self esteem ppt-shiv khera
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A very useful presentation on Self Esteem, designed with the help of very renowned personality Shiv Khera's book 'You can Win'TRANSCRIPT
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Self esteemHarminder Singh
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Self EsteemSelf Esteem is how we feel about ourselves. It is a feeling which comes from awareness of what is good and having done it
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Builds strong conviction
Creates willingness to accept responsibility
Builds optimistic attitudes
Leads to better relationships
Makes a person self motivated and ambitious
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CHARACTERISTICS OF SELF ESTEEM
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How do we recognise poor self esteem?
People with poor Self Esteem
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People with Poor Self Esteem
Gossip mongers
Critical Nature
Closed Minded
Never Accept Responsibility
Jealous by nature
Bored and uncomfortable
Don’t have genuine friends
Tend to be lonely
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Some Characteristics of people withHigh Self Esteem Low Self Esteem
Talk about ideas Caring attitude Humility Respects authority Confidence Concerned about
character Willing to learn Believes in self worth Guided
Talk about people Critical attitude Arrogance Rebels against authority Confusion Concerned about
reputation Know it all Believes in net worth
only Misguided
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A young executive with poor self esteem was promoted but he couldn’t reconcile himself to his new office and position. There was a knock at a door. To show how important and busy he was, he picked up a phone and then asked the visitor to come in. As the man waited for the executive, the executive kept on talking on the phone, nodding and saying, “No problem, I can handle that.”
After a few minutes he hung up and asked the visitor what he could do for him. The man replied, “Sir, I’m here to connect your phone.”
THEY PUT ON A MASK
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Movies
Music
Company
Jokes
Books
Judgment of Person’s Character
Every action of ours give us away anyway, so why pretend?
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CAUSES OF LOW SELF ESTEEM
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Negative self Talk
This is when we say to ourselves, consciously or unconsciously any statements
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Environment
The greatest thing a parent can give to his children are roots.
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Upbringing
Parents with low self esteem breed confusion and low self esteem in their children.
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Poor role models
Being ignorant is not shameful, but being unwilling to learn is.
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Making unfair comparison
Unfair comparisons make a person feel inferior.
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Confusing Failing with Failure
People start looking at themselves as failures, not realizing that failing does not equal failure.
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Unrealistic Expectations by Parents, Teachers and Supervisors
If we lower our standards, the chances are pretty good, that the performance next time would drop to those expectations
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Lack of Discipline
Discipline does not mean that a person takes a belt and beats up kids. That is madness.
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Labeling and Put-Downs by Parents, Teachers and supervisors
Labels do not only stick for life but for generations. The caste system like Upper Caste or Lower Caste.
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Teaching the Right values
Many times, innocently we end up teaching and learning wrong values within our families
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STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE SELF ESTEEM
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Turn Scars into Stars
Read the life histories of people who have turned a negative into a positive.
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Learn Intelligent Ignorance
When you don’t know your limitations, you go out and surprise yourself. The only limitations that a person has are those that are self imposed.
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Do something for others who Cannot Repay You in Cash or Kind
The process of giving without having expectations or getting anything in return raises one’s self esteem.
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Learn to Give and Receive Compliments
When others give you a compliment, accept it graciously and gracefully with two words, “Thank You”
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Accept Responsibilty
We have to accept responsibility and stop blaming others.
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Set GoalsWell-defined goals give a person a sense of direction, a feeling of accomplishment when he reaches his goals.
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Associate with people of High Moral Character
Associate yourself with people of good quality if you esteem your reputation.
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Become Internally Driven, Not Externally Driven
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
- Eleanor Roosevelt
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Give Yourself Positive Auto-Suggestions
Develop the habit of giving yourself positive self-talk. Auto-suggestions alter our belief system by influencing the subconscious mind.
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Have PatienceHave patience and keep doing the right thing. Even though the results may not be visible, something is happening.
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Take inventory: Make a list of All Your Strengths and Weaknesses
Successful people realize their limitations but build on their strengths. Unless, we know these things, how can we build on them?
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