Welcome to Effective Speech 155

Why It Matters..

https://www.polleverywhere.com/multiple_choice_polls/EY7ZA0mM6WPJgsK#

*Handout . ……And The Line-up

http://www.channelone.com/life/school/swf_take_a_seat/

http://www.thepowerofintroverts.com/about-the-book/quiet-quiz-are-you-an-introvert/

http://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts

Your “Selfie” Speech Interview*

*See Interview Handout

A little about me……

President & CEO of Choice President & CEO of Choice TechnologiesTechnologies

RAY BRANNON, PH.D. (ABD)RAY BRANNON, PH.D. (ABD)WWW.INSPECTYOURGADGETS.COWWW.INSPECTYOURGADGETS.CO

MM

A little about myself…

This could be you……

Introduce yourself:

Stereotyping – harmful categorizationLet’s Do Away With Stereotypes

Our need to connect with others……http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVQ1ULfQawk

Education may fail us at times…but you are the master of your destiny.

http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_changing_education_paradigms.html

Self Esteem – Self Efficacy

Self Confidence

Self esteem:Self esteem:You can change your You can change your ““set pointset point””!!

 A person with poor self-esteem will feel the urge to put down or condescend to the person. 

 A person with good self-esteem when faced with a person showing ignorance or confusion or trouble will try and help the person.

Self-fulfilling Prophesy Self-fulfilling Prophesy and the Placebo Effectand the Placebo Effect

www.wired.com/medtech/drugs/magazine/17-09/ff_placebo_effect

Placebos Are Getting More Effective.

Drugmakers Are Desperate to Know Why.

The The pole-vaulterpole-vaulter experiment. experiment.

““How high can fleas jump?How high can fleas jump?””

Famous I.Q. ExperimentFamous I.Q. Experiment

Self talk:Self talk:Constructing your own realityConstructing your own reality

Tricks to Show Self Confidence#1 DRESS WELL

AND STAND TALL

TIP#2 EXPRESS CONVICTION

Speak with Conviction!http://vimeo.com/3829682

TIP #3 PREPARE YOURSELF FOR SUCCESS

TIP #4 AVOID THINKING OF

YOURSELF IN TERMS OF PERFECTION OR IMPERFECTION!

Developing your inner confidenceDeveloping your inner confidence(within a realistic self appraisal) (within a realistic self appraisal)

TIP 5: ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEARS AND EMBRACE FAILURE

Calvin Coolidge

“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.”

http://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_how_to_speak_so_that_people_w

ant_to_listen

Let’s validate each otherhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao

Projection

A simple start…

I didn't say she stole my money - someone else said it

I didn't say she stole my money - I didn't say it

I didn't say she stole my money - I only implied it

I didn't say she stole my money - I said someone did, not necessarily her

I didn't say she stole my money - I considered it borrowed, even though she didn't ask

I didn't say she stole my money - only that she stole money

I didn't say she stole my money - she stole stuff which cost me money to replace

Ennuciation

Diction, Slang, anat

“No, thank you….I have had a sufficiency, more would be a redundancy. Already my gastronomic satiety has reached its ultimatum.”

overassimilation

“I dunno”“Probly”“Havta”

“Woulda/coulda/shoulda” “Uzshly”“Gonna”“Wanna”“Cancha”

Most overused and meaningless words today

http://www.askmen.com/top_10/entertainment/top-10-most-overused-words.html