with hope by lance laborde
TRANSCRIPT
*Do we know why Amber took her
own life? Do we know what she
was thinking as she took her own
life? No, we don't. We wish we
could turn back time and talk to
her just once more to give her a
shred of hope. We wish we could
turn back time and let her know
how very loved she was...is. We
wish we could turn back time and
hear her...see her...feel her. But
we can't. All we can do now is
pray with hope that we can offer
resources to those hurting. Please
use them. Please reach out. You
are important. You have
something to contribute to this
world. You are loved.
**She was silly. She was bold. She was
encouraging. She was determined. She was...Amber. We now know she was also profoundly sad and her one mistake (other than her final act) was that she didn't reach out for the help available. She masked her pain in the midst of all her talents. She hid her pain from a community of people who truly loved her. Amber's inability to share her pain has tragically affected those who loved her deeply. This charity is dedicated to Amber and people like Amber; people who wish they could share their darkest thoughts and, for whatever reason, are unable to reach out.
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**Amber was an avid soccer
player, a good student, and a
loving friend. She was the
keeper and co-captain for her
JUSA G90-A Club soccer team
and keeper for El Dorado High
School. As a freshman she
played varsity soccer and still
had time for her family, her
boyfriend and her friends.
**With Hope, the Amber Craig Memorial Foundation
was born with the desire that as a community we
can help our youth negotiate troubled times. With
Hope Foundation is dedicated to suicide
prevention through improving mental health
support services and education in our schools and
throughout our community. With Hope Foundation
is committed to supporting our local schools’
efforts in suicide prevention through education.
We have pledged to make available, at no cost to
the schools, speakers and materials to effectively
educate our community’s youth.
*• Suicide is the third leading cause of death for 15-24 year olds.
World Health Organization (WHO)
• More children and young adults die from suicide each year than from cancer, heart disease, AIDS, birth defects, stroke, and chronic lung disease combined. Garrett Lee Smith Memorial Act, Public law 108-355, Oct. 21, 2004
• More people die from suicide than from homicide. Center for Disease Control (CDC)
• A person dies from suicide every 18 minutes in the U.S. American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)
• For every completed suicide by youth, it is estimated that 100 to 200 attempts are made. American association of Suicidology(AAS)
http://www.withhopefoundation.org/home/brochures
*With Hope Foundation is committed to supporting our local schools’ efforts in suicide prevention through education. We have pledged to make available, at no cost to the schools a completely free service. All we need for inputs are an
allotment of speakers and materials to effectively create our output of educating our community’s youth in the following ways:
1. We teach School staff and local clergy, police, and recreation staff to help them identify students risk of suicide and refer such students for help. These programs also teach staff how to respond incases of a tragic death or other crisis in the school.
2. We provide general suicide education. These school-based programs explicate facts about suicide, alert them to suicide warning signs, and provide them with information about how to seek help for themselves or for others. These programs often incorporate a variety of self-esteem or social competency development activities.
**With Hope raises awareness and funds
materials by holding a variety of events
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*With Hope endorses people to critically
think. We strive to educate and get
people to answer the real a question.
Who will I effect if I kill myself? To think what the real consequences of suicide
are, and how it not only ends your life
but it effects the people that love and
care about you for the rest of their lives.
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*With Hope also endorses critical action. We
hope that through our gatekeeper program we
provide students with facts about suicide. To be
actively engaged with their peers, to alert
them to suicide warning signs and provide them
with information about how to make a
meaningful action and seek help for
themselves or for others. Our goal is for people
to make informed and rational decisions when they are at their lowest point.
**Shuttleworth Foundation
1. The idea that it is people who change the world for the better
2. That if we are rigorously open about ideas and practices, more people will copy them and make the world a better place in a shorter period of time.
3. We provide funding for dynamic leaders who are at the forefront of social change.
With Hope1. With Hope to change the world for the
better by raising awareness and helping to prevent future suicides
2. With Hope reaches out to the community in a number of ways, they hold a multitude of events that reach out to students with lectures and also educate community leaders and school staff. Through this process we raise awareness and give people the education to reach out and make a difference in someone else’s life.
3. Annette Craig (ambers mom) is the Chairman of With hope and she is definitely a dynamic leader. When Amber took her own life, she stepped up to the plate and really focused everything she had into preventing another mom from feeling the pain of losing her own child, when it could have been prevented.
*4. We identify amazing
people, give them a fellowship grant, and multiply the money they put into their projects by a factor of ten or more.
5. We are looking for social innovators who are helping to change the world for the better and are looking for some support through an innovative social investment model.
4. Annette Craig is definitely an amazing person no one is questioning that. With Hope obtains all of its money for funding solely on events, and we need this fellowship grant to obtain money for our new clothing campaign. With the Shuttleworth Foundation’s help we can definitely aggrandizeour foundations money raising ability
5. With Hope wants nothing more than to make the world better, suicide is a tragedy that can be prevented. We need the Shuttleworth foundation’s support in order to grow outside of our community and increase awareness.
**You can help out in a number of ways.
1.You can make a donation.
2.You can volunteer.
3.You can buy a candle from the With Hope shop
(all are made by Amber’s Mom).
4.You can attend a With Hope event.
5.Or you can just simply reach out to someone
that you think may be at risk.
**Suicide is the most selfish way to leave
this Earth. It is selfish because you are
not only hurting yourself but you hurt
everybody that you know and love.
When you die you want people to have
a positive connotation when they think
about you, for them to remember all of
the good times you had with the them.
But when you commit suicide, you do
the opposite, your memory evokes
sadness.
**My best friend Bianca played soccer with Amber and
was very close to her. Through her, I witnessed how
suicide effects others. Every time someone jokes
about suicide, or says that they want to kill
themselves jokingly, it always effects her. Every
time I can see the pain in her eyes, she is reminded
of Amber. She remembers the moment she heard
the news, her funeral, her friend gone forever. I
never realized the real gravity of what suicide does
to other people until I met her, and that is why I
support With Hope.