OvercomingOvercomingFear & FailuresFear & Failures

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Just think about these all famous

persons, how much rejections and

failure they’ve faced before? A lot

more than ordinary people. In fact,

the more you get rejected, the more you get rejected,

the more success you are! the more success you are!

Successful and extraordinary people Successful and extraordinary people

have both the determination to have both the determination to

never give up and the commitment never give up and the commitment

to do it until they achieve the to do it until they achieve the

results they desireresults they desire..

In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it

is appropriate to work harder and put in more is appropriate to work harder and put in more

effort. Sometimes it is appropriate to change effort. Sometimes it is appropriate to change

strategy and try something different. And strategy and try something different. And

sometimes it is appropriate to do bothsometimes it is appropriate to do both. .

Treat the failure as a feedbackTreat the failure as a feedbackIt is just like flying an airplane. It will go out of course It is just like flying an airplane. It will go out of course

most of the time, so what the pilot will do is to correct most of the time, so what the pilot will do is to correct

the path so that the airplane will fly on the right course the path so that the airplane will fly on the right course

again. They use feedback to reach their destination. again. They use feedback to reach their destination.

One of the most commonOne of the most common

killers of success is fear. killers of success is fear.

Fear actually stands for Fear actually stands for

False Emotion Appearing False Emotion Appearing

RealReal. .

What you fear is actually not What you fear is actually not

the real thing, it is the fear the real thing, it is the fear

that you create in your mind.that you create in your mind.

The best way to overcome fear is preparation. The best way to overcome fear is preparation.

The reason you feel the fear is that you are The reason you feel the fear is that you are

uncertain about something. However, if you uncertain about something. However, if you

are fully prepared and you have done it are fully prepared and you have done it

hundreds of times, do you think you will still hundreds of times, do you think you will still

feel the fear? The answer is obvious.feel the fear? The answer is obvious.

Understand this, people Understand this, people

experience the fear of failure experience the fear of failure

because it is what is happening in because it is what is happening in

their mind. The failure itself is not their mind. The failure itself is not

fatal. fatal. It is the fear of failure that It is the fear of failure that

causes most people to failcauses most people to fail..

“I’ll do what I fear and

fear will disappear.”

Franklin D. Roosevelt

Hence, never give up no matter Hence, never give up no matter

what you do in your life. what you do in your life. As long as As long as

you are clear with what you want, you are clear with what you want,

take persistence action and you take persistence action and you

will eventually reach there.will eventually reach there.

First identify your core First identify your core

competency and then change competency and then change

the playing field to suit your the playing field to suit your

core competency core competency

In other words, be as clear as

possible with your goal, know

exactly what you want and so

you can create a plan to achieve

there faster and easier.

Spend some time to truly find Spend some time to truly find

out what you love to do the out what you love to do the

most and find out which area most and find out which area

is the best for you.is the best for you.

You must do what you love You must do what you love

and only then you will do it and only then you will do it

with full commitmentwith full commitment. .

If you can identify this one single thing that If you can identify this one single thing that

you love to do,and can be best at, you will you love to do,and can be best at, you will

definitely become successful person. Once definitely become successful person. Once

you have identified it, you just need to you have identified it, you just need to put in put in

100% focus and commitment to make it 100% focus and commitment to make it

happenhappen..

For those who discovered what they can be best at, and For those who discovered what they can be best at, and

if they do it with 100% commitment, you will see that if they do it with 100% commitment, you will see that

they produce amazing results from what they do.they produce amazing results from what they do.

Every successful people have a

vision. They know it clearly what

they want to accomplish in their

lives and they can see it in their

mind. This means, they know the

kind of future that they want.

Remember, success is not a sprint, Remember, success is not a sprint,

it is a marathon. It is a journey, not it is a marathon. It is a journey, not

a destination. It is not the money a destination. It is not the money

or the things or the prestige that or the things or the prestige that

you get, it is who you become on you get, it is who you become on

your road to success.your road to success.

Sadly, most people fail to achieve what they want Sadly, most people fail to achieve what they want

in their lives. Do you know why?in their lives. Do you know why?

The answer is pretty simple, The answer is pretty simple, they donthey don’’t align t align

themselves toward their goals and their dreams.themselves toward their goals and their dreams.

Yes, if you want to achieve your goals, you must

start from one small step. Many people fail to

achieve their goals because they set their goals

too high in the beginning.

If you achieve them, they will help you to boost your

confidence, strengthen your belief system and build

momentum to keep you going. The key is to slowly

increase your expectation level and build your

personal power at the front.

““ In the beginning stage, set smaller In the beginning stage, set smaller

and achievable goals for yourself and achievable goals for yourself

so that you can achieve most of them.so that you can achieve most of them.””

So the key to successful goal setting is to So the key to successful goal setting is to

stay focused in your goals until you stay focused in your goals until you

conditioned them into your subconscious conditioned them into your subconscious

mind so that youmind so that you’’ll think about your ll think about your

goals automatically without having to goals automatically without having to

remind yourself about it.remind yourself about it.

Choose the goal that is most important to you. Choose the goal that is most important to you.

The goal that if you can achieve, it will bring The goal that if you can achieve, it will bring

you the most dramatic changes to your life. you the most dramatic changes to your life.

Stay focused with this goal and take consistent Stay focused with this goal and take consistent

and massive action until you accomplish it.and massive action until you accomplish it.

Motivation is not a skill, it is something Motivation is not a skill, it is something

that you must do every single day to that you must do every single day to

keep you keep you ‘‘HOTHOT’’. Motivation can come . Motivation can come

from positivity around you.from positivity around you.

Desire is what keeps you going. Desire is Desire is what keeps you going. Desire is

what that is telling you what that is telling you ““this is the right this is the right

thing to dothing to do””. Desire is the motivation that . Desire is the motivation that

makes you hot when youmakes you hot when you’’re feeling down. re feeling down.

Desire is the key to your ultimate Desire is the key to your ultimate

successsuccess..

A desire is a clear destination of where you want A desire is a clear destination of where you want

to go. If you donto go. If you don’’t know where you want to go, t know where you want to go,

youyou’’ll end up nowhere. ll end up nowhere. The number one way to The number one way to

be 100% committed and determined is to have be 100% committed and determined is to have

a burning desire a burning desire about what you wantabout what you want..

Those who are willing to sacrifice for their Those who are willing to sacrifice for their

dreams and their goals, they will dreams and their goals, they will

somehow achieve what they want,somehow achieve what they want,

because it is a MUST for them!because it is a MUST for them!

Put this principle to work next time you Put this principle to work next time you

must do something you donmust do something you don’’t want to do. t want to do.

Just dig deeper and youJust dig deeper and you’’ll dig up interest.ll dig up interest.

Dig deeper and youDig deeper and you’’ll develop enthusiasmll develop enthusiasm! !

“ Success is 95% perspiration

and 5% luck.”

It is more like opportunity

meets preparation. You need

to do something to achieve

what you want in your life.

Fast and consistent will always beat

the slow and steady

The fast and reliable chap will consistently The fast and reliable chap will consistently

climb the organizational ladder faster than the climb the organizational ladder faster than the

slow, methodical chap. It's good to be slow and slow, methodical chap. It's good to be slow and

steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable. steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable.

There is nothing you can do

about your past. You cannot

change what has already

happened, what you can do

is just to learn from your past

and gain better experience.

Whatever you do right now will

determine your future. You have

the choice of doing what you want

and you must learn to make good

use of the power of making choices.

it is what you do right now that will

determine your future.

It is the kind of future you

dream about and think

about that will shape your

destiny.

“My policy is to learn from

the past, focus on the

present, and dream

about the future.”

Donald Trump

If you think that life is short and you If you think that life is short and you

deserve a better life, then you will deserve a better life, then you will

need to focus and dream about need to focus and dream about

something better. If you think that something better. If you think that

living an average life is all you want, living an average life is all you want,

then just go for it.then just go for it.

What kind of thoughts you What kind of thoughts you

have in your mind will lead have in your mind will lead

you to where you think aboutyou to where you think about

The journey to success starts with one The journey to success starts with one

simple step. And it is the step that you simple step. And it is the step that you

take each and everyday that will take each and everyday that will

responsible for the results you will be responsible for the results you will be

getting. No matter who you are, getting. No matter who you are, you you

can be successful and achieve all your can be successful and achieve all your

dreams if you persist long enoughdreams if you persist long enough..

Success is not about getting big results Success is not about getting big results

or big achievement, or big achievement, it is about the it is about the

process of taking one small step at a process of taking one small step at a

timetime. . And eventually you will reach your And eventually you will reach your

goals and achieve your dreams.goals and achieve your dreams.

Just say Just say ““I feel greatI feel great”” at every possible at every possible

opportunity and youopportunity and you’’ll feel better. When you ll feel better. When you

tell people you are awful, youtell people you are awful, you’’ll feel awful ll feel awful

eventually. eventually.

Be an Be an ““II--feelfeel--greatgreat”” person all the time person all the time

Luckily, you can learn the talent and make success

yours if you want to. You need to improve yourself

by learning so that you will become better in the

field that you want to be successful.

Talent is not born within you Talent is not born within you

and success is not by luckand success is not by luck

You can actually follow through

the path of a successful person,

do exactly what he did and you

will achieve the same results

just like him. You can “copy and

paste” the success of others

into yourself.

““Success leaves cluesSuccess leaves clues..””

Anthony RobbinsAnthony Robbins

Successful people are getting more and Successful people are getting more and

more successful each day. They know more successful each day. They know

what they want, they create the results what they want, they create the results

they want and they produce even more they want and they produce even more

outstanding results in their lives.outstanding results in their lives.

By staying By staying focusedfocused with your dreams and with your dreams and

your goals, you will be able to your goals, you will be able to produce produce

amazing energy and breakthrough all amazing energy and breakthrough all

the obstaclesthe obstacles that lie in front of you until that lie in front of you until

you reach your destination.you reach your destination.

The real keys to success lie within The real keys to success lie within

yourself. You are the one that choose yourself. You are the one that choose

your own path. How you should live your your own path. How you should live your

life, it has already been decided deep in life, it has already been decided deep in

you. You know it. Your future is in your you. You know it. Your future is in your

hands.hands.

Thank You Very Much

Sompong Yusoontorn