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1. STROKE IS AN UNIT OF HUMAN RECOGNITION. 2. STROKE IS PSYCHOLOGICAL OXYGEN. 3. STROKE IS AN EXPRESSED FORM OF LOVE OR H A T E 4. STROKES CAN EITHERBE PHYSICAL AND NON PHYSICAL. ORVERBAL AND NON VERBAL. 5. STROKES CAN BE BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE. 6. POSITIVE STROKES BRING PEACE ANDHAPPINESS TO BOTH THE GIVERAND THE RECEIVER. 7. POSITIVE STROKE HEALS THE WOUNDS, MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT THEMSELVES ANDOHTERS. HELPS ONE TO DISCOVERTHE HITHERTO UNKNOWN HIDDEN TALENTS. PERMITS ONE SELF TOHAVE DREAMS ANDCHANNELIZES HIS ENERGY TOACHIEVE HIS GOALS. GIVES COURAGE TOFACE THE FAILURES ANDMOTIVATES HIMTORAISE UPAGAIN. 8. POSITIVE STROKE HELAS THE WOUNDS, MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT THEMSELVES ANDOHTERS. 9. POSITIVE STROKE HELPS ONE TO DISCOVERTHE HITHERTO UNKNOWN HIDDEN TALENTS. 10. POSITIVE STROKE PERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMS ANDCHANNELIZES HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS GOALS. 11. POSITIVE STROKE GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIMTO RISE UPAGAIN. 12. POSITIVE STROKE MAKES PEOPLE: RELAXED, TRUSTING ANDTRUSTWORTHY, LOVING ANDLOVABLE, JOYFUL ANDPOWERFUL, ENERGETIC ANDENTHUSIASTIC, CHALLENGING ANDCREATIVE. FREES PEOPLE FROMALL KINDS OF ADDICTION. 13. IN A NUT SHELL POSITIVE STROKE MAKES PEOPLE RESPONSIBLE, PROACTIVE AND OPTIMIST. 14. NEGATIVE STROKE MAKES BOTH THE GIVER AND THE RECEIVER WOUNDED HURT AND DISEASED. 15. NEGATIVE STROKE DESTROYS THE SELF WORTHOF THE RECEIVER. 16. NEGATIVE STROKE CONDITIONS PEOPLE TO REACT TO THE EXTERNAL SITUATIONS BECAUSE OF THE UNHEALEDINTERNAL WOUNDS. 17. NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES A FALSE SELF IN THE GIVER WHICHIN TURN CREATES A PSEUDO HAPPINESS AND POWERIN THE GIVER. 18. NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES A FALSE SELF IN THE RECEIVER WHICHIN TURN MAKES HIMUNHAPPY, POWERLESS ANDBOUND. 19. STROKES CAN BE UNCONDITIONAL ORCONDITIONAL. 20. UNCONDITIONAL STROKES ARE GIVEN FORONES BEING. 21. CONDITIONAL STROKES ARE GIVEN FORONES DOING. 22. FIVE TYPES OF STROKES: U+= UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE C+= CONDITIONAL POSITIVE C-= CONDITIONAL NEGATIVE U-= UNCONDITIONAL NEGATIVE I= INDIFFERENCE. 23. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. FIRST LAW: STROKES ARE AS ESSENTIAL AS AIR, WATERANDFOOD FORPSYCHOLOGICAL AND EVEN PHYSICAL EXISTENCE. 24. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. FIRST LAWREPHRASED: IN THE ABSENCE OF STROKES PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL DEATH OCCURS. 25. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. SECONDLAW: WHEN SUFFICIENT STROKES ARE NOT PROVIDEDGROWTHAND DEVELOPMENT IS STUNTEDIN ALL AREAS OF PERSONALITY. NAMELY: PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PRANIC, RELATIONAL, SOCIAL ANDSPIRITUAL. 26. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. THIRDLAW: PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTEDTOWARDS POSITIVE STROKES. THEY GO AWAY FROMNEGATIVE STROKES. IF CONTINUOUS STREAMOF NEGATIVES STROKES POUNCES ON THEMEITHERTHEY RETALIATE OR HARMTHEMSELVES. 27. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. FOURTH LAW: NEGATIVE STROKES ARE BETTERTHAN NO STROKES.. 28. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. FOURTH LAWREPHRASED: IN THE ATMOSPHERE OF INDIFFERENCE PEOPLE UNCONSCIOUSLY PROVOKE OTHERS ANDGET NEGATIVE ATTENTION TO SURVIVE. 29. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. FIFTH LAW : WHAT YOU STROKE WHAT YOU GET. 30. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. FIFTH LAWREPHRASED : ANY BEHAVIOUR(BOTHPOSITIVE ANDNEGATIVE) WHICHGETS CONSTANT ATTENTION IS AFFIRMEDANDA PATTERN IS FORMEDIN THE LONG RUN. 31. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. SIXTH LAW : THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN STROKED DETERMINES THE WAY YOU STROKE OTHERS. 32. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. SEVENTH LAW : FAULTY MECHANISM. IN THE ABSENCE OFGENUINE POSITIVE STROKES PEOPLE EITHERGOFORNEGATIVE STROKES ORGET INTOFAULTY MECHANISMS WITHTHE FALSE HOPE OF GETTING THEIR STROKE NEEDS MET. 33. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. SEVENTH LAW : NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM. IN FAULTY MECHANISMS PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL BE FILLEDANDFEEL HAPPY IF THEY CONTINUE TO DO THESE BEHAVIOURS (FMS) BUT UNFORTUNATELY THEY DONT REALIZE THAT THE SAME BEHAVIOURS INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS. WHEN THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS HURTS, THEY INSTEADOF REALIZING THAT THERE IS A NEEDTO CUT DOWN THESE BEHAVIOURS THEY INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF THESE BEHAVIOURS AND WALLOWIN SELF INFLICTEDMISERY. 34. BASIC LAWS OF STROKING. SEVENTH LAW : NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM. FAULTY MECHANISM=BLIND ADDICTION. 35. + + + - + + + - + + + + + + - + + + - - - + - - - - - - - - - - + - - - STROKE BANKS. HIGHSELF WORTH LOWSELF WORTH. 36. BASEDON THE NATURE, INTENSITY, FREQUENCY, QUALITY OF STROKES WE RECEIVES WE DEVELOPLIFE POSITIONS. THERE ARE FOURLIFE POSITIONS: I AMOKYOU ARE OK: GET ON WITH I AMNOT OKYOU ARE OK: GET AWAY FROM ORGET EVEN WITH I AMOKYOU ARE NOT OK: GET RIDOFF YOU ORI WILL DOIT FORYOU I AMNOT OKYOU ARE NOT OK: GET NO WHERE. 37. c+, c-, c+ c-, c+ Match the stroke banks with life positions. c+, c-, c+ c-, c+ c+, c-, c+ c-, c+ u+,u- u+, u+, u+, u+, u- c+, c- u+, c+, c-, u+, c+, c- u+,c+, c- U- U-,u-, u-, u-, u-, I I, I, I, I, I, I, u-, u- 38. FIVE POISONOUS MESSAGES. 1) DONT ASKFORSTROKES 2) DONT ACCEPT STROKES 3) DONT GIVE STROKES 4) DONT RJECT -VE STROKES 5) DONT STROKE YOURSELF. 39. THREE MAJORSOURCES FROMWHERE WE GET STROKES. S E L F O T H E R S NATURE YOGA MUSIC ETC. 40. SCRIPTS (LIFES FUNDAMENTAL OPERATING PRINCIPLE.) SCRIPTS (LIFES FUNDAMENTAL OPERATING PRINCIPLE.) INCIDENTS--THE STROKES GIVEN AT THAT TIME-- --THE ENVIRONMENT--THE WAY YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED THE STROKES--THE WAY YOU HAVE INTERPRETED THE SITUATIONS--THE UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS-- LIFE POSITIONS--RACKET SYSTEMS--THE GAMES YOU PLAY. INCIDENTS--THE STROKES GIVEN AT THAT TIME-- --THE ENVIRONMENT--THE WAY YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED THE STROKES--THE WAY YOU HAVE INTERPRETED THE SITUATIONS--THE UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS-- LIFE POSITIONS--RACKET SYSTEMS--THE GAMES YOU PLAY.