WHY ONE SHOULD NEVER FALL IN LOVE

It’s really a wonderful feeling when you find yourself in “TRUE LOVE”. The beginnings of new relationships being always fun and exciting. Everything is fresh and new. As always at the top of this you put your best foot forward to help make you fall in love with. If you have been separated for a while, you just Gussy, and comply with the design, this undoubtedly will fall in love, whatever or whoever you’re, that is in love. At this point to be clear, we are totally concerned of teenage love to the opposite sex.

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So what is love? Let’s start thinking think on what I does this true love mean.

Many would say the things in a different way

Some may say it as a once in life opportunity. When you finally find that one special person that will do almost anything to keep you feeling good.

Sometimes you do not realize how much this person meant to you until they are gone. It is never a good feeling to look back on a past relationship and then realize it was one.

Girl or man of your dreams, whom you ever liked to be with.

So why there is some chemical reaction that will run out on you one day makes you special? Is that anything like that? We now know much about the different hormones and neurotransmitters involved and scientists have developed theories to explain his role in “love.”We know that dopamine; a neurotransmitter associated with reward is released when you think of those we love. Of course, dopamine is also high among drug abusers. Love? Addiction? Connection? Sound familiar? Hmmm.And then there’s our friend, oxytocin, a hormone associated with the relationship and commitment. Stimulates contractions during labor and milk ejection. It is secreted during orgasm with more intensity between men and women.

However, we can simplify the equation in love? And even if we could, we really want? Yes, I have no doubt that if I see a beautiful young woman walking down the street, it might well feel an increase hormonal and if this is part of the design to preserve existing species.

I need to believe that our deepest connections with others are more soul than pure chemistry. This is how I prefer to live my life and that is how I prefer my work with couples and individuals in improving their lives.

So have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore.

when you love someone you spend(or waste) lot of time thinking about them... doing whatever he/she likes...take them to hotel, movie, and the gift, greeting cards , letters, flirts(when a boy or a girls says) ,u r beautiful..,i'll die for that smile, I want to live with u forever, you made like it ,,you are the one ,I love u more than my life, no other human like you i have seen on earth, all these flirts are said for

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only one reason, just expressing that only I recognized it, whether its true or not, but it makes one happy. Songs, art ,all stuff are of course used to satisfy yourself.... and these are all for only one purpose ....and that finally ends up in BURNT ASHES......

Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”...NO ONE IS PERFECT....

So almost everyone being in love at some point in their lives. If we’re lucky we have good memories of falling in love, but unfortunately not always the case. Sometimes he falls for the wrong person can be very painful.

Do you know what it feels like to be left behind? Losing everyone around you in such little time. let me tell you how it is“I'm mad at myself, not you. I'm mad for always being nice, always apologizing for things I didn't do, for getting attached, for making you my life, depending on you, wasting my time on you, thinking about you, following you, changing for you, forgiving you, wishing for you, dreaming of you, and most of all... for not having you which I know I should... but I can't.”

I try not to worry since they're left in the past but it's hard going through life knowing nothing ever lasts. You know that feeling? When they are wrong for someone who is not even close to be for you. You know when you fall for someone who is not in love with you.

What’s with us? Why should we stay in these relationships and why on earth that we would be sucked for this kind of situation.

Sometimes it feels good, sometimes it's just another way to bleed. Love is basically like leaches. They stuck until they can’t get enough of you. Just like a, you find a caterpillar that will turn into the butterfly that you have wished for all of your life. Then they just spread their wings and fly away. Not all kisses have its magic.

Why not understand the value of that love is for the good and real soul mate. There were countless times when I was chatting with a friend only to discover that he loved the wrong person. Not always realize. Sometimes they even seem to believe in love, but always at the end if it takes 2 weeks, 2 years or 12 years, they realize it.

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How can it be the wrong person if you’re in love with them? Do not make everything all right? Absolutely not! You can fall in love with a serial murderer, but that does not mean you should be with him. So how can you avoid falling in love with someone who is totally wrong for you? It is as simple as that, but I found some tips to help you find your soul mate.

Why love is a waste of time.

1. First, clear from the expression most commonly used with love is “falling in love.” There is no better word to describe it. It is indeed “falling” in love, and that’s what good about it. You are tricked into it like an addictive gambling game, and then you are tripped, and you fall, and you keep falling in a seemingly endless spiral. And, like everything that falls, you eventually hit a bottom, and it will be hard and painful. Falling in love only gives you an incurable ache when you reach

the end. A failing love is like desperately hanging on to something precious; not wanting to give up, but your hands feel the pain. And, when you finally let go, you're free from any pain, but your hands are empty

2. Second, “love is blind”. You will walk into love without seeing it, and you will follow love without noticing it. It will dictate your life, and you will not know it until the blindfold is gone, and you love no more. Only then will you realize what kind of sheep you had been while under the spell of love.

3. Third,” love hurts”. When you fall in love, there are many times when your feelings are not returned, resulting in a painful void in your heart. The pain will seem unbearable, and was not worth the heady feeling you got before your love was not returned. After realizing the truth behind the disadvantages of love, and after experiencing the heartbreak for yourself, will you only realize how meaningless and futile your love was? Your love will only cut you open in the end.

4. “All is fair in love and war.” This commonly used saying and is very true, and will only result in your downfall. Love often strikes many people at once, and for the same thing or person. Competition is what war is about, and love is just the same. You will compete with others to show your affection, and prove your love is most worthy. But, so will everyone else. When competition reaches your friends and family, and you focus only on the art of competition for love, you begin to lose the things you held dear before love struck you. Chances are, you will lose the competition to someone else, and you will be left with nothing, having sacrificed everything to try and win.

5. The most important reason that love sucks, and is not worth your time: your love is no more important than someone else’s. Unless you are some sort of

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Eros, the Greek god of Love and Passion, your love is only important as long as someone believes it is. To keep someone in need of your love, it takes a lifetime of adoration and spontaneity, or else they will look to someone else for the same love and adoration. In the end, love can only hurt you

We usually try to do is capture any joy that comes our way before it can escape. We try to cling to pleasure, but all we succeed in doing is making ourselves frustrated because, whatever it promises, pleasure simply cannot last. But if i am willing to kiss the joy as it flies say, ‘Yes, this moment is beautiful. I won’t grab it. I’ll let it go.’…If we don’t cling to past or future we live entirely here and now, in ‘eternity’s sunrise’.

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