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Te Complete Course Manualn Hw t Attract, Chseand Marry the Partner fYur Dreams

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Is the Answer Many Singles Have Been Praying fr

ingles, get ready! Because Bo SanchezsHow To Find Your One True Love (Book 2): The

Complete Course Manual will take you further where his Book 1, How to Find Your One

True Love, ended. In this exciting course, he will virtually hold your hand and lead you

tep-by-step through the journey of nding your One True Love.

Heres a tiny fraction of what youll learn from Book 2:

In Book 1, Bo Sanchez discussed the eight Prisons of Fears and Internal Blocks.

But in The Complete Course, youll learn how to get out of those Prisons of Fears

and overcome those Internal Blocks.

Youll learn how to get out of a bad relationship which is crucial so youll be

open to a new one!

Youll learn how to develop your charm, which youll discover is actually tied

to Christian Values.

So you can clarify and focus on what and who you want, this course will help

you write your Must-Have and Must-Not-Have List.

Through an 18-Point Moral Inventory, youll dene what you need to change

inside you. Because at the end of the day, right character is very attractive!

Through a 6-Item Emotional Health Evaluation, youll learn what you need to

mature in you. And equally important, youll know if a boyfriend or girlfriend

is emotionally healthy as well.

Youll also nd out if you and your potential OTL are compatible.

Youll learn how to encourage your boyfriend to propose marriage (This is

important!)

Youll discover the three Counterfeit Love Styles to watch out from your

partner.

And so much, much more!

og on to www.onetruelovenetwork.com and join the OTL Network of Happy Singles

whose mission is to make as many alumni members as possible.

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A no fom h Ahoo h O of

How to Find Your One True Love Book 2:Te Complete Course Manual on How toAttract, Choose and Marry the Partner

of Your Dreams

Cogratlatios!

This Complete Corse offers a more comprehesive, more detailed, more step-by-

step approach than my rst book, How to Find Your One True Love.

While my rst book touched the surface of the topics, well go in-depth and

apply the truths you learned in the book which makes the difference between

ight ad day.

And like my rst book, I speak to the same audience.

1. I speak to all singles, but especially to mature singles: those nearing 30 and

beyod.

2. I speak to men and women, but especially to women. So if a man is reading this,

please metally traslate Woma ad Girl ad Sister to Ma ad Boy

ad Brother for topics that are adaptable to both geders.

Turn the page and start your exciting journey of nding your one true love.


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HOw tO FinD YOur One true LOve BOOK 2

Te Complete Course Manual on How to Attract, Chooseand Marry the Partner of Your Dreams

ISBN- 978-971-93671-4-7

Bo Sanchz

Bestsellig athor of8 Secrets of the Truly Rich

ad Your Past Does Not Defne Your Future

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COntents

Inroducion 9

Step #1: tak Rsonsibiliy for Finding Your On tru Lov 13

Action #1: Form Your Support Team for Operation OTL 15

Action #2: Grow in Character 17

Action #3: Get Emotionally Healthy 22

Action #4: Know Yourself 47

Step #2: Know Whas Soing You Insid 51

Action #1: Study the Different Kinds of Internal Blocks and Prisons of Fear 52

Action #2: What Are Your Internal Blocks and Prisons of Fear? 69

Action #3: How to Get Out of Bad Relationships 72

Step #3: talk o Los of Guys 77

Action #1: Straighten Out Your Theology 79

Action #2: A More Complete List of Places to Go 82Action #3: Meet Three-New-Men-a-Week Challenge 84

Action #4: Take the Hello Challenge 87

Action #5: Develop Your Charm 88

Action #6: What Is Your Body Saying? 90

Action #7: Opening Questions and More 92

Action #8: Prepared Answers Will Help 94

Action #9: Be Direct in Your Admiration if You Like Him 95

Step #4: Hav As Many Frindly Das As Humanly possibl 99

Action #1: Follow the Rules of Friendly Dates 101

Action #2: Date with Zero Expectations 103

Action #3: Tell Everyone Youre Open to Friendly Dates 104

Action #4: Connect with Him 106

Step #5: B Araciv 111

Action #1: Rate YourselfHow Attractive Are You? 112


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Action #2: Choose Three Attraction Secrets to Work On 113

Action #3: Love Your Bodys Unique Beauty 115

Action #4: Have a Makeover Inside and Out! 117

Action #5: Be as Super Healthy as You Can Be 125

Step #6: Know Wha You Wan in a Sous 129

Action #1: Know the Differences between Your Lists 130

Action #2: Check for Red Flags 132

Action #3: Write Your Must-Have List 135

Action #4: Write Your Must-Not-Have List 137

Action #5: Write Your Wish List 139

Step #7: enr ino Courshi 141

Action #1: Review Actions in My First Book 142

Action #2: Watch Out for These Three Counterfeit Love Styles 144

Action #3: Are You Compatible? 149

Action #4: How to Encourage a Man to Propose Marriage 152

Action #5: 70 Questions for Engaged Couples 157

S #8: trus God and enjoy Lif 173

Action #1: Know the Difference between Aloneness and Loneliness 175

Action #2: Make Relationships a Priority 177

Action #3: Open Your Heart to Others 179

Action #4: Give Warmth Now 180

Action #5: Be Committed to Non-Stop Growth 182

Action #6: In Your Loneliness, Connect to God 184

Rfrncs 186

Singl Mn (or Womn) Log 187


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intrODuCtiOn

I believe marriage is oe of the greatest thigs i this iverse.God iveted it, desiged it, created it ad blessed it.

Some people ridicule and criticize the idea of having a course like this. They

say, Why will I deliberately search for my spouse? Thats totally absurd, juvenile

and unspiritual. Ill leave that to God, thank you.

Bt this same woma will deliberately search (shop, ht, read ads, call

up the yellow pages, ask referrals from friends) for a nifty pair of shoes, or a cool

cellphoe or a pretty camera.

Hey, why dont you leave all those things to God, too?Sit at home, pray ad read yor Bible, ad believe that tomorrow, God

Himself will come like a FedEx truck to deliver to you a nifty pair of shoes, or a cool

cellphoe, or a pretty camera.

I believe that not taking responsibility for your future is absurd.

This is what How to Find Your One True Love Book 2: is all about: Its about

seriosly committig yorself to search for yor Oe Tre Love.

Ill be your Life Coach, guiding you through this exciting, scary, difcult,

happy jorey.In this course, youll be answering some questions about yourself. (OK, a lot

of questions.)

And youll be doing some things that youve never done before. (Get ready!)

By the way, as you can see, this manual is thick.

Dont be overwhelmed.

If yo do eve some of the most importat activities i this maal, the

chances are high that youll be sending me a wedding invitation one of these days.

And I look forward to that!

Ad lest yo sped all yor time holed p i yor room aswerig the

questionnaires for the next three months, I want you to already practice Step #3,

while youre still completing Step #1 and Step #2.

Why? Because Step #3 is where you talk to lots of guys.

Yep, I wat yo to go ot there ad meet ew sigle me!

You know what?

I have a sneaking suspicion that a few people bought my book and bought

this course manual not so much for the details of the activities Im recommending


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(they probably know the stuff already), but because Im giving them permission to

nd a spouse.

For them, just owning my book and this course manual is a deep symbol

of Gods blessing for their future. For once in their life, a spiritual authority is notridiclig their desire to get married, ot callig them shallow, ot labellig them

spiritually immature for looking for a spouse.

Friend, Im not only allowing you.

Im anointing you.

Im commissioning you to go and bear fruit.

If kings anointed their knights by laying the tip of their sword on the knights

shoulders, Im using this course manual to do the same thing. Friend, Im placing

this corse maal i yor hads.

Go. Find your man (or woman).

Ad have great f doig so.

Yor Life Coach,

Bo Sachez

[email protected]

P.S. With this book, you will also test-drive the membership in the OTL Network of

Happy Sigles, whose missio is to help sigle members become almi members

(because they got married!). OTL Members get three monthly newsletters from me

lled with practical wisdom and important strategies on how to become the most

attractive sigle perso ad a pheomeal hma beig that they ca possibly be.

For more details, check the last pages of this book.

Introduction


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Before you start, I want you to write ve things youd like to happen to your

life (goals) by going through this course

Oe of the best ways of writig goals is by pttig it ito prayer form. Write

a love letter to God and tell Him what you want to happen as you take this course. Igave yo some more writig space after the goals for whatever else yo wat to tell

Him.

Dear Lord,

Here are my goals, Lord, for this course:

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

Love,


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steP #1:

tak rpoblyfo Fdg Yo

O t Lo

Acion #1:Form Yor Spport Team for Operatio OTL

Acion #2:Grow i Character

Acion #3:Get Emotioally Healthy

Acion #4:Kow Yorself


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Aco #1:Frm Yur Supprt Tm fr oprti oTL

Dont do this alone.

Fidig yor Oe Tre Love is oe of the most importat decisios i yor

life.

Mess this p ad yo mess p yor etire life.

So for yor ow good, form a Spport Team arod yo that will pray for

yo, ecorage yo ad advise yo. Call them yor OTL Spport Team.

Ask yourself. Who are the closest people in your life that are encouraging,

positive and level-headed when it comes to nding you a spouse?Nope, they wont make decisions for you. Only you can do that. But you can

get their sggestios that are very importat for a emotioally-charged decisio

like nding your spouse.

Sign up your own parents (as honorary members), closest friends and

spiritual leaders if they t the criteria. Actually, the ideal is for you to do this together

with other single men and women who are also taking this complete course or at

least have read my book. Youll understand each other. But include wise, married

people as well i yor OTL Spport Team.Ask each of them, I want to seriously take responsibility for nding a

spouse. Can you be my Prayer Partners?

When they say, Yes, of course! ask a follow-up question, Will you mind if I

talk to you once in a while to get your advice and suggestions?

Write four or ve potential members of your OTL Support Team below.

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.


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Here are a few responsibilities for each member. (Ask gently. Theyre

volunteers!)

1. Pray regularly for your intention that you nd your OTL.

2. Be available to talk once in a while.3. Give you feedback on how you can improve your character, personality,

etc.

4. Encourage you to do the assignments in this complete course.

5. Evaluate potential OTLs, (Note: I repeat, they dont make choices for you.

You make them but their comments are important.) They wake you up if

this potetial OTL is hazardos to yor ftre well-beig, or ecorage

you to continue to date him if they see great potential that you dont see.

Thats it!

Lets now go to Action #2: Grow in Character

Action #1: Form Your Support Team for Operation OTL


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Aco #2:Grw i crtr

Lets not kid ourselves: Character is attractive.

More than smooth skin and long legs and a pretty face, your character is your

#1 Attractio Secret.

John T. Molloy conducted a huge study of 2,000 engaged couples, and after

thousands of surveys, focus groups and interviews, one of his ndings was this: Men

are attracted to beaty, bt marry becase of character.

I other words, they may date beaty bt they will oly marry character.Physical beauty may make him look. But for him to keep on looking to the

point of wanting to marry, youve got to have character.

In order to help you know what specic areas you need to grow in, I

prepared a Moral Ivetory below. I fod this Moral Ivetory from the Recovery

Movement (Alcoholics Anonymous, Substance Abuse Anonymous, etc.). I adapted

and edited it for our use. Because they deal with millions of people from all walks of

life, the Recovery Movements Moral Inventory is broad enough to help people from

all sorts of cltres ad religios.

A. 18-poin Moral Invnory

You can rate yourself 1 to 10 for each, 1 being no success and 10 meaning habitual

sccess.

How am I doing in each of the following virtues?

______1. Thankfulness: I always thank my God and others for what they have done.

I can honestly say that Im a thankful person.

______2. Gentleness: I can control my temper. I dont have outbursts of selsh

ager or righteos rage.


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______3. Forgiveness: I have o hatred or bitteress toward ay other perso

anywhere on this earth. I refuse to take revenge when people criticize,

codem, reject or complai agaist me. If at all possible, I try to repair

broken relationships as quickly as I can.

______4. Humility: I cosistetly cosider others as eqal with myself. I have a

teachable spirit.

______5. Courage: I take the risk of doing whats right, keeping fear under control.

______6. Trust: Ive surrendered my life to God. Im free from useless fretting,

worry or axiety.

______7. Perseverance: Its normal for me to keep doing whats right. Even when

things get difcult, or stressful or unrewarding.

______8. Submission: I dont ght those placed in authority over me, even if theyre

less competent or gifted. Ultimately, I follow Gods authority in my life.

______9. Generosity: I reglarly give to my family, chrch, commity ad the poor.Geerosity is a ormal behavior to me.

______10. Love for Family: I sped as mch time as I ca with my family, hoorig

ad servig them as the priority i my life.

______11. Simplicity: I resist materialism where thigs are more importat tha

people.

______12. Selessness: I have laid aside envy and selsh ambition. I dont entertain

jealousy of anothers success.

______13. Spiritual Intimacy: Its the routine of my life to spend time with God each

day i prayer, spirital readig ad practicig the presece of God all

day log.

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______14. Self-Control: My thoght life is free from all itetioal impre thoghts

ad sexal fatasies. My actios are free from eslavig habits ad vices.

______15. Truthfulness: My yes is yes ad my o is o. I practice hoesty both i myrelatioships with others ad myself.

______16. Language: I abstai from slader, gossip ad bitig criticism. I se my

toge to bild others p, givig words of ecoragemet, comfort, help,

ispiratio ad challege.

______17. Industry: I work hard, using the time and talents that God has given me to

develop myself ad serve others.

______18. Cheerfulness: I can remain joyful during times of difculty, hopeful that

God is still i cotrol throgh certaity.

On the next page, youll zero in on what needs your attention


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B. Wri two prioriy Aras of Growh

There are o right or wrog aswers, passig or failig grades. use the Moral

Ivetory to poit ot the areas of yor character that eed more growth tha others.Write dow the two areas where yo scored the lowest. These are yor priority

areas for growth. A quick reminder: Though it usually takes years to see maturity,

chages have to start ow. Aside from writig dow the two priority areas, write

the specic weakness as well.

Example:

Problem One: Getleess Score: 2

Specically, I cant control my anger and I shout easily,especially to people at home

prioriy On: Scor:

Specically,

prioriy two: Scor:

Specically,

Action #2: Grow in Character


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If theres sin involved, confess to God. (If youre a Catholic, confess to a

priest as well.) Being aware of these weaknesses and writing it down here ishalf the battle wo. How to overcome your weakness is beyond the scope of this

corse. You need to work on these weaknesses separately, reading books, attending

seminars, asking counselors and spiritual leaders on how you can overcome these

two priority areas of yor character.

Lets now go to Action #3

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