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Schools and Parents: Raising Good Kids Together
Schools and Parents: Raising Good Kids Together
Coast Episcopal SchoolFaculty
November 2008
Coast Episcopal SchoolFaculty
November 2008
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“Good Kids” have: Components of Moral Life
“Good Kids” have: Components of Moral Life
• Empathy• Conscience• Altruism• Moral Reasoning
• Empathy• Conscience• Altruism• Moral Reasoning
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these slides at:
www.csee.org/ul/ces08s.ppt
these slides at:
www.csee.org/ul/ces08s.ppt
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45-minute Plan45-minute Plan
• no calling higher than yours• work on “character” is worth it• parent-school collaboration
increases success• 5 practices for schools• practical steps for implementation• two stories and encouragement
• no calling higher than yours• work on “character” is worth it• parent-school collaboration
increases success• 5 practices for schools• practical steps for implementation• two stories and encouragement
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Three Key StudiesThree Key Studies• Berkowitz & Bier (2005), What
Works in Character Education (33 programs)
• Catalano et al. (2002), Positive Youth Development (77 programs)
• Benninga et al. (2003), Relation of Character Education Implementation and Academic Achievement in Elementary Schools (681 schools)
• Berkowitz & Bier (2005), What Works in Character Education (33 programs)
• Catalano et al. (2002), Positive Youth Development (77 programs)
• Benninga et al. (2003), Relation of Character Education Implementation and Academic Achievement in Elementary Schools (681 schools)
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What Works in Character Education
Marvin W. Berkowitz & Melinda Bier, CEP, 2005
What Works in Character Education
Marvin W. Berkowitz & Melinda Bier, CEP, 2005
Findings We can help children be kinder, more
thoughtful Effects go beyond the program goals “there is ample evidence that character
education improves academic performance” Results last at least a few years
Findings We can help children be kinder, more
thoughtful Effects go beyond the program goals “there is ample evidence that character
education improves academic performance” Results last at least a few years
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What Works in Character Education
Marvin W. Berkowitz & Melinda Bier, CEP, 2005
What Works in Character Education
Marvin W. Berkowitz & Melinda Bier, CEP, 2005
Components of Good Programs Make the agenda explicit (decide what you want) Involvement beyond the school (families!) Provide models (live, literary, historical) Integrate into the curriculum Use multi-strategy approach (peer interaction,
direct teaching, professional development)
Components of Good Programs Make the agenda explicit (decide what you want) Involvement beyond the school (families!) Provide models (live, literary, historical) Integrate into the curriculum Use multi-strategy approach (peer interaction,
direct teaching, professional development)
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What Works in Character Education
Marvin W. Berkowitz & Melinda Bier, CEP, 2005
What Works in Character Education
Marvin W. Berkowitz & Melinda Bier, CEP, 2005
Effective Program Strategies Explicit agenda (preach &
practice) Provide Models and Mentors Peer Interaction Skill Training Family Involvement Direct Teaching Integration into Curriculum Professional Development
Effective Program Strategies Explicit agenda (preach &
practice) Provide Models and Mentors Peer Interaction Skill Training Family Involvement Direct Teaching Integration into Curriculum Professional Development
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Positive Youth DevelopmentRichard Catalano et al, 2002
Positive Youth DevelopmentRichard Catalano et al, 2002
Looked at 161 programs; 77 had evaluation criteria sufficient for analysis; 25 had “important youth outcomes”
96% of effective programs are integrated program into curriculum
Successful programs implemented more than 9 months
60% of effective programs incorporated family component (info, training, implement at home)
Looked at 161 programs; 77 had evaluation criteria sufficient for analysis; 25 had “important youth outcomes”
96% of effective programs are integrated program into curriculum
Successful programs implemented more than 9 months
60% of effective programs incorporated family component (info, training, implement at home)
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Character Improves Academics
Character Improves Academics
• Benninga et al., Relation of Character Education Implementation and Academic Achievement in Elementary Schools (2003)
• 681 schools applying to be “Distinguished Schools”
• sample matched with other schools• correlate with standardized test scores• …(small) positive correlations between
character education and higher academic scores
• Benninga et al., Relation of Character Education Implementation and Academic Achievement in Elementary Schools (2003)
• 681 schools applying to be “Distinguished Schools”
• sample matched with other schools• correlate with standardized test scores• …(small) positive correlations between
character education and higher academic scores
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Character Improves Academics
Character Improves Academics
• Benninga et al.,Three criteria characteristic of good character ed
programs in elementary schools correlate with higher academic scores
• ability to ensure clean & secure environment• evidence that parents & teachers modeled and
promoted good character education• quality opportunities for students to contribute in
meaningful ways to the school and its community
• Benninga et al.,Three criteria characteristic of good character ed
programs in elementary schools correlate with higher academic scores
• ability to ensure clean & secure environment• evidence that parents & teachers modeled and
promoted good character education• quality opportunities for students to contribute in
meaningful ways to the school and its community
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Parenting ExpertsParenting Experts
Diana Baumrind, Berkeley Family Socialization Project
Marvin W. Berkowitz, Sanford N. McDonnell Professor of Character Education, UMSL
Thomas Lickona, Center for the 4th and 5th Rs (respect and responsibility), SUNY Cortland
Larry Nucci, Center for Moral Development, UIC
Marilyn Watson, National Teacher Education Project, Child Development Project
Diana Baumrind, Berkeley Family Socialization Project
Marvin W. Berkowitz, Sanford N. McDonnell Professor of Character Education, UMSL
Thomas Lickona, Center for the 4th and 5th Rs (respect and responsibility), SUNY Cortland
Larry Nucci, Center for Moral Development, UIC
Marilyn Watson, National Teacher Education Project, Child Development Project
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Parenting StylesDiana Baumrind, Ph.D.
Parenting StylesDiana Baumrind, Ph.D.
• Unengaged• Authoritarian• Permissive• Authoritative
(teaching styles, too)
• Unengaged• Authoritarian• Permissive• Authoritative
(teaching styles, too)
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Parenting StylesParenting Styles
DEMANDINGNESShigh low
DEMANDINGNESShigh low
authoritative
permissive
authoritarian unengaged
high
NURTURANCE
low
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Authoritative Styledemandingness
Authoritative Styledemandingness
set high (but REALISTIC) standards communicate the
standards/expectations expect standards to be lived up to monitor whether standards are being
met
set high (but REALISTIC) standards communicate the
standards/expectations expect standards to be lived up to monitor whether standards are being
met
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Authoritative Stylenurturance
Authoritative Stylenurturance
quick to respond in times of need provide support, love, encouragement,
warmth, tenderness offer support and involvement needed
to meet demands use disciplinary situations to teach (i.e.,
low power assertion, physical punishment)
quick to respond in times of need provide support, love, encouragement,
warmth, tenderness offer support and involvement needed
to meet demands use disciplinary situations to teach (i.e.,
low power assertion, physical punishment)
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moral reasoning fact: moral reasoning fact: The level of adolescent moral
reasoning is predicted positively by authoritative parenting style, negatively by permissive style
(THUS: high standards, demands AND high levels of nurturance, support)
The level of adolescent moral reasoning is predicted positively by authoritative parenting style, negatively by permissive style
(THUS: high standards, demands AND high levels of nurturance, support)
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ModelingModeling
We are models; we present models
Practice AND Preach We teach in discussing moral
events and our opinions about them
We teach by inviting others in
We are models; we present models
Practice AND Preach We teach in discussing moral
events and our opinions about them
We teach by inviting others in
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Democratic Decisions/Discussions
Democratic Decisions/Discussions
Show respect by bringing children into discussions in meaningful ways
Foster belongingness Teach the skills of negotiation Teach and demonstrate conflict
resolution skills
Show respect by bringing children into discussions in meaningful ways
Foster belongingness Teach the skills of negotiation Teach and demonstrate conflict
resolution skills
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Democratic Decision Making
Democratic Decision Making
This is where the SKILLS of character are practiced (showing others that their opinions are respected; negotiating later conflicts in life)
This is where the SKILLS of character are practiced (showing others that their opinions are respected; negotiating later conflicts in life)
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Induction is perhaps the single most powerful parental influence on
children’s moral development
Marvin W. BerkowitzMcDonnell Professor of Character
Education,UMSL
Induction is perhaps the single most powerful parental influence on
children’s moral development
Marvin W. BerkowitzMcDonnell Professor of Character
Education,UMSL
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Induction entailsInduction entails
pointing out the child’s actions and effects, plus…
explaining the reasons for parental (or teacher) behavior and its implications for the child and others
pointing out the child’s actions and effects, plus…
explaining the reasons for parental (or teacher) behavior and its implications for the child and others
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why the importance of induction?
why the importance of induction?
• It teaches or reinforces knowledge, with feeling
• it links the self and others• it stimulates understanding of reasons
for picking one course of action vs another
• research links induction to greater empathy more highly developed conscience higher levels of moral reasoning altruism
• It teaches or reinforces knowledge, with feeling
• it links the self and others• it stimulates understanding of reasons
for picking one course of action vs another
• research links induction to greater empathy more highly developed conscience higher levels of moral reasoning altruism
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“Good Kids”: Components of Moral Life
“Good Kids”: Components of Moral Life
• Empathy• Conscience• Altruism• Moral Reasoning
• Empathy• Conscience• Altruism• Moral Reasoning
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10 implementation steps10 implementation steps
1. High expectations communicated
2. Expectations monitored, lived up to
3. Highly supportive school community
4. Scaffold support (developmental discipline)
5. Great staff/teacher modeling
1. High expectations communicated
2. Expectations monitored, lived up to
3. Highly supportive school community
4. Scaffold support (developmental discipline)
5. Great staff/teacher modeling
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10 implementation steps10 implementation steps
6. Bring other models in
7. Explain reasons for good and bad
8. Discipline with others in mind
9. Invite meaningful participation
10. Teach negotiation by negotiating
6. Bring other models in
7. Explain reasons for good and bad
8. Discipline with others in mind
9. Invite meaningful participation
10. Teach negotiation by negotiating
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Practical SuggestionsExpectations
Practical SuggestionsExpectations
Expect partnership
Make sure this is clear at the outset
Define what partnership means
Expect partnership
Make sure this is clear at the outset
Define what partnership means
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Practical SuggestionsParent Training
Practical SuggestionsParent Training
Teach general parenting skills (setting limits, negotiating privileges, discipline)
Five practices for goodness
Train for volunteer work in school
Teach general parenting skills (setting limits, negotiating privileges, discipline)
Five practices for goodness
Train for volunteer work in school
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Practical SuggestionsParent Implementation of
Program
Practical SuggestionsParent Implementation of
Program
Case studies, discussion questions for home
Carrying out what is learned from parent training
Parent-school compacts / contracts
Case studies, discussion questions for home
Carrying out what is learned from parent training
Parent-school compacts / contracts
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Practical SuggestionsParent-School
Compacts/Contracts
Practical SuggestionsParent-School
Compacts/Contracts
compact for academic/behavior expectations
compact for nurturance
compact for athletic or artistic performance
compact for discipline
compact for academic/behavior expectations
compact for nurturance
compact for athletic or artistic performance
compact for discipline
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Pick an area to work onPick an area to work on
Individual work, group work
Marie-Claire’s school
Jim’s story
Individual work, group work
Marie-Claire’s school
Jim’s story
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Character is a set of feelings, understandings,
and skills,plus
the disposition to use them in the service of others
Character is a set of feelings, understandings,
and skills,plus
the disposition to use them in the service of others