thank like you mean it - gratitude and appreciation
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11 Tactics to improve your state of mind, health, and well-being through the expression of gratitude and appreciation. Research has shown that behaviors of gratitude create: - Increased Happiness - Reduced Anxiety and Depression - Improved Physiological Condition - More Restful and Refreshing Sleep - Increased Resiliency - Strengthened Relationships - Greater Life SatisfactionTRANSCRIPT
11 TACTICS TO INCREASE GRATITUDE
AND HAPPINESS IN YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE
BY JASON OTTE - EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
1. DOCUMENT GRATITUDE
NAME WHAT YOU ARE THANKFUL FOR. WRITING IT DOWN SPURS RECOGNITION
AND GIVES SUBSTANCE TO YOUR APPRECIATION.
WHETHER IT’S A JOURNAL, NOTEBOOK, BLOG, OR A SIMPLE
DRY-ERASE BOARD ON THE REFRIGERATOR, FIND A
CONVENIENT MEANS TO GIVE THANKS AND DEVELOP IT AS A
HABIT.
2. FOCUS ON THE POSITIVES
ON THE SURFACE, THIS SEEMS LIKE A “NO-BRAINER”, BUT THE
OPPOSITE HOLDS TRUE: REMAINING POSITIVE REQUIRES CONSISTENT ATTENTION TO THE
THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS THAT OCCUPY YOUR MENTAL
REAL ESTATE.
FORTUNATELY, YOU GET TO CHOOSE YOUR TENANTS EVERY
DAY.
3. MIND YOUR INFLUENCE
NEGATIVE THOUGHTS, BEHAVIORS, AND BELIEFS HAVE NO PLACE IN YOUR WORLD OF
GRATITUDE. THE SAME APPLIES TO PEOPLE THAT SABOTAGE YOUR HAPPINESS OR ARE IN OTHER WAYS EMOTIONALLY
DAMAGING.
REDUCE YOUR EXPOSURE TO NEGATIVE MESSAGING AND YOU WILL GREATLY BROADEN YOUR
OPTIMISTIC VIEW.
4. CONSUME LESS AND APPRECIATE MORE
FOOD, CLOTHING, ELECTRICITY AND CLEAN WATER ARE
SCARCITIES FOR HUMAN BEINGS ALL OVER OUR PLANET.
BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE AND MINDFUL OF WHAT
YOU THROW AWAY.
5. WRITE A LETTER OF GRATITUDE
TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY TO THANK AND APPRECIATE THE
PEOPLE THAT HAVE POSITIVELY IMPACTED YOUR LIFE -
WHETHER THEY KNEW THEY DID IT OR NOT.
A SINCERE LETTER LIKE THIS CAN HAVE LONG-LASTING
POSITIVE EFFECTS FOR BOTH THE SENDER AND THE
RECEIVER.
6. MAKE GOOD CHOICES
YOUR THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS DRIVE YOUR
DECISION MAKING PROCESS. MAKE CHOICES THAT UPHOLD YOUR VALUES AND REINFORCE YOUR POSITIVE BELIEFS AND
ACTIONS.
YOUR ATTITUDE DETERMINES YOUR PERSPECTIVE ON EVERY LIFE EXPERIENCE, SO SHAPE IT
CAREFULLY .
7. PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR INNER DIALOGUE
WE ARE TYPICALLY HARDER ON OURSELVES THAN ANYONE ELSE.
IF YOUR INSIDE VOICE LACKS COMPASSION, ENCOURAGEMENT OR SUPPORT, THEN IT’S TIME TO
RE-WRITE THE SCRIPT.
8. SEND HAND-WRITTEN THANK YOU
NOTES
GRATITUDE OR RECOGNITION OF A JOB WELL DONE IS MORE
MEMORABLE AND MEANINGFUL WHEN
DELIVERED THIS WAY.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT IS A PERFECT WAY TO INSPIRE
OTHERS TO DO WELL.
9. REDUCE SARCASM
IF YOU SAY “THANKS A LOT”, MEAN IT.
SARCASM AND NEGATIVITY ARE LIKE ANYTHING ELSE; THE
MORE THEY ARE PRACTICED, THE EASIER THEY GET.
INSTEAD, BECOME KNOWN FOR GENUINE COMMUNICATION AND
HONESTY.
10. SUBSCRIBE TO A POSITIVE DAILY
MESSAGE
USE TECHNOLOGY TO DELIVER NEWS, IDEAS, AND THOUGHT S
THAT MOVE YOU FORWARD RATHER THAN HOLDING YOU
BACK.
LOOK FOR THE VALUE IN THE MESSAGES THAT BECOME YOUR
INFLUENCE.
11. TEACH GRATITUDE
DEMONSTRATE THE IMPORTANCE OF GRATITUDE TO CHILDREN. INSTILL IT IN THEM
AS BOTH A BELIEF AND AN OUTLOOK.
THEY WILL EXPERIENCE MORE JOY AND HAPPINESS AS A
RESULT.
WHILE NOT ALWAYS AS EASY, THIS ALSO WORKS FOR ADULTS.
THANK YOU FOR READING!