what is the naked divorce
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65% of people divorced for a 3rdor 4th time said that they wishedthey had handled their divorces ina more ethical and graceful way,taking a more active role in their
healing.They also said that they wished
they had gotten to the rootcause of the break-up so that
they didn’t ruin their nextrelationship.
Taking time to heal can lead to a false sense of • False healing can lead to illness
• False Healing can lead to premature ageing
• False Healing can lead to destructive behaviour post-divorce
• False Healing can have a severe impact on those closest to you
• False Healing can lead to relationship baggage
The Journey out of feeling resigned...
Idealistic
Frustrated
Defiant
Selling out
Momentum
Decisiveness
Concentration
AwarenessResignation
The Journey out of feeling resigned...STEP 1: Confront that you may be holding onto your suffering in some way.STEP 2: Become aware of the real impact of not healing from your divorce.STEP 3: Educate yourself on the Healing Formula and what it takes to heal.STEP 4: Take focused action and concentrate on healing.STEP 5: Take decisions on a daily basis to heal until you reach a momentum which leads to breakthroughs in your healing.
Instructions1 Take a moment to study these three cards.
2 Pick the card that feels the most like the space you are in now.
3 Circle the angel life-attributes which you feel have been sacrificed. The circled items are a representation of the negative impact that not healing from your divorce has had on your life.
4 Spend some time pondering what your true agenda has been in not healing from your divorce. In this process you might notice things about yourself that you haven’t seen before. Use the true agenda on the card to prompt your own thinking. You might not like what you see. But I can assure you that facing up to these negative points could precipitate a significant turning point in your healing.
Instructions5 If you’re struggling to find the true agenda, it’s okay. This exercise can be confronting as most of the true agendas are wedged deep within our blind spot.
6 Think of twenty points for each of these instances:• What are you holding onto being right about?• Why are you so angry?• What are the reasons or justifications you are clinging to?• What attention are you getting by holding onto this issue?• Who are you dominating by holding onto this issue?• Why are you refusing to let go?
7 Think of the negative impact this issue is having on your life. How much longer are you willing to sacrifice your life to hold onto your true agenda?
Emotions
Time
Emotional journey
Divorce shock moment
Anger
Anger
Anger
Anger
Loneliness
Happy
Acceptance
Numb
Numb
Shock
Denial
Denial
Grief & LossGrief & Loss
Humiliation & Despair
Panic & negotiation
Panic & negotiation
Feels like acceptance, but more accurately
resignation
Active
Passive
Time
Emotional response
Anger
Denial Space
Acceptance responsibility forgiveness gratitude
Shock
Divorceevent
Loss & grief
Panic and negotiation humiliation
Naked Divorce
Watch out...
•They may say weird or inappropriate things
•They change the subject
• Some want to revel in the drama
•They don’t want to talk about it
•They don’t want to catch your disease
There are 3 stages to the Naked Divorce
Cocoon - ensuring you are stable and secure before commencing any
transformational work
Metamorphosis - completing your relationship for good
Release - redefining your relationship with your future and
with yourself
Book a Clarity Session1 Uncover the inhibitors which are keeping you stuck and keeping you
from getting over your divorce
2 Discover the 5 key frameworks that will help you identify, organise and plan your healing journey
3 Address any concerns or challenges you may need to overcome to your healing
4 Explore the naked divorce as a possible vehicle to help you move on
5 If interested explore the enrolment criteria and payment options and see if this programme will work for you
6 If not interested, you still get a very valuable session which can help you plan your next steps!
Book a Clarity Session
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