ways to get your child interested in religion
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8/2/2019 Ways to Get Your Child Interested in Religion
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WaysToGetYourChildInterestedInReligion
Whetheryouyourselfhaveaninterestinreligionornot,theremaycomeatimewhenyouconsiderityourdutytoofferyourchildthechancetodiscoverreligionforitself.Youmightbeanatheistoryoumayhaveaparticularcreedorreligionthatyoufavour,butisthatareasontomakeyourchildemulateyou?
Mostchildrendonotconnectchurchwithfun(andyoumaywellarguethatfunhasnothingtowithit),sohowtoyouinspireaninterestinreligion?Thereappeartobemerelytwoways:youcaneithermakeitmorefunoryoucanforcethem.Weallknowthatcompulsiontendstohavetheoppositeeffectfromtheonedesired,sohowdoyoumakegoingtochurchfunoratleastinteresting?
ThestartofgoingtochurchaloneformostchildrenisSundaySchool,soyoucouldstartthere.Thisisnotaboutyouoryourreligiouseducation,sowhateveryouhavefaithin,youcouldgoalongtotheSundaySchoolsofafewlocalchurchesandfindoutwhatactivitiestheydo.
IftheSundayschoolisdullandboring,yourchildwillnotstaythereandmigh
tbecomeputofffordecadesorevenlife.GoingtochurchortoSundayschoolsshouldbeaboutreligiouseducationandmoralguidancenotaboutcompulsionandpropaganda.
Youdonothavetobelieveeverythingyourreligiousteachertellsyoutobeagood,moral,religiouspersonnomatterwhichdenominationyoubelongto.Therearenotalotofreligiousteachersinanychurchwhowouldsaythatthey'knowitall'.Iftheydidtheywouldnothavetotoprayforguidancethemselves!
Activitiesthatyoungchildrenmightfindinterestingareapproximatelythesameasthosetheywoulddoinanormalschool,butwithaslightlymorereligiousbent.Theseinclude:painting,drawing,singing,reading,story-telling,playingandsports.TheextrareadingpracticeatSundayschoolmayreallygiveyourchi
ldtheedgewhenitcomestothestateschoolcurriculumaswell.
Olderchildrenwilllikesport,dancing(barndances,line-dancing,ballroomdancing),singing,puttingonplaysanddiscussionclasses.ChildrenoutsidethisenvironmentwillprobablyneveractinaplayorneverlearntoWaltzintheirlives,yetitisabooninlifetohavedoneitatleastonce.
Debatingisanotherskillthatmostindividualsdonothaveeither.Learningfundraisingandpublicspeakingareexcellentskillsthatarenottaughtofteninstateschoolsanymoreeither.
IfyourchildrendonotliketheSundayschoolthatyouwantthemtoattend,let
themgotoadifferentone.Anyextraeducationisbetterthannoneorroamingthestreets.Inmycase,myparentswereSpiritualists,butmymother'sfamilywereCatholics.
MyschoolwasChurchofWales(sameastheChurchofEngland),theBoyScoutsIwasinwereMethodists,buttheywenttoaBaptistChurchbecauseitwascloser.IenjoyedthesinginginallthechurchesandIstillknowthesongs45yearslater!
OwenJones,thewriterofthispiece,writesonavarietyoftopics,butisnowinvolvedwithKoreanreligiousbelief.IfyouwanttoknowmoregotoWhatisReligiousBelief?