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(continued on page 2) What follows is a request. A personal request, out of respect for one another. Let me begin with a personal story involving my sister. Lynn is a parishioner in St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Florence, Oregon. She is a Daughter of the King active member. She is a greeter, and an usher. Just recently, she retired from a very fulfilling career as a teacher in the local school district. And she is a sufferer, having fallen subject to being allergic to scents. Yes, scents. Perfumes, air fresheners, cleaning agents, fumigants, even strong hand cleaners. It has become so intense at times she would have to leave her classroom, or faculty meetings. She has had to exit prayer gatherings and even church services. She develops headaches, nausea, dizziness. And more times than not she has had to suffer in silence or alone because so many people have discounted the ailment, or simply not cared that she is so miserable. Some in church even seem to be defiant when asked to be considerate, and wear their preferred fragrances anyway. I have been with her in social settings and watched her react to scents, have seen her become ill, and I have come to realize this is no imaginary matter. I have come to understand it is a very real issue, and I am sympathetic to her cause, and others who suffer in silence like her. Thoughts to Consider ≈≈ Fr. Pat

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Page 1: Thoughts to Consider ≈≈ Fr. PatJr. High Camp July 5-10 Intermediate Camp July 12-17 Sr. High Camp August 3-9 Alumni Reunion August 21-23 Women’s Weekend August 28-30 Labor Day

(continued on page 2)

What follows is a request. A personal request, out of respect for one another.

Let me begin with a personal story involving my sister. Lynn is a parishioner in St. Andrews

Episcopal Church in Florence, Oregon. She is a Daughter of the King active member. She is a greeter,

and an usher. Just recently, she retired from a very fulfilling career as a teacher in the local school

district. And she is a sufferer, having fallen subject to being allergic to scents.

Yes, scents. Perfumes, air fresheners, cleaning agents, fumigants, even strong hand cleaners. It has

become so intense at times she would have to leave her classroom, or faculty meetings. She has had

to exit prayer gatherings and even church services. She develops headaches, nausea, dizziness. And

more times than not she has had to suffer in silence or alone because so many people have

discounted the ailment, or simply not cared that she is so miserable. Some in church even seem to be

defiant when asked to be considerate, and wear their preferred fragrances anyway.

I have been with her in social settings and watched her react to scents, have seen her become ill, and

I have come to realize this is no imaginary matter. I have come to understand it is a very real issue,

and I am sympathetic to her cause, and others who suffer in silence like her.

Thoughts to Consider

≈≈Fr. Pat

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(continued from page 1)

And suffer in silence is what most do. I have discovered that many who suffer from scent allergies,

for lack of a better or more scientific identification, are reticent to say anything for fear of offending

others, or fear of being discounted, or fear of being set apart. But being set apart is the eventual

outcome for those who truly suffer, because they are forced to leave when others do not respond

with sensitivity and kindness by refraining from the use of agents, such as cologne and perfume,

especially, which permeate the closed spaces of meeting rooms and church halls.

So back to my request

One of the core values we have adopted for life together at St. Luke's is respect. Inherent in the

concept of this term is the valuing of others, being considerate of them and offering special

deference or regard for each person. It is a term which requires action. A call to doing.

So my request? The fact is, I am aware we have individuals within our midst at St. Luke's who have

been suffering in silence with the very same ailment as my sister. They are highly sensitive to scents,

and as in the case of my sister, this sensitivity has become more acute with time.

I am going to ask all of you, for their sake and for the sake of the practice of true respect, and of

hospitality, that you refrain from the use of perfumes and colognes and scented skin creams when

you attend any church functions. This means at all services, as well as social gatherings, committee

meetings, or group functions of any type. This is going to seem to some as if your personal rights are

being violated.

But to follow through with this will demonstrate our commitment to one another, bearing up one

another and esteeming each other more than ourselves in true charity and love. I have confidence in

all of you that we can practice such honoring of others.

Altar FlowersBe sure to check

the Altar Flower schedule,

there are still dates

available for 2015.

Our green, oblong table clothes decided to

take a vacation without letting us know.

If you happen to know their itinerary or

where they may be in their travels, will you

please let them know we miss them and would

love to have them back home.

Thank you

Coffee Hour

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Birthdays05/02 Marcia Nobis05/02 Barbara Harris05/02 Bill Bunting05/03 Bob McCroskey05/05 Kris Davis05/07 Killian Kelly05/08 Mary Ellen Wilson05/09 Carla Noonan

Healing & Support

David Hudson, Laura Hudson, Richard Rogers,

Chuck Lund, Brian Boyer, Chris Butterfield, Eddie

Barnett, Dane Summerfelt, Jamie Butterfield, Alan

Ewald, Shane Mott, Nick Cazel, Shaun Pennington,

George Runkle, Jason Bowers, Mike Ferrari, Tim

Jarratt, Bobby Carbajal, Maggie Ann McLachlan

Military Personnel DeployedThroughout the

World, Especially:

May 2 & 3Fifth Sunday of

Easter ReadingsActs 8:26-40Psalm 22:24-301 John 4:7-21John 15:1-8

Prayer Requests

Joe Smatlan Jr., John & Jodi Miranda, Peter Bates, Steve Hamm, Curt Campbell, Brian Siimpson,

Dave Otto, Howard Martinson, Joe Manuola, Jason Clifford, Chelsea, Helen McTear, Bill Brooks,

Violet Hise, Evelyn Chute, Carolyn, Sandy Davis, Pat Bell, Mike Maheu, Connie Prosser, Ken

Jungjohann, Char Mills, Ryan Slippich, Gretchen Rehberg, Cheryl, Victoria Barrett, Sarah Francis,

James Figel, Bob Hasseries, Elizabeth, Manny Funtall, Lori Thompson, Glenn Coleman, Peggy,

Terri Radford, Elaina McClain, Nancy Wright, Pearl Harwood, Nolan Redman, Clark Richman,

Paty Mabeus, Debbie Kerns, Jean McCauley, Virgil Huffman, Eloise Swanson, Bobbi, Rose

Robbins, Farley Green, Joan Sharrow, Judi Burks, Becky Larsen,Walter Kalberg, Dianne Harrison,

Gayne Clifford, Roy Pritchett, Jack & Ann Olof, Cameron McLachlan, Diedra Perry, Bill Pichette,

Vick Kukarol

Wedding Anniversary05/06 John & Glenda Empsall

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Sat 2nd

10:00 a.m. Daughters of the King

5:30 p.m. Evening Prayer II

7:00 p.m. Young People of AA

Sun 3rd

8:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist II

9:00 a.m. Orientation Class

9:15 a.m. The Family Well Service

10:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist II

Mon 4th

9:30 a.m. Prayer Shawl

11:00 a.m. PEO-AV meeting

5:00 p.m. Jubilee OutreachMinistry mtg

6:00 p.m. St. Luke’s Men’s meeting

Tues 5th

9:30 a.m. Staff meeting11:00 a.m. St. Luke’s Guild meeting3:30 p.m. Girl Scout Troop 30326:00 p.m. PFLAG

Wed 6th

10:30 a.m. Prayer Chain3:00 p.m. Studies in the Bible4:30 p.m. Bell Choir Rehearsal7:00 p.m. Chancel Choir Rehearsal

Thurs 7th

10:00 a.m. Painting with a friend1:00 p.m. Blankets for Kids

Fri 8th Office Closed8:00 p.m. 12-Step NA meeting

Sat 9th

9:00 a.m. Litter pick-up1:30 p.m. Girl Scout Tea5:30 p.m. Holy Eucharist II7:00 p.m. Young People of AA

Labor of Love May 16-25

Young Adult Week June 17-20

Mini Camp June 30-July 2

4th of July Family Camp July 3-5

Jr. High Camp July 5-10

Intermediate Camp July 12-17

Sr. High Camp August 3-9

Alumni Reunion August 21-23

Women’s Weekend August 28-30

Labor Day Family Camp September 4-7

Couple’s Retreat September 11-13

Orientation classes

Every Sunday in May

at 9 a.m. in the

Alison Library

Belonging Weekend

is the last weekend

in May

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  Kan Eww Spel?

The American Association of University Women sponsor an annual Adult Spelling Bee to raise money

for women’s scholarships.

Entry fee is $100 per team of 2 - 3 contestants and includes lunch.  It will be Thursday May 28  @ NIC

 Student Union  11:30 a.m.

It has been a fun all-community event with prizes and bragging rights.  So what do you think . . Kan

we Episcupalians send a teem?

Contact Betsy McTear or Lisa Nunlist or go to [email protected]

St. Luke’s Guild meeting Tuesday, May 5th

11:00 a.m. in the Parish Hall

An all-member potluck will be provided.Contact Joan Lewis for details.

A musical treat is on the agenda!

There will be no meetings in June, July and August

MOSEY ON DOWN

FOR LARRUPIN’

GOOD EATS AT

St. Luke’s Men’s

Western Cattlemen’s

Steak Dinner

COST: $15.00 - ADULT $5.00 - UNDER 12

Church Periodical Club— MaryKay Ferrell

The Mission of the Church Periodical Club is

to make Christ known throughout the world

by means of a variety of media materials and

the printed word. CPC is the only organiza-

tion in the Episcopal Church engage solely in

providing, through grants, free literature and

related materials, both religious and secular,

to people who have no other source. Last

year in our Diocese, a grant was given to All

Saint’s Episcopal Church in Richland to buy

Hymnals and Book of Common Prayer to be

used in their prison ministries.

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