x3 pure men's chapt 13a
DESCRIPTION
TRANSCRIPT
![Page 1: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/1.jpg)
Session 13: X3pure Men’s SeriesRecovery Target #3: Truth, Trust and Territory
![Page 2: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/2.jpg)
Review
![Page 3: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/3.jpg)
Review
Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
![Page 4: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/4.jpg)
Review
Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community
![Page 5: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/5.jpg)
Review
Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community
Recovery Target #3: Truth, Trust and Territory
![Page 6: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/6.jpg)
Review
Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community
Recovery Target #3: Truth, Trust and Territory
Recovery Target #4: Development and Exploration of Genuine Faith
![Page 7: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/7.jpg)
Review
![Page 8: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/8.jpg)
• Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Review
![Page 9: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/9.jpg)
• Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Review
- Our goal is to search deep within ourselves to find those areas of
conditional love in our lives.
![Page 10: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/10.jpg)
• Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Review
- Our goal is to search deep within ourselves to find those areas of
conditional love in our lives.
• Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community
![Page 11: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/11.jpg)
• Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings
Review
- Our goal is to search deep within ourselves to find those areas of
conditional love in our lives.
• Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community- Our goal is to find communities of unconditional love, people or
groups of people who love you no matter who or what you are, warts
and all.
![Page 12: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/12.jpg)
Truth, Trust and Territory
![Page 13: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/13.jpg)
• Truth
Truth, Trust and Territory
![Page 14: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/14.jpg)
• Truth
Truth, Trust and Territory
- Addiction resides in lies.
![Page 15: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/15.jpg)
• Truth
Truth, Trust and Territory
- Addiction resides in lies.
• In order to recover you must stop lying
![Page 16: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/16.jpg)
Truth
![Page 17: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/17.jpg)
Truth
• Telling the truth requires that you face the realities of the things that are really hurting us inside, those pathogenic beliefs, those feelings of being shameful or unlovable.
![Page 18: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/18.jpg)
Truth
• Telling the truth requires that you face the realities of the things that are really hurting us inside, those pathogenic beliefs, those feelings of being shameful or unlovable.
• Telling the truth requires you to discover who in your life can either handle the truth you need to tell or can’t.
![Page 19: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/19.jpg)
Truth
• Telling the truth requires that you face the realities of the things that are really hurting us inside, those pathogenic beliefs, those feelings of being shameful or unlovable.
• Telling the truth requires you to discover who in your life can either handle the truth you need to tell or can’t.
• Telling the truth requires those people who can’t handle the truth either to grow and change or get shrink or disappear from your life.
![Page 20: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/20.jpg)
Truth
![Page 21: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/21.jpg)
Truth
• Telling the truth at all times despite the consequences will act as a sort of weather barometer, a self-correcting mechanism for your life.
![Page 22: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/22.jpg)
Truth
• Telling the truth at all times despite the consequences will act as a sort of weather barometer, a self-correcting mechanism for your life.
• Changing the systems that you live in so that they are supportive of your real self.
![Page 23: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/23.jpg)
Trust
![Page 24: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/24.jpg)
• Rewards from truth telling.
Trust
![Page 25: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/25.jpg)
• Rewards from truth telling. - Accountability
- Pride
- Courage
- Dignity
- Trust in yourself
Trust
![Page 26: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/26.jpg)
Trust
![Page 27: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/27.jpg)
Trust
• As you trust others, you will be able to enlarge that community that you so desperately need in minimizing those negative thoughts about yourself so that you can become more relational.
![Page 28: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/28.jpg)
• Gaining self-trust means that you have to make the right decision even when you don’t want to.
Trust
• As you trust others, you will be able to enlarge that community that you so desperately need in minimizing those negative thoughts about yourself so that you can become more relational.
![Page 29: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/29.jpg)
Territory
![Page 30: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/30.jpg)
Territory
• Territory is related to truth and trust.
![Page 31: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/31.jpg)
Territory
• Territory is related to truth and trust.
• Territory is another word for boundaries, and addiction is boundary failure.
![Page 32: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/32.jpg)
Truth, Trust and Territory
![Page 33: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/33.jpg)
Truth, Trust and Territory
• Truth, Trust, and Territory are our gauges for ensuring that love is unconditional.
![Page 34: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/34.jpg)
Truth, Trust and Territory
• Truth, Trust, and Territory are our gauges for ensuring that love is unconditional.
• Antonio’s Testimony
![Page 35: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/35.jpg)
Truth, Trust and Territory
• Truth, Trust, and Territory are our gauges for ensuring that love is unconditional.
• Antonio’s Testimony- He has learned the immense value of telling the truth at all times,
trusting that when he tells the truth everything is going to be OK, and in
the process of doing so building a sense of territory in this world that is
his and his alone.
![Page 36: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/36.jpg)
Farewell
![Page 37: X3 pure men's chapt 13a](https://reader031.vdocuments.mx/reader031/viewer/2022020105/549e7e27b37959d7618b46c0/html5/thumbnails/37.jpg)
Farewell
• Next Session: Development and Exploration of Genuine Faith