verbal bullying - why it happens and how to prevent it
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VERBALBULLYING
WHY IT HAPPENS AND
HOW TO PREVENT IT
VERBAL BULLYINGREALLY SUCKS.
WHY DO CERTAIN PEOPLE GETVERBALLY BULLIED?
"SOCIALLY SUBMISSIVEBEHAVIORS"
THOSE WHO GET VERBALLY BULLIED TEND TO EXHIBIT
THERE ARE THREE MAIN SOCIALLY SUBMISSIVE BEHAVIORS THAT SIGNAL "VICTIM"
1. NOT "FIGHTING" BACK
3. SPECIFIC VERBALCUES
2. POOR BODYLANGUAGE
1. NOT FIGHTING BACK VERBALLY IS NOT AN OPTION. IF YOU DO NOT FIGHT BACK, VERBAL BULLYING WILL CONTINUE.
2 . ELIMINATE "VICTIM" VERBAL CUES
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EndingSentences
With aQuestion
UncertainOpinions
Mumbling Fillers(um/uh/er)
Trailing Off
3 . E L I M I N A T E " V I C T I M " B O D Y L A N G U A G E
-Fidgeting-Looking stressed/anxious
-Poor or non-existent eye contact-Slouching/poor posture
-Closed/protective body language-Playing with your hands
GOODLUCK!
T O L E A R N H O W T O F I G H T B A C K ,
D O W N L O A D M Y F R E E E B O O K" V E R B A L S E L F D E F E N S E 1 0 1 " @
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