she said yes! summer 2013

Countdown to I DO!

Seasonal TrendsMile High Style Shoot

In this issue...

...and more!magazine

to diy or not to diy

Free - Summer 2013

Valerie Cook Photography

Across the Miles Photography

H&H Photography

On the Front: This engagement photo of bride and groom, Stephanie Althoff and Michael Onyun, was shot in Downtown Decatur around Goods Warehouse. We love the contrast of the couples summery clothes against the grunge whitewashed building. On the Back: The newly married couple shared a kiss in Fairview Park while their bridal party took watch on the bridge. Photos courtesy of the very talented Sarah Jane Shorthose of Sarah Jane Photography.

insidethe teamEditor in Chief

Jody CoxGraphic Designer,

Katie Salvacion

Produced by,

Wood PrintingA note from the staff...

Welcome to Summer Issue ofShe Said Yes!, the perfect purse-

size magazine designed for the bride who wants style and

substance in a quick andeasy-to-digest format. Every

season, She Said Yes! will deliver steal-worthy ideas, expert advice,

and insider tips every bride needs when planning her dream

wedding. Want more? Log on to

shesaidyesmagazine.com for more valuable content, a list of

where you can pick up your free

copy, a place to submit your feed-

back, ideas for articles or work for

publication consideration. We hope you enjoy this issue ofShe Said Yes! and have a blast

planning your big day!

Guys Fashion 5

Budget Calculator 6

Real Weddings 10

Etiquette FAQs 13

Pearls of Wisdom 14

Countdown to.... I do! 16

Color Palettes 20

Must Have Pics 21

Assistant to Editor& Trend Researcher,

Cami Kern

West Coast Inspiration 22

Something Borrowed 23

To DIY or Not to DIY 24

Mile High Style Shoot 27

Wedding Day Emergency Kit 31

Seasonal Trends 32

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108 E. Prairie St. Downtown Decatur | 217-422-9112 | www.brasshorn.com

There is no doubt that its your day to shine. From the dress to the hair and makeup, you will be breathtak-ing. Your groom should look equally as striking by your side. Thats where we come in.

The Brass Horn excels in style, selection and service. Stop in today and let us assist you with selecting the perfect tuxes for your bridal party. From the first consultation to the day you say I Do, you can count on our professional and experienced staff to make sure your groom and wedding party are picture perfect.

Questions? Ask the experts at The Brass Horn.

Steel Grey TuxedoLooking for a modern look for your groom? This steel grey tux tailored in a soft, super fine wool with satin notch lapels is the perfect choice. Pair your groom & grooms-men with a coordinating vest that matches with your theme or colors.

Radnor TuxedoIf youre looking for aclassic look, the Radnor tux is perfect for your guy. With two button, single breasted styling and tailored in a soft, luxurious Super 100s wool, your groom and groomsmen will walk down the aisle in style.

Savoy TuxedoKeep your groom on trend with a soft grey tux and coordinating fullback vest. This tux has two button, single breasted styling and is tailored in a soft,luxurious Super 100s wool. This look is perfect for spring and summer weddings.

Genesis Fitted Tuxedo For the groom who wants a tailored fit thats not only timeless but fashion forward, the Genesis is the perfect choice. One button, single breasted styling and featuring a satin notch lapel, this tux is the epitome of modern style.

Great Groomsmen GiftsAvailable at the Brass Horn

guys

from the fashion experts andco-owners of The Brass Horn,

George Streckfuss and Ryan Spurlock

Fashion

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budgetcalculator

ReceptionReception Venue & Rentals

Food & ServiceBeverages & Bartenders

Cake(s) & Cutting FeeTotal Reception (includes taxes)

Attire & Beauty

The Gown & Alterations Headpiece/Veil & Bridal Accessories

Hair, Makeup & Pre-wedding PamperingGrooms Tux or Suit

Grooms AccessoriesTotal Attire & Beauty

CeremonyCeremony Location FeeOfficiant Fee/DonationCeremony Accessories

Total Ceremony

Flowers & DcorBrides Bouquet

Bridesmaid BouquetsGroom & Groomsmen Boutonnieres

Flower Girl FlowersAdditional Boutonnieres & Corsages

Reception Decorations & CenterpiecesCeremony Decorations

Total Flowers & Dcor

MusicCeremony Musicians

Cocktail Hour MusiciansReception Music

Total Music

Photography/VideographyPhotographerVideographer

Total Photography/Videography

StationaryInvitations & Reply Cards

Other Stationary (Thank You Cards,Placecards, Programs)

Total Stationary

% of Budget4.00%

34.00%8.00%2.00%

48.00%

% of Budget6.00%1.50%0.50%0.50%0.25%8.75%

% of Budget1.00%0.75%0.60%2.35%

% of Budget0.75%1.25%0.20%0.15%0.50%5.75%1.40%

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% of Budget7.00%5.00%

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Budget$1,000.00$8,500.00$2,000.00$500.00

$12,000.00

Budget$1,500.00$375.00$125.00$125.00$62.50

$2,187.50

Budget$250.00$187.50$150.00$587.50

Budget$187.50$312.50$50.00$37.50

$125.00$1,437.50$350.00

$2,500.00

Budget$250.00$250.00

$1,000.00$1,500.00

Budget$1,750.00$1,250.00$3,000.00

Budget$600.00$125.00

$725.00

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s goods and

services you have

to rent/purchase

for your big day, so

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most couples go o

ver budget!

Use this mock budg

et as a guide

by applying these

percentages to

your budget.

Budget:Groomsmen:

Bridesmaids:Total Guests:

$25,00055200

Calculationsbased on...

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budget Wedding RingsHis RingHer RingTotal Wedding RingsTransportation & LodgingBride/Groom Hotel Room(s)Guest Shuttle or ParkingLimo(s) or Car Rentals

Total Transportation & Lodging

GiftsAttendant Gifts

FavorsParent Gifts

Total Gifts

MiscellaneousWedding Coordinator

Total Miscellaneous

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% of Budget0.50%1.00%3.00%4.50%

% of Budget1.00%1.00%0.50%2.50%

% of Budget0.00%0.00%

100.00%

Budget$250.00$500.00$750.00

Budget$125.00$250.00$750.00

$1,125.00

Budget$250.00$250.00$125.00$625.00

Budget$0.00$0.00

$25,000This budget doesnt necessarily reflect the fee your particular vendors will require. After meeting with vendors, you must identify what your priorities are and reallocate your budget to fit your wants. Budget maintenance is the least fun partof wedding planning, but it should be given the utmost attention. All couples have a number they want to stay under; its up to you (or your planner) to make it happen!

Blend more expensive elements with

cost-effective alternatives

Dont have enough mo

ney for that

gorgeous overlay or linen

? Utilize the overlay on

half

or a third of the tables a

nd introduce a coordin

ating

runner on the remaining

tables. Design your

centerpieces that way, t

oo. Your guests eyes w

ill

immediately see the pop

s where you splurged, a

nd

the alternative tables w

ill coordinate nicely and

make the design look in

tentional.

That Eye Sore Is A Money PitDont waste money

covering up

what you think may be an eye

sore at your reception. When you

try to cover up a spot you think

detracts from the space, youll only

draw eyes toward. Spend money on

what you want the guests to focus

on, and the spot will disappear. Think Beyond your

Color SchemeWhen you go with a full-blown theme, you can incorporate unusual elements into your dcor, allowing you to get more creative in your design. For example, with a garden or nature theme, you can utilizeelements found in yourbackyard. Going for a vintage theme? Utilize your familys antiques or scope out garage sales and thrift stores to find great vintage pieces.

Splurge on the Guest Experience Resist the temptation to splurge on your dress

or the flowers and skimp on the entertainment, food and/or bar. It is your day, but ultimately

you want your guests to have a great time and be talking about your wedding for months.

During the planning process, put yourself in their shoes before you take money from one area to

fund another.

Tips to MaximizeYour Budget!

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Your special day at theDecatur Club!

A reception yourguests will love!

- Rehearsal dinners- Full Service- Customized to your needs- Fine China & Linens

158 W. PrairieDecatur, IL 62535

www.thedecaturclub.com Check us out on Facebook!

Please contact Jeff Ingle,General Manager; or Josh Mahon, Executive Chef217.429.4200

Decatur ClubPhoto by Valerie Cook Photography

For your weddingor formal event

2705 North Water StreetDecatur, IL 62526

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