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✤ She’s 77? No, we
couldn’t believe it either!
Whether it’s fi nding a fi fth
husband 32 years her junior,
doing a job she loves, eating
well, keeping fi t or relaxing at
one of her four homes
around the world, Joan has
certainly found the key to eternal
youth. It’s not surprising then that big
fashion and beauty names have
been glad to have Joan on
board – no one could have
written her most recent book,
The Art of Living Well: Looking
Good, Feeling Great, with
more authority than someone
who shows that advancing
years can still mean turning
heads every- where you go.
Having an extra candle on the
cake won’t mean a thing!
✤ Cher, who restyled
herself as a solo star
without Sonny, is 64
on May 20.
✤ Julian Clary, our
favourite Lord of
the Mince, is 51 on
May 25.
✤ Clint Eastwood,
the craggiest smokin’
gun in the west, is 80
on May 31.
Also celebrating this fortnight…
Happy birthday… Joan Collins May 23, 1933
OberonMeet
✤ You’d have to be pretty
small in order to ride this
teeny-tiny pony. He’s so dinky,
he’s just tall enough to nuzzle up
to some late fl owering daffodils.
At least he can say he’s tallest
out of the bunch.
The gorgeous miniature
pony was born at the Original
Miniature Pony Centre in
Dartmoor and measures a
mere 20in high. The foal was
named Oberon after the King
of the Fairies character in A
Midsummer’s Night’s Dream,
because he was born just
before Shakespeare’s birthday
on April 23. But tiny as he is he’s
not the world’s smallest pony.
That honour belongs to Einstein
from New Hampshire, in the US
who is just 14 in high.
the pint-sized pony
A fairy good pet
– little Oberon
nuzzles up to
some daffs
Chillies help you slim✤ Did you know that eating chilli
peppers could actually help you
slim? Scientists claim that they can raise
our metabolism and burn fat. Researchers
from the University of California found
that the heat generated by the peppers can
‘oxidise’ layers of fat. Scientists began their
investigation after studying the ability of chillies
to make people sweat and began to wonder if they
could help as part of a diet. They found that eating
chillies raises the metabolism for several hours after
eating them. So next time you tuck into a curry just think
of all the calories you’re burning!
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✤ To Scottish great
grandmother Janey Cutler
for proving you’re never too old to hit the bigtime. Aged 80, Janey wowed the judges and audience in Britain’s Got Talent with a fabulous rendition of No Regrets earning a place in the next round. Simon Cowell declared there were 3,003 yeses – but add another vote from the Yours team, too. The retired cleaner swept us all off our feet.✤ To researchers for discovering more about the amazing health-giving qualities of olive oil. Spanish boffi ns have revealed that the oil has the ability to ‘switch off’ genes that infl ame conditions ranging from heart disease to arthritis. Packed with omega-6 fats, the oil has long been known to help combat infl ammatory conditions. Here’s to staying well oiled!
✤ To supermarket self-
checkouts. Sainsbury’s is set to replace hundreds more of its manned check-outs with self-scan tills saying it will mean fewer queues. The idea is that shoppers buying a few items can self-scan rather than queue for a normal till. But have you watched helplessly as people with trolleys piled high scoot through on the manned tills while you wait for an assistant to sort out a malfuctioning self-scanner? Enough of so-called effi ciency – it’s a trolley bad idea.✤ To a helpline for letting down pensioners trying to get a vital boost to their state pensions or sort out tax code blunders. Many people ringing the HM Revenue and Customs helpline are being told to call back or put through to an answering machine. Pensioners deserve better – not a hopeless helpline.
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Young love can go the distance✤ This pair of childhood
sweethearts have become
Britain’s youngest couple
to celebrate their golden
wedding anniversary. Fifty years ago Leslie (66)
and Jim Black (67) eloped to Gretna Green when they were just 16 and 17 after a row erupted with their family over the union. Leslie’s mother did not approve and tried to stop the marriage, so the pair ran away to Gretna Green. Now 50 years on Mr and Mrs Black have defi ed their critics and celebrated their golden wedding anniversary with family and friends.
Springwatch is back✤ The Springwatch team will be
back on our screens at the end of
the month, to follow a variety of
wonderful wildlife.
Join Kate Humble, Chris Packham and Simon King as they bring the magic of the natural world to our screens. They’ll be using their state of the art cameras to fi lm the fascinating private lives of our best-loved animals. Life, death, love and drama are all guaranteed as we witness the remarkable behaviour of nature.
✤ Springwatch is back from May 31 for three weeks on BBC 2, Monday to Thursday, 8pm.
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“We have fall-outs, like everyone does,”
says Leslie. “But we’ve always loved each other.”
They have three children, 11 grandchildren
and two great-grandchildren and say the secret of their happy marriage is simply, being in love.
Golden duo – Leslie and
Jim today and inset as
young sweethearts
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With a new teatime show in the
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than ever, what’s the secret to
fern’s new superconfi dence?
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fern wants to hear from you...Are you over 60 and looking for love? If so then
Fern wants to help you. Fern is currently looking
for people over 60 to appear on a friendly dating
game in the in the 5 0’ Clock show. The winning couple will be
go on a special mystery date together before catching up with
Fern to see how they get on. For more details contact Steve
Roe, assistant Producer of The 5 O’clock Show on 0207151
0096 or email [email protected]
❝Now I’m morein control❞
Making a point – fern joined forces with Philip
Schofi eld again to present Mr and Mrs
By Alison James
Can you believe it’s more than a year since Fern Britton presented her last This Morning? At
the time she said she was leaving because she was exhausted and wanted to spend more time with her family – TV chef Phil Vickery and her four children. “My plans are to create a vegetable garden, play the piano, paint, cycle, learn to speak Italian and follow other dreams,” she said at the time. “I want to be mistress of my home and cook wholesome food for the children while smiling, instead of being tired.”
Fern has doubtless achieved all this, but at the same time she seems to have discovered a fresh new confi dence and vitality. Since leaving This Morning she has found time to pen a best-selling autobiography, Fern – My Story. She’s also sat in for Jeremy Vine on his radio show and for Paul O’Grady on his Channel Four show, guested on game show As Seen on TV and presented All Star Mr and Mrs with ex This Morning colleague Phillip Schofi eld. And now she’s about to present Channel Four’s new live teatime 5 O’Clock Show, fi lling the Paul O’Grady slot.
Although Fern will initially be presenting the show for two weeks – other ‘guest’ presenters include Lenny Henry and Kirstie Allsop – it’s rumoured that she’s the frontrunner to take over permanently. It’s been mooted that Fern’s reasons for continuing
to work are fi nancial – after all, it must have been hard saying goodbye to the permanent six fi gure salary she received on This Morning – but it seems it’s more about love than money.
“I’m still working because I love what I do,” she says. “But now it’s different. I’m more in control. These days, I’m always there at one end of the day for the children. Since I’ve given up This Morning, I get them up and breakfasted, and do the school run. I’m often there in the evening, too, with supper cooking
and everything, so I don’t think they miss me. My family life is very happy, very settled, and I know I’m very, very lucky being able to do what I do for a job.”
So it seems that one of the secrets to the rejuvenated Fern could be her reprioritising and coming off the daily TV treadmill.
Certainly Channel 4 are delighted she’s agreed to join the 5 O’Clock team. “Fern’s a natural choice for the show,” says a Channel Four insider. “She’s considered to be the perfect replacement for Paul. The viewers love her because she’s so bubbly and charismatic, and, like her predecessor, she’s not reliant on the autocue. She has a gentle, off-the-cuff humour which is perfect for teatime TV.”
She certainly has. But she’s also developed another skill, achieving something of a reputation as a political interviewer and a force, within heavyweight circles, to be reckoned with. Since Tony Blair admitted to her on her BBC series of interviews
‘I’m still working as I love
what I do but now it’s
different. These days I’m
there at one end of the
day for the children’
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when she approached roundabouts and would drive for miles to avoid them. “I was a competent driver but I became worried because many drivers today don’t bother indicating when they’re turning off,” says Sue, who’s disabled and wheelchair-bound.
“When I learnt to drive 30 years ago it was fantastic, like having a pair of legs again. But then my health deteriorated and it was easier to let my husband Tony take over.”
Gina too allows her husband Pete to do most of the driving and this, says AA President Edmund King, could be the main problem. “Many people find their confidence goes when they don’t drive as often as they used to,” he says. “They worry more when they do venture out, thinking, ‘what if that truck pulls out in front of me? Or ‘what if I can’t find somewhere to park?’”
Gina admits to doing both of these. “I’ve been known to just drive straight home if I can’t find a parking space,” she says. But help is at hand. The AA Charitable Trust has recently launched a scheme
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By Kate Corr
Gina Sinclair used to love to drive. Forty years ago she thought nothing of stepping into her black and red
Mini and heading off to Devon to visit friends. “I was so confident,” recalls Gina, from London. “I just got in and drove.”
But not any more. For Gina, like thousands of other women over 50, driving is no longer a pleasure, but an ordeal. A combination of busier roads, more aggressive drivers and – it has to be said – over-active imaginations, has driven many women who used to be confident drivers to abandon their cars, or to stick to short, familiar routes.
“I only drive to work and local shops now,” says Gina (63). “I get so angry with myself, because I’m physically and mentally a very strong person, so why can’t I be strong enough to drive like I used to?”
Gina’s main dread is motorways – and it’s not hard to see why. When she passed her test in 1966 motorways were few and far between and road rage hadn’t been invented. “As the years went by and motorways got busier I began to think, ‘oh, I don’t like this any more! I want to get off!” she says.
Until recently, Sue Cooper (64) felt the same anxiety
Many women over 50 admit that when
they get in the driving seat they aren’t
as confident as they used to be. But a
new nationwide scheme promises to
change all that…
❝I will beat my dr
‘I used to drive
everywhere but as
the years went by
and the roads got
busier I began to
lose my confidence’
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called Drive Confident which offers free refresher driving lessons with qualified instructors to anyone who feels the need. “Millions of drivers fit into this category so there’s no need to be embarrassed,” says Edmund King. “We find it’s often very easy to reassure nervous drivers and help bring back their confidence.”
Sue has already taken advantage of the scheme, although she admits to being ‘very, very scared,’ when her instructor
decided to tackle her fear of roundabouts head on. “He
took me to the worst roundabouts he could
find,” she laughs. “He said, ‘if you can do these,
you can do any of them,’ – and I did! It
gave me such a lift. I’m driving two or three times a week again.
People don’t realise you’re disabled
when you’re driving, it’s so freeing.”
Gina too gained a ‘tremendous amount’ from her lessons and the birth of her second
grandchild has made her even more
determined to beat her fear.“I want to play a big part in my
grandchildren’s lives,” explains Gina. “To do that, I’ll have to get used to driving to their house in Kent on my own. It means going on a motorway and I’m absolutely dreading it, but I will do it because Albert (2) and newborn Rosie May mean the world to me.”
5 most common driving fears… and how to conquer themD motorways
D new routes
D roundabouts and slip roads
D driving at night
D driving in bad weather
D Be positive – remember how
confident you used to be? Start
telling yourself you can and will
get that confidence back.
D Be specific – identify the
particular aspects of driving that
cause you anxiety. Why do you
think this is? What could you do
to help yourself?
D read the Highway code
again – being on top of the
theory will help boost
your confidence
and stop you from
worrying that you’re
doing something
wrong. The Highway
Code is online at
www.direct.gov.uk
and there’s lots of
general motoring
advice at www.
theaa.com. The College of
Optometrists also offers
information on night vision. Call
020 7 8396000 or visit
www.college-optometrists.org
D Book a refresher driving
course – asking for help will
make you feel like you’re taking
control and putting yourself
on the path to tackling your
fears . See details of the free
AA course below or look in
your telephone directory for
local driving schools which
also offer refresher courses,
some even combine them with
hypnotherapy to help you relax.
D drive as often as you
can – the more practice you get,
the more your confidence will
grow as you regularly confront
the source of your fears.
D apply for your free drive
confident course by calling
0800 009 4756 or going
online at www.theaa.com/
drive-confident
y driving fear❞ nervous driver gina
is determined to
regain her confidence
behind the wheel
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Go simple and stylish Go fuss-free with a navy spot pencil skirt
and simple cream cover up.
Cream lace sleeve cardigan, £25, sizes
6-22, Next; white vest top, £4, sizes 8-18,
Primark; spotty skirt, £35, sizes 6-20, by
Fearne Cotton at Very; fascinator, £6,
Matalan; shoes, £13, sizes 3-7, Primark;
satin clutch bag, £7, New Look
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www.vivaladiva.com.
Go classic in trousers Keep your legs covered with
classic straight leg trousers paired
with a frill top and heels.
Spotty top, £12, sizes 8-24, George
at Asda; tailored trousers, £35,
sizes 10-22, Debenhams; ruche
sleeve cardi, £12, sizes 8-18 and
fascinator, £8, both Matalan;
gold shoes, £30, sizes 4-9,
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Go bold with colourBrighten up your look with a fl oral
print dress and matching bolero.
Floral print dress, £40 and satin
bolero, £25, sizes 10-20, Sophie
Gray at Bhs; fascinator, £15,
Accessorize; wedge sandals,
£20, sizes 4-9, Marisota;
earrings – model’s own
£100
Go for statement accessoriesTurn heads with a bold
hat teamed with a super
fl attering shift dress.
Pink tailored dress, £22,
sizes 8-18, Matalan;
multi-coloured feather
hat, £25, Debenhams;
short sleeve cardigan,
£12, sizes 8-18, Red
Herring at Debenhams;
bead necklace and
earring set, £9, Dorothy
Perkins; bag, £12, Julien
McDonald at Debenhams;
gold strappy heels, £18,
sizes 3-8, New Look
£97
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BreakfastGranola
with yogurt, fruit and toastMix 25g (1oz) of granola with 1 teaspoon of honey and a 125ml (41⁄2oz) pot of low-fat yogurt. Serve with a pear and a slice of wholegrain toast spread with 1 teaspoon of reduced fat olive spread.
LunchBaked potato with cottage cheese, ham and pineappleTop one medium baked potato (150g/5oz) with 3 tablespoons of low-fat cottage cheese, 80g (31⁄2oz) of chopped pineapple, one slice of chopped honey roast ham and some mixed salad leaves. Serve with an apple.
BreakfastBoiled egg on toast with
cereal and milkServe one boiled egg with
one slice of wholegrain toast spread with 1 tablespoon of reduced-fat olive spread, 30g (1oz) of wholegrain breakfast cereal with 125ml (41⁄2 fl oz) of semi-skimmed milk and one orange.
LunchHam and mustard salad sandwichFill two slices of wholegrain bread with 1 teaspoon of reduced-fat mayonnaise, 1 teaspoon of mustard, one slice of honey roast ham, some diced cucumber and some mixed salad leaves. Serve with 1⁄2 a granola bar and one pear.
DinnerColourful fi sh kebabsChop a quarter of a pepper into chunks and place in a saucepan and simmer in a little water for 10 minutes, then drain. Thread 100g (4oz) of cubed cod or other white fi sh
onto skewers along with one tomato cut into quarters, 50g (2oz) grapes, 50g (2oz) mushrooms, the pieces of pepper and two bay leaves. Sprinkle the kebabs with 1 teaspoon lemon juice and half a teaspoon of dried tarragon. Place under a preheated moderate grill for about 10 minutes until the fi sh is cooked, turning frequently and sprinkling with more lemon juice if necessary. Serve with 50g (2oz) rice (dry
weight) drizzled with 1 teaspoon soy sauce. Follow with a 125ml (41⁄2 fl oz) pot of low-fat yogurt.
SnackScone with crème fraîche and strawberriesSpread half a wheaten scone spread with 1 tablespoon of reduced-fat crème fraîche and top with 50g (2oz) of strawberries.
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DinnerSesame beef stir fryHeat 1 teaspoon of olive oil in a non-stick frying pan or wok and then add 100g (4oz) of diced lean beef. Stir-fry for 1-2 minutes to seal, then add one clove of crushed garlic, half a pepper, sliced, 80g (31⁄2 oz) of small broccoli fl orets, two sliced spring onions and a tablespoon of water. Stir-fry for a further 3 minutes, then add 2 tablespoons of oyster sauce and 1 tablespoon of sesame seeds. Allow to heat through and serve with 40g (11⁄2oz) noodles (dry weight) cooked as per pack directions.
SnackRye crispbread with turkey and tomatoTop two slices of rye crispbread with four slices of wafer thin turkey and one large tomato sliced. Serve with 100ml (4fl oz) glass of semi-skimmed milk.
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Hello folks! We feel very lucky to have such a small dog. Once round the local park with a growled
greeting to any animal smaller than her (shrews, ladybirds, ants) and she’s had enough (and so have I). The other week we rounded a corner to be confronted by a pack of a dozen leggy greyhounds and their owners. Knowing how much these whelps had cost me on youthful visits to Wimbledon Dog Track, I growled at them. Our dog, Bella, sort of smiled at them – a fi rst!
I thought, ‘they’ve lost their way – you have to turn right for Walthamstow Stadium’, but these beauties were destined never to race after the hare again. They were all retired and, at last, part of human families who love and cherish them.
Of course, Bella ran away, but the greyhounds didn’t take up the chase – they just yawned and carried on leaning against their minders. I asked one chap if the dogs were on drugs. “No,” he said, “They’re always like this.”
A couple of weeks later and, at a local garden fair, we saw, another half dozen greyhounds, and their minders, promoting an organisation called The Retired Greyhound Trust. The Trust exists to fi nd good homes for greyhounds whose racing days are over. This doesn’t mean they supply ancient old dogs. No, most racers retire
at three to four years old and still have lots of years and fun in them. Chatting to the lady in charge I learned so much more about these much-loved mutts.
She assured me they are the ultimate low-maintenance pets.
These animals (the seventh fastest mammal on earth), although great sprinters, can only manage short bursts. They are essentially lazy and most of them like lying in their beds and are perfectly happy with just a couple of short walks a day.
“I know the feeling,” I muttered. “Yes,” said the lady looking at me, “Not wanting a lot of exercise makes them ideal pets for elderly folk.” She was lookingat Debbie when she added,“They’re particularly good with children too.”
All the owners I’ve spoken to are full of praise for these canine couch potatoes. They raved about
The entertainer and Yours columnist has
a chance doggy encounter and ponders a
new addition to the Hudd home
their compatibility with cats and, without exception, all said how loveable, loyal and devoted they are to their owners. I have a feeling the day is getting closer to a further addition to the Hudd household – if Bella says it’s OK.
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‘All the owners
I’ve spoken to
are full of praise
for these canine
couch potatoes’
A greyhound could
soon be joining
Bella for walkies…
✤ If you fancy fi nding out more about
these very special dogs and how the
Trust goes about its business, call
0844 826 8424 or write to: Retired
Greyhound Trust, 2nd Floor, Park House,
1-4 Park Terrace, Worcester Park, Surrey
KT4 7JZ. They have a web page too:
www.retiredgreyhounds.co.uk and
branches all over the British Isles.
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✤ This picture was taken on Bournemouth seafront. The dress was made from a green and white spotted material alternating through the tiered skirt. I wore it with a stiffened frilled petticoat.
Eileen Vaughan, E Sussex
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✤ This picture was taken just two months
before I got married. I’m on the left next to my
friend Brenda Caddy, and my sister, Betty, is on the
right. We had gone to Weymouth together to get our
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✤ I think I look very prim and proper in this photo, taken just after my 21st birthday. I was really proud of my cotton Horrocks dress, bought from Fenwicks of Bond Street. It was light grey with a slightly darker grey check pattern and a V-neck front and back. Alas, you can’t see the black patent, high-heeled strappy sandals that I bought from Saxone’s.
Pat Matthews, Barnet, Herts
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Most teenagers can’t wait to leave school to start a job or college course. Having
fun usually means hanging out with friends, going to nightclubs or catching up with the gossip on Facebook. But 18-year-old April Crossland is different – she’s put her teenage years on hold to look after her mum, Zoe Huckerby.
While other girls are out doing girlie things, April is happy to be a carer. She does the washing, cleaning and cooking at the home she shares with her mum, step-dad Matt (34) and sister Hannah (16). She also helps with her mum’s personal care including changing dressings. “It was April’s choice to become my carer,” says Zoe. “I never wanted it this way, but it’s what April wants.”
April started caring for her mum in 1997 when she was just six. Zoe was taken seriously ill with a burst appendix and had half her bowel removed. Zoe (39) also has Chrone’s disease and frequent epileptic fi ts – sometimes up to 14 a day. She uses oxygen overnight and requires a lot of support as she will eventually need a wheelchair all the time.
April also supports her step-dad, Matt, a former champion swimmer, who is a wheelchair user and has spina bifi da. She says she “takes each day as it comes” as a carer and has learned through experience how to keep her mum calm when she has a fi t. “I make sure she’s breathing, talk very quietly and gently to her and then she comes round,” she says.
April relaxes after caring by enjoying her favourite hobbies
‘April’s such a
caring person
and I appreciate
all she does’
Welcome...to the Yours Carers in
Touch pages. In the
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unseen army of young
people who provide
vital support to disabled
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teenager April Crossland
who devotes her life to
caring for her mum. Rosie Sandall,
Reader Care Editor
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this fortnighthoroscopes Astrologer
Lynne Ewart predicts what’s in store for you
Between May 18 and May 31…Jupiter is opposing Saturn,
asking us to be realistic,
yet hopeful. Uranus comes
to Aries, sparking off new
efforts in industry and an
international controversy.
The property market could
begin to turn around at the
end of the month.
If it’s your birthday this fortnight... ... like Joan Collins, born
May 23, 1933
GEMINI May 22-June 22
There could be something
rather beneficial happening
for you via a partner or
someone close by. What
boosts one, helps the other.
Thought for the fortnight:
It’s often when folk feel most
stuck that things change.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705702
CANCER June 23-July23
With harmonious Venus
gracing your sign, personal
relationships will warm up,
and one involvement gets
pretty intense around May 24.
Thought for the fortnight:
If it’s worth having, it’s worth
working on.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705703
LEO July 24-Aug 23
This is a good ‘building’
phase, especially where
business and property are
concerned. Expect to hook up
with someone interesting!
Thought for the fortnight:
Don’t discount the possibility
of life perking up.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705704
VIRGO Aug 24-Sept 23
With Saturn doing an about
turn in your sign on May
30, you could be getting a
lot done. Things that have
been needing action, maybe
for years, are now being
attended to.
Thought for the fortnight: A
door opens where it seemed
there was no opening.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705705
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Gemini is the ageless
Peter Pan of the zodiac and
gloriously glamorous Joan
is no exception. Always
interested in what’s
around the corner rather
than what’s happened,
Geminis are restless,
witty, chatty and lots of
fun to know. Joan has
some pleasing domestic
happenings to look
forward to in October. The
next few years look pretty
amazing for Joan, with a
contract being signed to
revive a previous role, too.
LIBRA
Sept 23-Oct 24
This is an unusual time, when
out-of-the-blue moments can
alter so much for you. Partners
will surprise you and you’ll
surprise others, too.
Thought for the fortnight:
Look out for a ‘domino effect’.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705706
SCORPIO
Oct 24-Nov 22
Treading softly in a tricky
situation could enable you to
manoeuvre your way into an
all-round better set up. Don’t
be tempted to return to a part of
the past that did you no favours.
Thought for the fortnight:
It might pay to check out
expert money advice.
For a weekly update call
09044 705707
SAGITTARIUS Nov 23-Dec 21
It’s a good time for putting
heads together, bouncing
ideas around and working
to straighten out what
needs attention.
Thought for the fortnight:
Thanks to your own effort, you
should achieve that goal.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705708
CAPRICORN
December 22-Jan20
Try not to overfill the diary or
over-commit yourself! There’s
a lot to be said for a plan that
could take you out of the usual
routine, until Saturn goes
forward, bringing a green light
on May 30.
Thought for the fortnight:
Get ready for a new wave of
domestic activity!
D For a weekly update call
09044 705709
AQUARIUS
Jan 21-Feb19
From May 28 you’ll start to
notice things revving up in
your daily life, and all sorts
of amazing ideas could begin
to shape up!
Thought for the fortnight:
You’ll be determined to
spread your wings.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705710
PISCES
Feb 20-Mar 20
Family connections seem
strong and positive and
a suggested change of
surroundings could get
the thumbs up.
Thought for the fortnight:
Unusual opportunities will
present themselves.D For a weekly update call
09044 705711
ARIES
Mar 21-Apr20
It’s all changing for you, as
Uranus arrives in Aries on
May 28, for his first visit since
1935. Time to shift the goal
posts, to get ready for a
chance to do things your
way, Aries!
Thought for the fortnight:
Your determination to make
life better should pay off.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705700
TAURUS
Apr 21-May 21
You could soon be sorting a
personal issue that’s perplexed
you for some time and the
mood is upbeat, even if you are
a bit uptight to begin with.
Thought for the fortnight:
You’re on the right track to
ring that needed change.
D For a weekly update call
09044 705701
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look at life…Lynda’s
MY FORTNIGHT…
My stepson Bradley has been
laying fl oors in our apartment this
weekend. It’s all part of his training
to become a chippy and he’s done
a wonderful job. But I’ve spent the
weekend attached to the vacuum
cleaner sucking up all the sawdust.
It gets everywhere.
On a different note, I took Mr
Spain to the cinema to see a
wonderful fi lm called I am Love but
it was subtitled and I kept having
to wake him up. Now I’ll have to
go with him to see Clash of the
Titans. I guess the secret to a happy
relationship is to compromise! PIC
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But what is important is to give our children values.
Sometimes I wonder what exactly parents are saying to their children now. I have to hold my hand up and admit my generation made mistakes with our childcare in that we were too lenient. Rules are made to be broken, but I fear we broke rules and then didn’t replace them for fear of not being trendy or politically correct.
My parents were the most loving on the planet, but they weren’t to be disobeyed. I knew how far I could go and if I overstepped the mark I was punished – and I respected them more for it. They gave me a great work ethic, too. My father worked all hours on the farm and Mum worked alongside him. If you started a job it had to be fi nished.
Tidiness was my mum’s obsession. I remember throwing a wobbly because she made me put my toys away in the cupboard before I could have tea. This continued through my teenage years. The poor woman must have exhausted herself nagging my
sisters and I into tidiness. I am now the same and, interestingly, so are my sons, although I
adopted a different approach. Because I was working so
much when they were
How often do you hear someone say ‘I was horrifi ed to hear myself quoting my own parents as I
talked to my children’? Yet what’s wrong with that? Why wouldn’t we adopt our parents’ values?
I’ve been able to ‘come out’ recently in my autobiography, Lost and Found, and write about being adopted. It made me realise how much of my parents’ attitude to life I’ve absorbed. As a teenager it’s a rite of passage to kick against the traces and abandon all our parents’ values. It’s a classic teenage behaviour to do the opposite of everything they say.
Yours columnist Lynda
Bellingham believes
parental respect is the
key to happiness
‘To have respect for a
parent and pass that on
to our own children is
the greatest reward’
young, and I was on my own for several years, I didn’t have the energy to nag, so I cleared up after them. Friends would tell me I was mad and that I should leave the mess until they cleared up. But I just couldn’t live like that.
However, over the years my boys have somehow learned by osmosis and are now very tidy. It’s as if they were so used to living in a clean, tidy house they notice if
things are not where they should be and clean up.
Loyalty was another attribute my parents encouraged and once, when a pal at school let me down, I was encouraged not to retaliate but instead stay strong and loyal. Sure enough the friendship survived. I know that my sons appreciate loyalty in their friends and enjoy the respect it wins. And that is the ultimate really isn’t it? Respect. To have respect for a parent and pass that on to our own children is perhaps the greatest reward.
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