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Family and Friends Family and Friends
They say there is a reason,
They say that time will heal.
But neither time nor reason,
Will change the way we feel.
For no one knows the heartache
That lies beyond our smiles.
No one knows how many times
We have broken down and cried.
We want to tell you something,
So there won’t be any doubt:
You’re so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without.
We cannot bring the days back
When we were all together.
The family chain is broken now
But memories and love will live forever.
The family of the late Bessie B. Dreher, wishes to express their sincere thanks
for the many expressions of sympathy shown to them during their time of
bereavement. Special thanks to USC Internal Medicine Department, American
Homecare, Palmetto Health Hospice, and the Palmetto Richland Heart Hospital.
Bostick-Tompkins Funeral Home
2930 Colonial Drive
Columbia, South Carolina 29203
Willie A. Tompkins, Founder
(803) 254-2000
bosticktompkinsinc.com
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now
there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous
Judge, will award to me on that day-and not only to me,
but also to all who have longed for his appearing.”
II Timothy 4:7-8
Bessie Brown Dreher was born November 2, 1935 in Richland County to
the late Lowman and Edith Milligan Brown. On October 16, 2017, she
was enfolded into the waiting arms of her heavenly Father to take her
eternal rest.
She was educated in the public schools of Richland County. She worked
for the Richland County school system until her retirement. Ever faithful
to ministry, Bessie was a devoted member of Zion Pilgrim Baptist
Church. She served on the Usher Board and the Senior Musical and
Jubilee Choirs, as well as serving as the miscellaneous treasurer until her
health declined.
Bessie was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin, and
friend. Her beautiful smile and genuine kindness warmed the hearts of
many. People who knew her affectionately called her “Momma”.
She was married to the late Eugene B. Dreher, Jr. for 31 years before his
passing. To this union, eight children were born. In addition to her
parents and husband, she was predeceased by her son, Eugene Dreher,
III.
Bessie leaves to cherish precious memories and special moments, five
daughters: Marie Dreher, Reverend Delores (Dennie) Smith, Juliet
Dreher, Gladys Dreher, and Jeanette Glover; two sons, Perry and Michael
Dreher; 17 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren. She also leaves to
mourn her passing, a brother, Harry Brown, a special niece, Edith
Sumter; and a host of nieces, nephews, and other relatives and friends.
I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth —
You shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!
Prelude .......................................................................................................... Lavan Singletary Musician
Processional ............................................................................................. Clergy and Family
Hymn of Praise ..................................................... “What a Friend We Have in Jesus” Jubilee Choir
Scripture Readings
Old Testament ..............................................................Elder Anthony Goodman
New Testament .............................................................Reverend Clyde Bennett
Prayer of Comfort ........................................................... Reverend Ronald McFadden
Solo ................................................................................................................ Jennifer Goodwin
Reflections (three minutes please) ......................................................... Sister Ida Jackson
Evangelist Betty Williams
Deacon Joseph Tolliver
Poem ..................................................................................................................... Sonya Dreher Niece
Solo .................................................................................................. Deacon Thomas Jenkins
Words of Comfort..................................................................... Pastor Willie M. Duggan
Final Farewell to Our Beloved Bessie ............................. Bostick-Tompkins Staff
Recessional
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