winner for life - jul - transformational leadership

My Goals in Life are•.•.•.•.

My Limitations & Obstacles are…..

• Time• Money• Qualifications • Background• Circumstances

Emotion Creates Motion

Emotion Creates Motion

Motion Creates Emotion

I want to, But I have no time for…..•.•.•.•.

What does success mean to you?

Success: Qualities

• Motivated• Empathy/ caring • Integrity• Values, Ethics, Morals • Dynamic/ Takes Initiative• Communication•Passionate, vibrant• Responsible/ ownership• Will power / Perseverance/ resolute•Approachable• Selfless, some sacrifice• Listening• Decision making • Visionary/ vision• Work – Life Balance/ Integration• Action oriented/ Focused•Innovative/ creative•Trendsetter

• Punctual• Hard / smart working• Risk taking, brave• Patience• Go getter/ Fire in the Belly• Coordination• Trust & Good character• Commitment• Knowledge• Skill• Confident• Inspirational• Adaptable/ flexible•Mission, Goals•Sense of purpose•Appreciative•Respect•Shows Gratitude•+ Ve Attitude/ Optimistic•Strong bonding

• Disciplined• Team spirit• Questions• Honesty•Strategic thinking/ Plans• Willing to learn from Failure & / Feedback• Courage of conviction• Lead by example• Result oriented• Diplomatic/ tactful• Has fun/ enjoys•Humility, humble•Goal & Role Clarity•Fair•Empowers•Coaches/ Mentors•Fearless•Manage stress

Not Required Nice Must have

Success: Qualities

• Motivated• Empathy/ caring • Integrity• Values, Ethics, Morals • Dynamic/ Takes Initiative• Passionate, vibrant• Responsible/ ownership• Will power • Perseverance/ resolute•Communication• Approachable• Selfless, some sacrifice• Visionary/ vision• Listening• Decision making • Work – Life Balance/ Integration• Action oriented/ Focused•Innovative/ creative•Trendsetter

• Punctual• Hard / smart working• Risk taking, brave• Patience• Go getter/ Fire in the Belly• Coordination• Trust & Good character• Commitment• Knowledge• Skill• Confident• Inspirational• Adaptable/ flexible•Mission, Goals•Sense of purpose•Appreciative•Respect•Shows Gratitude•+ Ve Attitude/ Optimistic•Strong bonding


Must have

Are Leaders Born?Are Leaders Made?

Knowledge

AttitudeSkills

Human Effectiveness

Leader Qualities

• Motivated• Empathy/ caring • Integrity• Values, Ethics, Morals • Dynamic/ Takes Initiative• Passionate, vibrant• Responsible/ ownership• Will power/ Perseverance/ resolute•Communication•Approachable• Selfless, some sacrifice• Punctual• Visionary/ vision• Listening• Work – Life Balance/ Integration• Action oriented/ Focused•Innovative/ creative•Trendsetter

• Decision making• Hard / smart working• Risk taking, brave• Patience• Go getter/ Fire in the Belly• Coordination• Trust & Good character• Commitment• Knowledge• Skill• Confident• Inspirational• Adaptable/ flexible•Mission, Goals•Sense of purpose•Appreciative•Respect•Shows Gratitude•+ Ve Attitude/ Optimistic•Strong bonding


Must have

• Optimistic • Motivated • Passion • TRUST • Inspirational• Responsibility/ Ownership• Visionary• Strong willed• Courage• Risk taking• Ethical• Values• Simple & humble• Lead by example• Perseverance

•Result oriented•Goal oriented• Humility/ Humble• Empathetic• Committed• Assertive • Fair•Knowledge• Courage of Conviction • Nurturing• Winning against odds• Self motivated• Appreciative• Sharing thoughts• Knowledgeable• Good character

Knowledge

AttitudeSkills

Your Attitude Determines Your Altitude

Leader Qualities

• Motivated• Empathy/ caring • Integrity• Values, Ethics, Morals • Dynamic/ Takes Initiative• Passionate, vibrant• Responsible/ ownership• Will power • Perseverance/ resolute•Communication•Approachable• Selfless, some sacrifice• Punctual• Visionary/ vision• Listening• Work – Life Balance/ Integration• Action oriented/ Focused•Innovative/ creative•Trendsetter



Must have

Mind

EmotionsBody

Attitude

Emotion

Mind

Body

Emotion

Mind

Body

Leadership/ TEAM/ Life Energies

Leader Qualities

• Motivated• Empathy/ caring • Integrity• Values, Ethics, Morals • Dynamic/ Takes Initiative• Passionate, vibrant• Responsible/ ownership• Will power • Perseverance/ resolute•Communication•Approachable• Selfless, some sacrifice• Punctual• Visionary/ vision• Listening• Work – Life Balance/ Integration• Action oriented/ Focused•Innovative/ creative•Trendsetter



Must have

SEROTONIN – The Happiness Chemical

- Tryptophan

Anandamide – Peace of Mind, Bliss, AnandOxytocinEndorphinMelotonin

SEROTONIN – The Happiness Chemical• + Ve Attitude• Motivation• Proactive/ Dynamic/ Takes Initiative• Left Brain/ Right Brain• Innovation Creativity• Willing to learn from Failure & /

Feedback/ Adaptable• Willingness to share• Life is fun/ teamwork is fun• Happiness within• Life is worth living• Peace of mind – the start

• Passion• Will power• Never say die• Entrepreneur

• Laughter Club• Exercise, Jog/ Gym/ Yoga• Games/ Play – Volleyball, Basket

ball, Hockey, Football, Running, cycling, swimming, others (Not Cricket)

• Dynamic Meditation• Music/ Dance• Commune with nature,• Watch Sunset/ Sunrise• Avoid Negative People• Take things one step at a time• Visualize/ Dream your desired

results• Don’t take responsibility for

everything• Use positive body language

SEROTONINS – The Happiness Chemical• Learn to laugh at yourself• Act as if you will never fail• Play with your children• Dream your dreams• Smile often • Play with a dog/ pet• The SMALL things in Life• Break the routine• Don’t read the newspaper

(sometimes)• Enjoy being a bathroom singer• Think of the person you most

admire• Imagine total success• Say ‘Thank You’ often• Establish goals• Be grateful

Rule - 1

• Change Your State: Operate at Level 10!• Do something stupid everyday (for 10 secs)

and for 24 x 7 Serotonins do some of the many other things listed – especially

SPORTS (not cricket)

Life is full of choices&

I decide

which choice to make

Success is merely

a matter of LUCK

Believe in The Power of Prayers?

Leaders believe in

Destiny?

Talent is Inborn?


I decide


• Job, • Boss, Seniors,• Juniors/ Employee• Spouse/ Marriage• Students – Engineering/ Medical/ CA/ IIT/ IIM

• Society, Relationships• Organization Rules/ Norms• Anxiety, Stress, Anger, Frustration

Choice???

• Diabetes, Blood Pressure, Cancer, Heart attack,

Being over weight, Stroke (Genetic reasons?)

• My Beliefs & Fears – dog, snakes, heights, risk

taking, unknown, losing, rejection, water, sea,

flying, injury……

Choice???


I decide


S + R = O

Anger – Choice?Side Effects?

Rule 2Take responsibility for the

Choices that you makeESPECIALLY

when the Choice goes wrong

• I accept the limitation…..and the consequences that come with this acceptance…(no blaming others)

• I Choose not to accept this limitation and look

at it as a challenge to be overcome. I will do all it takes to overcome the challenges that will come in my path

Limitations

Purpose of Life?

Rule - 3

• Define Your Purpose in Life

Success Rules

1. Live Life at Level 102. Take Responsibility - Choices3. Define Your Purpose in Life

Success Rule - 4

• Vision• Mission• Goals

Success is merely

a matter of LUCK

Epigenetics

DNA – THE DOUBLE HELIX

• Genetic: Diabetes, Blood Pressure, Cholestrol,

Cancer, Heart attack, Arthritis, Osteoporosis,

Thyroid, Alzeihmers, Parkinsons. Stroke/

paralysis

• My Beliefs & Fears – dog, snakes, heights, risk

taking, unknown, losing, rejection, water, sea,

flying, injury……

Genetic???

A Single Cell

•Nervous•Digestive•Respiratory•Excretory •Endocrine•Muscular•Skeletal•Circulatory•Skin (Integument)•Reproductive•Immune

Body & Cellular Systems

It’s Not About Your Genes…

Epigenetics

Leaders believe in

Destiny?

Believe in The Power of Prayers?

The Success Graph – The Battle Within

The Success Graph

Your Current Status

Where You want to go – your Destination

Leaders create their own

Destiny

Talent is Inborn?

Talent is something that you believe you

have and then nurture it through commitment, dedication,

discipline, over coming obstacles, taking risks, etc…….

1. Do I want to lead a simple life filled with everyday small pleasures?

2. Achieve great success in an individual capacity – for myself ?

3. Lead others towards a better future and impact as many people for the better as I can? In the bargain I grow?

Question:

Home Work•Your Ultimate Wish List

Q: Who are you?Ans: I am…………•.•.•.•.

Three C’s of Decision Making

1) Consensus2) Consultation 3) Command

Decision Making – Consensus

1) Are You Listening?-To your Customers/ Team mates/ Peers/ Juniors- Don’t be Judgmental

2) Keep an open mind – you may be wrong.3) Listen completely to all ideas. ie. The other person must

complete his argument without interruption4) Then take it step by step. Continue to keep an open mind.5) Check for agreement at every step. Do not go ahead till

agreement is reached on every step. Go ahead only if you agree to disagree and revisit idea/ point later

6) Chances of getting the right answer are bright. No guarantees.-

Overcoming the Challenges to DM

• Gather Data….. (Paralysis by Analysis)• Set a Time Limit (Keep a buffer time)• Handle Fear, Stress, Ambiguity• Changing the Brain software for Fear

– Affirmation– Visualisation– Experience

• Build your Character – (Commitment, Ownership, Responsibility, Will Power, Integrity, Honesty, Ethics, Morals, Courage of Conviction to Follow through, TRUST)

• Commitment• Integrity & Honesty• Trust• Ethics• Values• Courage of Conviction

The Moral Compass – Character Building

When everything seems lost, it is your Character that will help you to stand up and be counted amongst the Great

Challenges to Decision MakingThe Sub Conscious Mind

• Fear…..the VUCA world

• Risk avoidance (Calculated vs Gamble)• Rejection• Failure• Past history• WOS (LKK)• …..

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Consideration

W - L

L - L L - W

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W - W

The Hall of Shame - Character

Rule 2

• Aim High• Set Powerful & ‘SMART’ Goals• Make the Way to Achieve your Goals

Super ordinate Goal

Professional

Intellectual/ Knowledge

Family/ Relationship

Social Financial

Spiritual

Three C’s of Decision Making

1) Consultation 2) Consensus3) Command

Vinod Thakur

A Single Cell

•Nervous•Digestive•Respiratory•Excretory •Endocrine•Muscular•Skeletal•Circulatory•Skin (Integument)•Reproductive•Immune

Body & Cellular Systems

DNA – THE DOUBLE HELIX

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