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Social Training Lab presents'

"Small Talk Tactics"

How to Make Small Talk Sexy

and Use it to Create Attraction

in a Woman You're Interacting With

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con#ersations that get you -" …

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collegetail.

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somethingbeforeIstartdrinking!

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%hismustbemyluckyday…

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demonstratemysuperiorknowledgeofhealthfoodproducts…

SherespondedustasIhoped8

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fruitsmoothies,yogatechniques,thebestorganicfibersupplements…."ndthenwe

touchedupontheHoly5railofsimilarinterests…5ary7ull.

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thiscult.

Ithoughtthatthisbasicallysealedthedealforme…

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recipes…:eboth!scoffed!atalloftheotherpartygoerswhodidn'tshareour

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shetoldhimshewasa#egan…soIwascon#incedshe'dbebackdowntoher!soul

mate!withinminutes.

Shene#ercame.

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turnedandlookedatmewithpityinhereyes,asiftosay,!&ou'rereallynice…butI'm

heretoparty,nottalkabout5ary7ull…loser.!

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completelya#oidsmalltalk.

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uthearmeout…

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Infact,myconstantneedtoa#oidsmalltalk!atallcosts!wasseriouslydetrimental

tomysuccesswithwomen.

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/mbracesmalltalk9

&essir.

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and =reate Serious "ttraction :hen &ou're talking to :omen

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aboutnothing.Shedoesnotwanttofeelthatwhen!5ary7ull!talkends…you'llbothbe

boredsenseless.Shewantstoknowthatthingswon'tgetweird,becauseyou'reafun

guy.

"ndsmalltalkiswhereyougettodemonstrateallofthesethingsawomanislooking

for.

uthereisthething>

Smalltalkisoneofthosethingsthatcaneitherwinyouthegame…ordestroyyouwithinseconds.

Ifyou'renotgoodatit…andcauseawkwardness,uncomfortablesilence,orthe

dreaded!inter#iewmode!…you'redeadinthewater.

utifyoucanturn!flufftalk!intosomethingthatisfun,e<citing,andplayful…thegirl

willbeputtyinyourhands.




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goingtotakeonanentirelynewdimension.

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se<y …you'llquicklyreali;ethatyouha#ethegifttotalktoanywoman,anytime…

…"nde#enifyoudon'talwaysgetthegirl("nyguruthattellsyouthathismethodis

BCC4foolproofis-&I75toyou)youwill"-:"&Sfindthatyouareabletoha#eafuncon#ersationwithawomanthatlea#esthebothofyoubetterthanyoufoundone

another…

A@,let'sroll8

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me….%ogi#eanotherguyshemetahandob…withinminutes….

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:hatwas&con#ersationmissing9

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connectedonatopicsowellthatcon#ersationwasliterallypouringoutofourmouths…

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1. 1unningoutofthingstotalkabout

2. "wkwardsilences

3. 1esortingto!boring!smalltalk

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Iwasachie#ingsomele#elofsuccesswiththisgirl.

utweallknowhowthatstoryended….

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%urning Se<ual

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con#ersationis….

….drumroll…

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ecauseweconfuserapportwithattraction…

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%urn a =on#ersation Se<ual 1ight 7ow…

7e<ttimeyou'resmackinthemiddleofacon#ersationwithawomanyou're

attractedto,stopforamomentandconsiderwhyyou'retalkingtoher.




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Iwantthetruth.

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attractedtoyouinaS/*"-way...

"ndyoucan…

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,urn &our Ship "nd -ea#e 7o "#enue For 1etreat…

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ha#eto$"SS%H/$AI7%AF7A1/%*17.

&ouha#etobewillingtoloseher…

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therapportwehadestablished…

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%hefirstthingyouneedtodothisisto1/"@1"$$A1%whenyousensethatawomanisgettingtoocomfortablearoundyou…

Se<ualtensionstemsfromdesiremi<edwithuncertainty,suspense,ande#enabit

ofner#ousness…

Ifyou'reinthemiddleofanhourlongcon#ersationwithagirlabouthealthfood(or

the&ankees,ortra#eling,oryourobs)…thereisnotension,nouncertainty,no

suspense…

&es,thereiscomfortandrapport…

utyou'#egotto1/"@I%…

Soforinstance,ifagirlhasgottentoocomfortablewithyouandshebeginsgoing

intoalongrantabouthowmuchshehatesherob…

Stopherandsay>




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youha#eyourcreditcardwithyou9J

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intothecon#ersation…andyou'#esnappedher!he'ssuchaniceguy…!thoughtsinhalf.

&ou'lloftenrunintothisproblemlaterinthenightwhenyouwanttogetphysicalwith

awoman…andha#ebuiltuptoomuchcomforto#erthecourseofthee#ening…andnow

itseemsthetensionisbroken…andakissseemsinappropriate...

reaktherapport…

"dam-yonsoncetoldmeastorywherehehadagirlbackathisplaceandshe

wouldn'tstoptalkingaboutanargumentshehadwithoneofherfriends….Hewas

sittingtherethinking!howthehellcanIgethertoshutuplongenoughtokissher…!

"ndhe@I=@/H/1I7%H/H/".

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can'ttransitionthecon#ersationtosomethingmorese<ual…

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utthe%/7SIA75A/S%H1A*5Htheroof…."ndrapportisbroken…andfrom

thereI'llgi#eheralittlesmile…thenlightlypushheraflirtyway…andsay! AH…idIpiss

youoff…!

"ndnowweareF-I1%I75.

How to "#oid this in the First $lace

:e'#ealreadyestablishedearlierinthisreportthatyourI7%/7%IA7istocreatea

se<ualattractionwithher.

Soletherknowyourintention…

Ifyoudon'twantawomantogettoocomfortablewithyou…andbeginustseeyouas

afunguytotalkto….

on'tgi#eherthatoption…

-/%&A*1I7%/7%IA7/@7A:7…




:henIwastalkingto!5ary7ull!girlIne#ersaidanythingtohintthatIsawheras

anythingmorethanagirlwithasimilarinterestinhealthfood.Sothatisthe!role!she

ga#eme…theguyshetalksabouthealthfoodwith…

Ishouldha#emadeastatementofintentearlyon>

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se<yandmischie#oussmile,likeyou?retotallyuptonogood.HahaIlikethat…J

Ar…

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attentiontoawordyouustsaid…!

-ea#e no a#enue for retreat…

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toS"--%"-@…becausenowunderneaththe!fluff!isanunderlying%/7SIA7thatis

building…

Iustsharedwhatisprobablythebiggestmistakemenmakeintheircon#ersations

withwomen.

ostmenclingtorapport,sounwillingandafraidtobreakit…theysucke#eryounce

ofse<ualtensionoutofthecon#ersation…

ybreakingrapportandusinga!statementofintent!youarebackontracktoget

e<actlywhatyouwantoutofthecon#ersation…

"#oidthe!rapporttrap!andincreaseyourchancesofsuccess…

7owletmeteachsome%"=%I=Sformakingsmalltalkse<y…

Ifyouusethetacticsbelowrightoffthebat…youdon'tha#etoworryabouther

misreadingyourintentions…oreliminatingse<ualtension…

Herewego…

Small Talk Made Sexy Technique #1:

Create Conversation Momentum By Using a "ole" !ee

the Conversation lo$ing% Make &er 'augh% and Build

Sexual Tension(




"nswerthisquestion>

:hatdothesethreetele#isioncharactersha#eincommon…(Ifyou?reunfamiliar

withthemgoto&outubeandwatchsomeclipsofthem)

"ri 5old> (FromHA's/ntourage)

http>KKwww.youtube.comKwatch9#Lp0hIFhA%M<c

a#id "ddison>(fromoonlighting)

http>KKwww.youtube.comKwatch9#LN*y$qfn5s

,arney Stinson(fromHowIet&ourother)

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$erforming :ithin a 1ole

:hatthesethreecharactersha#eincommonisthattheyareallperformingwithinanarrowlydefinedrole.

%hismeanse#eryfaciale<pression,gesture,banterline,orbitofsmalltalkcomes

fromtheroletheyareplaying.

"ndasamemberoftheaudienceyoucanalmostguesshowtheyaregoingtoreact

toasituation,orwhattheyaregoingtosayinresponsetosomeoneelse…

…:hatdoesthisha#etodowithyou9

Inel#inHelit;er'sbookpopularbook!=omedy:ritingSecrets!hestates>

!Humordoesn'tgointoacharacter…itcomesoutofacharacter."characterneeds

atrademark…apredictablepointof#iewthatdoesnotchange.:ithoutashtickthe

performerisustareciterofokes.:ithitacomiccangetlaughse#enwithmistakes

becauseinaway,theperformeristheoke./#erysuccessfulperformerincomedyhas

de#elopedatleastonebasicandmemorablecharacter.7otonlydoestheaudience

feelcomfortablewiththis,butthematerialiseasiertowrite.!

%hematerialiseasiertowrite…

%hinkaboutthesignificanceofthatstatementforaminute.

%hebiggestproblemmostmenfacewith!smalltalk!isthattheyfindthemsel#es

continuallyrunningoutofthingstosay,orturningtowards!boring!con#ersationtopics,

especiallyearlyoninthecon#ersationbeforeyou'#ebothbecomecomfortablewith

eachother.


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utwhatifItoldyouthatyoucantakeany!boring!topicandturnitintoafunand

e<citing,flirtatiouscon#ersation…"ndha#eanendlesssupplyof!con#ersational

material!bytakingonaroleofacharacter…

:hy this works…

%hinkaboutthethreecharacterslistedabo#e…thesethreecharactersareF*7to

watchnomatterwhattheyaretalkingabout.

%hisisbecausehumoractuallyflowsmorefromthecharacter,theresponses,and

thenaturalinteractionthanfromtheokes.%hismeansthatyoudon'tneedtoconstantly

bethinkingofhilariouslinestomakeherha#efun…infact,thefunstemsfromthe

characteryouareplaying,andyourcharacter'sinteractionwithher.

%hecharacterwritesitself...onceyougetthecharacterdownthenallthefunnystuff

takescareofitself.

"ndthishumor…thise<pectationofhumor…createstension."ndasyoucontinueto

buildupthetension…thenrelease…buildup…thenrelease…youslowlybegintocreate

S/*"-%/7SIA7…

utyouneedtochoosetherightroletodothis….

%hesecondreasonIchose"ri5old,a#id"ddison,andarnyStinsonisbecause

theyplaycharactersthatworkwellfor"7%/1I75withwomen.

/achofthesecharactersdisplayaslightdegreeof!mentaldominance!o#erthe

peopletheyaretalkingto."ndthecombinationofmentaldominanceandbanteringL "%%1"=%IA7.

:henyouchooseacharacteryouwanttochoosearolethatallowsyoutocreate

attraction."ndcertainrolesworkalotbetterforthat.Herearesomee<amplesofroles

thatgenerateattraction>

&ouaredominant,sheiscute

"nassumedpositionofauthority

Herudge,coach,orconsultant

%he#ictimofherseduction

%hecoldguy

%heneuroticallyselfishguy

"highmaintenancechick




imickingher

%hee#ilonhershoulder

/<aggeratedlycheesypickupartist

Heradultsuper#ision

Sheisusingyouforse<

/achoftheseroleslistedabo#eworksowellbecauseitsortofele#atesyouasthe

guywho!getsit.!

"ndthemerefactthatyou'#eassignedyourselftherole,displaysthatyouarethe

oneincontrolofthecon#ersation…andyou'recallingtheshots.

InaminuteI'mgoingtoshowyoue<actlyhowtousetheserolesto"@/S"--

%"-@S/&…butfornowIustwantyoutounderstandthepurposeoftherole…

…the role writes itself... once you get the character down then all the funny stuff takes

care of itself…

%hisrolesetsthe!frame!fortheentirecon#ersation./#enthoughyouwillmo#ingin

andoutofthisrolethroughoutthecon#ersation…itis"-:"&Stheretousewhenyou

sensethecon#ersationneedssomereu#enation…

:hat to do…

%herearethreegeneralrulestotakingonarole>

1. "ssumetherolerightfromthestartofthecon#ersation

2. AwntheroleKbecongruent

3. "ndknowwhentodropit

asicallyyouwanttoe<ertfullcontrolo#ertheroleyoutakeon.1ightfromthe

beginningyouaresortofsaying!thesearetherulestoourcon#ersation…!%hisis

=1I%I="--&I$A1%"7%…you must establish your !character role! early on…ifnot,it

willbeweirdifyoubustintoitafterPCminutesof!normal!con#ersation….

"ndthenyouwanttoowntherole,andbecongruentinit.%hismeansyouA7'%

backdownifshe!shittests!you.&oudon'twaitforherto!appro#e!thegameyouset…

youustgorightintoit.

"ndfinally,youmustknowwhentodropit."tsomepoint,afterattractionhasbeen

created,therewillcomeapointwheretheroleshouldonlybeused#eryS$"1I75-&…




becauseifyoune#erdroptherole…she'llne#ergetfeeladeepersenseofconnection

with&A*.

How to %ake a 1ole and *se it 1 5H% 7A: in the 1eal :orld….

A@.

Hereisacharacterpracticee<ercise>

Imagineaparticulartypeofcharacterthatyoucanworkwith….

$ickoneofthesethree>

1. "nA#erly=onfident$layboy

2. "Highaintenance:oman

3.

%hee#ilonherShoulder

Anceyou'#epickedoneoftheabo#echaracters,getintouchwithhowtheywould

respond,react,whatsortoffaciale<pressionswouldtheymake,whatwouldtheir#oice

tonesoundlike9

"syoureadthis,spendaminutegettinginsidethemindofthecharacteryou'#e

chosen.ecomehimforasecondwhileIwalkyouthroughthise<ercise…

&our 1eaction Stems from the =haracter…

7ow,howwouldeachcharacterrespondtothefollowingthreethings9

1. Sheaccidentallytouchesyourass

2. Shedropssomething

3. Sheasksyoutobuyheradrink

7owIwantyoutobethefirstcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings.

"ndthenbethesecondcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings…."ndfinally

bethethirdcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings.

othisrightnow8

onotkeepreadinguntilyou'#efinishedthise<ercise…

"lright…




I'mgoingtoustgothroughsomee<amplesofhowyoucouldha#eresponded

completelydifferentlyforallthreeofthesesituationsplayingthethreedifferent

characters…

1//,/1>Sheknowsyou'replayingarole…soit'sperfectlyacceptabletobe

cheesy,e<aggerated,andtopushtheen#elopealittle….

Her>(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforali#ing9

A#erly =onfident $layboy>(Staringdownatherhandthatusttouchedyourleg)I

knowthatmo#eyouustdid…(5i#ingherthe!I'montoyou!look)it'soneofmy

fa#orites….%he'casuallygropethelegwhileaskingaseeminglyinnocentquestion'

ShouldIgothroughthecharadeofanswering…ordoyouwanttoustdroptheselittle

gameswereplayingwitheachother….


" High aintenance :oman>Ahmygod88Howdareyoutouchmyass.I'mnot

somedimestoregigolothatyoucanustha#eyourwaywithhoney…


%he e#il on Her Shoulder>+ust…slowly…put…yourhandbackonhisass…hewon't

notice…ustdoit…leano#erandshowhimsomeclea#agewhyyou'reatitto…

ore /<amples….

Her> (droppinghercellphone)

A#erly =onfident $layboy>&ouareustmakingsureyoutakee#eryopportunityto

showmethegoods…aren'tyouhoney9Idoadmit…Iappreciatetheeffortyou'reputtingintothiswholeseductionthing…mostgirlsdon'ttrythishard…


" High aintenance :oman> Ahplease…A7A%thinkyou'regoingtotrickme

intolookingatyourass….Iam7A%thatkindofguy.


%he e#il on Her Shoulder>He'slooking…uststaybento#eralittlelonger...maybe

throwyourhairbackabit…andthenmakeacutesystatementabout'howtipsyyouare…'

=anyouseehowtakingontherollofacharactermakesthingsinteresting…

…and allows you to introduce se<y topics

oyouseehowmucheasieritistocompletelytransformthe#ibeofsmalltalk9




"ndcanyouseehow/"S&itisto"-:"&S@7A::H"%%AS"&whenyou're

playinga!role9!&ouustsaywhatyouimagineyourcharacterwouldsay…

+usttoillustratethedifference…useoneoftheabo#ee<amples(Herdroppingher

phoneortouchingyourleg)andimaginehowyouwouldha#erespondedifyouwere

ustbeing&A*….

&ouprobablywouldha#eustansweredherstupid!whatdoyoudoforali#ing!

questionandcontinuedalongaA1I75con#ersation…

…utthe!role!youwereplayingallowedyoutoI7S%"7%-&addsomespiceand

se<intothemi<…

Sonowyoucanstillanswerherquestion…butyouwereabletomakethesame

pieceofsmalltalk…S/&.

Small Talk Made Sexy Technique #):

Turn the Conversation *nto a "+ame" and ,llo$ The Back

and orth *nteraction Take on , 'i-e o- *ts .$n

idyoue#eramuseyourselfforhoursustthrowingatennisballagainstawalland

catchingitasitbouncedbacktoyou9

Arnot'steppingonthecracks'asyouwalkeddownasidewalk9

Artriedtopassasmanycarsaspossiblewhiledri#ingonahighway9

Arsitinyourdeskand!ratethedoability!thegirlsintheclassroomwithyou…while

yourprofessorflounderedthroughatortuouslecture9

Ifyouha#edoneanyofthese…

…&ou'#e found %H/ 5"/ to make something boring fun

:edothisallthetime…becausegamesarefun8

!Finding the game!

/#eryinteractionyouha#ewithawomanhasthepotentialforagame…andonce

youfindthatgame…whatwaspre#iouslyatypical,boringcon#ersation,turnsinto

somethingthatyouapartof…

/itherasteammatesorcompetitors…




+ustfindsomesimplethinginyourinteractionthatyoucanmakeintosomesortof

contest,andseewhocanoutduetheother.

/#erybodyenoysplayinggamesbecausetherulesaresimpleandclear.

…"ndustlikeplayinga!role!…thesegamesmakecomingupwiththingstosaya

wholeloteasier…becausethecon#ersationspringsfromthegame…

eforeIgointosomee<amplesof!games!youcanplay…let'suste<aminesomeof

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