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You’re Not As Important

As You Think You Are

Jessica Deen

Systems Integration Engineer

SPK and Associates

Twitter: @jldeen

Blog: jessicadeen.com

Email: [email protected]

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Jessica Deen Current Microsoft MVP

Awarded 2013-2014

Systems Integration Engineer

SPK and Associates

Former Social Media Manager

Vendor to Microsoft

Former Private Consultant

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“Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

~Apple Inc.

 

Here’s to the

crazy one’s…

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Overview

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Why?

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Why do you work in IT or with technology in general?

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Topic Overview

What does it mean to outgrow a job?

How does one recognize that he or she may have outgrown his or her current position?

Why did I pick this topic?

Where? Where would you like to see yourself, professionally, in 5 years? How about 10 years?

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Agenda Background

Trepidation

The Ego Mindset

Relevance over importance

Relief

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What? What is it that end users

want from us? What is it that end users want when they hear the term “IT”?

What is the “mindset” and why / how do we get away from it?

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Why? Where?

Why does one “get into” IT or systems administration?

Are you happy with your current career placement?

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How? Who?

Why do we feel we are so important or integral to our clients or employers?

Where does that mindset come from?

Why do we have to know everything for every technical problem?

How did this mindset come to be?

Who told us to think this way?

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BoutiqueConsulting

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Care

er

Adva

nce

ment

How does one remap his or her career path?

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You’re not as important as you

think you are

When we live and work like the world depends on us, like the people in our lives can’t be successful without us, we wear ourselves out. It’s tiring trying to carry the weight of things we were never meant to carry.

As much as we tell ourselves we’re contriving meaning, affirmation and joy from the pursuit of being needed, it just ends up leaving us feeling out of breath. It’s a task we can never fully fulfill. And it is a disservice to ourselves, as well as our clients and colleagues.

 

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The Remapping

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Recognize the insignificance of being important and the substantial value of being

relevant.

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How do we stay relevant?

What does relevant mean?

How do you learn, grow, add value to any business or undertaking?

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Risk

Learn to take risks

Do the uncomfortable

Meet new people in your field

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Experiment

Try new things

Experiment with new technology

Experiment with what interests you but you never have the time to learn

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Learn – Unlearn - Relearn

Be willing to learn and then unlearn what you just learned only to relearn it again

Technology and the IT sector is constantly changing. If you stay complacent, you’ll be left behind.

Grow with your field, even if it means unlearning what you were once an expert at only to become an expert at something else.

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Engage Engage with the

audience

Engage with peers

Engage with colleagues

Engage with clients (employers)

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Value

Value in other’s opinions

Value in other’s insight

Value in the experiences

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Attitude – Abandon the

Ego It’s okay to not know the answer.

Hardly anyone knows it all.

It’s okay to be wrong, everyone is (at least once)

Be open

Stay up-to-date Read

Research

Learn from everything available

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No to Negativity

The “I can’t’s” or “I shouldn’t’s” or “I wish I could but…”

Let Go – of the thinking, patterns and behaviors that keep you stuck

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Time

Take time to network

Take time to relate

Take time to plan

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“If you wish to achieve worthwhile things in your personal and career life, you must become a worthwhile person in your own self-development.”

– Brian Tracy

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Let Go of Pride

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Find a mentor

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Become Adaptable

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Become Flexible

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Become Proactive

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Become Open

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Become Humble

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The point is that working to be important is

fleeting. 

 

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Wra

p U

p Here’s to the crazy ones…”

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Q &

A

Email: [email protected]

Twitter: @jldeen