have the placement for the best
man.
Ever wonder where the phrase "tie the knot" comes
from? Supposedly this also goes back to early Roman
times. The bride would wear a girdle that was tied in many
knots, which the groom had the "duty" to untie. As a side
note, this can also refer to the tying of the knot in Hand-
fasting Ceremonies, which were usually done without the
benefit of clergy.
In early times the bride had to be carried over the
threshold because she was (or was pretend-
ing to be) reluctant to enter the bridal
chamber. In those days, it was consid-
ered ladylike to be hesitant at this
point. Another legend has it that
the bride was carried over the
threshold to protect her from
any evil spirits which might be
lingering there.
The term "Honeymoon" also
originated centuries ago. It was the cus-
tom for couples to get married beneath a full moon. Then
they would drink honey wine for thirty days in a row, to
foster good luck. This created the term honeymoon.
The wedding cake originated from the ancient custom
where a loaf of wheat bread was broken over the bride's
head to symbolize hope for a fertile and fulfill-
ing life. The guests ate the crumbs
which were believed to offer
good luck. The custom
found it's way to England
in the Middle Ages where
g u e s t s would bring small cakes to
a wedding and put them in one large pile. The bride and
groom were expected to stand over the cakes and kiss.
Loud noises were said to drive away evil spirits, and
during the ceremony the guests would make noises to keep
the evil away. Today, it's traditional that the bridal party
honk their car horns and drag rattling tin cans while leav-
ing the ceremony.
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In early times the bride had to be carried over the
threshold because she was (or was pretend-
ing to be) reluctant to enter the bridal
chamber. In those days, it was consid-
ered ladylike to be hesitant at this
point. Another legend has it that
the bride was carried over the
threshold to protect her from
any evil spirits which might be
lingering there.
The term "Honeymoon" also
originated centuries ago. It was the cus-
tom for couples to get married beneath a full moon. Then
they would drink honey wine for thirty days in a row, to
foster good luck. This created the term honeymoon.
The wedding cake originated from the ancient custom
where a loaf of wheat bread was broken over the bride's
head to symbolize hope for a fertile and fulfill-
ing life. The guests ate the crumbs
which were believed to offer
good luck. The custom
found it's way to England
in the Middle Ages where
g u e s t s would bring small cakes to
a wedding and put them in one large pile. The bride and
groom were expected to stand over the cakes and kiss.
Loud noises were said to drive away evil spirits, and
during the ceremony the guests would make noises to keep
the evil away. Today, it's traditional that the bridal party
honk their car horns and drag rattling tin cans while leav-
ing the ceremony.
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o Gold accessories are going to be more popular, espe-
cially for a fall or winter wedding. Things like gold hair
broaches, gold shoes, gold jewelry, and even golden hued
wedding gowns. The key to choosing gold accessories
with a timeless look, is to choose only one or two that you
love. This will keep your look from being too over-the-top.
o Big layered sheer skirts with lots of interesting details
in materials such as chiffon, organza, lace, batiste, crepe,
and tulle. Instead of the dress designs you've seen in the
past using just one material, dress designers are now
incorporating many different materials into one dress,
making each one unique.
o I just love the new cor-
set style bodices with lac-
ing down the back. This is
a very sexy yet sophisticat-
ed style that goes well with
a large ball gown skirt.
You'll see a lot of these with
intricate detailing using
things like beadwork and
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o Vintage inspired wedding gowns with a modern
touch. Just choose your favorite era, whether it's the roar-
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dress Marilyn Monroe made famous. I've found a vintage
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o Loose and simple hairstyles. Instead of the up-do that
looks like it took many grueling hours, styling tools and
hairspray to accomplish, think of a more natural look,
with loose waves pinned back low on the head or even off
to the side.
o Large hair accessories, such as a gardenia, sparkling
brooch with feathers, or a birdcage veil are becoming more
popular, but keep your other accessories to a minimum,
and let the hair accessory that you have
chosen be the focal point.
When you think of a pony tail you
might think of a more casual affair,
but not if you do it right! Low side pony
tails look stunning with a one-shoulder
wedding dress. This look works best
for brides with long hair. Part your
hair off to one side and put lots of loose
curls in the pony tail. Choose an acces-
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2012 Check List
Wedding BudgetBuying GuideBride & FamilyEngagement PartyBridal ConsultantInvitations, announcements, thank you note & other stationaryBride’s attireGroom’s RingCeremony expenses (fee for church or temple & accessories)Ceremony programs & guest bookFlowers for ceremony & receptionReception expenses (site fee, rentals, catering, food, beverages, gratuity & decoration)Photography & videographyTransportationGifts for attendantsLodging for attendantsBridesmaids’ luncheon
Groom & FamilyBride’s engagement & wedding ringsMarriage licenseOfficiant’s feeGroom’s attireAttire accessories for groomsmenGifts for groomsmenLodging for groomsmenFlowers for groom, groomsmen, mothers & grandmothersBride’s bouquetRehearsal dinnerHoneymoon
Bridesmaid & GroomsmenWedding attireTravel expensesBachelor/Bachelorette PartyBridal shower
Reception - 50%Ceremony location feesOfficiate’s feeReception site feeFood CakeBeveragesRentalsTransportationParkingTax & Tips
Photographer - 20%Photographer’s feeEngagement portraitWedding albumsAdditional printsVideographyAudio recordingCandid photos
Music - 20%CeremonyCocktail hourReception
Stationary - 10%Save-the-Date cardsInvitations & envelopesAnnouncementsProgramsPlace CardsThank you notesChange of address cardsPostageCalligraphy
AttireBride’s DressHeadpiece & veilBride’s shoesLingerieJewelry & accessoriesHair & make upGroom’s TuxGroom’s shoesGroom’s accessoriesRings
FlowersCeremony decorationsBride’s bouquetBridesmaids’ flowersFlower girl accessoriesCorsagesBoutonnieresCenterpieces
ExtrasBridesmaids’s giftsBridesmaid luncheonGroomsmen’s giftsChild attendants’ giftsParents’ giftsGifts to each otherGuest room bagsFavorsGuest bookRing pillowMarriage licenseBridal consultant
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Wedding Attire
For Grooms Sure, we all know that the bride is destined to be the star
of the day at a wedding, but what about the groom? Let's not
overlook him! More and more men these days agree: what
they wear matters too, and believe it or not, many grooms
have opinions on their wedding attire. Here is a look on the
trends in wedding attire for grooms.
One big trend for formal weddings is for the groom to wear
a tuxedo with a straight tie rather than a bow tie. You only
have to look to Hollywood to see this trend in action on the
red carpet. Check out how dashing Hollywood's leading men
look in their tuxedos
with straight black
ties at the Academy
Awards. This is a
trend that has come
into its own in mens'
wedding fashion, as
well. A lot of guys
think that the bow tie
is just too dorky or
old-fashioned, while
the straight tie feels
much more hip and
modern.
Bring that around
full circle, because there is also in fact a revival of bow ties
on younger men these days (huh?), just not with formal tux-
edos. Grooms and groomsmen are wearing bow ties in fun
prints for preppy weddings. To see how to interpret this wed-
ding trend in a way that is preppy-chic (not old fuddy-duddy)
flip through any Vineyard Vines catalog. There you will see
how a bow tie with a nautical motif or even the logo of your
alma mater can be very cool when worn with khakis, a navy
blazer, and a pastel shirt (pink, if you dare; light blue or yel-
low, if you dare not).
The hip city
loft wedding trend
is going strong,
and the attire that
would suit a groom
in a country club or
hotel ballroom sim-
ply will not work
in such an aggres-
sively hip setting.
The answer: a cus-
tom suit (or at least
a custom tailored
one). The cut of the
suit should be more
Hedi Slimane than Brooks Brothers. Anything Italian is
good. A British cut suit can also work well if the groom has
the "geek chic" thing going on, but it has to be worn with
an air of irony and slightly moused hair.
Even more traditional grooms are taking more of an
interest in what they wear for their weddings. They may
not go for custom suits or Hollywood inspired fashion, but
that doesn't mean that they are willing to leave the entire
decision in the bride's hands either. These are the grooms
who will wear a classic tuxedo for the evening or a navy
blue suit for a daytime wedding, but they use their acces-
sories to put a personal stamp on the outfit (yes, techni-
cally, men do wear accessories!). It could be as subtle as
a patterned pair of dress socks instead of basic black, or
adding a dash of color to a suit with an interesting pocket
square. Many brides will also give their fiances gifts of
wedding jewelry which can be worn to add personality
to their attire. Popular wedding jewelry gifts for grooms
include silver cufflinks and pocketwatches.
So you see, it is in fact possible for a groom to show some
style on his wedding day. He is probably in no danger of
upstaging the bride (let's hope not!), but he can still put
together a look that has character and personality. And
brides, just think of how handsome your stylish groom
will look in the wedding photos!
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Planning a Budget Friendly Getaway
H oneymoon In the perfect world of wedding planning, immediately
after toasting champagne with family and friends at the
wedding reception, you and your new groom are whisked
away to an exotic locale for two weeks of sightseeing,
beach bumming and cuddling.
But, for many couples, the reality of planning a fairytale
(i.e. budget-busting) honeymoon just isn’t in the cards. So
what to do when you want to get away without going in
debt? Here, five ideas for planning a budget-friendly get-
away.
1. Stash some cash
Even though during this time the majority of your money
will go toward paying for the honeymoon, you can still set
some funds aside for a post-wedding vacation. It doesn’t
have to be a large sum, but saving a few dollars here and
there to use only for your vacation will help cut down on
some travel costs.
2. Retreat from the world (sort of)
If you can’t go on vacation, bring the vacation to you.
Schedule some alone time together where you don’t
answer the phone, check emails or receive visitors. Your
focus should be on connecting with your mate with little
distractions from the outside world. So even if you’re not
island hopping in Hawaii or sailing along the Mediterra-
nean, a few days of uninterrupted couple time can be quite
gratifying.
3. Hit the open road
Save on airfare by traveling by car to your honeymoon
destination . . . which, of course, presents another budget-
friendly option—planning a stateside rendezvous. There
are plenty of great beaches, mountainsides and impressive
landmarks within the U.S. So pull out your road map for
more ideas on where to go.
4. Monitor mid-week deals
Airfare and hotel prices are typically less during
the middle of the week. For a quick getaway, book
your accommodations Tuesday thru Thursday to
save a few bucks.
5. Reconsider Hotel Reservations
Forgo the five-star digs for a quaint (and less
expensive) bed and breakfast. Some things to
consider when searching for B&Bs are accessibility to
great attractions, updated decor, and private accommoda-
tions (bath, temperature controls, etc.).
These are just a few ideas for planning a budget-
friendly getaway for your honeymoon. If skimming
back isn’t an ideal option for your first official get-
away as husband and wife, you can always postpone
your trip, allowing time to save up and take the vaca-
tion of your dreams.
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Surviving the First Year of
M arriage The honeymoon stage, marital bliss and newlyweds are
all words to describe you and your first year of marriage.
While the words conjure up images of simplicity, passion
and possibly choirs singing in the background, the truth
about the first year of marriage comes as quite a shock to
many “lovebirds.” According to information collected by the
US Census Bureau, the median age of a woman at their first
divorce is 29, for men it is 30.5. The Bureau also reports that
the average number of years a marriage lasts in the United
States is 7.8.
This by no means is meant to suggest that your mar-
riage is doomed. But, many couples are not prepared for
what is in store for them.
When people are young,
they have the illusion that
the love they share with
their husband or wife is
stronger than the love of
couples who have come
before them. But, regard-
less of how strong you
feel your love is, marriage
still takes work.
Here is what you can
expect in your first year
of marriage, and advice
for how you can keep
your bond strong.
Expect change: Natu-
ral changes always hap-
pen in any relationship.
It is just a matter of being
prepared for them. For
example, if you have
never lived with your
spouse prior to being
married, then you might discover new things about him that
you are unaccustomed to. Does he leave his clothes on the
floor, or dishes in the sink? These are just small nuisances
to expect. But these minor annoyances can be dealt with
quickly as long as you make an effort to bring them up in a
calm and noncritical way.
There may also be emotional changes as well. Now that
you are no longer in the
courting stage of your
relationship, you may
find that your part-
ner is less vocal about
his admiration for you. It
doesn’t mean that he loves
you any less, but perhaps
he expects that you know
already how much he
cares for you. Often cou-
ples in counseling discuss
their love languages to dis-
cover the many ways that
they both express love,
and how they prefer to
receive love.
Work on communica-
tion skills: It is stressed
to couples that communi-
cation is key to creating
a strong marriage. But,
communication is about more than expressing all of your
feelings. You should also work on your communication style:
Watch your tone of voice
Make requests, not demands, of your spouse
Don’t make accusations
Use “I” statements to explain how you’re feeling
Don’t hold onto past issues
Nurture your rela-
tionship: Many times, cou-
ples start to take one another
and their union for granted.
But, just like any living thing,
marriage needs attention and
care if it is going to grow. This
means taking the time to talk
with your spouse about areas
of the relationship you aren’t
pleased with and making an
effort toward improvements. In
order to strengthen the nurturing aspect of their marriage,
this is the point where many couples turn to counseling.
Keep up date nights: Yes, you both sat on the couch and
watched the 11 o’clock news together last night, but that does
not qualify as a date. Neither does the car ride you took to
the home improvement store last weekend. Just because you
don’t feel the constant need to impress one another anymore,
and you likely see each other every day, doesn’t mean you
don’t need a night out once in awhile. Some of the longest
lasting couples still schedule time alone. The responsibility
of preparing for the date can be alternated. This week look
around for things your spouse really likes, maybe tickets to
see a certain sports team, or to movie in the theater that has
their favorite actor in it, and surprise him. Then, the next
week, it is his turn to surprise you. The constant exchange
will help add excitement to the week and offers another way
to show your appreciation for one another.
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