What to do When Your Crush Likes Another Guy More Than You

By: Frankie Cola

championsofmen.com

4 KEYS to Turn Things Around and a "Trick" to Figure Out if She Likes You

Theres a girl you really like.
Youre obsessed with her.
You cant stop thinking about her.

Yet, you can't seem to get her to feel the same way.

She used to give "hints" that she liked you, but now she just treats you like a NORMAL friend.

Meanwhile, you notice that she is giving more and more attention to ANOTHER GUY.

She seems to be REALLY into him.

And this does not sit well with you.

It makes your blood boil, and your heart hurt...

And now... here you are... looking for answers

Trying to give yourself at least a little bit of hope that you can get her attraction back and turn things around...

Yes?

If this is the situation you're in, then you'llwant to learn this intriguing little technique that gets her OBSESSED with you.

Okay now let's move on to today's Q&A... where you'll learn what to do when your crush likes another guy more than you.

PAY CLOSE ATTENTION: In this slideshow, I'm going to give you 4 tips to turn things around with a girl who lost interest in you and now there's another guy in the picture.

>>>My Comments

Hector, go hold on to something firm because I'm going to digitally slap you and give you some tough love...

There are two reasons it pains me to read your story:

1. I can tell you REALLY like this girl... and I can also tell she feels SOMETHING for you.

2. Even though she actually likes you... you're messing up your chances by acting WEAK

It pains me because I've messed up like this so many times, and I know EXACTLY how you feel.

You see... while she DID like you somewhere along the line you did SOMETHING to turn her
off and make her start giving her attention
another man.

You ask what does you are my distraction mean?

Translated from "womanese"... this probably translates to "I like you, but not enough...so you can be my distraction until I find something better"

Ouch.

As soon as she started losing attraction for you... she started lining up another man as a replacement (all while she hangs out with you and drives you crazy)

How do we get back her attraction?

By not making the mistakes that "turn OFF" her attraction.

What kind of mistakes?

Well, I noticed something...

In your question, you gave a BLATANT clue that tells me exactly what you did.

You say Ive never gone a day without texting her. We talk everyday.

And now... the problem is OBVIOUS.

This tells me that, during the entire period you've been close to this woman, you were persistently on top of her texting her every day.

This behavior is crucial, because it's EXACTLY what made her attraction for you plummet.

Why? Because it didn't give her any space to miss you.

It didn't give her the chance to be away from you and think "I miss this guy... I wonder why I miss him... maybe it means I like him"

Instead, you pursued, you pursued, you pursued.

You were on her radar 24/7.

And you were her "sure thing"

Most men mistakenly believe that the more texts they exchange with a woman... the closer she is to liking them.

But the OPPOSITE is true.

If you never escalate to a date, and your interaction stagnates, the woman begins to rationalize "he's not the one, otherwise 'things' would have happened already"

...And she slowly begins to distance herself from you

Can you turn this around? Maybe

But you need to take action before it's too late.

In particular, there are 4 tips you MUST start following right now.

4 Tips to Turn Things Around When Your Crush Likes Another Guy More Than You

Tip #1: Stop Focusing on Just One Girl

When you have "oneitis" with a girl, you make your mood and emotional energy all about HER.

As a result, you crumble as a man and you become weak and insecure.

This is because oneitis CLOUDS your thinking so much that you lack the masculine confidence that triggers attraction in women.

Instead, your behavior becomes very FEMININE and your crush only treats you like her male "girlfriend"

Once this happens, you can NEVER get her to feel sexual attraction for you.

It's IMPOSSIBLE.

So don't get hung up on one girl, and...

Tip #2: Start Talking to MORE WOMEN

Here's a very REVEALING law of female attraction:

The behaviors that create attraction in women are behaviors you'd do IF you had lots of women to pick from.

This is called the POWER of ABUNDANCE.

The opposite of abundance is SCARCITY.

When youre stuck in scarcity, you get oneitis, you become weak, you easily get fearful, and you NEVER feel in control of the relationships you get into.

This is something I've gone through over and over again, and I bet you've lost a girl because of this scarcity type of thinking.

However...

Once you start talking to more women in your life, your scarcity vanishes and you start feeling more IN-CONTROL with women.

Once you start talking to more and more women, you will notice your love life starting to change.

You may even get your crush to like you again...

Which leads me to tip #3...

Tip #3: A Womans Feelings For You Arent Set in Stone

Look, when a woman says she likes you, it means I like you, RIGHT NOW.

And when she says she doesnt like you, it means I dont feel attraction for you, RIGHT NOW.

A woman's feelings for you aren't set in stone.

This is good news for YOU, because it means you can get back a girl you lost by triggering attraction in her again!

(By the way, here's a simple innocent move you can do on a girl to determine if she likes you and feels "chemistry" for you)

A woman's feelings are fickle. They can come and go just like the tide. And just as she went from hot to cold she can go from cold back to HOT again.

It all depends on one thing... ATTRACTION

Which leads me to tip #4...

Tip #4: Learn How The Game of Attraction Works and Get the Help You Need to SUCCEED

As a man, the most important skill you will EVER discover is how to trigger SEXUAL ATTRACTION inside of a woman.

If you dont get how attraction works, you will NEVER be able to attract the type of women you want and youll always LOSE to the guy who does get how attraction works.

If you don't get attraction, youll have to depend on getting lucky. I dont know about you but I HATE the idea of letting my love life depend on LUCK.

Its much better to TAKE CONTROL and have the ability to make women feel attraction wherever, and whenever you want.

Thats why you need to learn the mind game of creating attraction by
watching this video right here

Listen, if you want that one special girl to stop thinking of you as JUST A FRIEND and you want to instead make her think of you as a LOVER (and you probably do or you wouldnt be reading this) then you need to learn this Mind Scrambler technique that gets her obsessed with you.

Not only does it help you get that hard to get girl, but you will finally be able to handle the women and dating part of your life.

Make it happen!

Your friend,Frankie