Abuse may be physical such as slapping or punching or it can be threats. Abuse may be mental or emotional such as constant criticism, being kept away from family and friends, or being denied money to buy food. Mental and emotional abuse often go along with or lead to physical abuse. Spouse means husband, wife or common law partner.

Talk to someone about the abuse Tell a family member, friend or doctor Talk to a support group in your

community (women’s center, police, legal aid)

Get medical help Get photographs, documentation that

can be used in court Apply for a peace bond (a piece of paper

signed by the spouse promising to keep the peace and be of good behaviour)

Leave your spouse Go to a shelter Know your rights If you have been assaulted, report it to

the police

Simple assault – slapping, pushing, shoving, punching or someone threatening harm

Assault with a weapon or causing bodily harm- beaten with a object or assault causing injuries or broken bones

Aggravated assault – life in endangered or you are wounded, maimed or disfigured

Respond and investigate all complaints of assault

Interview people and write reports Make an arrest if reasonable grounds Provide advice where to get help Lay charges if necessary

Once charges have been laid by the police, you can’t withdraw the charges

If you laid the charges with a Justice of the Peace, you are allowed to withdraw charges

A common assault can be dealt with either as a serious offence (indictable offence) or as a less serious offence (summary offence)

Sentence may be a fine, jail time, a discharge or probation. It depends on the seriousness of the assault

There is a new law called “criminal harassment” which may help protect you if you fear for your safety or the safety of someone you know because your spouse tries to harass you by repeatedly:• Following you around• Calling you, your family, friends or workplace• Watching your home or workplace• Doing anything which threatens you or your

family