understanding your church family
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Understanding Your Church Family. Elder-Pastor Retreat Oregon Christian Convention January 25 th , 2014. Characteristics of a Healthy Church. Characteristics of Healthy Churches. God’s Empowering Presence God-Exalting Worship Spiritual Disciplines Learning & Growing in Community - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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1. God’s Empowering Presence
2. God-Exalting Worship
3. Spiritual Disciplines
4. Learning & Growing in Community
5. Loving & Caring Relationships
6. Servant-Leadership Development
7. Outward Focus
8. Wise Administration/Accountability
9. Networking with the Larger Church
10.Faithful Stewardship and Generosity
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Linear Thinking
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Circular Thinking
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Emotional
Feelings
Rational
Thoughts
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C: triangulated by A or B
A B
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Church member
Minister
Elders
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Emotional Process – Conflict MGT
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Where one person ends, and another begins
The line between who I am, what I can do, what my responsibility is, and who others are, what they can do, what their responsibilities are.
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1. Do not interrupt the law of Cause and Effect (Sowing and Reaping)
2. Be Responsible “to” others, but do not be “over-responsible” for others
3. Identify what YOU have the Power to do
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4. Respect the boundaries other people set for themselves
5. Check your motives
6. Evaluate for harm, not hurt
7. Don’t be Reactive. Be Proactive and Assertive