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BE - HAPPY

AttitudesRobert H Schuller

Karl Menninger

Attitudes are more important than facts

Human attitudes and approach are based on the following.1. Environmental broughtup2. Personal skills3. Trained Skills4. Authority Obligation5. Need and Necessity6. Pretending Nature

Attitudes and Transformation of life

People think that life transformation is a simple process whereby changes in life style transforms everything

BUTThey have to work hard to change their life

styles.They have to work moreThey have to earn moreThey need to pretend moreThey need to act moreThey need to popularize more .

The thinking for a Transformation in life

Most people don’t know that Instead of marked changes in life style

A SIMPLEATTITUDE CHANGE Will have aREMARKABLE CHANGEInLIFE STYLE

Change in attitude brings everything easier to life.

All they need is ATTITUDE CHANGE

Eight Positive Attitudes That Can Transform Your Life.

The be-happy attitudes

if you know that you cannot do it alone don’t hesitate to ask for help.

“Be sincere in your weakness and inability.”

Your attitude of asking help when you are really incapable of doing things brings real blessings

“ Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven””

The be-happy attitudes - 1 Iam going to Ask for Help

Occupational povertyIntellectual povertyEmotional poverty

Solutions Admit your needs and ask for Help “Its not easy but its essential” ‘ say sorry ‘

“learn to make confession and discover the power of being

honest”

Areas of poverty

Ask the right question and get the right answer

Do not argue with what has happened

don’t blame god

Don’t blame yourself

Don’t fix the blame – fix the problem

The right way of questioning godWhat happens to good people when bad things happen to

them

GOD says “They are blessed for they are comforted”

Be-Happy Attitude -2iam going to bounce

No two sorrows are the same each has its own difference

Realize what you can do for yourselfRealize what god can do for you

Realize god will offer real comfortRealize god gives us courageRealize god gives us a sense of calmRealize god gives us companionshipRealize god gives us considerationRealize god gives us a new set of commitments

“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted”

Understanding problems

Be strong enough to be controlled Be emotionally stable enough to resist

temptationsBe educable enough to realize - you can’t do

it aloneBe kind enough to be sensitive , quiet ,

unselfish.

Be-Happy Attitude – 3iam going to remain

calm

Remain cool Remain calm Remain corrected.

“Blessed are the meek (humble), for they shall inherit the earth “

Example

Jesus christ.

Rule the world

Stay committed to your righteousness (Honesty) even if they seem impossible

Say “no” by saying “yes” and eliminate the negatives by sowing positives

Satisfaction lies on what is hoped it would beGo for it – you might make itGo for it – it might happenGo for it – somebody may be helped by itGo for it – you may prosper out of itGo for it – you can help the poorGo for it – some day some will thank you.

Be-Happy attitude – 4I really want to do right things

Is the real expectationsIs the real right thing to doIs the real satisfaction on achieving things

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness , for they shall be satisfied “

Hunger and thirst

List out the ways you want other to treat youStart to treat others the way you have listed understand human values and need .Be merciful with them

Understand“The measure you give will be the measure

you get”“what ever the man sows, that will he also

reap”

If you give a little , you get a little backGive a lot , you get a lot back

The law of proportionate return

Be-Happy attitude – 5 iam going to treat the way I want to be treated

Understand inabilities of human livesUnderstand poverty and starvationUnderstand human imbalanceUnderstand natural imbalanceUnderstand to show mercy

“Blessed are the merciful , for they shall obtain the mercy”.

Be merciful on others

Get your self “pure in Heart “

Wise up – believe the faith on godClean up – wash your mistakes Give up – anything that may be hindering youTake up - the call to do something great.

To become a believer -- let the faith flow free

Be – Happy attitude – 6 iam going to let the faith flow free

The biggest wish of every human beingThe every day dream for all noblest The constant belief of a believerThe chase for the destinyThe end of life

“ Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see god”

When you need to see God

Don’t be a silent spectatorDedicate yourself for a bridge building on

breachesLet it starts from your soulMake an objective to become a true humanBuild a reputation Create a sense of your presenceBe ready to perform the dangerous role playUnderstand love repairs the breach

Be-Happy attitude – 7iam going to be peace maker

Your attitude shouldn’t be “I don’t care what people say”

Your attitude shouldn’t be “ I want to be popular at any price”

Your attitude should be “ I will strive so to live that I shall build a reputation as a beautiful child of god”

“Blessed are the peace makers , for they shall be called children of god”

Become the child of god

Be prepared to accept the natural transformation

Choose to believe that god can settle the score in his way

Choose to believe that god can settle in his time

Understand that you shall be blessed by knowing that the hurts can be turned into a circle of light

Remain to live happy with positive mind

Be –Happy attitude -8I can choose to be happy anyway

Remain positiveRemain preparedKeep on doing right thingsShow mercyTrust godPray for strengthPass phases

Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake for theirs is the kingdom of heaven”

Victory of attitudes

Turn our problems into opportunitiesTackle our opportunities and succeedDream great dreams and make them come

trueSwitch from jealousy and self –pity to really

caringPick up the broken hopes and start over

againSee great possibilities in those unattractive

peopleBecome truly beautiful person. God will have the last word and it will be

good

conclusion