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The seven habits of highly effective peopleStephen CoveyA very highly
regarded teacher of leadership principles in America
1 Million copies sold
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ParadigmA modelTheoryPerceptionAssumptionMapMaps may be
right or wrong but they are results of conditioning
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Paradigm shiftBreak with traditionHeaviside oliver:
Transform methodsBell: An instrument
could produce sound
School to college:Good and bad paradigm shifts
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Principle centered paradigmsPrinciples:
Guidelines for human conduct
Proof?Check the effect
of living on their opposites
Integrity(Deceit)Useful(Useless)
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Principles continuedFairness(Unfair)Growth(Degener
ation)The maximum
possible intensity of pleasure could come from very different sources.
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HabitsA habit can be
considered as an intersection of three circles.
Example :ExerciseWhat to do:
Aerobics, Stretching, Calisthenics
How: PracticeWant to:Generate
desire
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Knowledge
What,why
Skills
How to
Desire
Want to
Habit
Maturity continuumDependent: YouIndependent: IInterdependent:WeIndependent: Habits
1 ,2 and 3Interdependent:Hab
its 4,5 and 6Continuous
improvement:Habit 7
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P/PC BalanceA natural law in
harmony with the habits
P-ProductionPC- Production
capabilityFarmer and
Goose with the Golden eggs
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Habit 1Be Proactive
StimulusFreedom to
ChooseResponse
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Pause Button
Pause
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Four Human Gifts
Freedom
To Choose
Self Awareness
Conscience Imagination
Independent Will
Stimulus Response
Fifth Human Gift.Humour Emerges from
blending of 4 gifts Self-Awareness Irony and paradox Truly Important Imagination Conscience Uplifting Willpower Not to be reactive
and not be
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LOVELove is a verb Sacrifice Empathize Appreciate AffirmLove- the feeling- is a fruit of love the
verb
Self-Awareness(1) Am I able to
stand apart from my thoughts or feelings and examine and change them?
Never …. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Sr.No.Sr.No. ScoreScore
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Self-Awareness(2) Am I aware of the way I think
about things and the impact it has on my attitudes and behaviours and the results I am getting in my life?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Self-Awareness(3) Am I aware of my biological,
genealogical, psychological,and sociological scripting- and my own deep inner thoughts?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Self-Awareness(4) When the response of other people
to me – or something I do – challenges the way I see myself, am I able to evaluate the feedback against deep personal self-knowledge and learn from it?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Conscience(1) Do I sometimes
feel an inner prompting that I should do something or I should not do something I am about to do?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Sr.No.Sr.No. ScoreScore
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Conscience(2) Do I see the difference between “
social conscience”- what society has conditioned me to value – and my own inner directives?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Conscience(3) Do I inwardly sense the reality of
universal principles such as integrity and trustworthiness ?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Conscience(4) Do I see a pattern in human
experience – bigger than the society in which I live- that validates the reality of the principles.
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Imagination(1) Do I think
ahead?Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Sr.No.Sr.No. ScoreScore
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Imagination(2) Do I visualize my life beyond its
present reality?Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Imagination(3) Do I use visualization to help
reaffirm and realize my goals?Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Imagination(4) Do I look for new , creative ways
to solve problems in a variety of situations and value the different views of others?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Independent Will(1) Am I able to
keep promises to myself as well as to others?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
Sr.No.Sr.No. ScoreScore
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Independent will(2) Do I have the capacity to act on
my own inner imperatives even when it means swimming upstream?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Independent will(3) Have I developed the ability to set
and achieve meaningful goals in my life?
Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Independent will(4) Can I subordinate my moods to my
commitments?Never ….. 0 1Sometimes 2 3Always 4
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Scores0-7 Inactive gift8-12 Active gift13-16 Highly developed gift.
Habit 1: Be ProactiveCircle of concernCircle of
InfluenceElection
irregularitiesActual votingMeaning of lifeReactive peopleProactive people
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Influence
Concern
Victor Frankl Jew PsychiatristSuffered terrible
torture at the hands of Nazis.
Became a shining light to others
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Proactive FocusNothing can be done
(Reactive)Alternatives (Proactive) He makes me mad
(Reactive) I can control my
feelings(Proactive)
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Application SuggestionsListen to phrases
for a day.Identify a
difficult encounter in near future
Thirty day test
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30 day test
Habit 2-Begin with the end in mind
Personal Leadership
Visualize the old age
Fundamental values
Frame of reference
Wrong wall3636
All things are created twiceMental creationPhysical creation
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Leadership and Management
Leadership provides the vision
Management implements vision
Management is doing things right
Leadership is doing right things
The wrong Jungle
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Personal mission statementHear both sides
before judgingDevelop one new
proficiency every year
Listen twice as much as you speak
Keep a sense of humor
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CenterOur mission
gives us a center around which our life revolves
SecurityGuidance
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Using the whole brainLeft brainLogicalWordsRight brainCreativePicturesFamily missionOrganizational
mission
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Guide for forming missionArea of activityFamily,friends,wo
rk,socialCharacterContributionachievement
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Habit 3: Put first things firstPersonal
ManagementWhat one thing
could you do that if you did on a regular basis would make a tremendous difference in personal life?
Professional life4343
Urgent and Important activitiesDeadline driven
projectsCrisis
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Urgent But UnimportantSome telephone
callsSome meetingsSome reportsSome
interruptions
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Not Urgent but ImportantPreventionPC activitiesRelation buildingPlanningRecreation
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Not Urgent and not importantSome mailSome phone callsPleasant
activities
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Activities Identify roles
1: Individual 2: Husband/Father
/Brother etc 3 : Teacher 4 : Head
Select goals for next week
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SchedulingWeekly
organizationPrepare time
activity chart for each day of the week
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Long Term/Short term GoalsHabit 2: Long
term goalsHabit 3 : Short
term goals
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PrinciplesHabit 1: Principles
of personal vision
Habit2 : Principles of personal leadership
Habit 3:Principles of personal management
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The first 3 habitsHabit1 : Creator
Habit2 : First Creation(Mental)
Habit3 : Second Creation
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In Computer terms Habit 1 :You are
the programmer
Habit2 :Write the program
Habit 3 : Run the program
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ExercisesIdentify an
important but not urgent activity you have neglected in life
Estimate the time spent by you in I/U,
I/NU,NI/U,NI/NU activities
Organize your next week
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Significance of IndependenceSignificance of IndependenceTragedy taking placeTragedy taking place
Loss of a beloved/ Loss of money/Losing a Loss of a beloved/ Loss of money/Losing a leg/failing an examleg/failing an exam Initial trauma overcome byInitial trauma overcome by Pro-activityPro-activity Do what you can doDo what you can do Principle centerPrinciple center Not centered around a person/… but Not centered around a person/… but on valueson values
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Significance of Independence Significance of Independence (Continued)(Continued) Do first things firstDo first things first
Reschedule activitiesReschedule activities
ImplementImplement
The very acts will lessen the sorrow.The very acts will lessen the sorrow.
Not influenced by crowd and peer pressureNot influenced by crowd and peer pressure
Crowds can be swayedCrowds can be swayed
PoliticiansPoliticians
Stock marketsStock markets
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What is life ?What is life ?Absolute truth can never be knownAbsolute truth can never be known
Living is lifeLiving is life
Making commitments & fulfilling themMaking commitments & fulfilling them
Setting goals and striving to achieve themSetting goals and striving to achieve them
Making continuous improvementsMaking continuous improvements
Do not run away from lifeDo not run away from life
PrayersPrayers
Paradigms of interdependencePrivate victory
precedes public victory
Chronic pain due to lack of personal vision.
Pain due to problems in interactions with others more intense
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Emotional Bank AccountCourtesy,kindness
,honesty, keeping commitments built up reserve
Clarifying expectations
Small withdrawals won’t make an enemy
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Habit 4 Think Win/WinMutually
beneficialCooperationPlenty for
everybodyThird alternative
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Win/LoseAthleticsMarket placeAuthoritarian
approachMarriage
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Lose/WinAppeasementLack of couragePendulum-swings
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Lose/LoseTwo win/lose
peopleWar
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WinNo contest or
competitionChilds life at
stake
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Win/Win or no dealBusiness
Partnerships
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Various dimensions of win/winCharacterIntegrityKeep
commitmentsMaturityCourageConsideration
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MatrixLow courage and
low considerationLose/LoseLow courage and
high consideration
Lose/WinHigh courage and
low considerationWin/Lose
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Win/WinHigh
consideration and high courage
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RelationshipTrustDealing with
win/loseTransformational
leadership
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AgreementsDesired results
and not methodsConsequences
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SystemsDo not talk
win/win and then reward win/lose
Department store
Performance evaluation
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ProcessesFirst see the
problem from other point view
Identify the key issues and concerns
Determine the fully acceptable solution
Identify new options
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Habit 5Seek first to
understand, then to be understood
Diagnose before prescribing
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CommunicationListeningSpeakingReadingWriting
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ListeningIgnoringListeningEmpathic
listeningPsychological air
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Autobiographical ResponsesEvaluateProbeAdviceInterpret
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Seek to be understoodCourageConsiderationClarity
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Habit 6 SynergyWhole is greater
than the sum of its part
Much more utility and hence more valuable
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Value the DifferenceCooperation1+1 = 10 or 100Reproduction
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Quantity and QualityGenetic
differencesBrain stormingChess in Russia
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Synergistic CommunicationCOPERATION
TRUST
DEFENSIVE(WIN/LOSE)
RESPECTFUL(COMPROMISE)
SYNERGIC(WIN/WIN)
David LienthalHead, Atomic
Energy Commision
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Force Field AnalysisDriving ForcesPositive,
Logical,ConsciousRestraining
ForcesNegative,Emotion
al, Illogical, unconscious,social,
Psychological8383
SynergyRemoves
restraining forcesEmergenciesPersonal SynergyLeft brainRight brain
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Habit 7 Sharpen the sawPrinciples of
balanced self renewal
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Four Dimensions of RenewalPersonal PCPhysical(Exercise
, nutrition stress management)
Mental(Reading,Planning,Writing)
SocialSpiritual
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ExerciseEndurance(Aerob
ic Exercises like running, biking, swimming
Flexibility (Stretching)Strength(Push-
ups, Pull-ups, weight exercises)
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Habit 7 and other habitsHabits 1, 2, 3Physical,Mental,
SpiritualHabits 4, 5, 6Social/Emotional
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